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Do women expect us or prefer men to put a picture of your penis on our profile?

October 27 2010

I am new to this site. With photos heaps of people put pictures of their penis up , do women prefer this? I imagine they would prefer a face pic. I have a bigger sized penis i suppose (6.5"diam 7.5"long on a good day) my ex wife didn't like it so much and prefered partial penetration only. She has moved on with her life now I suppose I should to - . I would like a few opinions from women on this and then I will fix my profile to be suitable to meet women in this community.

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'SWEETIEPIE2010' A nice smiling (current) face pic is much more appealing to me than a dick pic. As to your size...... very nice BUT.....it's not a dip stick, bigger guys have to be careful because if you bash things around too much by going to deep with a big thing like that your fun is going to be short lived. If you can do as much as is comfortable for her and still get off on that you could go forever if you wanted to. Big guys are absoloutly delish and theres's nothing quite like that magical girth, it's often the length that causes the issues. Sweetie xx Such words of wisdom .... can't wait to met you at our party and see what other wise you can give us.

  • DonnaBrett

    DonnaBrett

    14 years ago

    Face pics are best and that goes for the ladies as well...just boobs or pussies are pointless...as are dick shots. Sure if you want to display them as well, go for it but your main profile pic should be a face shot..even if you disguise it a little if your shy..still better than a 'bits' photo!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Mate you might have a schlong like Phar Lap but if they can't see a face or full body shot I think you narrow your chances. Just my opinion. Good luck and hope you get lucky.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Donna_Brett'Face pics are best and that goes for the ladies as well...just boobs or pussies are pointless...as are dick shots. Sure if you want to display them as well, go for it but your main profile pic should be a face shot..even if you disguise it a little if your shy..still better than a 'bits' photo! Couldn't agree more Donna and Brett, and the guests out there (us!) can't see most of the "bits" photos anyway, unless they're hidden in some way. Mrs W xx

  • oh_wowsers

    oh_wowsers

    14 years ago

    Definitely face! So tired of penis pictures!! Personally I like unwrapping presents and it's no fun if I've already seen EVERYTHING ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Im so over cock shots....meh meh meh! I would suggest a body/boob shot for main profile. Then Head shot (smiling apparently, though it hast bothered me yet;-) either in your public gallery if you are comfy with it there (which you obviously are)or in gallery 1. Sexy but showing more in gallery one & explicit in gallery 2 (if thats your thing). The reason I wouldnt put a head shot (even if I was having it out there for public perusual) on my main shot is that everyone sees it straight up, whether they are looking for you or not. If it is still public gallery then those that click on your profile will see it but not the first thing that everyone sees. For example: your brother is looking for a girl and so are you. But he sees your head shot on a forum post & goes ah its you! Whereas a body shot is all he sees on the forum post he wont recognise you... but say I like your post and go to check out your profile & there I can pull up your head shot to perve at ;-)Did I make sense??? Its possible that I have had a cocktail or two...*giggles* Mrs H xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'ORBITRON' Mate you might have a schlong like Phar Lap but if they can't see a face or full body shot I think you narrow your chances. Just my opinion. Good luck and hope you get lucky. For me personally the one profile that has always impressed me and still does is the lovely Orbitrons and why he is is himself the gorgeous guy that he is, in his profile pic and the fact there was no pic of a penis to be seen was what won me over, it showed class exactly what I like in this guy he is that all the way.... Smiles Orbs you to will rise like a phoenix of that I am sure,,,....

  • tank__girl

    tank__girl

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'wilko23' Quoting 'Donna_Brett'Face pics are best and that goes for the ladies as well...just boobs or pussies are pointless...as are dick shots. Sure if you want to display them as well, go for it but your main profile pic should be a face shot..even if you disguise it a little if your shy..still better than a 'bits' photo! 'Your' bOOb pic is definately not pointless....I can most definatley see your point there.......

  • Colette

    Colette

    14 years ago

    A variety of shots from face, full body to erect cock would be ideal. I completely understand about not putting face pics up, though, as everyone remembers your face and most of us have other lives. I love cock pics as I like to know what you're packing. (Although I have found false pics on profiles - very annoying!) Also have found people who have pics that are 20 yrs old - before they sprouted their middle-aged paunch! I am in favour of disclosing as much about yourself as possible both verbally and pictorially.

  • DonnaBrett

    DonnaBrett

    14 years ago

    ...and don't want to put a face pic on the public profile, and only have them private, that's OK. However when you message someone you should give them access to those photos in your initial message. That way the recipient has the full package to decide on. If there's no face shot but the profile reads OK and then they have to ask for a face shot...and then for whatever reason you aren't their type in the looks department and you are rejected..you will know it is solely cos of your photo. We hate doing that and feel bad about it. So if you offer all info & face pic up front..if a rejection comes your way it could be for any number of reasons within your profile. Oh..and if anyone is worried about putting up a face pic cos a relative may see it...think about how you'd feel if you were doing some messaging with a faceless person..maybe exchanging some intimate details..and then when you finally see a photo..then you find it's your Sister or Mum!!! LOL

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Although I willl admit to being a bit of a perv. Okay...okay...I can hear those that know me choking with mirth...a BIG perv. I like to look, after all there is no harm in looking, but I also like a bit of mystery. I like to unwrap my gifts slowly. Save the cock shots for later. If you are like me and shy, or you have another life, by all means dont plaster your mug all over your profile for all in sundry to see. Keep that a secret as well. I like chest shots, arse shots, back veiw. Anything is better than nothing. Unless you are part of a couple though, I dont like to see pics of you with another woman, turns me off...just a little.

  • inlustwetrust

    inlustwetrust

    14 years ago

    So I shouldn't text you those cock shots? Quoting 'fionabee' Although I willl admit to being a bit of a perv. Okay...okay...I can hear those that know me choking with mirth...a BIG perv. I like to look, after all there is no harm in looking, but I also like a bit of mystery. I like to unwrap my gifts slowly. Save the cock shots for later. If you are like me and shy, or you have another life, by all means dont plaster your mug all over your profile for all in sundry to see. Keep that a secret as well. I like chest shots, arse shots, back veiw. Anything is better than nothing. Unless you are part of a couple though, I dont like to see pics of you with another woman, turns me off...just a little.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'fionabee' Although I willl admit to being a bit of a perv. Okay...okay...I can hear those that know me choking with mirth...a BIG perv. I like to look, after all there is no harm in looking, but I also like a bit of mystery. I like to unwrap my gifts slowly. Save the cock shots for later. If you are like me and shy, or you have another life, by all means dont plaster your mug all over your profile for all in sundry to see. Keep that a secret as well. I like chest shots, arse shots, back veiw. Anything is better than nothing. Unless you are part of a couple though, I dont like to see pics of you with another woman, turns me off...just a little. So are you saying I shouldn't text you my cock shots?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    The competition is pretty stiff.

  • tank__girl

    tank__girl

    14 years ago

    Collette!!

  • inlustwetrust

    inlustwetrust

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'fionabee' The competition is pretty stiff. Well I would expect it to be.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'oh_wowsers'Definitely face! So tired of penis pictures!! Personally I like unwrapping presents and it's no fun if I've already seen EVERYTHING ;) so true. . . .well said Wildly avoiding dic pics

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    well i did like the face pic but its gone roxxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'oh_wowsers' Definitely face! So tired of penis pictures!! Personally I like unwrapping presents and it's no fun if I've already seen EVERYTHING ;) Sex is a connection, and surely we want to connect with the whole person? You get a much better idea of that through the face than the "bits". The bits are just the mechanism.Anyway, I'm with Oj_Wowsers, a surprise is MUCH more fun.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I thought to take advice and be more discrete with pics as I have a public profile with my job. Moving back to sunshine coast qld soon. Much easier in a larger population.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Hi there I'm new on this site,so still thinking to put up my pic...I will have a face pic up for sure,,,but will also have a secret pic of my cock in a separate folder,,I think it's good to see what u are going to be with,but wouldn't put up my cock pic on main profile pic....Michael.....thanx..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Hey there,,I think u look sensational in your pic......very sexy baby...can tell how sexy u really are x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I really don't see the point of just splatting a photo of a cock on the web site. Surely a face photo is more enticing to the ladies/gentlemen.Internet dating is just a quick method of meeting people. The act of getting to know each other does not change however. It follows the same process as it has for hundreds of years; Attraction, Rapport, Flirting, Mental and Physical connection.Posting a cock photo simply goes tries to bypass the first few steps. Well that's my opinion. We're all different.