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Do many woman enjoy anal?
May 10 2019
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SSExplorer
6 years ago
Oh Tom, so you’re a virgin who watches too much porn and asks every girl he meets whether she likes anal? Maybe there is a reason this tactic isn’t quite working for you? I really am enjoying your foray into forum town though so please keep going :)
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RHP User
6 years ago
I'm asking the questions on here so I don't have to ask in person, but is it common? I have some girl friends but they are not into that i've never came across anyone who does like anal that's why I just assumed it's not common. But then on other dating sites it seems to be more common than I thought
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DynamicCouple36
6 years ago
Tom Your string of previous posts speaks volumes. Clearly you have been watching far too much porn and now the lines between fantasy & reality have been blurred. Whilst the women in the porn movies you watch, may appear to be enjoying anal (they are after all paid actresses) this does not mean that they are really enjoying it, nor that its not painful for them. Many women don’t enjoy anal at all. They find it to be uncomfortably painful. Just because you see it in porn movies does not mean it’s real nor enjoyable. Take squirting for example. Before porn movies turned it into something “sensational and sought after” it was known, in the medical profession by another name , urinary incontinence . Sadly so many males watch porn and learn the wrong things by what they watch (this has been well documented in countless published studies) . They believe that the women in the movies enjoy what is being done to them . Slapping, spanking, chocking, pinching, use and abuse and general disrespect, calling them dirty little sluts, whores, bitches during sex. Sadly these guys then copy the same acts when they have sex with a woman, thinking that she will enjoy it, when in fact she may actually hate it. In this regard we speak from first hand experience.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Hey Tom The answer to your question is there are some who like anal and there are plenty that don’t ,every body is different with different tastes we know a lady who really enjoys anal and also know another lady who really enjoys being choked but that doesn’t mean every lady enjoys it so you need to work out what the lady your with enjoys and forget the porn relax and enjoy the moment for what it is
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RHP User
6 years ago
Okay good advice, i'll avoid anything anal related from now on! straight to the point just what I was looking for
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RHP User
6 years ago
I think you're right i'm too kinky and most woman i'm realizing don't like the same things as I do, it's probably like you said from watching too much porn. I'll have to take a break from porn too or just stick to watching regular sex
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Freaky_Fun
6 years ago
"i'm too kinky and most woman i'm realizing don't like the same things as I do," 😂😂😂 yes we're all shy, delicate flowers. Well at least l am 😇
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RHP User
6 years ago
aww but I love flowers too <3 where are all the flowers at
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RHP User
6 years ago
I'm shy at first too I can relate to that, but when i'm comfortable around you i'm kinky ;)
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FeistyFatty
6 years ago
"I'm too kinky" lol...... your kink is all in your head though babes.... you're a virgin.
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DynamicCouple36
6 years ago
Tom Yet in previous posts you state that you are a virgin ?
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RHP User
6 years ago
You can do a little test while licking her pussy, get a finger nice and wet and put it on her bum, if she jumps a mile apologise and keep licking. But if she doesn’t.....
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Libertine001
6 years ago
Strange to say your kinky when apparently your a virgin!!!! Maybe just have straight sex first and find out what you like before you hurt someone with all that you are asking? I'm sure that you wouldn't like it if the woman you are with pulled out a strap-on and told you she wanted to fuck you..😲
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MrFire
6 years ago
Hi Tom, I just wanted to put a concept to you, to consider for any intimate situations you may find yourself in. When you're next face-to-face with a girl or guy that you like, in that moment of closeness & eye-contact, about to kiss for the 1st time. Stop & stay there, linger right there in that closeness. Looking into each other's eyes, feeling their breath on your face, hearing them breath. You want to touch. Excitement fills you, nerves tingling, adrenaline is coursing throughout your body. They will be feeling the same. Stay in that moment for 20 seconds. Then another 20. Then longer if you can master your excitement. (Tantric scrolls state people Sayed there for hours, even longer). Why?... because you will feel far closer to that person, your feelings for them will build faster, than had you not waited in that moment. Then, when you lean forward & kiss. That kiss will be ripe, it will be full of the passion & erotic love you now feel for that person & that for you. Your patience will have heightened your closeness & the levels of your ecstacy together. It's not about phelching a pregnant lady or the biggest double dildo or anal. It's about intimacy, connection & desire.
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MsJonesy
6 years ago
Or you could just ask her if she likes anal play. Actually gaining consent prior to shoving a finger up someone's arse. Old fashioned concept I know, to actually just ask.😩
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MsSuperFoxy
6 years ago
Just NO! You just do not do that. It is asking for trouble. Men who do that are creepy, selfish and dangerous in the bedroom. Ms Foxy
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AnnieWhichway
6 years ago
Plenty like it but they also like to be prepared ie douche. Like a lot of things, women are in charge. If she wants anal, she will be prepped and ready. She will make the move knowing few men would knock it back.So.....just go for normal play and don't stress about asking. If it happens it will because she is ready to go there. An ex l had when asked by guys for anal sex said yes but only after she fucked them with her strap on. She had no takers.
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AnnieWhichway
6 years ago
Plenty like it but they also like to be prepared ie douche. Like a lot of things, women are in charge. If she wants anal, she will be prepped and ready. She will make the move knowing few men would knock it back.So.....just go for normal play and don't stress about asking. If it happens it will because she is ready to go there. An ex l had when asked by guys for anal sex said yes but only after she fucked them with her strap on. She had no takers.
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megz85g
6 years ago
Also, even if 100 of us on here say yes we love it, doesn’t mean the next girl you take on a date will. Ask questions of her, and gain her consent rather than a bunch of random strangers on the internet.
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MsSuperFoxy
6 years ago
Funny that. Most men want to do anal to women when they get offeres to be fucked by a strap on, they clench their bums so tight, that they get a third ball. 😁 Ms Foxy
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Mischeviouslad
6 years ago
Wants to ask on here..: .... so he doesn’t have to ask in person There is just so much about that which screams “red flag” to me
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RHP User
6 years ago
Who said anything about shoving a finger up her ass ? I said touch her bum. I’ll be sure to take my phone and record video consent before I change positions shall I ? Men taking the lead a bit unsettling for you is it ? Grow up. I’m out.
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RHP User
6 years ago
If a woman wants a cock in her ass you will know before you even think about it yourself
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precious142
6 years ago
If a lady was into anal, I would think it would be listed in her profile..........under Sexual Interests... No???
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SSExplorer
6 years ago
Comet, love your response. Anal and other stuff.....these things also change over time with some. They may enjoy something for a while then not enjoy it any more. Anal at the right moment used to send Mrs S to another world but after birth number 2 it became too uncomfortable so it’s not pleasurable for her any more so of course not enjoyable for me either. I enjoy it for the thrill it can give to the receiver more than the feeling, the other place feels so much better for me. Oh and to be a trouper I have asked her to have a go on me a few times, again it wasn’t enjoyable for either one of us Ymmv
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RHP User
6 years ago
To all off you replying to this post...... what was actually you anal sex experience????
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RHP User
6 years ago
Thanks for the replies, I am virgin and i'm just asking questions nothing wrong with asking. How else am I supposed to know if woman like anal if i'm a virgin? I don't have that type of experience which is why I asked for your experienced opinions. From what i'm read it doesn't sound like many do, all you had to say was "no". Yes i'm aware each person is different, I wouldn't do anything without consent. Some of these replies are savage but I should of expected it lol
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