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Dad bodies and bellies
July 05 2019
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The_Antichrist
5 years ago
Most guys I know, are dads that don’t have the inclination or the motivation that’s needed to achieve the ripped 6-pack look .... Myself included... Kudos to those that do....
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RHP User
5 years ago
Im not toned or skinny....... average body. I like an average guy bod, someone to cuddle into after a good old sexy session.
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RHP User
5 years ago
Frankly I don’t care once I get to know the person. Generally I prefer someone who enjoys exercise and physical challenges of fitness. It’s a mindset I prefer and share. Lazy couch potatoes who visit the gym once a month don’t do it for me, neither the results of an unhealthy diet. Been there myself and prefer someone who is more conscious looking after themselves.
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SSExplorer
5 years ago
The only time I was anywhere near ripped was after a marriage breakup. So I’ve resigned to the fact that I’m either going to be hot or happy. I prefer the later, Mrs S prefers the later and a very special few lovers haven’t seemed to have minded one little bit :) I would like to be fitter more for health and longevity than anything else, as with everything else in life it’s a work in progress!
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MsSuperFoxy
5 years ago
A body doesn’t need a nickname or a title to be attractive. All it needs is confidence attached. Reject the idea of being a body type and embrace being an actual person whose body shape may or may not change, the better off we will be. A body with perfect imperfections and with a brain that fucks mine, in my eyes, is what I'm attracted too. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
5 years ago
not sure if dad bods is a correct description. Beer guts & fat are more appropriate. Like the chubby & voluptuous description they all mean the same thing. Fat I’ll probably cop a bit of shit, but hey it’s a fact Dad bods, fat guys not for me I keep in shape and am attracted to the same You don’t have to be ripped or have great abs
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House_of_Fun
5 years ago
It's my preferred body type, so much so that I mention it in my profile. Six-packs have never done it for me.
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Phoenix_Rising
5 years ago
If someone’s morbidly obese I find it as much of a turn off as I do if they’re too thin or too muscly. I definitely prefer my snuggle buddy to be a bit soft & squishy 😍 I like to look after my physical appearance but don’t see someone carrying an extra few kilos as being unsuitable for me because they don’t look after themselves, I’d prefer a fatty with a good outlook on life over someone with a good physique but a subpar attitude towards others.
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MsSuperFoxy
5 years ago
Is not cool. Ms Foxy
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EarthQueen
5 years ago
If I had to pick I’d prefer fitter or just regular guy. Definitely doesn’t need to be ripped though. Dad bod is fine but I don’t like large bellies. It can make sex awkward and can limit positions. Especially if a guys on the smaller side. They are a turn off for me. First priority though is mental connection.
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RHP User
5 years ago
It’s not anything to do with attitude, or subar It’s what’s visually appealing & sexy to one may not be to another Thank god we are all different And then there’s those who will fuck anything, just for the notch on their belt/bedhead
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bonefide
5 years ago
dam, I’ve only got a three pack and a open mind. So close yet so far, 😩😂
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zzzyyyxxx
5 years ago
we are far more interested in personalities & attitudes than Bods. So not too phased either way. hubby much prefers curves lol.
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AnnieWhichway
5 years ago
Personality first and foremost but the level of attraction wanes if the bmi scale is being savaged. Ripped is a bonus if personality exists but not a box that needs to be ticked.
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RHP User
5 years ago
I like craft beer so can rarely spring for a 6 pack. Usually just buy a few at a time. 💪 🍻
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countrytouch82
5 years ago
One of ABC's series called "You Can't Ask That" was on "Fat" people (as per their description also). Essential viewing for some. Personality, attitude, playfulness etc etc aside, I find I am often attracted by facial features more so than bodies (it's what you have to smile, laugh, express emotions, kiss etc) and I would guess the same is often true for women. Makes it a little harder on a site like this. Whatever people seek, all are not blessed with all features of what is seen as desirable and for some it would be a literal full time job (if even possible) for such change or major expensive surgery. Advice would be to try not to worry too much for most average people. The mental toll of living by other people's perceptions can be much greater than the physical toll of a few extra kilos of belly. Stress has physical impacts. Also, an overweight person can still become fitter, and many thin people are very unfit.
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RHP User
5 years ago
I look after my body and appreciate people who look after theirs. There is nothing worse than hearing, "I used to..."
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bonefide
5 years ago
Dad bodies and bellies, just asking
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AnnieWhichway
5 years ago
Quoting 'bonefide' Dad bodies and bellies, just asking If you can't see your cock when you look down, you've arrived.Excludes the need for cranking your neck out or the use of any mirrors when trying to say hello to your 2nd brain....
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RHP User
5 years ago
I am 62, many women say i am not bad looking and have beautiful blue eyes, and seemingly like my short salt-n-pepper hair (mostly salt) and in the past year or so i have stacked on a big belly that i am having trouble getting rid of (can only just see my 2nd brain) I have no fat anywhere else on my body, everything about me is normal, it is just the belly that is my issue, and it now causes erection issues for me, but my partner doesn't care, and she has a wonderful body for a 56 year old. I hate the belly, i feel bloated when i eat even a small amount of food, but when i look at those men and women out there who have floppy fat legs, fat arms, fat and flushed looking faces, well that makes me feel sick, and i hope that i never end up like that, because although i have the belly, i still feel wonderful about the rest of my body. My partner and I have regular massages in town at a few of the massage studios, and the ladies there don't seem to mind the belly, but all of them have told us that they absolutely die when a really fat obese man or woman walks in for a massage, and in most cases they actually turn them away, mainly because they are not very well groomed, and appear to be unclean. The belly i have is not a "daddy belly" as many men who are obese or have a big belly are not even Dads, many probably can't get it up enough to be able to get a woman pregnant anyway. I can't say that a woman would be turned off by my belly or not, but i do know that the rest of me, as well as my personality would attract some woman for sure. It just isn't very nice to look at, but compared to many others with fat all over their bodies, my belly is nothing.
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RHP User
5 years ago
I believe normalizing and seeking acceptance for some things do more damage than good. Being overweight is not about superficiality alone, it’s a health concern. Having excessive fat on body means excessive fat around heart too, you are putting too much pressure on your cardiovascular health. I keep seeing posts with clearly overweight people posing with captions; “love yourself.” No! If you really love yourself to seek ways to be healthier so you stick around longer for your family or friends or lovers, whoever you got. Now Maenad is a fairly tall woman with curves at all the right places, and she likes the fact that I can pick her up and carry her to bed on my shoulder or hold her up and have her against the wall. I wouldn’t be able to do any of these if I had a “dad body” because that would mean I wouldn’t be exercising, doing weights or hiking. While I don’t have six pack, neither am I shredded, i exercise regularly so i can feel better, energized and it helps me do most things longer and better. And in the long run excess fat will clot arteries and sabotage your erection. So don’t worry about your looks or whether someone thinks it’s ok for you to gain weight. You want to be healthy. Human body was evolved to be active.
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RHP User
5 years ago
Fuck yes, dad bod over ripped for sure.
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Mask_007
5 years ago
awomanwithneeds. Girl you rock. Absolutely Gorgeous... now please explain me these, what does dad bobies? What do you like about it? P.s. no complaints in my behalf, i have as well.
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RHP User
5 years ago
Quoting 'Mask_007' awomanwithneeds. Girl you rock. Absolutely Gorgeous... now please explain me these, what does dad bobies? What do you like about it? P.s. no complaints in my behalf, i have as well. I like that they arent pretentious, the muscle bods tend to come with personalities I dont like. I much prefer cuddly, there is just something to hold on to, more substance than rock hard.
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Mask_007
5 years ago
awomanwithneeds Wowwww you Rock...😍😍👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 Absolutely Rock, such young, gorgeous, intelligent, well spoken, sexy woman... Congratulations i am impressed...
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cheekky
5 years ago
Dad bod for sure 😊. Sexy
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RHP User
5 years ago
So fat = substance 🐒 That's where I'm going wrong. Shit I'm going out to buy some cream cakes. I'll be a nice person by next week 😜
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RHP User
5 years ago
all the way. Yum 😛
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RHP User
5 years ago
Sounds like a cop out for poor lifestyle choices if you ask me.respect your body and your mind,eat clean and live healthy- The rest just falls into place
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Sawadee
5 years ago
Started to get abit of a belly after quitting sport which happens alot . I was never that overweight but I knew my belly was starting to show and so i went and spoke to my Dr who referred me to a dietition. 10 weeks later and after a change of diet and shedding10 kg l was back at my goal weight ? Anyway , a few days ago , I went for a massage ( legit ) and the masseuse ( lady ) commented " you look very fit , do you work out " Well I do and always have but it was nice to hear from someone i never seen before. Bottom line is , yes l feel more energetic and healthy than ive been in years. However ' even though i dont have the 6 pack i had years ago and going on the compliment from the masseuse and friends im doing OK. Mind you ' nothing wrong with a dad bod , plenty of men have them , just dont let it get out of hand because it will effect your health.. A little overweight can turn into alot overweight ...
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RHP User
5 years ago
If it was so easy to eat healthy and exercise then nobody would be overweight. It's easy for people that can be mentally in tune with healthy eating and exercise. A lot of people , like me are emotional eaters and find it hard to get in the right mind frame. Stop knocking people that have curves and love handles.
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RHP User
5 years ago
This is a difference between being healthy and 'having a bit extra' than being unhealthy and overweight. Technically being 70 something kg and 5"5 I'm obese according to many health records. But I eat healthy, work out much to my hate. But there are some people who will judge simply because a woman doesn't have a flat stomach. I don't get mine until summer. Winter is jelly as hahahaha take it or leave it!
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RHP User
5 years ago
Totally agree with Chriscat its the mental challenge for me , the mindset it gives you Like let’s face it life and sex is going to be better with someone that is enthusiastic about themselves and life in general?
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RHP User
5 years ago
It depends of all the body. for me int not important the shape, it's a atraction with that he project, masculinity, good maners, kinky, confident...
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RHP User
5 years ago
I've come in to this topic a bit late but as a guy with a tummy I do get my fair share of no replies but I'd like to throw in my other personal "thing" to this thread and that's us hairy guys. I have a shirtless pic of myself because I wanted to be upfront and honest, but are there just as many that would not reply to a hairy guy as there is those with dad bods? I chose not to hide it because it's me but would anyone purposely not meet up just because someone isn't hairless? I do realise that some women here do get large numbers of messages from guys so you can pick the most appealing physically to you before going to the mentally stimulating. Does it play a part in decision making?(I do apologise for slightly changing the subject, but it's not too far off topic and the thread had gone quiet).
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RHP User
5 years ago
Or is it a Daddy Belly, don't really know to be honest. I have a bigish belly, had it for several years, and i hate it, but i have trouble getting rid of it, or at least part of it, and it can be embarrassing in some situation, especially when having a couples or single massage at a place we have not been to before. I am told that i have an enlarged Bladder which may be part of the issue for me, but i can't blame everything on that, i am too lazy most likely to exercise properly, and not eat all the right foods, but why do some people call it a Daddy Belly.
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