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Do guys 'Swallow' or 'Spit'?
January 18 2008
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RHP User
17 years ago
LOL!!! No one is going to answer this one!!!! Told you I'm new to this!! :)
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malfun
17 years ago
should this be secret mens business
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RHP User
17 years ago
Hi Rockguitar, Obviously I am not a guy, but I imagine guys would be very much like females when it comes to this?... Some LOVE to swallow cum, some wanna puke at the idea and avoid it all costs, and some are ambivilant and could take it or leave it. I don't know... maybe some actual guys will shed some light on the subject for you. xxR
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RHP User
17 years ago
Hi Rock as soubriquet says.. it varies. I generally swallow but it can vary on each occsasion.. all depends on how I'm feeling on the day and VERY much on the other guy too. Some guys expect / almost demand that you swallow, others want to see their load on you so will blow over your face or body while others arent fussed either way as long as they get off.. As with all sexual preferences/ kinks/ fetishes etc you will find on this site.. it comes down to each to their own....
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RHP User
17 years ago
I've watched many male-male blow jobs (yum!) Only ONCE have I ever seen a guy "spit" - and that was a straight first-timer who decided at that point that he didn't enjoy MM and wouldn't do it again lol. The rest of the time, its either swallow with PLEASURE or don't get it in your mouth at all :) .... can't believe no guys are actually answering this....... come on I could answer for half of you! ;) How disappointing :( nadi xx
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RHP User
17 years ago
i dont see why this would be elligble for secret mens business unlessyour looking for only male reponses. Personally as female never having seen MM action, i rather curious and int end to follow this thread though i would say its would eb the same as with women- it will vary person to person. I often think that though its changed quite abit over the years there are stil some taboos in mainstream society over MM as opposed to MF, or perhaps even FF. I'm all for breaking these taboos and bringing into discussion. It doesnt matter what gender you are love/sex is love/sex. :) But thats my rant ... Thank rockguitar, for having the courage to bring this up. G_Ana
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RHP User
17 years ago
Always one person in every crowd.. Nadi... So you think you can make the call for half the guys on this site.. Big call... or is that purely a self inflated ego at work.. And as female.. I don't think I would make such an outrageous statment like that.. Then again... I don't think I it know all..
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RHP User
17 years ago
What an articulate sweetie you are Girl_Anachronism, and I agree fully. I'm all in favour of men doing the swallowing for a change, though I'm sure the Romans were doing it back in the times when Nero was fiddling. But Girl, there are times when sex is just sex. Always wondered what the issue was with swallowing anyway? Is it seen as an act of submission? Who feels empowered the most, the sucker or the suckee? When we ask a man to masturbate all over our bosoms, is that because we find it empowering to have a man perform this act as we watch? Of course it can also be seen as a free and renewable source of skin cream. Do men respond to the presence of sperm in the same way we do? Or is it just a waste product that feels better out than in? What ever the case, just doing it is much more fun that dwelling on the mechanics. Just so glad when and if it happens, no matter what they're doing, as long as they do it well. ps Post menopausal matron here, shower me in it and I won't complain.
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RHP User
17 years ago
I'm a straight bloke who is up for many things, if and when I get lucky, but my personal preference is strictly an indulgence with the female gender rather than emulating them. I guess one would need to conduct a survey to determine the statistical breakdown of practices of males visiting this site, to accurately state who will do what with whom. I do know that a significant proportion of women partake in blow jobs, but many are reluctant to swallow. If Nadi is correct in assuming men are different in that sense, then I still have a lot to learn for an old codger.
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playfulhorse
17 years ago
Personally i love to swallow, but it does depend on how the guys cum tastes. It can taste different and some guys dont taste nice, so then i just let it dribble away. ;)
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RHP User
17 years ago
Well I have only had two experiences involving males, each time with a couple. The first time I swallowed and cannot say i really enjoyed that part of it (don't ask me why just didn't). The second time i chose not to have him cum in my mouth and totaly enjoyed the experience. Like most have said it comes down to personal preference, I choose not too and in saying that I would not expect my partners to do the same if I would not do it. Berri
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twowithnolimits
17 years ago
Ouch baredsoul, did someone strike a raw nerve... Not sure if nadi was speaking for all the guys on this site listed as gay, bi-sexual, bi-curious, experimental or whatever or all the ones who list themselves as straight, and then contact us or reveal in their correspondence th they arent but they are terrified that someone will play moral judge and arbitrator with their life,...but i can assure you that if we did include the latter your view of the world is more than likely going to be shattered... In my experience, and it is quite extensive, and yes bared we can trade data if you wish,.....female bisexuality runs at ~70%+, males publicly at ~ 25%-30% but in reality is closer to 50% esepcially in threesomes, foursomes and group situations, and as the majority of males on this site are happy to play in groups according to their profile, nadi is probably not far wrong... what i found most interesting is why you would turn a perfectly reasonable discussion into an opportunity to make what is really a personal attack on someone you do not know, in fact your reply contributes nothing to the substance of the discussion as far as i can see?????? and i may be wrong but i thought i detected just a hint of tongue in cheek humour there too,...but maybe im not uptight enough.. dont forget this is an adult sexual contact site so the sample data is going to be heavily skeweed toward the sexual adventurous, acccepting, explorative and open minded ;-) care to share what made you soooo sensitive bared? Paul
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RHP User
17 years ago
Thankyou NtG, articulate but lacking the ability to type on occasion. :) From my own experience i like to swallow because i like the taste and it is a gives me power in a sense, a part of them in me and to know that they gained such release in an activity i was involved with, such satisfaction. ALternately this power could be twisted- the having part of you in someone else, therefore partially owning them in a way. Purely theories and thoughts. :) G_Ana
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RHP User
17 years ago
As a non-smoker,who has only sucked smoking guys cocks, I can tell you that I spit, cause it tastes like a bad smoked oyster lol
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RHP User
17 years ago
What a crack up.. data !! Professor are you publishing the results of your findings? Like my post said.."big call too make the inference "You could speak for half the guys on this site." Tongue in cheek... or tongue in arse.? Spat it instead of swallowing professor..
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twowithnolimits
17 years ago
just for you bared the two key questions both of which you ignored were.. 1. Why attack an individual when this is a topic forum and 2. What are you contributing to theme of the discussion other than some petty vitriol? Despite a second post i still dont see anything meaningfull on the question that was first posed, which by all accounts was a good one for both men and women to read and pursue. With changig social attitudes it is gradually becoming more acceptable to admit that mm play is almost as common as ff play, although some dinosauric males and some sexually inseure females still seem to think the latter is ok but there is something wrong with the former. In our experience rock, about 75% swallow. Hey bared having been involved with and run swinging groups and many other forms of adult play groups and networks for the past 28 years i think i might know a thing or two, so yes , i can give you "data".... Sounds to me like hubby left you for another man and you have a chip or two on your shoulder now..., or do yo just need to offload some angst and and rhpers you dont know are an easy target? Hugs hun, i think you need some ;-) Paul
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RHP User
17 years ago
GA you really make me hard sometimes. *Growls*
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RHP User
17 years ago
Just doing the math here. If Mr twowithnolimits was, "...involved with and run swinging groups and many other forms of adult play groups and networks for the past 28 years", and he's presently 42, then he got an early start at the age of 14. Now if Mrs twowithnolimits was the person involved in this early activity, then she was either in the womb, or a glint in her daddy's eyes. I'm most impressed.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Really fellas its a simple question, Swallow or spit ,,,, not are you a raging homosexual... Perhaps someone should tell some of you cum tastes like beer but then some of you probably already know by tasting your own. Ill answer it . Both
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twowithnolimits
17 years ago
sorry for the concern eunuch, let me clarify more explicitly i got into fetish play at 13, my gf got herself a gf and we all played at 14, my then gf and i started attending swing partys around town and similar events at 17. i started my own swinging circle at ~ 20-21. mrs nolimits is not that person lol however she is indeed much younger than me as are many of my/our female friends similarly i invite you too to comment on the thread started by rock and not address your posts to an individual, always concerned when i see guys as old as yourself on sites like this still professing to be straight ;-) Paul
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RHP User
17 years ago
It was an interesting and obviously accurate observation on my behalf. Hit the nail on the head more that your speculative assumption that I may not be straight. I know not why you question my integrity on this matter? But it's water off a ducks back to me. It is impressive if you have been active in these circles since a young age. There is a decade between our ages, and even though that be the case, you certainly had a head start in comparison. Now I'm not making a value judgement on that, just found it fascinating. Even though one may be straight, is does not mean that one does not have an open mind, so I also find the whole topic here intriguing, purely as a student of human erotic endeavours. If a person is interested in the stars and the heavens, it does not mean that they are an astronaut. Now I tend to see humour in just about anything, particularly if irony is a factor. I don't believe anything I say is mean spirited, but if I unintentionally get under the skin of some people, then I suggest that they try being a little more open minded themselves, and think about it laterally.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Oh dear think a group hug is called for... ahhhh, i said hug not blow job :) Honestly guys was a simple question yet again that turns into a slagging match in here, just answer and leave be, everyone has their own opinions whether others like it or not, just chill and enjoy what others say. shy
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RHP User
17 years ago
I'm all with not2shygirl in a group hug. Now if the rest of the group is running late... Whoopsy-do!
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RHP User
17 years ago
Hey all well to swallow is fun but! If it's someone you haven't known for long or well enough. Prefer to swallow if it's a big forceful cock. Is that secret mens dribble!? Ta M
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RHP User
17 years ago
Oralover: i dont give blow jobs to people i dont know ell so no issue there for me. As for big and forceful...well not my preference as it allows me more "artistry". Each to their own of course...im not fond of gagging either, though some enjoy that. G_Ana
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RHP User
17 years ago
personally I like to take it in the mouth and then dribble it down my chin and onto my chest. I like cum showers as well, BTW.
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RHP User
17 years ago
for us after lots of play hubby likes to see me getting sprayed on my face and tits then licks it up and passionately kisses me i suppose we eventually swallow it but have much more fun swapping it around our mouths
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RHP User
17 years ago
i haven't swallowed as yet but i guess there's always a first time rather it blown over me
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