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Dirty talk

October 31 2014

Ok so my partner wants me to talk dirty to him, it just doesn't come naturally to me so I'm looking for some pointers on the types of things to say and what not to say!

Comments

  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    10 years ago

    it doesn't come natural to me either but God I love to hear it. Occasionally if the mood is right and I feel comfortable a few phrases might slip out. But I really think if it is not something you naturally do or are comfortable with then it might not work so good. It could come across as forced, a bit like porn. but it does seem that lots of men like woman to ask for their cum (some like begging) particularly when receiving a blow job. something like "will you cum for me baby" as you are on your knees making eye contact stroking his cock during a blow job.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    "Oh my god!!!! I've shit myself!!!" That's sure to make him laugh or gag!!! :p - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    If you don't mind me putting in my 2cents worth... I think if you are made to feel really comfortable by your partner & they have really turned you on! You shouldn't have too much trouble... Start off slow & say something sexy to him... Probably will drive him wild wanting more!! Something simple like you love when he's indide you... Or just tell him assertively when it feels really good that you don't want him to stop keep doing what he's doing... Start small get confident, your imagination will be the only thing that holds you back!!! I love when a girl is assertive enough to just say something... Doesn't have to be dirty... Really takes the intimacy to a new level!!... Have fun... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Just ask him what he wants to hear...Some people can make a phone book sound sexy,others just make me want to laugh..... Men always seem to like women saying "oh God I cantt wait to have your huge gorgeous cock inside my oh so wet pussy... Or..."'oh baby I just want to be your cum slut.."..,make sure you lower the tonr of your voice, and moan a bit,say a few oh yeah babys and you are good to go.....xxFreya -

  • lovman8

    lovman8

    10 years ago

    Start by just saying what you like about him or sex with him........then as you find words and get more comfortable talking during sex let your imagination run loose and potty mouth run wild........ Or give me you phone number and I'll coach you!

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    10 years ago

    I love your rock hard cock up against my clit before you slide it in to my soaking wet pussy. which has begun pulsating in anticipation of your thrusts..... fuck me like the little whore I am for you. Take me - make me cum baby.......... Just relax and get in touch with your inner slut - tell him how you feel - what makes you feel. Tell him what you want him to do to you............. There is nothing wrong with it and no need to feel embarrassed.....They love it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    For me the most important thing is that it needs to feel real….Nothing more of putting that someone sounding like a second class porn video.Just feel what you really like about sex with your partner…..Do you the feeling of his touch and where ? Do you like the way he kisses you and why ? Do you like the way he feels inside you….how he stretches you ?? Anyway, you get the feeling….just really think what you enjoy and try to find creative ways of expressing that !!Truth, openness and sincerity will find the way all the time…..Unless you are great at bullshit

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    It's actually role play,this is an alter ego,you and yet not you....it can be a liberating experience ...just let go of your inhibitions..explore the ultra sexy you...because it is about you...hugs Freya xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Playing some dirty music in the background :) If you are not up to it :) :p - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I really love the way..... You rest your VB on my back while we watch the discovery channel!!!! :p - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I LIKE TO WHISPER TO MY PARTNER WHAT i WOULD LIKE TO DO TO HER OR HER TO ME.

  • doubles72

    doubles72

    10 years ago

    Both love it... it can get pretty dirty sometimes!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Like my wife - she said one night "I love you fucking me" - that drove me on even more - but as it was in the early hours, I think she was half asleep. She has refused to do it again saying "That's not me".The same thing goes with reading sexy books eg 50 Shades - they go to Lifeline!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I'm not all that comfortable with it, unless I know someone really well. Even then, it's very much a mood thing, and everything has to be just so. On the other hand, when indulging in a little mobile communication device coitus, I find there is very little need to talk dirty....I find I can set the scene and activate the other party's imagination - as well as my own - without the need to use any dirty talk, which leads to a very intense time for all involved. :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Have you ever thought of having webcam role play fun. You can listen and watch erotic webcam that can stimulate you.Otherwise try some porn movies to turn you on.