Dirty Talk

June 07 2016

Girls, is this a turn on during sex or not? I for one love it when a girl talks dirty to me and haven't had any complaints when talking dirty to them. I'm intrigued... - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I certainly enjoy it. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    On how I 'perceive' the person doing the dirty talk! I don't have a perceived idea of what I like but it is very situational for me. I've had a generally soft spoken man say 'I want you now' whilst at a party, made my girlie bits feel all kinds of wonderful! In his way, he showed me how much he wanted me! Similarly I had a playmate hold my throat, look me in the eyes and say all sorts of 'pussy growling' things. To the outsider it may have looked aggressive and derogatory but it works for our dynamics! I think it can go pear shaped when you don't really have the 'connection' with someone and you don't read a situation well! Whilst at a party, whilst playing with a guy, another one came up to me, tapped my forehead with his dick and said 'suck this bitch'! it didn't end well for him .... So easy does it, read your situation and make it unique to the person you are with. Nothing worse when it feels like a well rehearsed 'one size fits all' approach. Mary xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Lady in the street but dirty talking whore in the bed, yes please - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    You could say whatever the hell you wanted, because I would be too busy ogling your beautiful face and body.... Lol

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    9 years ago

    Certainly not if it was done in a demeaning ,disrespectful, derogatory & aggressive manner , for example " suck this bitch" or "ride my cock you fucking slut". There is a difference between dirty talk, sexy talk and disrespectful talk. Knowing the difference and correct context during which to "talk the talk" is clearly difficult for some. For many it's also a dominance/submission thing.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I agree the context is important and you may need to build up to the real naughty stuff before you pull it out - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Jay_London

    Jay_London

    9 years ago

    👌🏽 Yeah that's the vibe I get. It's the shy girls who have actually been the most turned on by dirty talk in my experience. I love it when I pin a girl down and tell them what I'm about to do to them. It gets the really wet and gagging for cock - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Jay_London

    Jay_London

    9 years ago

    Haha thanks Willow. Maybe we can try that sometime if you're every in Sydney CBD - Posted from rhpmobile

  • nibblemebi

    nibblemebi

    9 years ago

    But it is all in the delivery! Done correctly, it maximizes the intensity of my orgasm, done wrong and we won't even get that far.

  • CompersionCouple

    CompersionCouple

    9 years ago

    I love dirty talk. When I have a connection with a guy or girl I want them to tell me "I'm a dirty little slut" or something similar. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'Jay_London' I love it when I pin a girl down and tell them what I'm about to do to them. - Posted from rhpmobile yeah that'll work every time for me. I love dirty talk although what Mary said that guy did that's just straight up disrespectful.. In the heat of the moment though - hell yes. Any name calling needs to be pre discussed though in my opinion.

  • hotdelights

    hotdelights

    9 years ago

    That should be put in as a YES OR NO PROFILE QUESTION OR AS A CHAT BEFORE COUPLES ...( MEET & GREET )

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Love a bit of dirty talk, but as others have said it's very much dependent on how well I know the other person, and the situation. Some words / phrases I don't like no matter the context (e.g. 'slut', 'whore')...for me it's more the stuff around describing what's happening / what they want me to do / what they want to do to me etc. The right words from the right guy can get me wet before we've even laid a finger on each other...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Chatting with a mate one day having one of them men only convo's. He tells me his wife is the typical starfish and does nothing but lay there . So he asks me what he should do to get things moving. Amos the expert here tells him to lace it up with some dirty talk including telling her all the ways he would like to fuck her. .? Seen him the next day and asked him how it all went... Fucking terrible , he tells me she slapped him across the head, pushed him outta bed telling him he's a dirty bastard who needs help . ? Opps , so much for that.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    With the right person..I can talk very dirty indeed in a slutty prim voice if you like 😈 Q

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    we find it a turn on in the right surroundings

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Some just get off on being called a slut/ whore and others will send you packing for being so disrepectful. And that can even reverse given different circumstances. Personally, I find it a bit distracting at times and focus on the tactile sensations, rather than the aural ones, apart from the "in the moment" sounds and words like "oh god..oh god...I'm coming...Awwwgghh" 😀😀😀 That being said, the well placed whispers in the ear can be just what is needed to tip the scales. Bringing the imagination into the play can add another dimension.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I have to have it, all part of the dom thing. Yes the trust is there but it will be anyway with ongoing fb's. One friend calls me his cum slut, I love it, because I am, I gag for his cock, and love the to and fro dirty talk between us. It's full on, the way it has to be for me. Otherwise I lose interest fast

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I do like crudity at times and making shocking statements. It's about setting the anticipation and building the tension for me, so once we get down to business I don't think I talk that much. It must be natural though, nothing worse when it sounds contrived, unnatural or awkward.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    What kind of things do you say? Let us in on your secret.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    When said in the heat of passion...its really roleplay.....you wouldn't talk dirty to a woman in public...but...between the sheets dirty talk between us excites me and if she is turned on by talking encouraging dirty fuck talk to her gets both people humping to hot juicy fuck pleasure...its really releasing all those social taboos and uninhibited animalistic feelings...love it!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    If the situation is right and there is a connection with the woman then yes I love a bit of filthy talk, especially whilst my hand is gently around her throat looking into her eyes ... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    That's what I'm talking about .... Excuse me for 5 ;) Mary xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    In my experience the more you talk about it before hand the better. Communicate and get a feel for what your partner is ok with. If discussing first is not possible then try progression. Calling someone a "filthy dirty cunt whore" right off the bat might not work for them. I've had experiences with some like that but it usually took time, communication and understanding from both of us to get to that point. Again, progression. And guys slapping a woman in the head with your dick is generally not a good ice breaker...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    And why is dirty talk assumed to be aggressive name calling of the submissive person? Some like it rough but you can still dirty talk without resorting to just name calling. JMO.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I love talking dirty and will always try and come out with better and dirtier talk every time. The dirter the better Ii turn my partner on and drive him to blow. My dirty talking is honest and real and comes out naturally. It is all things I know I would do or have done. Real dirty talk the best - Posted from rhpmobile

  • thisiswhatyou

    thisiswhatyou

    4 years ago

    True dirty talk that is generated from lust and desire is so powerful