Do events have to be full

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  OP, weren't you 57 yesterday?

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  Eiliethiya

  7 years ago

  Everywhere with no expectations... saves on disappointment! I have gone to large parties (m&g's, etc) and had fun just enjoying the social aspect (no expectations of meeting someone ir going home with someone). And I've had just as much fun with a small bunch of women friends (including the girl's meet from rhp), or with only 1-2 friends. Good times and fun are what you make of it! - Posted from rhpmobile

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  HotNightsGC

  7 years ago

  I guess the art of socialising and mingling doesn't come easy to everyone. Some people feel 'safer' and more secure when in the company of friends. I guess this is why you often see small groups socialising together at clubs instead of them mingling with newcomers or people they don't know. We've found that sometimes the nights where the crowds are smaller can sometimes deliver the better experiences. But it really depends what experience your after and also your attitude when walking through the front door. Am I here to push my boundaries? Or am I here to just chill and see where the night goes? It's so individual and comes down to personal preferences. HNP.... - Posted from rhpmobile

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  LittleGiant

  7 years ago

  We went to a themed event at a swingers club a few weeks back and it was disappointing empty - We were literally the first people there and there were no more than 20 people by the time we left. Also...I spent ages getting ready and felt pretty ripped off no one was there to see it! LOL! Despite that, we still had heaps of fun - luckily a couple we knew were there so we hung out, played beer pong, twister. Most people didn't participate though. I don't think they expect people to 'land in their lap' but maybe they aren't as outgoing as others. I certainly am not and find it scary to approach other people. I think it helps when events have larger numbers, it creates a party atmosphere. I can still have fun if i'm with someone I enjoy spending time with, but i'd rather more numbers. Miss Little xx

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  DynamicCouple36

  7 years ago

  Is quality as opposed to quantity. The "quality " of those at a party / event is far more important ( for us ) than simply having an event packed to capacity. Less is more ! - Posted from rhpmobile

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  3someparties

  7 years ago

  we prefer there to be more people, especially other couples, if we go to an event. Sure you can still have fun and converse but I can do that home with friends. An event is called that for a reason. It's s'posed to have numbers and a bit of atmosphere. We don't go there looking for "people to land in our lap", in fact when we go to events it's rarely with the thought of having some naughty fun at all. If it comes along it's a bonus but we're usually going for a night out, so we expect some type of atmosphere if we're putting in the effort and, more people usually equates to more of an atmosphere.

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  swingalingson

  7 years ago

  No I was not 57 unfortunately. Wish I was 69 though, maybe you would liked to have joined me. All good feed back on events, keep em coming. Always great to see different responses on subjects

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  The_Antichrist

  7 years ago

  I'm awkward as fuck....I feel like a square peg in a round hole at most events/parties etc, and for that reason, I do prefer there to be a generous amount of people so I can escape when stuff gets too bad.... - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  I was being cheeky, you Benjamin Button you :)

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Have to be full to enjoy? No. Talking play events, I went to what was supposed to be a GB event once, just me and one lady guest turned up (apart from the hosts). The hosts left us to it, and certainly had fun! :p Social events? It depends. Speaking regarding singles events, I've been at small, more intimate events, and had great conversations (if not connections), and the opposite, packed to the rafters, standing room only, super loud music, and barely managed a conversation or two. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  megz85g

  7 years ago

  I generally go to parties and clubs with the expectation of play, so of course prefer more people to choose from, I don't just fuck anyone so if there is a small crowd it's less likely I will find something - Posted from rhpmobile

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  boobsandbusted

  7 years ago

  sometimes it's hard to see the wood through the trees ,when places get over full Mr b - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  When I go to the supermarket I want full shelves not half empty ones. I get more choice, and I can choose what takes my fancy when I get there. Doesn't mean I put every produce in my wide gaping trolley. Sheesh Same same.

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Would anyone be kind enough to point me in the direction of said swingers parties. I'm looking for laid back casual non judgemental groups. I'm not an oil painting so I don't expect the hotties to go for me. If you can help out please message me on my profile I'd appreciate it so much. As for this post. Surely you have to be able to mingle to enjoy any setting be it full or not. Yes you go with the intention of hooking up but if it doesn't happen you can still make a good night of it. Even as a voyeur. Enjoy it for whatever it's worth. 💜Tracy💜 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  we organise parties and events of this sort!our all female event teams collective view is QUALITY not QUANTITYso far, we never fill a venue past 70 percent capacity. the september 9th party will only reach max. 50 percent capacity. we put up a lot of barriers to filter out the timewasters vs those who are keen.pb: ant

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