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DATING TO MUCH DRAMA
July 13 2011
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RHP User
13 years ago
Is it really this hard to find someone nice? I agree
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RHP User
13 years ago
There may be many people on a dating website, but it takes only one person to make it worth signing up to. Personally myself I'm under no illusions about internet dating,finding genuine people in the real world isn't easy so its definitely going to be a lot harder on the internet where anyone can be anything they want to be.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yes, it is hard to meet someone, particularly if you want to meet someone who is really right for you. The internet is just another medium in which to expose yourself to men you are not likely to meet in your day to day life. it doesn't mean you are going to meet someone via one of the dating websites, but it does mean you are not excluding all of these extra people from your search. Most dates will be duds, some will be great guys but not for you, but it only takes one to be the right one for you..I hope he shows up soon
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RHP User
13 years ago
What in the hell did you talk about in the morning...I mean, he seemed to ask all the right questions? | Forget about dating, think about sex....just meet at a nice quiet hotel, do the deed then if you like them after go on a date. Of course if he was stinky and needed a shave...that could be a bit of an issue. There are now some very snobby restaurants that have a signs up "No smelly ass unshaven men allowed". Guess you could get takeaway and make him wait outside. | Big boobs and beautiful eyes on someone that is not tall and scrawny too might have just made him nervous. The scruffy face and that smell...hormones, and you might have made him sweat and that could have made his whiskers grow. Always meet around noon....eliminates the 5:00 shadow. || Oh well, I think I will just sit here and stare at the phone hoping... | ...close but no cohiba yet again.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have tried a few different dating sites and to be honest I never found what I was looking for. About 90% were the female version of what you just described, the other 10% were lovely women but for a variety of reasons, mine and theirs' things didn't work out.I am afraid you just can't get past the tried and true method, attraction is a physical thing and then you try and find common interests. I have tried to do it in reverse and it never works.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Just stay at it!There is lots of strange and weird ones out there and you (and i) have meet your fair share over time.Lucky for me i found the bestest guy on a dating web site As they say you have to" kiss frogs to find your prince"The story's that can be told with friends are the best and have caused us some side splitting laughs.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yep just do the deed then leave!Bugger dinner. Take away and leave him outside with the dog.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Very difficult to meet people that are not duds. In bed or out. All you can do is persevere. There is a nut for every shell and somewhere out there is your nut waiting to be found. He may be on here, he may be on another site. He may be shopping in the same supermarket as you. The one thing that is certain is that you are not going to find him sitting at home alone and never meeting anyone. I have met some amazing people on this site and others. Some are going to be in my life for the rest of my life. I have not stumbled across my knight in tarnished armour just yet. He may just be the very next one I do meet. In the mean time, I intend to enjoy myself, continue meeting wonderful people, and having a quiet chuckle to myself at the duds that are thrown my way.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Just not an expensive cohiba. Tell stinky to drop 'em and bend over...the put a Panatella where the sun don't shine and give him a swift kick in the butt. | Then go have a nice meal and relax....if you can get rid of him by noon, call me. I might not have a 5:00 shadow and am impeccable. That means I don't smell like a peccary...even on a hot day. | Shit happens...you can only laugh.
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RHP User
13 years ago
When I thought that was what I wanted, dating sites were good to me. I met three women that I had relationships with for 6 months or more and one of them is a good friend to this day. As the expectations of sex are lower than they are here, it's easy to meet a lot of people, but it may not go anywhere. As one who enjoys dating even just for the fun of meeting someone new, it can be a good time. It's different to this place, but has its merits.
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xFunlovingx
13 years ago
I tried that Site once...for all of about 5 minutes! I met two guys who took me to dinner/movies only to be told that they are on "all" Sites to cover their bases! Both said that they know girls from "sex sites" are on those sites too and actually said they found it funny that most used the same profile pics on both! Either way, their end goal was the same! Sex!! < You need to see ANY guy that you want to meet, whether from here or there on cam before meeting them! I too have been duped by 2 guys who had fake profile pics (of faces) and wasn't too impressed! I just walked out on them anyway! The funny thing about the "fat" guy...is that he probably thinks he still looks like his old pic hahaha! > If you are looking for love, I wouldn't rule it out...it can happen! My mother was about 56 when she put an ad in the paper (cause of my constant nagging) and has now been married to a wonderful man for about 14 years that she met through there! She did go out with some fuglies and almost didn't go and meet him as she was getting rather sick of the quality (or lack of) of men that she met! I'm glad I talked her into meeting him for that coffee, otherwise she may still be alone and miserable! < Don't give up... xFunlovingx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Would like to meet someone to hang out with (yep and regular sex).So far I'm having a good laugh.Cougar time I think.Have 1 male friend I hangout with he's a bit older than me we are just friends which is good and no benefits ha ha. Like a daddy figure he's so enjoying my experiences.
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RHP User
13 years ago
i wouldn't mind going out with a Fat man. I give all guys a go. I have used a few sites in the past including RSVP and by the horror stories i've heard about online dating. I've actually been pretty lucky. All the men i've met have all looked like their pictures. All the men i've met have been nice and lovely and not 1 bad experience. Having said that when i did put a profile on RSVP. i make it clear that iam a christian and don't really have sex with random ppl so it pretty much weeds out most of the guys looking for a quick root!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have met some amazing guys on here and had lots of fun but didn't meet my partner here. We met at a party that was advertised in the events section so why not try a few social events instead.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Just when you thought its all bad someone comes back into your life.Uncomplicated my rock. some men just know when to come back into your life.Can't be bothered dating any more
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RHP User
13 years ago
I actually haven't gone on a date for 2.5 years now. I know iam still young and all that but i've actually given up on dating. Not because i don't meet nice ppl/men. I have met some very nice men who are attractive and sweet who i have considered dating but i still turn them down. It's mainly because I pretty much had a F***ed up relationship with my ex which i really don't want to repeat ever again! So no more dating for me!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yep lots of my friends feel the same way. One female friend has been with some real crazies in the last three years - a showpony who couldn't leave mum, a hermit-type hippie and a fraud from o/s who just wanted money. One of my mates gave me the number of a lady he met on the internet and she turned out to be real loopie. It's true people can masquarade as anything they want just to get you in. Quoting 'Nudierudie2'There may be many people on a dating website, but it takes only one person to make it worth signing up to.Personally myself I'm under no illusions about internet dating,finding genuine people in the real world isn't easy so its definitely going to be a lot harder on the internet where anyone can be anything they want to be.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'MissWantu' I actually haven't gone on a date for 2.5 years now. I know iam still young and all that but i've actually given up on dating. Not because i don't meet nice ppl/men. I have met some very nice men who are attractive and sweet who i have considered dating but i still turn them down. It's mainly because I pretty much had a F***ed up relationship with my ex which i really don't want to repeat ever again! So no more dating for me! You're far too young to be so defeatist. If you got in a car accident, would you give up driving for life? If you had a job you hated, would you retire from the workforce? You need to get back on that horse... so to speak. Look at it the other way around - you got your major lunatic out of the way early, so now you're in for some smooth sailing. Those nice men aren't your ex.
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erotictouch4u
13 years ago
Some will be catfish, some will be sharks, but occasionally you will catch a sweetlip and you will realise all the patience was worth the time fishing. ET xox
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RHP User
13 years ago
you got your major lunatic out of the way early, so now you're in for some smooth sailing. Those nice men aren't your ex. Had to laugh at that line both my ex's are lunies and I'm still finding more. Maybe I'm a freak magnet.Thanks to my rock who I did meet on an internet dating website who is so normal and is there when I want him. Which may sound cruel but he gives me what I want and need then the pleasure of telling him to ****of our little joke. Pleasure of what I need with no ties.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'nutzey'Had to laugh at that line both my ex's are lunies and I'm still finding more. Maybe I'm a freak magnet.With a name like that, maybe it's just you!I couldn't resist - it was as though you gave me the opportunity to hit a ripe watermelon with a cricket bat...
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RHP User
13 years ago
With a name like that, maybe it's just you!I couldn't resist - it was as though you gave me the opportunity to hit a ripe watermelon with a cricket bat...Snowshoe the best things in life is being able to laugh at one's self. Mind you most other people laugh at me to.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I met my current man online just over four months ago. Before that, I had been doing the online dating/chatting thing for two and a half months. I only met five other men, all just for a first meet and greet in a public place to see if we clicked. Four out of five of those experiences were like yours. They lied about appearence, weight, some were dressed really badly, as if they didn't care, tec. I learned very quickly how to weed out all the false, fake, weird, crazy, psycho, clinging, desperate, lonely men without even chatting from their profile, what they did say, what they leave out, what they are looking for.ONLINE DATING MEANS YOU HAVE TO KISS A LOT OF FROGS BEFORE YOU FIND SOMEONE EVEN HALF DECENT. MANY PPL USE AND ABUSE IT TO LIE, CHEAT AND TRY TO GET WOMEN TO HAVE SEX WITH THEM.BE DISCERNING AND DON;T MEET ANYONE TOO FAST, CHAT, TEXT AND IDEALLY ACTUALLY TALK TO THEM ON THE PHONE BEFORE MEETING MOST PPL CAN'T STAY FAKE AND FALSE FOR TOO LONG BEFORE THE REAL THEM SEEPS OUT.BUT KEEP TRYING, IT CAN WORK. IT HAS FOR ME
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RHP User
13 years ago
Are you for real, he's a pig, just put it down to one bad one.
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RHP User
13 years ago
May i add, he totally lucked out, his loss, not yours :P
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RHP User
13 years ago
Nutzey,I laughed when I read your posting because my first thoughts were, "yes, I'm not the only one who's experienced this!"I remember one time I was meeting a lady from RSVP. By all accounts, she seemed nice and fun. Her photos were decent (she was wearing a dress at a wedding), and she didn't come across as a nutter.Low and behold, we eventually decided to meet up. At the chosen time/location, I didn't recognize her when she came up to me! In her profile she said she was 5'6" tall. Well, not only was she 5'6" tall, but 5'6" wide and 5'6" deep. :P I then asked her about her profile pictures and she said those were taken 8 years ago (!!!) at her sister's wedding.I walked out and never said a word to her again.Now yes, there are going to be people on her screaming at me now going, "You wouldn't have done that if she was a hottie!". Maybe. Maybe not. We'll never know because I've never been the victim of such a crime...
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