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Demanding face pics .... Or delete ????.. Not sure about this demand

March 18 2013

Hi everyone ... My partner and I have been around the scene for quite awhile now and we are very happy in our own skins and enjoy meeting girls, couples when ever we can. I have a little problem that I would like comments on....... More and more people,are demanding that when they are "first" contacted they receive face pics !!! .... Now, let me be very clear, we are very genuine, always meet I'd planned, we are exactly as we portray in our profile, but !!!! And a very big but!! We are still very cautious about who we meet and we like to keep our ID as close to secret as we can until a degree of trust has been formed, unreasonable ??? I don't think so. Furthermore, these same people who are "demanding" face pics or the threat of being immediately deleted, do not have face pics on their profile. I just find that it comes across as a little arrogant, we ae very willing to supply access to our Private gallery's after some initial contact and a degree of trust has been formed, not straight away. Hey, we might be wrong. We are both fairly high profile players in the industry hat we work in, but still enjoy the excitement of our lifestyle, I'm sure that there are many singles, couples in the same situation. Comments please....

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Arrogant and demanding on their profile... arrogant and demanding in bed. Unless they are verified, have some quite representative public photos (of both of them if a couple), and have photos in private galleries, laugh and move right along.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    We fully agree, people choose to remain discreet and still enjoy themselves without openly putting themselves at the mercy of cyberspace. We have had people with no photos at all demand face pics which in itself is quiet bizarre. Anyways we know we are genuine as do the people we have met and we retain the right of discreetion, understanding of those that may choose to see photos ect.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    If they have no pictures of their faces, you would imagine they have grasped the concept of discretion for themselves... Then somehow expect you to have different values. Suggests a lack of empathy :(- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    It's not only face picture, we're a little tired of people asking for our photo's, but never want to show us their's. This leads me to thinking, that is a single guy," sorry to all the genuine single guys out there". We're are very genuine, and have no problem's has long as the other couple or person is happy to show their photo before meeting.... updated photo's would help too....

  • Mr_Invisible

    Mr_Invisible

    12 years ago

    I like to see a face... but don't expect to see it right awayPeople do like or need to be discreteI don't... but thats just my choicei'm single , open and nothing to hideProbably be better if I removed the face pics... or at least took some better onesMight have more "luck"

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Hi JustusCouple,   I totally agree.   There are no shortage of arrogant and selfish types on RHP but thankfully still some respectful and understanding peeps also.   It might be a fine line between making intentions clear and outright arrogance but those with profiles as you have described seem very arrogant and selfish to me. It makes it easier in a way, as I know I am very unlikely to like personalities like that, so it's skip the tossers and move on in search of someone nicer..   Thanks for posting.   : )

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    We always open up our PA which includes face pictures before asking for the reciprocal gesture. Many people don't have the grace to reply, let alone show us face pics. And neither of us is an ugly duckling!! Far from it.So we partly agree with JustusCouple. Our one disquiet is that they seem to believe that they are unique in desiring the utmost discretion. Many of us on here have high profiles, either in industry or public life and equally seek total discretion as well as giving it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Rhp is generally for one thing, i do need to be physically attracted to the other person.I love to see face pics. I show mine when they ask, i expect to see theirs when we start messaging. Although mine is on my main picture now anyway. Now noone will be surprised with what i look like.

  • twowithnolimits

    twowithnolimits

    12 years ago

    Never cease to be amazed by double standards, we not only get requests for face pics up front, and then lots of "others" , but often times the request is from people who dont have even a single pic in their profile at all wtf!!!!btw perthone..you said, " rhp is generally for one thing", but you are looking for nothing ! So now we have people who do want to meet with no pics, and people who dont want to meet with pics....what a crazy worldLOL