Do women pursue or do guys have to make the first move?

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  i very rarely go on the hunt, probably cause im not really looking and dont know what i want but if i someone checks me out il has a look but not very often il flirt first and even less il write first so il have to think he is damn special for me to message a bloke roxxy

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  When I was paid up I sent a few spontanteous messages and rarely got replies, shouldn't have included the face pics in the intial message! Mainly though I used my mail to reply to flirts. I'd received. Now I'll flirt people who's profiles I enjoy or like. I'll use up my one guest message a week on guys who have flirted me a lot who I think I'd get on well with... although don't have a good reply rate, again, starting to get a complex.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  PBG. Theres no accounting for taste I guess. Although I've been inundated with good news stories from my RHP colleagues which gives me hope. In the meantime, am celebrating along with them & trying not to take the purblind blokes choices to heart. Bastards!!!!! (lol)

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I suppose what I was trying to say is that my successes have come from being pursued, not being the pursuer. :)

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I just sit here and wait for the messages to roll in and then make my choices!!!!

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