sweetnyorkshire

sweetnyorkshire

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Deleting messages and pics

April 04 2023

Why do some couples delete their messages and pictures so quickly?! I mean I can understand photos to a certain extent although it does make it a little awkward when they give you 30 minutes to look but my partner hasnt seen them so you have to ask them to open again only for my partner to say they're not interested. Messages however just seems silly. We usually only play 4 or 5 times a year as we're not available that often and it's just confusing when you come back to a conversation and all the previous messages have been deleted. We also have couples that have previously contacted us and we've turned down message us again with the same message. I'm assuming that because they've deleted the previous messages they've forgotten they've already contacted us. Either that or they're being persistent.

Comments

  • CuriousAsianCpl

    CuriousAsianCpl

    2 years ago

    Probably taking discretion to paranoid levels. Have had some couples block if we don’t get to answering their message after a few days. Then return months later to try again. Always gives us a chuckle.

  • oil_beef_hooked

    oil_beef_hooked

    2 years ago

    Yeah it’s a little odd, I’ve had messages deleted when I’ve been asked when I might be free to meet? I give them a time/day etc and “poof”! …….gone 🤷‍♂️ wtf?? This was at 9pm I might add

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    2 years ago

    I delete when I cease to be interested.

  • Ex007

    Ex007

    2 years ago

    Singles do it as well. I'm not sure why. I'm not one for deleting a message from my end as it gives me an idea if they have messaged before. E.g. Turned them down. I rarely play as my standards are high and I'm quite discerning. Intelligent aligned masculine men are an endangered species. I usually block repeat turndowns as I won't be changing my mind and it stops it from happening again.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    2 years ago

    I don’t delete, I didn’t know anyhow, tho sometimes folk say something and later delete it, some delete everything so the missus don’t see it, But it sure helps when a deleter comes back with a different version, tell them what actually it was and they attack on the back foot accusing with 😩(Me, you lie to me, me really…. 😤) Then I can offer to show the message/s. But they keep doing the same things and makes me wonder.,do they spend all the time deleting the time and flat out going nowhere. Mado Mado Tara xx

  • fun_seeker2

    fun_seeker2

    2 years ago

    Ikr.. its the quick snd and the dead around here lol

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    2 years ago

    Because they most likely have hit the ignore button and they've made the choice, don't want any contact. As for pictures, here's a quote from RedHotPie Support-> messaging and conversations. QUOTE: To delete the image from a particular Conversation, you just need to delete it as with any image or conversation. To ensure that the image is removed from ALL Conversations, then you need to delete the image from the Shared Album. Furthermore, any photo sent via Messenger will be removed from all Conversations within 3 months from the date it was sent. You can also now opt to set a photo to be deleted in an hour's time, or a week's time, or a month's time, from the point when you send it. If a photo has been deleted due to it reaching its expiry date, the recipient will be advised that the photo has expired. Thank me later. Ms Foxy

  • Margo_Lover

    Margo_Lover

    2 years ago

    Happens all the time to us, it's annoying, while we don't delete any conversations. We 'archive' them by using the 'ignore' feature. Then any time that person/couple comes back in the future (and many do) we still have the conversation. I think deleting is often a petulant/childish act of someone showing they're unhappy with either our reply, or our lack of timely reply. "Oh... you don't want to go on a date with us... then bang, I'm gonna delete the conversation." That happens regularly to us. On the other hand, in the rare instance where someone actually replies to say they're not interested in dating us (most just ghost, delete or block), I replay with a: THANK YOU, for being real and letting us know. SOOOO much appreciated. - Alex.

  • AWomanWithNeeds

    AWomanWithNeeds

    2 years ago

    I put everything in the ignore folder unless I block.

  • Rachael77

    Rachael77

    2 years ago

    Sorry 😞 I am number one offender with deleting pics and messages Even with friends I can’t stand a messy inbox it’s not personal when I haven’t met someone…like there’s no negative emotion or hostility attached to it ..