RHP

RHP User

M66

Distrubing

March 19 2010

I joined a cam website and the bequest of a friend, she told me it was a laugh. Well after spending a bit of time there, I definitely didn't think it was funny at all. There were two instances that pissed me off no end.First was a girl from the States, from memory she was 25 or so. She was disabled, in a wheelchair, and either had MS, deaf or austic going by her speech. The banner on her cam said "No show" - she was just there to chat. But the abuse she was receiving for not flashing her boobs etc was incredible. And not just abuse, at one stage her dog jumped up on her lap, immediately about quarter of the room (she had about 500 viewers) demanded she fuck the dog. I must admit I was impressed by her demeaner, she just ignored all the fuckwits and carried on chatting to those who were not rude.The second was another young girl from Canada, very attractive, and this night was her first time online there. She was very upfront about not showing, only her face would be seen. Again, torrents of abuse, how dare a woman put her cam on and not fuck herself with the first object at hand. I won't even mention the fetish guys who screamed at her to show her feet or her armpits or her elbows (that quy cracked me up, he was very specific, only her left elbow, evidently the right one wasn't sexy enough for him).* Is it acceptable that just because someone is on an adult site, they must conform to the mob rule, that anything non-sexual will not be tolerated?* Why do seemingly normal people change once they get on the keyboard and become 100% arseholes, or are the arseholes in real life? Surely the don't act like that in public?* What would you have done if you were in those chat rooms? Joined in the abuse because the girls would not show? Just sit back and laugh at the idiotic behaviour of the sleazebags? Leave the room and search for a better cam? Get angry and report have the room to the moderators?I think most can guess what I did lol Yep, Mr Boring did report a couple then actually contacted the moderators to get one of them in the disabled girls room, he did clean things up a bit but of course as soon as he left it started up again. I have seen the same thing happen here in the RHP chat rooms, women getting abused for not being naked. Of course, 99% of the guys that are ripping into her for not being naked will not have their cam on, hell most don't even have a profile pic from what I have heard.

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Mooka, it is terrible how some people behave when the get behind a keyboard. People who demand shows, belittle people or are just plain rude get up my nose on here sometimes, and yep it is usually the gutless ones with no cams. We are all here to find our own idea of fun and whether that be to chat, to display or do a show that should be each individuals choice and that should be free to do so without being pressured, harrassed by armchair directors or ridiculed. Guess it just comes down to respect for each other and manners, something some people seem to lack unfortunately. Silly thing is if everyone behaved I am sure their would be a lot more people willing to show.... So to all the idiots, pull you heads in a little and show some manners, to all the great people in here, thank you for making this a good place to while away some free time. Take care everyone.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    The world hasnt changed at all.... I remember the same kind of thing going on at the olympic swimming pool when guys get in a group and outnumber a girl... being the extraordinarily talented swimmer that I am... errr... that I was... . I rescued more than one pretty lady trapped up the deep end from a gang of groping guys back in the day. :p What a spoil sport Mooka. Hugs G

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Hey Mooka, Keep being one of the good guys ! There is hope if each of us thinks first about our actions before we just follow the mob. RHP chat rooms are better than the one you described but there's still lots of pressure to conform. I can confidently say I've never done anything because a guy has told me to via chat (except maybe lower my cam)! I think you need to be an assertive confident woman to deal with some of the pressures from camming. IF you just do what you want and ignore the voyeurs then it's fun. I think a lot of guys get off from the power of "directing" a woman on cam and watching her oblige. As I mentioned if it's a game and I'm camming with someone special or joking around with some of my female friends then it's fun but I ALWAYS stay in control. If it doesn't feel right I don't do it. I know there are many women who are vulnerable and desperate for love and affection. They believe camming will give them the attention they crave. It doesn't ! It can be very dangerous. Hugs Miss Saturn

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    and i thought camming was whacking an erson hiflo 1H into the big block.ahahahahahahahahahahaif they flash their titties and i reply WOOHOO is that bad.have checked out RHP's version a coupla times but givin a miss since some queensland bloke called me gayboyand blocked me. fuck i was in the kitchen getting a beer.fuckn didn't know he was gunna get his gear off.aahahahahahahahahahahahahaEarl

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I think Miss Saturn has summed it up quite well in what she has said. In my experiences of camming there have been good and bad instances(im epileptic and one time i was camming and i told the person i had to go because i felt like i was going to have a seizure,but he was like please stay abit longer(1min i stayed)- and i went to lie down and i woke up with a huge bruise on my lip and a headache like no other. For the guys i think its the excitement of perhaps seeing something spectacular so they badger the person,until they get what they want.I can understand they just want to see some action to get off,but some of the time we might not be feeling up to camming,just chatting.You shouldn't be hurled abuse just because you won't show.Men when they are on the internet think anything slides but in real life they wouldn't dare say a mean thing unless called for. Of course you can block and report people that are being offensive but just remember for every person that is being blocked there's another one replacing him.I blocked and reported someone the other day off this site and he was still hassling me up until yesterday when i told him to leave me alone completely. sexyme21

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Dont they have block privi there mooka? Girls have to stand up for themselves on these sites...not take the crap and be able to give crap back to the men. huggies sweetpetite41xxxxxxxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    It's the same everywhere, and don't forget it's not always guys doing the directing. I've often seen women in RHP chatrooms telling guys if they dont get their gear off on their cam they wouldnt talk to them. Stupid but true, and similar to the guys directing those women are not on cam themselves. Of course the majority are guys doing it simply because there are so many guys to females and so any female on cam suddenly has the focus directed at her. I think a lot of it is immature guys that do it.I spose the only thing to do is block and report. Blocking will stop people being able to view the cam so if they have any sense they will straighten up or have no cams to view. Don't know if that was an option on the site you refer to. In some places the women are so skittish they overly block people though. I know of two that have blocked me that I have no idea why I was blocked. Certainly wasn't for any of the reasons mentioned above, I'm not that immature.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Not that i get into chat much nowadays but it's great to chat with you and some other peopleon there...do i cam, ya know i don't ....but did once...till i realized the guy wasn't the only one who could see...lolthat was not long after i joined rhp.xoxoxmummadid some peeking though via request...skips off giggling

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    you know why hahahahahahps is this one of the boring posts mooka was referring to?