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Do women get deterred by a married man seeking a FWB relationship?

September 23 2020

I’ve posted my profile as honestly as I could not trying to give potential partners a false description as to who I really am. It seems women are more keen on a married man for a MFM type setup rather than a 1 on 1 hookup. I’ve sent out over 100 messages to potential suitors with only a handful of replies, either sugar dating professionals or a ‘sorry I don’t date attached guys’ reply. Should I say I’m single to get more reply’s? Thoughts?

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Hi just caught your post, wanted to comment on my own experience. I am attached and I inform people when we are messaging, I dont think pretending to be single is the way to go, If you get caught out you have lost any trust you may have had. I agree that if joining a couple being attached can be in your favour as your obviously only looking to play and not after a relationship etc. Some single women are okay with it if they are just looking for a one of hook up. The one other thing I would mention is that I have met both couples and ladies at parties or events and relationship status hasn't come up in conversation straight away. People are happy to meet and chat to you the person, if things move on and it comes up I will tell them. In most cases if we have been getting along my attached status doesnt stop things moving forward.

  • Spoi79

    Spoi79

    3 years ago

    New to this and in the same situation. Mostly commenting to follow. Any tips would be great!

  • Badsitefguys

    Badsitefguys

    3 years ago

    Ironically I think married women on the prowl do more than single ladies.

  • Juliefun74

    Juliefun74

    2 years ago

    As a woman in a couple situation I am going to weigh in on this conversation. The problem i have found talking to married men on RHP is simple.......availability. Most say I can leave work early and pop in on the way home or can meet during the day between 9 and 3. These scenarios are not attractive to anyone.