Dispicable behaviour in meeting couples

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  Dirtyandfriendly

  7 years ago

  Welcome to online dickheads. It's happened to me and I'm pretty sure everyone on here, it's a shit situation travelling and organising everything and then that. If I ever meet someone online it will be close by and not to much out of my way. I find there are a lot of time wasters and those who do it for a laugh.

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  very rude and bad manners. We had a similar no contact after agreeing to meet. We were only passing through while travelling on holidays and were only catching up for a coffee so to speak. Then when we said we were an hour away where are we meeting "nothing" just silence then a week later got a msg saying sorry had a child home sick from school. Thats fine with us as family is first prioity but that could have been said at the time. Anyhow we try not to judge could be a million reasons but manners first and foremost. The fact that the couple asked after if your lady plays alone is very bad form. We have read your profile and would never be so disrespectful. Ok rant over. Lol - Posted from rhpmobile

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  Dirtyandfriendly

  7 years ago

  Is if you ever go to meet a couple or anyone always have a back up plan so you're not too inconvenienced. Find something that you can do if things like this happen. I always do, if I meet someone in the city I always plan something so if they are a no show I just go and do what I want.

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  sweetnsensual

  7 years ago

  Yes how long does it take to send a text unless they are in ICUThe worst part was asking if i would play alone!!!!My male partner would never even think of asking a girl in a couple situation if she would play alone

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  Mischeviouslad

  7 years ago

  I’m going to be the first response, and I don’t think you’re going to like it.... but you NEED to hear it. It will sound mean, though it is not my intention..... but I say the following deliberately to hopefully educate you (and others) towards better experiences Comm U Ni Cation A) you quite likely spoke to a single bloke and the female never existed B) if A is incorrect, you spoke with a couple only seeking single females regardless of what their profile says C) committing to hiring a car and a 5 hour drive for ‘coffee’ may seem logical to you.... but to them (and me) it sounds ridiculous D) that both you and your partner (?) missed all of the above cues does strike me as quite odd And I come back to the word *communication* I feel you didn’t read and understand their profile to have been so disappointed by them. I also strongly suspect there were no phone calls involving all 4 parties prior to the meeting, which is when conversation evaluated the dynamic and suitability to whether you should meet, or not. So it’s apparent to me in this topic that the screening of this couple wasn’t up to scratch, and the continued screening via effective communication led to you totally wasting your time and money. There is a lesson to be learned here. Take time to screen.... communicate effectively and thoroughly

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  MsJonesy

  7 years ago

  And I would add that it is a two way street....as most streets are. If you live in a remote area, or are looking to meet people a while away from you, meet half way. Literally and figuratively.

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  Loves2Play2016

  7 years ago

  Come in everyone lots of us go well out of our way with nice hotels and Travel, if you book a meeting follow through... - Posted from rhpmobile

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  AnnieWhichway

  7 years ago

  To get fucked around When you can get fucked around at home.......

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  Gr8distraction

  7 years ago

  You hire a carDrive the best part of 5 hrs , 460kms Of course its the guys fault But just quietly.................i've got a bridge in Sydney I'm looking to sell

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  EarthQueen

  7 years ago

  😂😂 Sorry OP but Annie’s nailed it. It can happens a lot so don’t invest too much in either time, money or emotion on someone you don’t know. What’s shitty is each one of these bad experiences tends to make you more cynical and gaurded (which can be a valuable trait on here )and that can stop you meeting someone decent in the future. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  DynamicCouple36

  7 years ago

  People get stood up on here often, it’s the name of the game. Just as many couples profiles are only a male. If someone (from RHP) wants to meet us (for drinks / dinner) we generally make them come to us. To a venue that we were going to go in any event. That way if “they” don’t arrive, we have fun regardless. It’s also a good idea to chat on the phone or do a Kik video call from the onset. That quickly sorts out the real from the fake. Best not to have unrealistic expectations from the start. That way you won’t be disappointed. We would never travel such a long distance, nor book flights & hotel rooms, simply to meet anyone on here. But people do do it , and there are countless stories of disappointment in this regard. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  Aristippusx2

  7 years ago

  Hii OP Was the other profile aware that only you (female) was playing? or was your partner catching up with you at your destination? We totally agree with the other posters that behavior is unwarranted.

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  Docnkc

  7 years ago

  I think everyone has some war stories. From now on if it isn't a general meet and greet and it is with a specific couple we will be wanting to see them both on cam at the same time for a chat before agreeing to meet. Made the mistake of agreeing to meet a couple in Sydney before heading to a club. Turned out their pics were about 15yo (and let me tell you those 15 years had not been kind at all!) and that she could barely speak a word of English. Live and learn and take some basic precautions always and you should limit the chance of the scammers out there getting a look in!

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  madotara69

  7 years ago

  Great emphasis is given 'girl girl fun, soft swap (to start with) 'girl girl fun, soft swap (for anything else) girl girl fun, full swap if chemistry is amazing. No single guys. Perhaps your partner (male) and his messages (too intense) are the reason and you know it. (we only want to play with women 'now') Anyhow, golden rule: girls talk on the phone unconditional to all excuses given to avoid the reality there is no girl, or no girl willing, even aware. Mado Mado Tara xx

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  72dave

  7 years ago

  I can understand feeling more pissed off because of the distance. But distance or not, the point is, were they/he a dickhead for sending messages then bailing. And the answer is yes. Maybe they're anonymous and will get away with it, maybe there are other steps you can take. They're still dishonest and they suck. There are better ways to suck. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  madotara69

  7 years ago

  Aside any debate This is a vent, all about time and cost wasted, look at me, look me waving hands up into the air and shaking them all about, a gloat. Reminds me of yuppies. If we were the couple on show, reading as it has been put. Be thinking, hey the couple end up just being her, she messaged us all the way to meeting up, then her boyfriend who had nothing to do with any of it, sends us a message (too intense) a jealous fucker warning us, well he can get fucked disrespectful insecure standover tactics, fuck off, fuck her, fuck it all.. wipe our hands at it and of all the time we had invested too, it's not all about you, but now you have made it all about us. Guys blowing up your arse, all while expressing how they would like you to be sucking their cock, but we just suck, inconsiderate arseholes, given a bad name to the swinging scene, and who the fuck are you, yuppies blind to their standards over and above any below their status quo, ocean views, unit here unit there, selfies. Put us on show. Classic example. Yeah good one 72Dave, we only suck if it were us. Others expressing worse. And there is better ways to suck, sooth your urge. Tara loves sucking cock it's her favourite thing to do, all the guys we have played with at some point compliment her for the energy she puts into sucking cock and how wet she becomes when deep throating.

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  sweetnsensual

  7 years ago

  Yes they knew it was just me turning up to meet them and the intense message he sent were I have arrived and free for a coffee when I got there and the next day I was leaving and happy for a coffee

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