M49
Do I have a chance if I'm married
July 27 2010
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RHP User
14 years ago
however, that said - i do know of those that prefer the NSA side of being invovled with attached guys....hence why some are here....
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RHP User
14 years ago
Except you are in Melbourne and I think you are about to be sorry that you started this thread cos all and sundry are about to judge and condemn you. Good luck!!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
The vast majority of ladies on here choose not to play with married guys and that has to be respected as their choice :) There are a few who will and most of those are ladies who are in the same situation as yourself, seeking something extra outside of their marriage.Just be honest in what you're looking for and why. It may take some time to find someone who will accept that but they are out there.WP
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RHP User
14 years ago
I agree with Desserts. At least your honest there are pole out there that say they are single and are really attached or married but they will get found out eventually. Happy hunting x
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RHP User
14 years ago
A snowballs in hell lol But seriously, married women seeking some on the side are your best bet.Single woman mostly always want the option of something more and if your married that can't happen, but there are always the exceptions to the rule.It is a dangerous game though (unless you are playing with your partners blessing) with a lot of potential for hurt.....so think carefully...is it worth it when you weigh p the probable consequences?Personally i never had any succes on rhp (i did have and still do have my partners blessing) but i did on another site.Cheers Nev
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'SWEETIEPIE2010' Sorry babes, i wouldn't touch you with someone elses 10 ft pole but there will be girls who will so don't loose hope :) xx Mrs S But he doesn't say he is here without his wife's permission - I think that is something we have all assumed. After all Sweetiepie your married!!! But have to agree I am personally am not interested in married men who are cheating on their wives. But that is personal preference thing. Good luck Luv Meeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think your best bet are women in a similar 'attached' situation who are on here seeking the same void to be filled...they are definitely more understanding about your situation and non judgemental. However, don't be surprised to learn that some single women do intentionally seek married or attached men as there is more chance of the relationship remaining purely sexual and nothing else. One figures if the person is attached then they won't have the worry of the other person wanting a full on relationship with them. Mind you it works both ways..... I have come across males seeking attached women simply because they are tired of meeting women who say they just want a 'friend with benefits' or 'no strings sex' but ultimately are kidding themselves and the men find themselves with women who do actually want more of a relationship with them...its all misleading and I do understand the guys who get frustrated with this. I'm certainly not saying ALL women are like this but it does happen....I'm just going by the stories I hea, thats all! Keep seeking...and you shall find!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Just because he is here with a sinlges profile, and openly states that he is married does not in anyway say he is without permission. I know other married people in that position. You have to appreciate his honesty. Personally I am not adverse to playing with married men, when seeking fun with NSA for me they work a treat. Married men are often after the same thing, I dont have to worry about them getting attached (yes I know thats a generalisation but then we all make assumptions on peoples intentions when all we have to go by is the written word) nor do I have to worry about a lack of discretion ( I dont need everyone knowing what I am up to). Scheduling can often be tight but my life is pretty busy as it is anyway and thats ok with me. Niceguy there are girls who dont mind the attachements you have, what some would consider the baggage you carry, be persistent, be pleasant and most of all dont be disenheartened in reality this is a numbers game afterall. Continue with your honesty and good luck Kisses Focus
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'm currently seeing a married man who is cheating on his wife. It works for both of us. Its a big risk for you and it will be for you. Just think about why you are doing it and if its right. But most of all be honest and up front in your profile that you are married and do not have permission to play around. That why i liked the guy i met, no games. good luck
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RHP User
14 years ago
Thanks for all the messages.To make it clear: my wife doesn't know. And yes, I know that it may hurt. The whole situation we're in is hurting already...And I already got some nice messages - a pity no one was from Melbourne
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xFunlovingx
14 years ago
Firstly....I used to see a married man from these sites (his wife didn't know). Suited me great as I was only after the sex and definately did not want any emotions attached to the sex. There are single women out there that want married men just for the sex with no complications. Niceguy_76, you do not need to explain to anyone why you are here (personal details), we are not in your shoes, so have no right to judge what you do with YOUR life. Now for my secondly bit...I can't believe how nice everyone is on this Forum post!! Not too long ago a lovely girl was absolutely crucified for doing the exact same thing. She came to the Forums for help and ended up leaving the site because of the attacks on her!! Talk about double standards!! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Great response xfunlovingx .....a street smart,openminded and wise lady not bound by social acceptance "HOW REFRESHING" PS......... Just LLLLLLLLLLuv the boots (LOL)
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'm pleasantly surprised at the responses here in comparison to the ones aimed at that poor woman who also mentioned on the Forums that she was married and hubby didn't know. That's why I made the comment I did earlier as I somehow expected the same responses here. NIceguy, hope you find what you are looking for here and hope things work out for youXX
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RHP User
14 years ago
http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/other-married-woman-play-29228The OP read... do other woman play too? im new to rhp, but am seeking couples to play with, and the one question i get asked a lot is, why do i play without my partner's knowledge? it seems ok for married men to seek & play, but i feel that i am being judged? what your opinion on this? Going by this thread, it would seem that the lady was right. More hopefully, the people from that thread learned better...Mrs P'
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RHP User
14 years ago
So you reckon people were nicer to me as I am male. Maybe, that's quite possible.Anyway, that's good to hear from people here. I was afraid no one would respond as I was new and a guest.
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xFunlovingx
14 years ago
Quoting 'MrnMrsPeachypear'http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/other-married-woman-play-29228The OP read... do other woman play too? im new to rhp, but am seeking couples to play with, and the one question i get asked a lot is, why do i play without my partner's knowledge? it seems ok for married men to seek & play, but i feel that i am being judged? what your opinion on this? Going by this thread, it would seem that the lady was right. More hopefully, the people from that thread learned better...Mrs P' That lady used to chat in the chatrooms and I always found her nice and respectful and fun to chat with. I just felt so sorry for her and didn't think that alot that was said was warranted. I agree...I hope that people did learn from that! Now for the dumb question of the month...what is OP? lol xFunlovingx
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xFunlovingx
14 years ago
Is it "Original Post"? xFunlovingx
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RHP User
14 years ago
and/or original poster learned thanks to the expansive RHP community ;-) I'm sorry the lady felt she had to leave, I hope she still has somewhere to be herself and chat with people. Hugs... Mrs P'
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