D&D Free -.....Pointless requesting this in profiles or?

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I always smile when I read that comment as well..Im D & D free.....yes you were on the day you were tested...but god knows what you could have caught in between the time you gave specimens and received the results...........!!!!!!!!!!!!!   You are never 100 percent sure unless you abstain - yes even if one party wears a condom...   In my experience few wear/bring them on a social one on one meet- completely different at parties which is great.   Ive had unsafe sex in the past.................never again................

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Even if you request to see their most recent test results, there's never going to be 100% proof. For example you have to be celibate for 6 months in order to have a true negative with an HIV test, Herpes can remain dormant for years, and then there's HTLV-1 a virus that causes leukemia which can be undetected for decades. The only way to be 100% safe is celibacy, marry a virgin and remain faithful. Most viruses are passsed on because people believe they are safe and STD free not because they intentionally lie and spread it anyway. Even HPV doesn't always manifest symptoms. Sex is a risk, no matter how careful you are. So I suppose it comes down to trust and whether you truly believe the person you are with is being honest regarding their safe sex practices.   As to deciding when and when not to use condoms, that's a personal choice that would involve chancing the odds (gambling) and how much you trust the person you are with.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  You need to know the couple or guy/girl very well and trust them.. (to many liers out there)   To have sex with out a condom its come down to how long you know people and if they are telling the truth, if in dout don't play with out a condom.....   But this is your call spunky....   Play and be safe   GT

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Come on creamy your a woman surely you must know how it works. The hot guys are the ones that have 10, 15 plus validations but would rarely put them down. For the other 95% of guys left over most would be lucky if they have met one or two women in the previous 12 months. Without looking your friends list probably have guys aged in the 20's and 30's or hot.   I have some male friends on here that are in the top 5% they are well and truely shagged out lol.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Is the absolute key... There was a Forum not that long ago about this same issue..CONDOMS -its everyone who's having sexual intercourses responsibility. To me its "duty of care".. I have duty of care to my body...to be healthy and look after it... I hold my VaJayJay of high regard and if that means wearing condoms to keep it deases free I will... If I am going to be in a "full on" relationship with someone, care, trust and love there...before proceeding without a condom, I always request for STD tests by both of us.....only then is the only time I don't use condoms... In the meantime NO Rubber No Play.. FOXY- Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I have a certificate!!! ...but I know that it only means that on the day of the test nothing showed up, it doesn't guarantee anyone anything.As for trust... do you remember those advertisements that had three people on a park bench, with the woman in the middle and the guys holding hands behind her back. How do ever really, really, truly, know for sure? Any time you take off the rubber, you're at risk. No hat, no play ;o)

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  are only as god till your last partner, with or without a condom. herpies for one , you can get even if you use a condom. herpies you have to ask for that test. Its not in the standard std tests. In wa you have to ask for that test to be sent to sydney as you can often get a false positive reading if its not sent to sydney.   you cannot test for drugs, unless you have a lab at home and take a blood sample there are all the Hepititus things as well.   there are a stack of nice trustworthy guys that will stick it in bareback. many men turn up ready to play without a condom I have been with a couple and he was about to stick it in me after being with his wife with no condom. I said step away from my vigina and that was the end of it for me.   even with fingering, or oral most do not wear condoms , girls do not use dental dams   in wa the fifo go overseas for sex and we have a very high rate of STDs including aids   its a risk in life we all take as adults, you can have one partner or a hundred its just the luck of the draw.   there are many many people on here with a std, and you would never know it. Those that have an std are probably the most careful, as they are aware of their condition and dont play if they have an outbreak, unlike those that are unaware they have anything, thats where the problemes are. as how many people who fuck several people a week go and have a test after each person, especially swingers.

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  Twisted_Mister

  12 years ago

  That I've found (unfortunately) that openly advertise for bareback only! AND one in particular on another site from a lady saying she was looking for hookups with people with herpes! It takes all kinds, I suppose, but for mine it's condoms all the way - not least because it's just bloody manners to do so.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Would be attracted to someone who requests D & D free.. I know its no guarantee but it at least indicates that person is thinking about it, which suggests they are probally that way them self.As a healthy D & D free person myself its the first thing I would like to know. Being ex sports person, I only ever enjoys a few beers and thats enough for me.. Nothing better than a healthy body and mind when its time to perform...

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Hi EnigmaThink you have your posts crossed???yours doesn't make any sense with regards to my posting :)

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Hi DeviousJust want to let you know you don't have to be celibate for six month to have definite negative for HIV? Where did you hear that? I actually work in Sexual Health and that is why I am curious about whether people practice safe sex. With regards to HIV, there is a six week window after you take a risk, ie. unprotected vaginal or anal sex. Once that period is covered and you have negative tests, then these are definite negatives. Thanks everyone for posting so far :) I am more about what motivates people....believe me I have practised unsafe sex before and regretted it....back in my wild days...lol...Now I like to be wild with condoms :)

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Creamydreamer,   I was going from memory and seem to have gotten my time frames mixed up, thanks for correcting it.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Great post creamy and a very good point. I always use condoms and I always will. I know a woman who hosts gangbang parties and insits on everyone doing it bareback. She says that she is D&D free and expects everyone who attends her parties to be the same. WTF, how is she going to check? ask everyone for a certificate. Anyway sloopy seconds ain't my style.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  So was unsure if people here would practise safe sex, personally I don't think it shows much respect to yourself, let alone to your rhp date... Pleased to hear sanity does prevail!

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