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Do men like women to initiative sex

March 05 2018

Mrs here im curious if men like women to initiative in a relationship or does this make men feel pressured and a turn off.?? - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • Rlee552

    Rlee552

    7 years ago

    I can only speak for myself - it’s hot when a lady initiates sex, when she desires you and just can’t wait.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Validation is exercised when a woman expresses her want for her man by imitating. Initiating removes anticipation and increases synchronised and longer sex. Initiation is a road to a town called Satisfied. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    It's a really turn on I think

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I find it a real turn on 4 a woman to take charge

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    ⚡️ - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Some men do, some don’t. The ones that don’t have told me it’s too much pressure. (I know this question was directed to men, but just wanted to give my 2c) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Thanks Rlee. 😕😕😕 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Dirtyandfriendly

    Dirtyandfriendly

    7 years ago

    Only had it happen to me once, I fell asleep and woke up to her playing wth herself, stroking me off and riding me. I felt used and taken advantage of and a little dirty because she not wanted me for one thing. I loved it!!!!!!! Doesn't happen as often as you like, it should happen a lot more.

  • gazpacho

    gazpacho

    7 years ago

    I much prefer it, Mistress. My natural subbie demeaner shines through in those circumstances and I aim to please. Hugs Gaz

  • BiPlay69

    BiPlay69

    7 years ago

    Personal preference I guess, some may say it goes to a man's sense of self-worth or security in himself. For me, I find it a turn on and refreshing when a woman takes charge, as it does seem to be the norm that us guys are expected to 'lead the charge' so to speak. Traditions just lingering about influencing our actions without us often realising it. To each their own, and some simple honest communication usually solves any misconceptions or assumptions from going wrong.

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    7 years ago

    I’m the masculine type who tends to lead. However it’s a lot of fun to drive a woman mad with desire so that she ends up jumping your bones too 🤪 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Always like it that way, then i don't feel like I'm maybe pressuring her, or that she may not bethat interested but doing it to please.

  • boxestotick

    boxestotick

    7 years ago

    Yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes. Just doesn’t happen often enough. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • boxestotick

    boxestotick

    7 years ago

    Yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes. Just doesn’t happen often enough. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Thanks everyone much appreciated. 😊😊😊 happy swinging - Posted from rhpmobile

  • The_Phoenix

    The_Phoenix

    7 years ago

    Major turn on for me. Being woken to naughty hands or being led away by a seductive minx... brrrr. Feeling Desired is pretty good, certainly let’s you know their into you. BB - Posted from rhpmobile

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    7 years ago

    .. tbough I do wonder if the guys may feel somewhat intimidated to perform or does it have the opposite effect? Just a question.... :-) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I would say no inspirit I think it would only have a negative effect on insecure guys who like to think they are in charge and control of everything. Personally, I think it's awesome. Love girls saying what they want and when they want it.

  • AJ_1986

    AJ_1986

    7 years ago

    It's a serious turn on when a girl takes control and initiates sex Puts you on your back gives a wicked blow job and then climbs on top slowly grinding you to.the point that your begging for her to put it in. Then she sits down on it and rides it hard like a true cowgirl - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Fun2bhad

    Fun2bhad

    5 years ago

    Personally.... no bigger turn on than a woman taking the initiative... Very arousing

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Not intimidated, not pressured. Just suspicious. Life’s lessons I guess.

  • 86Jasindy

    86Jasindy

    5 years ago

    As a woman with a very high sex drive, from my experience the answer is no. Yes, if it is a casual thing or early days, but not in a long term relationship. I'm every relationship I have had, it ends up being me doing the initiating and often it feels like it is a chore for them to come to the party. With my current partner, he puts in 80+ hours of work every week and probably 95% of the time agrees to get naughty with me, so really can't complain 😊 But, it can be very deflating to the ego being knocked back

  • GoodKarma

    GoodKarma

    5 years ago

    Yup

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Yes

  • click_lick

    click_lick

    4 years ago

    That is a great turn on if woman initiates. Most women don't however. For a variety of reasons...headache, period, mood. LoL

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Yes, yes, yes please. Should be more of it

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    4 years ago

    ...once asked by a gorgeous girl on a first date in my car' if l wanted to fuck ? Now being the thoughtful man that l am l graciously accepted and the rest is now history.. We married a few years later but i never forgot that moment she initiated our first sex... Having experienced that ' I've always thought theres nothing wrong with a women instigating sex instead of relying on the guy all the time.. If she feels like sex' go ahead and do it.. Men love the surprise...