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Dirty talk
May 08 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
We love talkers. Dirty or sweet doesnt matter. as long as we sense some level of life in our partners :)As long as its not a shout, i think dirty words when whispered to the ear is such a turn on...I think the OVER moaning is the one thats irritating. Too pornish.
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Mischeviouslad
12 years ago
In the context of heightened sexual arousal, words are accepted differently. Aural sex, so to speak.... is a highly important element. Men, do not underestimate the role your deep resonating masculine voice plays in turning your woman up to FULL. Describe to her how her skin feels, give detail on how you observe her reactions to your touch, how her reactions make you feel.... and even TELL her how she will respond, and watch her arousal grow higher and higher. Be commanding! DG
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RHP User
12 years ago
Kate and I love talking it up and it can flow into a role play. Always wanted to express verbal thoughts for years but never had the guts to do it. I needed a very hearing impaired lady till I met Kate and wow added another dimension to foreplay. We can be sitting on the couch and that whisper of colourful talk gets us going more than anything..
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On_Safari
12 years ago
Can I have a personal demonstration please!! ~ fanning face with a hanky ~ yup that'd tick one of my boxes..... Um, how do men react when a woman says how great his cock feels inside, how much knowing she's making him hard turns her on and makes her wet or how she loves the smell of his sex as she runs her cheek along his shaft? How she revels in the scent of thier sex on her body. (I actually love the smell of sex on me, especially if it means I'm going back to work. Have wondered in the past if anyone else can sense the sex on me?) Mmmmm curiouser and curiouser.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' In the context of heightened sexual arousal, words are accepted differently. Aural sex, so to speak.... is a highly important element. Men, do not underestimate the role your deep resonating masculine voice plays in turning your woman up to FULL. Describe to her how her skin feels, give detail on how you observe her reactions to your touch, how her reactions make you feel.... and even TELL her how she will respond, and watch her arousal grow higher and higher. Be commanding! DG Well, that sounds delightful!But my dirty words are much less sensual (those ones are easy to say) and much more, erm, primal! I was brought up to be a Lady in my speech and I guess some of that parental conditioning is deeper than I thought....yeah, thanks Mum and Dad! ;-)
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Mischeviouslad
12 years ago
@ Inaddition....... Thats pretty much what I was referring to.Sensual words, are IN context beyond sexual arousal, and help escalate someone into an aroused state.Thats why we like them.... they're transitional without being confronting. IE.... acceptable.If Miss Safari was helping me cook dinner.... and I turned to her and said...... "I love how your pussy gets sooooo engorged and warm and wet that my tongue glides through her and it makes my cock so fucking hard... ".... she'd probably hit me with the frying pan.A more sensually spoken version would be received better, in that context.BUT..... if I said that to her after prolonged foreplay, teasing, touching and turning her on...... it would increase her arousal further, and the more I upped the talk, the higher her arousal would climb.And yes...... it IS possible to talk to her and increase her arousal SO much, that she climaxes simply from dirty talk alone.Men complain about women who arent responsive..... calling them "starfish".But men who arent vocal and arent descriptive.... are essentially being a starfish, to their women.Dont be a starfish.DG
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RHP User
12 years ago
Toilet Talk is not OK.FOXY
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RHP User
12 years ago
I love a bit of dirty talk during sex!! And I really don't like being with guys who don't say anything....some don't even really moan or make any noise to let you know that they're enjoying themselves. I want to know that the guy I'm with is having a good time!!
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On_Safari
12 years ago
I wouldn't hit you with the fry pan if you said that to me, I'd kneel before you on the floor, undo your trousers, slide your panties to the ground and express my appreciation because I would consider that to be simole foreplay. As for prolonged foreplay and what would occur ... that'd be an entirely other scenario, for both of us. And I agree, nothing's worse than a starfish who can't express himself. ;-) Satisfied Safari (Yes you could've talked dirtier to me too breathtakingly shaggable, next time)
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's an instant mood killer for me because it doesn't come naturally. I have to think of something to say and often just sit there with a blank mind, panicking that I can't think of anything. By then, I've lost it. I much prefer the moans, "oh my gods" etc that come with what I'm doing to someone than actual "dirty talk". - Ms Otori
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't think anything said during the heat of the moment, should be open to make someone accountable ! It's just another form of release and letting go.... The dirtier the better I say!lol One memorable quote from a lady many moons ago..... " cum in my bum, i love cum in my bum.... I wish I could put my mouth down there and suck it out".... That was over twenty years ago and it burnt into my brain, pure passion, lust filth....perfect! All from a good catholic school girl too.. ;)
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Mischeviouslad
12 years ago
(mutefrog said....)"I don't think anything said during the heat of the moment , should be open to make someone accountable" Oh, so if the next woman youre with started screaming MY name and professing all the wicked things I make her do and feel..... you'd be fine with that?! Hahahahaha ;-) DG
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RHP User
12 years ago
What's toilet talk?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi InAdditionTo Words can make your mind dance and other things too if done right.... Something you may like to try as words are a truly personal thing for the individual, words that work for you (And you know exactly the one’s i’m talking about) may not work for other people and words that work for them may not work for you. So if your game grab a pen and paper plus the hubby and start writing down the words and sentences that get you really hot and wet in all the right places ( Again you know exactly the one’s i'm talking about just think about them for a moment) Now you have a list let your man read and learn all the things that you like to hear and practice saying them at different time during sex, when done right you should find that some words will make you hot / hotter and others at the right time ( Add a bit / lot of physical stimulation) may make you cum. Good luck and one last thing i will bet you $10 that you may find yourself getting a little horny while doing this with your man. Have fun Andy
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RHP User
12 years ago
Anything is possible..... Your mums a wild woman! ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Put the seat up, pass me some paper, omg who left that in the bowl.......toilet talk! Lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'On_Safari'I'd kneel before you on the floor, undo your trousers, slide your panties to the ground and express my appreciation because DG wears panties? Who knew!? As for dirty talk: It depends on who, when and where, but a simple "Oh, fuck..." can really tip me over the edge.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' What's toilet talk? when someone dribbles a lot of sh*t or crap in the bedroom....FOXY
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Mischeviouslad
12 years ago
LOL @ Froggy Yeah, my mums a 76yo wild one who uses a cane and needs a seat to climb stairs.... ....but she said you were ordinary ;-) lol DG
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RHP User
12 years ago
Next time she can make her own way to bingo afterwards! Lol in my defence though lad... At 76 there's a lot of experience to reference from.;) haha
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'lovingcouple1' Hi InAdditionTo Words can make your mind dance and other things too if done right.... Something you may like to try as words are a truly personal thing for the individual, words that work for you (And you know exactly the one’s i’m talking about) may not work for other people and words that work for them may not work for you. So if your game grab a pen and paper plus the hubby and start writing down the words and sentences that get you really hot and wet in all the right places ( Again you know exactly the one’s i'm talking about just think about them for a moment) Now you have a list let your man read and learn all the things that you like to hear and practice saying them at different time during sex, when done right you should find that some words will make you hot / hotter and others at the right time ( Add a bit / lot of physical stimulation) may make you cum. Good luck and one last thing i will bet you $10 that you may find yourself getting a little horny while doing this with your man. Have fun Andy Lol, Andy, thanks - it takes me a lot less to get horny than writing down all the dirtyness that goes on in my brain - I think I'm perpetually set to 'go' - but I love the idea of practicing saying the words out loud. I know Hubby would be very supportive. He knows what I'm thinking and what I want to say, just as he knows I have trouble saying them out loud.I have zero trouble writing it down - hell, I do that just for fun. It's getting the words out of my mouth (when it's not otherwise, erm, occupied) that's the trouble! And part of that is that I think it sounds silly from me - I have very good diction and my English accent just doesn't sound right with those words! It feels like they should be a little 'loose' and that's just so very hard for me; I can't even drop a 'T' for goodness sake!.But hey, perhaps practice will make perfect!Mrs x
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RHP User
12 years ago
Okay. I can definitely see it. I think they would be leopard print g-string panties. For sure!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
The problem you are experiencing with those words (in and of themselves) is your interpretation of negative effect these expletives may have on your lover.."If I just come out with that, He's going to think I'm a....".Yes?.Build a set of words that appeal to you both while watching an erotic movie, describing what's going on. Start with the act of a blowjob(somewhat krass) and settle with B.J.(BeeJay) for example..Be Bold, take a chance, build a language of love. Good Luck.
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On_Safari
12 years ago
But seriously Meeks, would you hit him in the head with a frying pan when his grasp of the language of love is so precise? Haha love ya style DG.
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RHP User
12 years ago
The dirtier the better :)
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