Dating tips for Couples and How to score that Play Date !

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  We always meet people the first time for coffee or a quick drink. We treat it as a social meet before making any plans for more. Within the first ten seconds we are able to confirm if there is still a physical attraction . If for some reason there isn't a physical attraction the topic of conversation is just kept normal social talk like any other friend.On the other hand if step one is a green light and there is a physical attraction. Then we are usually steer the topic towards our other common interest . Usually keen to find out what makes the other couple tick and how well they can both express that to us. In doing so we get more of an idea of what the people are looking for and what stage they are at in finding it. Usually people have something to say regarding there experiences good and bad and if you can relate to them. Some one always has to put them self on the line a little and see what reaction you get. With a couple that you both really click with it's usually all to easy and things just flow. If you have to work to hard things most likely not going to work. We always follow up with a text message after meeting some one for the first time . Just to thank the people for meeting us and it's a good opportunity to say you liked them and would like to meet again if you did. Or if not its a chance to say Good luck in your search not what we are looking for.In regard's to making people want you. We just be our self and are not going to try and make people like us. If we like some one though we are not afraid to show it. People open up and thrive on other peoples enthusiasm or bubbly attitude. so if you like the other people show it. Or You could give of the wrong vibe. Jane always picks up on the other girls attitude in a couple and I am not sure if its just coinsidace but when the girls click things usually work out well.I remember times when we have met people and come away thinking they are a nice couple and physically attractive. Even click socially but for what ever reason perhaps just shyness on first meeting or new to it all. We have come away thinking we didnt get that vibe that keen for more. Only to get a text message from them shortly after saying they are keen to catch up for more. That kind of couple are confusing. You are usually put in a position were your thinking should you say yes to catching up again perhaps they will come out of there shell in a different setting or did you see the real personality at coffee. Tim

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