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Deal Breakers
December 03 2016
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RHP User
8 years ago
Smarter ones know before the majority wake up it's a non event. Every now and again it pays to look at the scene from a third party perspective. Its all about give and take.
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PurePeony
8 years ago
...with a lick, a tickle and a cheeky fondle! Hehehe! :D Deal breakers for me would be : Physical Traits : - same height or not much taller than me, ie. under 180 cm tall; - shoulders that aren't broad; - not clean-shaven; - - sloppy in appearance; - no / poor fashion sense or way too flashy and eccentric; - looking more like a boy than a masculine man; - beer bellies and obesity; and - hands and arms that look like they have done less DIY than me (!!!). Character Traits / Behaviour : - questionable personal hygiene and / or noxious body odours and or really stinky breath; - selfish and inconsiderate, a user and a bloodsucking Vampire; - small-minded and petty, doesn't know how to back-off and let a woman win in arguments to appease her and pave the way for a temporary ceasefire; - very limited communication skills and abilities; - quick to judge and write you off; - conflict resolution skills limited to ghosting / disappearing; - poor negotiation skills and uncompromising, not a pacifist; - emotional flatliner; - restless, hyperactive and rambunctious; - out-of-control drinking; - more vain than I am; - dismissive, stemming from an underlying disdain of the female gender; - doesn't cultivate the intellectual aspects; - unable to enjoy being alone now and then, too clingy; - wants to manipulate, control and possess you; and - kinda makes you feel used after doing the deed with you. Sexual : - sowing wild oats behaviour; - crushing you with their full weight in the Missionary position; - not prepared to reveal issues like Delayed Ejaculation; - not allowing me to rest and catch my breath after my orgasm(s) (!!!); - unable to vary routine, same ol' same ol'; - not open to all manner of discussions about sex and trying out new positions, techniques, toys, etc; - not expressive when cumming...seriously freaky and disturbing!; - impatient and wanting to dive straight into trying out new kinks without proper assurances, discussions and trust-building - I'm not allowing myself to be tied up / handcuffed / have photos or videos taken before I trust the man!; - guys who even broach the subject of going bareback (no condoms) when you aren't even in a proper relationship with them are creepy!; - guys who assume that you are a free callgirl; and - guys who do not display gentlemanly manners and respect you just because they met you on a "sex website". I've asked ex-bf's this question before: "If you had a daughter, would you be proud and happy if she were dating someone like you? Why? / Why not?" Their answers would be extremely revealing! Interested to read what others' deal breakers are!
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
Anyone left out there..... there.....there
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RHP User
8 years ago
You covered a lot and I agree with most. I will add - cheating married men. I'm not so worried about the men who are in real open relationships but the ones cheating can fuck off. Another deal breaker is a lack of confidence. So unattractive. And misleading deceptive pics. So over that!
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MsJonesy
8 years ago
I hear you Annie!! ;) xx
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RHP User
8 years ago
Men who look like they have been dragged through a hedge backwards and could care less about personal hygiene . Men who lack any inkling of emotional or social intelligence. .Q
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RHP User
8 years ago
Good personal hygiene is a must. And kindness in his character. If he has empathy with animals and other people then he's a good guy in my books. Otherwise, not much would really repulse me. I dont really like beards but if I fell for someone with a beard I wouldnt make a fuss. No one is perfect
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RHP User
8 years ago
I agree with a lot of what you have posted Peony, some of it gave me a good giggle... love the effort you put in. Missionary can get heavy going can't it! The most obvious thing to me is a man who would "let it rip" when out on a sexy date with me. That's not the sort of intimacy I'm into! Peachy
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RHP User
8 years ago
...fucking winger's. People who go on and on about the insignificant.God, they bore me to tears.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Smelling like a door on a prawn trawler :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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Twisted_Mister
8 years ago
'Quick to judge and write you off' By the length of that 'shopping list' I think I'm doomed to singledom till death. Not because of what's on the list but because every time I meet someone I feel like I'm on an audition for the X Factor. I will not be judged. I am who I am. Apologies. Rant off. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Twisted_Mister
8 years ago
'Letting a woman win arguments to pave the way for a temporary ceasefire' This may well be why I'm single, but no. Just no. If I'm 100% sure I'm right. Putting your hands up and walking away doesn't solve anything. Assuming the 'argument' was worthwhile in the first instance, of course. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I'm curious... Is his heart allowed to beat ?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I aint a tick on anyones long deal breaker list. If I fall in love again, and he with me, yes there may be some things that need adjusting. Going from single to a couple. Of course. Maybe its because Im older and have seen shit in my life that makes small issues.... Small.Not worth worrying about. Some women hate the toilet seat up. I look at it as a good thing that they lifted it in the first place. Its just a toilet seat. But some ppl will focus on that one small issue, that when you really think about it, isnt a big deal at all. It effects your life how?? You cant sleep? You cant function because the seart is up? You will leave someone you love because he never stopped leaving the toilet seat up? Focus on the fact that he smiles at you when he walks in the door. I have never heard a guy continually complain about women leaving toilet seats down. So continue to believe in your lomg winded wish lists and wonder why you cant find someone to fit it. And... If a male posted a list this long.... Lol. Pop corn time
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PurePeony
8 years ago
... as I was writing my impossibly long list. It's so funny, I could die laughing because it's my life's worth of dates gone wrong and why ex's are ex's. Hehe! Koolgrey, you must've cried a river reading my helluva neverending whinge list. Too bad there's no indemnity insurance to cover for any therapy sessions. Here's a tissue! :P Eew, stirry! I don't fuck the walking dead, doh! Warm-blooded men are desired, but those with bad breath and foul-smelling anywhere else, I'll avoid like the plague! Twisted Mister, it's not about the woman being right - it's about the man being magnanimous, big-hearted, long-suffering and wise enough to know that it ain't worth jeopardising the harmony by shoving his opinions down the woman's throat. (Better to shove something else...but I digress! LOL! :P) Better to gently persuade her to see his point of view when things are calmer and the woman is more receptive. A lot of times, women get upset not because of the argument - often, we can see the man's point of view too. But it is more our desire for affirmation, significance and love that fuels the relentless need to be "right". Sorta like, "Does he love me enough to allow me to exit gracefully / to allow me to win for once?" I don't speak for all women, of course, but sometimes if it sounds like we are arguing for the sake of arguing, we might just be needing some loving and making up for something else we are still fuming over. Women are complicated and multi-faceted with a formidable memory bank like an elephant's! LOL! I can let a man have the last word, but it would've started my checking out process too, as far as I'm concerned. Summer, agree with you about the yellow gold jewellery. It's pretty crass and very old school mafia. Men who wear more jewellery than me give me the goosebumps.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I have to admit I'm a tad stunned at that list... good luck - if you ever meet someone who meets al your criteria, I hope their list isn't as long 😳 For me, it's about mutual trust and respect. If that starts to wane and you Have the "stop being a fucker, pull your head out of your arse" chat, and nothing changes, then it's time to move on... I would hate anyone to walk away from an arguement with me, agreeing just to appease me - would find it patronising at best. To suggest that a man should walk away to magnanimous is ridiculously sexist. Im with you Twisted 👍 Willow, agree with your sentiment completely. Kool, you don't need a tissue, you can wipe your tears/snot on me 😈
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RHP User
8 years ago
So many 😣
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Twisted_Mister
8 years ago
Why should we be long-suffering? At all? 'Does he love me enough for me to exit gracefully?' If I'm wrong, I'm wrong. And I'll wear it. I had 13 years of backing down to someone who had decided to blame me for the curvature of the Earth and the tides among other things, but no more. Very happy on my own. NB: Not an attack on you OP. You look delicious but are too far away...... :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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Twisted_Mister
8 years ago
The toilet seat thing. Beautifully put. In 1992 I was living in Townsville when a mate and his his girlfriend turned up. She went to the toilet, apparently unused to what she was used to and shrieked when then the seat wasn't down and she sat down anyway and nearly fell into to the bowl. My response: ' This is a bloke's house.' - Posted from rhpmobile
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PurePeony
8 years ago
The men I have loved are imperfect, as am I, but I love them deeply. Real life vs forum thread. No one lives a fairy tale life and life is full of compromises. This is a deal breaker thread that was meant to be amusing and I found my terribly long list to be quite silly. It's hard for people to suppress their true nature, I suppose. Too many people react with bitchiness, disgust and mean-spiritedness. But it isn't shocking anymore cause ah well, it's the forums. Betty, I could say you are being ridiculously narrow minded to think that your opinion is the only right one, but I think I'd rather live and let live. I did say I wasn't speaking for everyone. And willow, wow... hitting below the belt, are we? Surprise! There are men who fit in because the list isn't cast in stone and in real life, if my heart skips a beat at the sight of a man...what list?! :P Pop a bliss ball! So many of you take things way too seriously and can't stop being nasty and sarcastic just cause you read something you dislike. Can't resist the urge to tear the feathers off a different bird just cause it wasn't a bird of a feather flocking together with you? Mean, much? Thanks to the rest for joining in the fun and sharing your deal breakers without seizing the opportunity to launch a personal attacks. *rolls eyes... Q and Peachy! LTNS! I got crazy busy for a while. How are you? Great to "see" you guys again! Annie and Summer, I know you guys are always around. Hope you had a great vacation, Summer! Welcome back to the daily grind!
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PurePeony
8 years ago
...Twisted, it was just a suggestion I learnt from some conflict resolution in relationships talk. The focus was on why some folks react the way they do and the various methods of de-escalating fights. We were free to disagree and suggest alternatives. Thanks for not taking offence because none was intended. ;) We don't all think that way and I was presenting one possible scenario. Who would've thought I'd be burnt at the stake for that? *rolls eyes... You're a good man, as most men are. Long-suffering... As for the toilet seat thingy, my ex bf actually expressed shock that I had never once made any comments about the seat being up or down. Who cares. I'm no princess and as long as there's a clean and functioning toilet, that's all that matters. As long as there's nice food, a cozy shelter, nice clothes and lots of lingerie, lots of good sex, love, friends, and money leftover to splurge a little now and then, it's an awesome, almost perfect life! Ah yes! Dealbreakers!
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RHP User
8 years ago
...personally, I'm glad your posting again. You are interesting. Welcome back Peony.. ☺
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RHP User
8 years ago
Racists Homophobes Extremely opinionated and unwavering on subjects they are ignorant about With Summer on lack of respect for service staff (or thinking people are beneath them) Men who treat women like a score card, some way to fill time, pieces of meat (even if they treat me like a princess) Lack of personal hygiene I've been with the above (thankfully haven't had an issue with personal hygiene to date) but never again.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Long-winded lists of things I should improve or become. People who cannot accept the person before them. People who "I want", "I expect"... Flapping gums. Nothing more to add
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RHP User
8 years ago
Ok, this is a supposed to be a light frivolous list? Righty'o I'll I think back to the last few meets I said no to. - Don't dress up misogyny as being a gentleman - that shite gets old real quick- Don't have Penis In Vag as your complete repertoire - that shite gets boring real quick- Don't have only 2 glasses -that shite is no good for drinking wine out of - Don't be (err, that much) younger me man - only meeting at mine was real fun, but a bit limiting- Don't be a dick - Adam Hill is bang on, there. And yes, I'd totally bang you Adam- Don't be so damn near perfect, but be looking for something I don't wish to give you - that shite was a massive clusterfuck
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PurePeony
8 years ago
Thanks, Koolgrey! So sweet of you to do the wb thang! :-* Yes, I'm an oddball and stick out like a sore thumb. An acquired taste. :P I just told a gf some weird acronyms and abbreviations that I had learnt about recently and when I saw her polite but very disinterested look, I announced, "And that's why I'm still single - I'm a nerdette who loves to bury her nose in books and occupy her RAM with weird stuff no one else is interested in!" :D An Aussie male aquaintance asked me the other day after we had a very interesting discussion about science and politics, economics and behavioural analysis - "So, are you single?" *nods head. "I figured. Cause most Aussie blokes wouldn't be smart enough to understand you and you'll bore each other!" Sigh... there are quite a few bright sparks in here though and I might not comprehend you guys totally, but that fascinates me. Yourself, S on the Loose, ontology, Midnight Cruisin, etc. Sometimes, the smartest peeps are pretty eccentric folks who are oft misunderstood because they aren't mainstream and people don't get their off-tangent ways. Sometimes, the smartest peeps are also the loneliest peeps because what people don't understand, they'll usually avoid if passive, and detest if active. Summer, thanks for not having a go at me despite reading an eye-rollingly long list. ;) Tolerance and the ability to withold a caustic tongue are the marks of a virtuous person. ;) Are you very peace-loving IRL? :D I've noticed that you and country touch and sometimes ITM2 have the ability to point out stuff to others very gently and tactfully. Almost as if you guys are interested in helping out, not tearing apart. ;) Anyway, men who fight fair without getting angry, nasty and personal, and not disappear and pull the ghosting thing on you are admirable. Agree with you on that, Summer.
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
When you are getting most of your boxes ticked the little things are irrelevant. But when the thing between your legs isn't being ticked properly, the little things are big things
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Missb4u
8 years ago
A closed mind
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RHP User
8 years ago
"Because most Aussie blokes wouldnt be smart enough to understand you" yep, thats it. For sure. You are way out of their league.... Said in jest of course. Its just a bit of fun on the forums hey? Nothing serious.
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PurePeony
8 years ago
...taunting someone who's obviously never going to be a friend, not on here nor IRL, wouldn't it be better to do more constructive things with one's time like heading out to enjoy the sun, have lunch with friends and then attend a concert, all of which I'm stepping off to do now. Sheesh... never outgrown the kindergarten schoolyard brawls? Have a great Sunday!
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RHP User
8 years ago
Thanks for the suggestion, but Im good. I like interacting with your just for fun topics. Apparently forums are for Pie users.Smart,dumb or anyone inbetween. So Im in that list somewhere
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MsJonesy
8 years ago
Such long lists! For the record....seat up or down is an argument never to be won, and they are all wrong. Correct use is the toilet LID down, and really, who gives a rats about having to put the seat up....or down. This is literally a first world problem 😛 Deal breakers...... dishonesty, a waning of respect, issues of trust, working to personal agendas, little regard for the other's likes/dislikes, significant drug or alcohol use, a 'what is in it for me' attitude, racism, misogyny. Things such as facial hair, ball or pussy hair, occasional bad days, need for personal space, letting me win an argument (really? Give as good as you get thank you!), etc are not my deal breakers. They are personal preferences, all which create the wonderful complexity and variety of we humans. As you have no doubt gleaned, my deal breakers are more in tune with the soul and morals of a person. Using that M word on this site may be questioned, but we do all have morals, we do all have a code of behaviours and ethics by which we live. Everything else is negotiable.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I there has to be a deal before it can be broken. Not to be confused with Deal Blockers.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Agreed with Willow & Betty @PurePeony - I agree with most of your list, can't say that I've had most of those experiences, couldn't read through them all TBH - haven't hated anyone that badly - more often than not, I feel sorry for them - go for guys that look after themselves- (inside, outside, mindset, personality) but having said that recent photos is a must, physical attraction is high priority - I don't bother meeting if they are too slim or too big - I want it HOT in the bedroom or I'd rather spend my time doing other more worthwhile things and stimulating my mind/body/spirit - something I don't like is pushiness - I quickly speak my mind, so they don't keep at it. Guys I like, love directness and I love giving it to them, when called for. I know what I do want and when I list that, I get just that. I give more about me and what I want so it's clear as daylight or they are dumb as fuck (haha not really, but it just felt good to say) and just messaging out of desperation. I'm someone who's easy to get along with, but certain topics I like to talk about more to feed my mind and grow myself. If the guy can't handle that then, it's really hard for me to go any deeper with them. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
@Stirry the shit stirrer - thanks for the laughs :D Great topic @ PurePeony... dark but great and yes I love GoT!!!!! Mother of Dragons FTW!!! I would turn gay for her just sayin' - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Sexism / misogyny Racism Arrogance and / or narcissism Disliking animals Very conservative political views An insular, closed mindset (nothing to do with formal education level, but with a person's curiosity and desire / willingness to learn about new things and things outside their own bubble)
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RHP User
8 years ago
...to disagree? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I wont meet a smoker. The smell turns me off completely i don't want to kiss ash tray. Plus i wont met an obese person. I look after my body so I expect the same from guys I meet. After all its my body I get to choose.😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
The deal breaker for me on a physical level is smell. Hygiene freak here, especially clean your darn teeth and go to the dentist. When you invite a person to your house, with sex in mind or just a cup of tea, then change the sheets, clean your loo and make sure that people can have a cup of tea or a drink without the worry of wtf is that in the bottom of the cup. Racists, and we are all Bigots in our own special way, it in our DNA. However if I get any notion your a racist well I vote with my feet. Other things like being homophobic or religious nut job, or what ever does not do it for me, it turns my wet to dry. The rudeness to staff is another one, I hate that with a passion. Smokers, sorry but it makes me gag , happy to have a conversation but could not be intimate with a smoker. I am really turned on by the scent of a guy, some guys are like honey to a bee when I inhale into their neck or even when they walk past its prrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr. These are deal breakers for both genders and even when you form any kind of relationship even friendships. The more you get to know a person you can either like them more or dislike them more. And OP every time you post here, it comes with the territory that you will be misunderstood and judged, just the same as on face book or in texting people. The spelling mistake or the joke can get you sent to the cyber guillotine. For some folk cyber is their world, so they invest emotionally on forums. They will say I don`t like that bitch or that guy is an arse hole, all based on a smoke and mirrors premise that often proves to be a cyber myth. Treat it all with a grain of salt, does it really matter at all. NOPE The woman in the tryst.
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RHP User
8 years ago
After stopping the need to 'belt notch' and wanting more from the whole situation, I've got mine, simple yet, mine: * Drugs * Disease (STD or similar) * Obesity and cleanliness * An education (I need to be able to connect on more than sexual appendages). * Comfortable in their body * Style and presentation * Not a rude and nasty person - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I'm entirely unsure how you interpreted my post in a way that suggested I believe my opinion is the only right one? Nor did I suggest that you were speaking for everyone... I do find your oh so selective offence taking rather interesting though 😉 I'm sorry if I interpreted your OP which said, and I quote, "I thought it would be interesting to share what our deal breakers are when it comes to FWB's. I'm referring to traits / behaviors / habits that instantly or almost instantly repulses you so much that you want to sever and annihilate ties completely, Game of Thrones style! (Hehe! Can you tell I'm a huge GOT fan?)" and following list incorrectly... imo the wording quoted above did not in any way suggest that you were being light hearted - how silly of me! If you believe that you are open minded, I'm more than happy for you to think me narrow minded 👍
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Cazz61
8 years ago
A guy who thinks he has any rights lol ....... This could be why I have been single for so long Seriously tho what might repulse me with one guy might intrigue me in another so to me its all about personality and how the guy makes me feel.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Smoking is another one for me.
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sweetgem
8 years ago
My selection criteria list isn't long 😜 Traits: - Shorter than me, or same height as me (as I'm not a tall person, so tallness is one of the attractions/turn ons). - Unproprtioned body figure such as, solidly muscular build but under 170cm in height; or slim (literally lighter than average) build with a height of 193cm and above. - Unclean appearance and poor personal hygiene. Behaviour: - Disrespectful towards other people, especially towards women, which no doubt he would be disrespectful to me too! And respect is a big thing for me! - Stingy and cheap skate. - Being the centre of attention in the bedroom, that is, only likes to receive oral, but doesn't return the pleasure and thinks it's ok to ignore my wants! Habits: - Always speaks with using swearing words each time he speaks, even if he isn't swearing at me. - Smoking in front of me! - Treats me like a "side dish"! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'PurePeony'Q and Peachy! LTNS! I got crazy busy for a while. How are you? Great to "see" you guys again! Hey Peony, it is lovely to see you posting in the forum again. I have noticed your absence. It was a busy Sunday here with little time to do more than read the forum in between life and Christmas busyness. A good day. Peachy xo
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RHP User
8 years ago
... and each to their own. I can't tolerate people who can't take clear messages that their advances are unwelcome and insist on pushing their rights when they have none. Peachy
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RHP User
8 years ago
deal breakers... well, I won't say people who quote or go off-topic, but I do get irked when the pot calls the kettle black
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RHP User
8 years ago
send them to the fires of mordor!
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RHP User
8 years ago
I've missed ya. I miss your 'spunk' you have character, and you're not afraid to speak your mind, good for you, I love reading your comments, always make me smile. That includes this topic which I think is great to make us pause and consider, I tend to roll along not often stopping to think about why I do what I do or why I make decisions, so it's good to stop and reflect sometimes 😃 So having thought about this more, I think physical, though important to me, can be subjective or viewed differently depending on how much we're into the rest of the person. Hate to admit it, but as much as I bang on about how important the body is, I have ditched a few lately for turning me off in other ways, and the biggest deal breaker? Selfish lover, there isn't a single thing, at this point in my life, that turns me off more than that, and If I pick up the signs before I meet them, it's all over, it stops right there. I don't usually get angry, 100% happy to let them move on to someone else, so long as it's not me, I'm happy 😉 and you know when one thing doesn't sit right, you start to get a bad feeling about them, call it instinct, but you kind of give it a bit longer, in case you've misjudged them, then further along, they drop some clangers in conversation that just seal the deal or 'unseal' the deal lol I have an example but O can't post about it, but classic case of him, and me servicing his needs. Yup not happening 😀
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RHP User
8 years ago
Just ewwww
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RHP User
8 years ago
Really? Can I ask why, only because it's so random. It made me think of a major turn off but not a total deal breaker - cartoon satin boxer shorts. Why oh why?
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RHP User
8 years ago
boxer shorts in general are just awful, its a layer of filmy, floaty fabric that accomplishes nothing.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I was contacted by someone who had a close up of his jocks. They were red and saggy with a row of buttons down the front. The image burnt itself into my eyeballs. I couldn't look any further on that profile. so I guess they are a deal breaker for me lol
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RHP User
8 years ago
Agree, I cannot stand boxer shorts for that exact reason, don't like satin fabric yew I like the boy leg jocks, I don't know what you call them but jocks like shorts but the normal fabric, what do you call them? Anyway, they look sexy as fuck mmm nibble nibble
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RHP User
8 years ago
so I can see and feel the mound now how far off topic am I, oh yeah deal breakers. There were things that were deal breakers for me, that are now a big turn on, isn't that interesting how we change hmm
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RHP User
8 years ago
How appropriate ;) But yes - trunks are it for me I'm afraid. Especially the short legged ones. Midi's don't do anything for me unless they've got the legs to pull them off. Every time I see satin boxers it reminded me of sweaty balls, revolting but true.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'SoftandCurious' How appropriate ;) But yes - trunks are it for me I'm afraid. Especially the short legged ones. Midi's don't do anything for me unless they've got the legs to pull them off. Every time I see satin boxers it reminded me of sweaty balls, revolting but true. Thanks so much Soft... ;)
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RHP User
8 years ago
You're welcome 😘
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RHP User
8 years ago
Poor hygiene Disrespectful person - this includes making an effort equal to what you put in. Criminal Alcoholic or drug user Someone that doesn't converse about important matters involving the relationship. Too young - sorry but I have a child. Hmmmm takes a strong person to stay in my life :) xo - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
You crack me up 😂
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RHP User
8 years ago
Yeah I was just eating dinner, sweaty balls made me lose my appetite 😀😉
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Agree, I cannot stand boxer shorts for that exact reason, don't like satin fabric yew I like the boy leg jocks, I don't know what you call them but jocks like shorts but the normal fabric, what do you call them? Anyway, they look sexy as fuck mmm nibble nibble generally they're "trunks", the longer ones are referred to as boxers, stretch boxers, or boxer briefs depending on the brand. I mostly wear nothing anyway, but have some because it's more comfortable with some jeans/trousers.
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PurePeony
8 years ago
Sweetgem, I like your deal breaker - treating you like a side dish. I can think of one thing worse than that - letting you know that you aren't the only side dish!
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Yeah I was just eating dinner, sweaty balls made me lose my appetite 😀😉 made me think of Ikea. yum, Swedish meatballs with Lingonberries
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'S_OnTheLoose' Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Yeah I was just eating dinner, sweaty balls made me lose my appetite 😀😉 made me think of Ikea. yum, Swedish meatballs with Lingonberries
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RHP User
8 years ago
Absolutely not interested I've decided. The deal breaker would be having the partner there. I can't have sex without the verbal, which gets pretty intense and personal at times, things that are said wouldn't be said if she were present. I won't hold back for anyone, and won't be with anyone else who has to hold back. So couples don't waste your time, not interested, not unless you play separately 😉
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Bazingal
8 years ago
Plain and simple. I will not tolerate a liar. Nor will I "just get over being lied to".
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RHP User
8 years ago
...women who are:sexually inhibited incapable of silence (when not having sex)unable to understand why 99% of men do not conform to their beliefs about what constitutes a good man...i.e. delusional Kisses to all
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RHP User
8 years ago
Racist, sexist, swears a lot, refuses to not smoke around me, unclean, bad breath, missing teeth, pimples, smelly, cheating on his partner, a Dom/Master type, obese, back hair, bum hair, over 55, unshaven pubic area, ......... - Posted from rhpmobile
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swingalingson
8 years ago
You must like smelly balls..😷cause you did not put it on ya list or a smelly gooche?😝
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swingalingson
8 years ago
You forgot bout a stinky DOODLE. What is your opinion about that?
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RHP User
8 years ago
I said smelly and unclean. If that's not specific enough for you, please run along. 😂 Plus, my opinion of you has just dropped because you used the word "gooche". UGH.
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RHP User
8 years ago
1. Dont be a dick2. Good personal hygeine
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'sexyscientists' send them to the fires of mordor! But I love how the shadows make the hand on your right boob look like a heart
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N4November
8 years ago
About anything really. For example: Like your say on your profile that you're 40 but when you meet, lucky to be a day under 55.... Single. But married. It is wonderful to meet new people and diversity is what makes the world go round! But people aren't stupid and it's an insult that you think it's OK. ... but that's arrogance. And arrogance in a person doesn't make them sexy, open, tactile lovers. In my opinion anyway. Better to be straight up and go from there :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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Missb4u
8 years ago
Being condescending. Bad kisse... I do not want to drown in your saliva or gag on your tongue. Closed mind. Homophobic.
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Missb4u
8 years ago
Complaining about how long it takes me to cum... or how sore your tongue and jaw are... 😁
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bexta1971
8 years ago
Lying and lack of personal hygiene. Neither is hard to get right, both prove a person has little or no respect for the other person
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