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Datefinder
July 19 2017
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LetsFrolic
7 years ago
No. Ive only ever managed to meet those random people that actually message back and actually want to meet up. - Posted from rhpmobile
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LetsFrolic
7 years ago
Only a rare few reply to messages and flirts at that.. and a small few of those actually meet. I met maybe 2 people last year and that was a good year. Ive met one couple this year A few say they have the same thing happen to them also - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
7 years ago
All a waste of time - Posted from rhpmobile
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lakesidecouple
7 years ago
It can be very hit and miss on Datefinder but we have meet a great couple through it. Had a wild night with them so definitely worth using just don't put all your keys in one basket 😘 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Didn't have any sexy female takers last week when I set up a date in datefinder :( Mary xx
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LetsFrolic
7 years ago
Genuine if you ever wanted to meet - Posted from rhpmobile
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megz85g
7 years ago
It's a bit hard as I cannot contact anyone who expresses interest - Posted from rhpmobile
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Hawt1
7 years ago
No, never had a single positive or any response from it.
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P69D69
7 years ago
Seem to only have interest from time wasters, picture hunters or fakes. Been paid members since just before christmas 2016, had 2 meetings of which nothing evenuated. Maybe we have too many criterias, not extreme enough for the seasoned swingers and what we want is rare to find. Who knows.
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Hawt1
7 years ago
Makes you feel like a cat at a covered fish bowl... ohhh look at all the pretties I will never have lols Direct messages does better maybe 1 in thirty will reply. Mostly a polite no thanks but every now and then... Oooh Lalaaaa
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RHP User
7 years ago
We still catch up but don't get anything when i post one i think it's tougher for us older blokes sometimes - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mask_007
7 years ago
Haven't meet anyone at all😐😕😴 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I've been fortunate to have met sexy singles and couples recently via datefinder. It a good way to find out she is really interested but expect a fun day/night on the date you set. Theres still a screening process on both sides so something promising can either end in nothing or end in great time. My tip is to set the date a couple of weeks in advance so you have time to get to know the person or couple a little beforehand. Just remember nothing is guaranteed so don't feel disappointed if it doesnt work out. Steve xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
That's don't expect fun Proof reading fail! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I met a great guy from my one time on Datefinder. Lots of guys put their hands up but he was the one that piqued my interest.... Sexy guy who smells and tastes great. Dark bedroom eyes, dark hair and a great smile. He has a sexy body that is fit, healthy and trim without being sculpted into a gym junkie 6 pack. So he looks more at me than he does at himself! ;) We clicked when we met over dinner and chatted for hours. He is a cool guy with no drama. Last time we planned to go out for a meal ..... but never got there! Thank goodness for UberEATS!! Love catching up with him when our calendars align. So my one foray into datefinder worked well for me! Beginner's luck? KH
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RHP User
7 years ago
Your profile is a really good read, cracked me up. Love some of the hobbies you slipped in 😉 and your 'type' = horny haha we are definitely similar creatures 👍 Re the fishbowl, that's exactly what it's like. I love looking at all the pretty fishes. Few new ones in there tonight thanks to this topic, I'm hovering over the bowl again ooh look at that pretty one 😋 For the record, you're a pretty fish, wait 😀 well you know what I mean. A pretty tasty looking fish? 😊
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RHP User
7 years ago
getting the lemon and salt. Definitely like to add some salt 😛😉
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RHP User
7 years ago
😊 on topic, I'm not really into it, but it can be useful I guess. Still don't like the way it works, or at least I don't think I know how to use it properly. The few times I've been in there, it prompts me to put myself on there, to be able to view others. Am I missing something? Hence I never look at it. I find it's not very user friendly. Or I'm just blonde? 😄 One thing I do notice are guys who have communicated with me, smokin' hot, but communicated poorly, the type who sit at home expecting women to come to them and worship them 'what are doing in 10 minutes?' lol 2 am naked and horny 'you should come over', but after passing them up, I see on my feed every time they put themselves on datefinder. They should have chicks throwing themselves at their feet, they would if they showed a bit of respect and didn't treat us like a commodity. I expect I'm not the only one passing them up 😏
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RHP User
7 years ago
No it's all crap!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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TheClitWhisperer
7 years ago
Yes I Ve met some nice peoples from date finder but no it wwasn t from one of my post. I m guessing there s just to many guys posting dates . When I see a date I m interested in it I just send a message straight away to see if she/ they are still looking for someone - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
7 years ago
Proof here! I have met some amazing people here in OZ and once in Fiji. 😊 Ms Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
7 years ago
The above, also includes date finder and putting up Travel Plans (in advance). 😊 Ms Foxy
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RHP User
7 years ago
I have had some good and some bad. So 50/50 is pretty good for a guy on rhp, right!!!
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RHP User
7 years ago
i get messages saying someone is looking for a date in my area , but too broad , covers an area up to 5 hours away in any direction. that said where i live is awesome but not close to anyone else :(
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MsSexyDeviants
7 years ago
I put up a date 3 weeks ago for a couple. Had little response, had a lot of profiles without pictures. And no one messaged me. I changed it to include females (1 on 1) and males (only ffm play). Still not much of a response! Any who, by the looks of it, it's maybe a 'right place at the right time' kinda thing!
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RHP User
7 years ago
Naahh-thiiinng... (Said in a Manuel from Fawlty Towers accent...) - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
7 years ago
Add my vote to the "some success" column
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RHP User
7 years ago
You're kidding? The only explanation surely would be timing, that they weren't looking on datefinder when you were on there. Crazy though isn't it when the much sought after, mystical unicorn, is on offer and not bowled over in the rush 🐒 The pictureless profiles would no doubt be men, not couples. Must have been just a timing thing
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Had some hot hookups. As a couple we have had up to 50 to 60 responses. Short listed to 5 and a lot of messages and work out who will show up. A lot of work though and easier to just go to a party.
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RHP User
7 years ago
..we have been on rhp as guests for 6 months, but as paid members only one month.. we usually put up a date for another couple a few days ahead and get a couple of replies but nothing has eventuated.. so with a little more notice we may meet the right couple for fun.. till then, we never miss at the swingers club.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
It still relies on people to actually read the details of the date....
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Seachange
7 years ago
For me. They've tweaked it a bit but still needs lots of work. I met lots of nice and sexy men on datefinder. I use it often as I travel interstate and overseas for work. I've met hot men in Perth Sydney and Brisbane. And Singapore. I like it as a tool to meet men. The key is to put up the invite a week (and a bit for interstate) ahead so as to give people notice abd plan their week respecting the fact they are also busy. Any contacts I'm keen on we chat and see if there is a connection. Maybe out of 20 -30 respondents, half are guests (not gonna happen) and then narrowing down the list to the one or two 😜 that I would like to play with. 😍 I also write up what I want rather than use the template. That way, there's no guessing on their part what I'm after. If only some men can just spend time reading the short write up before contacting me. 😒 I think for women, when we advertise, we are inundated with interest. I wonder if any men can see the number of interests that the initiator gets. It would be good if they can refine the filter on who can submit interest. When submitting a date, you can specify age gender and I think location. it would be great for members to receive interests from other members who can send a message. Else there's no use for guest members to contact each other. Although I specify this in my write up, No Guest members, again many don't read express their interests and then bombard me with tons of flirts. Lol I like the men to contact me direct if they are interested. I respond to them more as I see they pursue what they like and not shy about it. I would say the attitude extends to the bedroom. 😉
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RHP User
7 years ago
Other wise a lot of tyre kickers lol Have had more luck getting contacted via the forum posts
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RHP User
7 years ago
It gives me access to lots of willing people You have to sort through about 50 guys to find what you are looking for but generally it has worked really well for me I agree with touch Guys learn to communicate!
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sweetnsensual
7 years ago
People express interest but the conversion factor is small!
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MrPlayful
7 years ago
I have a couple of times which worked out just perfect. But in general, yes you get plenty of interest from said tyre kickers who can't even be bothered to send a message.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I'm looking for some girls who need a great reward (puff) for some adult fun
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'MsSexyDeviants' I put up a date 3 weeks ago for a couple. Had little response, had a lot of profiles without pictures. And no one messaged me. I changed it to include females (1 on 1) and males (only ffm play). Still not much of a response! Any who, by the looks of it, it's maybe a 'right place at the right time' kinda thing! My only thought behind your lack of responses is perhaps people think you're profile is too good to be true? A stunning blonde with curves like yours should be getting deluged with messages from Unicorn hunters! Or maybe the function just doesn't get used that much?
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MsSexyDeviants
7 years ago
I did receive around 14 responses. It was a Sunday afternoon too. So I guess there's that... But like others have said, most just show interest and expect others to do the work. I've gone back to doing it the old fashion way! Time to sift through the search tab 😏
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MsSexyDeviants
7 years ago
Quoting 'Dallas1975' Quoting 'MsSexyDeviants' I put up a date 3 weeks ago for a couple. Had little response, had a lot of profiles without pictures. And no one messaged me. I changed it to include females (1 on 1) and males (only ffm play). Still not much of a response! Any who, by the looks of it, it's maybe a 'right place at the right time' kinda thing! My only thought behind your lack of responses is perhaps people think you're profile is too good to be true? A stunning blonde with curves like yours should be getting deluged with messages from Unicorn hunters! Or maybe the function just doesn't get used that much? Its definitely possible that they think I'm fake because I'm a lazy arse and haven't validated myself haha But if anyone wants to know, I go on can regularly in the chatrooms. So meh... And most couples I tend to be attracted to (both of them I might add) are always 'having a break' so I don't know if they really want someone to join or just like the idea of it.
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Mask_007
7 years ago
Not at all. People are just not interested. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
7 years ago
I've been told by someone who knows better than I on this subject.... on a break often means they're not available as a couple..... whether they really are s couple is another matter
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RHP User
7 years ago
I live in the coast in Victoria. Small town, so clearly very little in the way of potential mates. So to speak 😉 It's disappointing though that there aren't more in Geelong! It's a big city! 2nd largest in Vic! Surely there has to be some kinky girls around?! I work in Melbourne, so could play there, but close to home is so much easier!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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bifungirl77
7 years ago
Haven't had any responses or interest.
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