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Do women want oral or not?
April 22 2010
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RHP User
15 years ago
Some women would think that just because you performed oral on them then they would have to reciprocate and they don't want to do that. Others find it a bit embarrassing and therefore don't relax enough to enjoy it. Then there are some who were brought up to consider it a dirty act. And for a few, it is a low self esteem that prevents them doing it. And for the rest of us....? Love it!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
i went out with a girl for a couple of years and she right from the word go stopped me doing it. it was so frustrating cos like you i really enjoy giving it. Maybe i seem to pick them but recently have come acrossa couple more who wouldn't let me either (sigh)
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xFunlovingx
15 years ago
I agree with Domina on all her points...But seriously? A woman that doesn't want oral.....INSANEEEEEEEEEEEE!! Enough said xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Some people have their head screwed on backwards and for some reason think oral sex is "dirty". They can't get passed that enough to enjoy it. Too bad. In my youth I've had to say "next" to some real hotties over their inhibitions on this subject. I think we each gravitate to our own kind. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Is oral all you are offering? For some the case here is that oral is a great precurser for a fun evening and if thats all you are offering well.......it can be a bit daunting and some may feel a bit of a let down. Also not asking for anything in return? That can seem like you just want them to lie there and take what you are giving without giving anything back. I cant speak for other women but I love to give as well as receive. To me its not a dirty thing at all but a hell of a lot of fun and very enjoyable Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
i havent had it done for so long i think iv forgot what its like... but from what i remember it was pretty good *note to self...go find man that does oral* roxxy xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
But is it so hard to believe that someone would only be looking to give and not wanting to recieve?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'geturroxyoff' i havent had it done for so long i think iv forgot what its like... but from what i remember it was pretty good *note to self...go find man that does oral* roxxy xxx I love oral roxy, pick me pick me.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Personally, I love oral by my husband...no man has ever gotten me there like he can...which of course is a very good thing...but...for me personally, i enjoy it...but...i dont give it up for just anyone. For me, its the most intimate thing i will share, so i have to know that the guy really wants it....and not just because he feels obligated to give it...but really wants it cause he wants to make me feel pleasure. If i get there...omg...then he will get something in return...its just part of the natural flow of the following events... Mrs S xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
mmmmmmlove it .. rarely get enough ..sex without oral .. (unless its a quicky ) isnt sex
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wannabyummymummy
15 years ago
Personally i totally love to give and receive oral but i do have an old high school friend who hates it, she thinks it is gross (poor girl doesn't know what she is missing) the thing for me is though that even really good oral that tips me totally over the edge of isn't enough on it's own i really need the act of intercourse to finish off with that will totally blow my mind other wise i feel like i am left kind of hanging for the ending lol I cum REALLY easily both with clitoral orgasm and vaginal but it is the combo of both that rocks my world I have had offers from a couple of guys like yourself to just receive great oral with nothing in return and i have turned them down for this reason and this reason only oral is great and i LOVE it but for me it is an entree and i am a 3 course kind of girl i want the main AND dessert as well!!! call me greedy but that is just my view
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RHP User
15 years ago
how many times have women heard it referred to smelling fishy etc it doesn't make for one concerned to relax maybe they need to hear they taste great to unwind. Then all women are dif what works for one doesn't for another and perhaps guy/guys she had did terrible job. So many reasons to then why a woman could say no and not unwind and relax. Then pubic hair issue, brazillian, shaved, strip, amazon woman what does this man like to look at is he judging that area and taste. Women certainly over think I do I know. I never liked receiving but I certainly like giving. Yet it took one man to change all that, that I do love it when they are getting it right. Oh and i had one that ate me out like he was a viking at a Table was not good at all, guessing it was working for him just not me. Maybe you can ask that they consider giving u a try and if they don't like what your doing you won't go there again. We're all different on how we do things and what we like...communication helps but I know sometimes I say nothing as I'm worried bout poor guys ego.Bubbly
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RHP User
15 years ago
onlyoral4u is genuine when he says he likes to give & recieve nothing back. The man is a master of his art lol & quite frankly I don't think I was capable of giving back if I had to!! lol It's nice to be spoilt occasionally Hugs Rosebud
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RHP User
15 years ago
I love it! WOW! and have finally met the best guy..Damn! He loves to go down on me and stays there..and stays there..and mmmmmmmmmm..... Geeezzz..I am one lucky girl! And he doesn't even care if it is returned..He is just to happy so slip his head under my dress..lol.. yay! mmmmmmmmm sweetpetite41xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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mistakenidentity
15 years ago
I never enjoyed it until about 4 years ago.... couldn't stand the thought of a guy going down there.... but I think it was more about the relaxing and just enjoy it.... For those guys that find they are with a girl who doesn't enjoy it much and you love giving try starting the whole scene in the shower.... then at least she feels clean, and more willing to receive... helped me over come some of the issues I thought I had.... now they are LONG GONE!!!! Hubby's excellent at helping me relax to receive... not that I need much coaching on that now ;-)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Perfect2sumgreat tip, must remember to use that one if i encounter the same in th future
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RHP User
15 years ago
Oral sex,well i think that woman who don't like oral are scared that some guys may find the aroma a turn off.Which is a pitty because for me personaly i love the smell of a female.And i guess that some have had bad trials with it, for me it's the same. Im happy just to give a girl oral sex for hours or aslong as she can take it,if she wants more after that then im happy to go all the way. But it is true that most females think that if a guy does it then they have to do it in return, but if things are said before the fun begins then there should'nt be a problem. Personaly for me im addicted to giving females oral, but there just are'nt enough females out there who enjoy it i think. I could'nt even begin to count the amount of females that i have done it to, from hetro to lesbians. And i have never had one complaint yet ( well if you call asking me if i ever stop ) a complaint well iv'e had plenty of them then. I believe that giving oral is an art form, the more the guy loves doing it the better he is at doing it. As i allways say me 6 u 9
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RHP User
15 years ago
mmmmmm he loves doing it.... she love doing it ... I think its such an intimate thing, and yes if my partner is giving me oral pleasure, then I WANT to return the favour. Not because I feel "obligated" to ... but because this wonderful man has given me the most intimate pleasure I can experience, I want to return that to him. And in his own word .... by god he loves it too......
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RHP User
15 years ago
I am with xFunlovingx, what woman would not want oral? Having said that I do accept that some ladies have not always had good experiences with men, which can lead to all kinds of difficulties. All I can say is find a respectful and caring guy who loves to give oral, does not expect 'payment', will take his time and be gentle (unless you ask otherwise!), has some idea of what he is doing down there, then relax, keep an open mind and try to just kick back and enjoy. If at first you don't succeed be patient and try again later.
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RHP User
15 years ago
However ... the ex was really bad at it ... I should have told him at the begining ... but I didnt want to hurt his feelings .... i never enjoyed him going down .. and in the end ,.... i would distract him ... and tell him no ... etc (we were together 14yrs... long time without ) but since seperating about 10 months ago .. i have had a few guys go to town ... and wow ... nothing like a guy who knows how to turn u on ... even if i do feel guilty about getting all the attention but guys be careful ... all girls like different things ... i find this the most sensitive area ... and while grazing your teeth is fine .... dont bite me ... lol it friggin hurts ... and undoes all the good work you have already done done right ... and u will have me dripping and begging for more
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RHP User
15 years ago
About 6 years ago I had a boy who would turn up in the middle of the night, go down on me, make me cum, then I'd fall asleep, then he'd leave. That was great. I wonder whatever happened to him...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Was at a party where me and a girl got into it. We didn't have too long so I was happy to go down on her and get her off. When she offered to do me, I said "It's OK, I don't mind focusing on you..." Her mouth dropped open in shock. I think she wanted to marry me right then and there!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'BigBrite_Bubbly'how many times have women heard it referred to smelling fishy etc it doesn't make for one concerned to relax maybe they need to hear they taste great to unwind. Then all women are dif what works for one doesn't for another and perhaps guy/guys she had did terrible job. So many reasons to then why a woman could say no and not unwind and relax. Then pubic hair issue, brazillian, shaved, strip, amazon woman what does this man like to look at is he judging that area and taste. Women certainly over think I do I know. I never liked receiving but I certainly like giving. Yet it took one man to change all that, that I do love it when they are getting it right. Oh and i had one that ate me out like he was a viking at a Table was not good at all, guessing it was working for him just not me. Maybe you can ask that they consider giving u a try and if they don't like what your doing you won't go there again. We're all different on how we do things and what we like...communication helps but I know sometimes I say nothing as I'm worried bout poor guys ego.Bubbly I agree with bubbly..i dont give it to anyone as i have mentioned previously...but...ive never understood the whole fishy comment. Ive heard comments like..."oh yes, i think i feel like fish tonight"..and being i am so F...ing naive i didnt get it for years...lol...i literally thought they were talking about fish. Now, being that i am a woman, and havent been with another woman, i cant vouch for what another woman must smell or taste like, but i know for a fact that i dont smell or taste like fish...anyway, ranting now... As for the pubic hair issue...yes...this is so true...i yet again agree with bubbly. I have always had none from clitoris below and perhaps a triangle or stip above..Mr Shy has always said he doesnt care whats above the clitoris but he prefers nice and clear below it...thank god i like that too...but...we met a guy once...and he had never had a woman with a smooth hairless one...and he said he preferred hair...so go figure...you cant please everyone i guess. As for oral from Mr Shy...ohhhh absolutely fantastic...so from him...he can have it whenever he wants...oh ok..and perhaps a very select few others..(ok only one other...you know who you are...LMAO...) Mrs Shy xxxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Personally - i really love to give oral to a lady. I find it turns me on more and that tends to make for more fun play all round. As for hair... I prefer hairless from the clit down...well actually i prefer totally waxed ;-) love to feel it nice n smooth... let my tongue roam all over it.... yum yum yum... can go for hours... hugs Wayne
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RHP User
15 years ago
I think that giving and receiving oral is one of the best parts of fucking. I'm very much into helping people fulfill their fantasies, it really gets me off, and this is one of the easiest I've ever heard!!! Lay back and let a man go crazy on my chacha, for however long he wants to? OMG yes please!!! I once had a lover who blew all over the bed while he was eating and fingering me and I took it as one of the biggest compliments ever!!! I masturbate about him often (winks at Simon!!!) I love to eat pussy so I can understand all that OO says. Can I perhaps say though, I love being given oral pleasure by someone who has good oral hygiene - kind of a role reversal with everyone else thinking that pussies are dirty, I like clean teeth/gums/tongue near my precious puss. If someone had a yukky mouth I wouldn't kiss them or play.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I can see both sides to this story... while I like oral I have found that there are alot of men out there who are not very good at it so I then become blaze about it myself (kinda that take it or leave it attitude). Plus I'm one of those unfortunate women who find it extrememly difficult to orgasm so even the very best of oralators struggle to get me (Mr Sassy being one who is very good but finds it hard work)... so I can see why some women don't bother with it. Mrs Sassy
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RHP User
15 years ago
I wonder sometimes about the reciprocating bit. Personally I LOVE to give oral and if its not reciprocated then for me thats not a big deal at all. You know what they say about assumption being the mother of all XXXX ups? Well I guess we all make assumptions, but I would hope that most women would take my enthusiasm for giving oral at face value and that they wouldn't assume I expect them to reciprocate. Its always fun when they do, but never a drama if they don't. Andrew
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RHP User
15 years ago
that's very generous of you Andrew! Lol! Miss K
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RHP User
15 years ago
good call
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RHP User
15 years ago
To each his / her own!!! Absolutely adore giving and receiving...there is nothing more magical!!!! xx
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Wouldyoukindly
15 years ago
Absolutely love it. But it can be frustrating to be with a girl who doesn't enjoy it. Reciprocation is always welcome, but if it's someone you're with regularly, the orgasm on your face is often reward enough. :)Speaking of aforementioned frustration, anyone keen, if I have to wait longer I'll get too rusty :PCheers,Z
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RHP User
14 years ago
OOOhhh YEEEESSS PLEEEEASE.! My hubby loves to give it so much ,he does not care (sometimes if he gets to come or not) he just loves to lick me till I come. & when I do (I am a squirter he literally drinks every drop) Sometimes I get greedy & make hime just lick me for what seems like hours but he never minds. He treats me like an ice cream with long slow licks from my butt to my clit then drives his tongue deep in me girls you dont know what you are missing , I love it when I wake up in the morning or the middle of the night with him gently eating me. OOH & sometimes if I work him up or promise him a treat (like anal) he will eat me after he has put a big load of his juice in me ,I have to get him straight away to do this as the moment is lost if you let them think too much but after a couple of moments he is just right into it .SO GIRLS YES ITS GREAT ,HUBBY LOVES IT IN AN UNSELFISH WAY & EVEN LOVES A CREAM PIE ON OCCASION (HMM I WONDER IF HE WOULD LIKE SOMEONE ELSES )
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RHP User
14 years ago
Im sooo jealous.... where do i find me one like that :) sassyme
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RHP User
14 years ago
sassyme re your comment happily about 50 km from you be glad to help
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RHP User
14 years ago
oooh sassy be happy if you looked my way you may not want to go home
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RHP User
14 years ago
There are a multitude of reasons posted above, and all of them are quite valid.I think the biggest one (that I have seen) is more about the expectation of reciprocation, which bothers me as I don't think sex should be transactional.Girls just aren't used to us guys freely giving much (except of what we want) so I can understand WHY they feel that way, and whilst I like to let them think they are are being 'spoilt', its actually quite entertaining to watch women twist and buckle in pleasure until they simply can't summon the strebgth to go again. If they can walk away at the end, I reckon you must have missed a bit.Now with all that said, if I eventually work out that the girl actually 'isn't that into it', and the objections aren't just some kind of personal issue (which we can probably address) then I feel my talents are wasted and I'd prefer a different player where my efforts are appreciated.Once you get past any 'concerns' they may have, 99% are right into it.Tongue + well placed fingers are a definite killer combo.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'BlackStilettoes' To each his / her own!!! Absolutely adore giving and receiving...there is nothing more magical!!!! xx I'd love to be magical with you !!!!!!!!!!!!!! I have to start on you first though.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'sassyme' Im sooo jealous.... where do i find me one like that :) sassyme Pick me, I'd be happy to accommodate you.
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RHP User
14 years ago
onlyoral... im on your side mate...had a female join in with my then gf one night saying she cant cum from oral.. she sat on my face anyway and came like a freight train a few times. then again and again that night....oralonly as i have said many times.. if you could bottle women i would buy it by the case load lol oh i can just see the marketing for it hahahahaha
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RHP User
14 years ago
Just a quickie, sorry havent been on the computer for a while so havent checked this thread. I can definitely say to those who feel there is a chance they will be let down, and that some like to go onto penetration after, I have never left anyone without climaxing, in fact on a couple of ocassions, two or three times, no wanting to brag (well yeah I am really, lol). The beauty of only wanting to satisfy is that I can be on the job, so to speak until the lady is COMPLETELY satisfied, even if that means a few orgasms for her. In fact, I feel a little ripped off if she cums too quick and doesnt want any more, lol.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I am putting my hand up for all the women who do love it!! I have found a little FWB secret, and he can be there for hours, only reason he stops is because i nearly have a anurism from holding my breath cos he does things that make me explode!!!! lolso yah for oral guys keep trying, girls lay back and enjoy xx
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RHP User
14 years ago
" SWEETIEPIE...I hav2 totally agree with " SWEETIEPIE" different strokes for different FEM's (& GUYS)...Yes, if your technique is a mastered 'take you over the edge' then you've got it made...(Like mine )then u've got it made.I believe it cummms with a number of differing encounters - accumulating or filing away many of the positives & using them. Butt one thing to take heed too - is, forget your male motivating self drive and for a change, listen to your female partners emotions and physical responses and act accordingly...She is the pinicle of your demanding skills - doing that, you will be well rewarded each and everytime with free flowing scent'd pungent responses....Patience is the name of the game...Then there's carnal animal sex that doesn't require that (at first, anyway - second, third, fourth time round is a differing matter). Go young BUCKS...Though, leave sum for us quavering STUDS LL.27.7.10..." ReverandLust.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I live for it, Can't give enough. There is nothing more satisfying than doing this for a woman and the incredible reward you get from the Tastes, smells and physical changes of a Vagina heading to Orgasm.Im so happy to do this even if I don't get sex myself.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I live for it, Can't give enough. There is nothing more satisfying than doing this for a woman and the incredible reward you get from the Tastes, smells and physical changes of a Vagina heading to Orgasm.Im so happy to do this even if I don't get sex myself.
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paula_026
14 years ago
it is each to there own but i think its part of fore play some might not agree with me but i think it is
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RHP User
14 years ago
And if you would please guys....tell every single woman here on ths forum that you have no intention at any time of ever doing that. The thought of it disgusts you. | Then please...add my email address to the bottom of your note and tell them all that I am the one and only man left of all of Australia that will go there...and go there...and go there. | Perfect solution to what I am sure was a serious question. | You were serious........weren't you?
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RHP User
14 years ago
All women absolutely hate it...honest. I would not lie to you! | So...if you and every guy on this forum would be so kind as to send a note to every woman on this forum and tell them you would never ever even try that and you actually find it utterly disgusting...we could answer this question once and forever. | That said...please add my email address to your notes telling these beautiful women that there is only one man left in all of Australia that would go there...and go there...and go there. But then again...he is not from here either! | Problem solved....easy answer to a very serious question. | You were being serious....right?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Like a lot of women, I haven't had the pleasure of meeting a man who truly enjoys this & is willing to take the time to focus and do this properly - I'm here to play with the girls, the only exception being man/men who enjoy giving oral - I reckon it indicates a man who is not self-centred. Should be included in sex 101 for all!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I absolutely love giving head to women. I don't expect anything in return but will take what is offered. I guess I'm saying that women should not feel pressured to return the favour as I just love giving it. I often get, "where the f%&k did you learn to do that????" ;)
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RHP User
14 years ago
i expect oral and love it as long as ur good at it most guys like it but some love it ..bring them on .. as for the chics that dont its like most have said basically insecurity in themselves dont beat yourself up guys theyl get over it .. ness
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RHP User
14 years ago
i love oral n giving it..i always say to my play mate eat just eat n my hubby will he eats me 2 just cant get enough i guess i got to have 24/7. im a bad girl...rednwetpussy....oh n love my sex...
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RHP User
14 years ago
I get off on giving and as a result can just focus on my craft. I have just split from my GF who was a french caribbean girl and she would always say that she never expected anything from guys in the oral stakes because they were only interested in sticking their willies in her. So they would do it for 5 minutes and lose interest. Well she was amazed when I would stay down there for over an hour sometimes and my god when she came she woudl pass out it was so intense. I mastered the fine art of bringing her round again and stirring the pot just enough to give her a couple more and would then move in for the kill becuase after clitoral orgasm she just needed something big and hard inside her. I get absolutely frantic to give oral sometimes and have been know to cum half way through just from the sheer pleasure it gives me or if she rubs her hands through my hair then I am gone.
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RHP User
14 years ago
LOVE IT !!!!!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I love giving oral, I insist on being able to.... I think I am good at it, haven't had any complaints. I really don't care how long it takes for the lady concerned to get off, there are ways you can try different things, like like over her clit, around it, rubbing your fingers inside while sucking her clit into your mouth, like giving her a "head job", and sometimes everything BUT direct attention to the clit..... I love getting a woman off, and being close with my face to her pussy as she cums is almost enough to get me off.... almost ! And for me it is a deal breaker for the few women that I have met who don't like getting oral. There are a few of them out there...... I dont even mind if I need to go down after I have cum.... Some expect to have to give it in return, and I actually dont mnd. Would prefer it to be mutual but dont need it to be.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Yes, I would like to include cunnillingus in my sexual repertoire, however it's a very rare skill to find in a partner. As I consider myself an oral artiste, I expect the same degree of expertise & passion I provide. Hence why Im rusting up as fast as I type.....'sigh'
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magsluvsoral
14 years ago
mm i love oral, cant get enough of it, my lover is devine at it, jst wish I could see him alot more ........
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'm of the belief that great artists should be appreciated and rewarded in their lifetime...if they create something that is very moving, satisfying and ethereal. Enthusiasm and appreciation is something all great artists definitely deserve...special talents should always be rewarded and encouraged...one should always show appreciation for an exceptional artist than simply recite an ode of praise...besides I don't think Shelley covered that subject "specifically" or maybe this is what he meant when he described "wild west Wind"-Mary was known to be a bit of a racy lass though wasn't she? *smirk* NymphetamineDrm
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RHP User
14 years ago
im 41 n my hubby is 62 we r having a cpl over but havent done anything with any cpls yet...i would like to know from any1 that has had a cpl what was it like n were u ok with ur wife or hubby having sum1 else in front of u..i want to try it but just abit scared...what do u think i should do plzz help me!!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I love giving oral, to men and women, but I hate receiving it. My clit doesn't do it for me, I need to be penetrated. Even when I'm masturbating I don't touch my clit much. *shrugs* I know this makes me different to 99% of women. :P x
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RHP User
14 years ago
Maybe it's just me but seeing my wife with another man or woman is mind blowing. The wife gets off on the sight of another man or woman and I going for it.
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RHP User
14 years ago
In Prahran. I can be there by 11.15pm :) just give me the nod :D
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RHP User
14 years ago
I can be there by 11:15. Just give me the nod :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
hay hun was that message meant 4 me not 2 sure just let me know rednwetpussy
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RHP User
14 years ago
When it's good... no, not just good... magnificent. But I haven't found many who are able to get me off that way. It turns out to be just good foreplay. When I find a guy that can blow my mind in that way, I'll bottle him and sell him to other women. I'll be rich in a week!! Sweet
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RHP User
14 years ago
All you men out there say that you absolutley love giving oral. You have stated it here, you have plastered it all over your profile and I know there are men out there that do enjoy giving oral because I have met a few. There-in lies the problem though.....I have met a FEW. Most go down there yes, the problem is, even though you all go on and on about loving to do it, you guys really dont enjoy it at all. It is a trick. A fallacy designed to fool us unsuspecting women...who really do enjoy giving and receiving oral, into giving until you cum but actually receiving a scant amount of oral attention in return. Well I am onto you all. I know that when I read on your profiles," I love giving and recieving", that you are being less than truthful.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Love it, love it, love it. Don't care if I get nothing in return. I derive pleasure from seeing you thrash about during the process ;)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'aliti68'Love it, love it, love it. Don't care if I get nothing in return. I derive pleasure from seeing you thrash about during the process ;) But that is what they all say so I just do not believe you...sorry!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' All you men out there say that you absolutley love giving oral. You have stated it here, you have plastered it all over your profile and I know there are men out there that do enjoy giving oral because I have met a few. There-in lies the problem though.....I have met a FEW. Most go down there yes, the problem is, even though you all go on and on about loving to do it, you guys really dont enjoy it at all. It is a trick. A fallacy designed to fool us unsuspecting women...who really do enjoy giving and receiving oral, into giving until you cum but actually receiving a scant amount of oral attention in return. Well I am onto you all. I know that when I read on your profiles," I love giving and recieving", that you are being less than truthful. I might take this as a challenge to prove you wrong. Dear me, who would have thought Fionabee would LABEL us guys with the same tar brush. Thats a wag of the finger right there.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Wag all you like, it ain't the finger up for discussion
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RHP User
14 years ago
More like a gross generalisation and I am cool with that!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Maybe its the wag of the finger matched to the flick of the tongue that could be benificial, Along with some understanding of what needs to be, well aroused.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Personally I love to give Oral to women. The act of going down on a woman and making her cum over and over gives me so much pleasure that I don't really care if I have sex or not. The knowledge of having pleasured the woman is all that I need.However, not all women like receiving. I met a Russian woman once who said that most women from her country hate receiving oral. Whether that was true or just her I'm not sure.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I've had men who loved giving it and gave and gave and gave. I would cum til I couldn't move and that would be it. To be honest I always felt a little selfish but I think it's good to be a little selfish in sex occasionally. On the other hand sometimes I'd want MORE after and in that situation I had to have some cock inside me even if I'd come a thousand times. Once again purely selfish cause it's what I wanted and I think you guys who love to give oral need to understand that if you communicate properly with your lover you will know when she wants more cause it's what she wants and when she's doing it cause she feels obligated. As with all encounters, communication is the key. Make your needs and desires very clear beforehand and allow her the freedom to decide for herself what she wants later is hers for the taking. Some women will never understand this so dont bother trying to get through to them, move on to more accommodating pastures.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'sassyme' mmmmmmlove it .. rarely get enough ..sex without oral .. (unless its a quicky ) isnt sex ' HELL yeah!!....must,must with the oral...omg life wld so suck with out!!..not dirty...jst bloody yummy !
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RHP User
14 years ago
oral sex can be fantastic if it is done with great enthusiasm..with hand AND mouth action..but I find it is a different kind of orgasm.it is less intense and definately less satisfying than deep penetration..but that's just me. I know women that cannot come without oral sex...it's all good :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Thank you guys for expressing your enjoyment: I haven't had the luxury of meeting someone with such willingness, & have been left disappointed on many an occassion - that's why I thought I'd try having some fun with ladies who might have an idea about what a girl wants...But know that I have read that there are willing & able men about, I might just re-think that decision :) Thanks all you lovely people :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hi! I adore Oral Pleasuring giving and receiving...For a guy to be so attentive to my needs in this shows me he's the kind Of Lover I want to share Myelf with i for Sexual Intimacy . By sharing this with me I feel very Specal, very very Sexy. mmmmmmmmmmBring It on I can never get enough ...Mainly Women who aren't keen on it are either unfamiliar in its pleasures, Shy or have Religious /moral hangups left from childhood..I hope more articipate in thi wonderful Pasttime ..Lol Lu :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'pinkredapple'I love giving oral, to men and women, but I hate receiving it. My clit doesn't do it for me, I need to be penetrated. Even when I'm masturbating I don't touch my clit much. *shrugs* I know this makes me different to 99% of women. :P x Perhaps if you were gently eased into it, alternating between thrusting then giveing attention to your clit, may need to be restrained in bondage first but! But always open to receiving it..........
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N4November
14 years ago
I can't imagine sex without oral being a large part of it.... if I hooked up with someone who wasn't into it - I wouldn't be asking for seconds! Oral Sex - LOVE IT!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
For me, oral is an essential part of any relationship. it's like gift giving. For, me there is nothing more pleasurable than giving oral. Sometimes, I enjoy it more than the act itself because oral is such a selfless act. Well, OK, I find giving oral such a turn on, and I adore the flavour of a sweet pussy. Nothing like kissing and licking the lips of my lady after she has gone down on another lady! Sometimes I wish those wonderful juices could be bottled! or made into an iceypole!The expectation of 'returning the favour' used to be there until I met someone who had been abused and was unable to reciprocate because of psychological damage caused by an arse-hole and has been working though it at her own pace, doing her own thing without pressure. When performed on me by her it was a gorgeous experience because of how difficult it was for her to do that. All in all, oral is delicious in every sense and I am always looking to improve. So ladies, talk to your man/lady and provide encouragement/guidance when they are down there! It's such a loving act!Yum yum yumBrett
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shucksta
14 years ago
gawd. hmm. Never met a woman yet that did NOT enjoy it. Giving it..very high on my list of turn-ons. My first time..knew that this would be a lifelong passion.Writhing assertiveness of having my hair tussled and head plunged downwards..headlocked between quivering thighs, hips and back arching. Point me towards the racks and this lil oyster shucker will go to work
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RHP User
14 years ago
I love going down on a woman. I find it a great foreplay that leads to great sex. I also dont mind if I dont receive back, aslong as I know that she has enjoyed it. Its also a great way to see what she likes and that could be more fun too.I love it when a woman does cum while I'm enjoying her. Makes me want more
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RHP User
14 years ago
I remember I used to not like it.. mainly because i'd never actually had it done.. and well the whole insecurity women have about their vaginas lol, maybe worried it tastes bad or something like that... but after actually recieving oral and when i stopped being so insecure and realised that alot of guys love giving oral.. thats when i started to love it, so i reckon anyone who doesnt like it its either a) theyve never had it b) they are insecure or c) they havnt had a guy with good 'tonguemanship' haha
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RHP User
14 years ago
I personally do not like oral, and will only receive it if im in a relationship and even then not that often... Do like giving tho :)
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magsluvsoral
14 years ago
mm I love receiving oral its amazing, I also love giving it when a man gets off on it also.. I didnt think I would meet another man, not so quick anyway :) after being with a fb for a year about who I thought was amazing at getting me off by the whole thing. On the weekend I went away with my crew and met a man that first swept me off my feet on a small coastal dancefloor to having a few drinks outside overlooking some beautiful scenery. Then he jst happened to be staying at the same little area I was in for the night. We ended up walking along the beach and he whispered in my ear that his favourite thing to do was oral on a lady, OMG that was it. We went back to his room and had the most amazing night I've had for a very long time, he ate me like it was his last feast, that followed with hours of amazing sex and lust. Unfortunately he was down their from interstate for a tournament but at least he made me smile, cum and moan like know one had for years. So yes, this women maybe now realises there are quiet a few men out there that are amazing in this area, ty mrqld xx
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RHP User
14 years ago
love it love it love it love it
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RHP User
14 years ago
Really!! Upon reflection of the past 38 yrs since i tongued my first clit i honestly can't recall any who have not liked or wanted it! apart from the occasions when it's not practical, some havn't been to keen to reciprocate but thats ok, like some women say, some guys just don't know what to do or can't read the signals their partner is giving to satisfy them, so to some women just can't seem to get it rite for men either, but honestly can't recall a woman ever that didn't enjoy a tongue lashing, either slow and gentle or fast and rough, they all have different needs and communication is a must to know that what your doing is good for them. maby i've just been lucky so far! The smell and taste of a woman is the best aphrodisiac ever, for me anyway, I just LOOOOVE it..
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RHP User
14 years ago
and can't get enough of it!! It's just the most yummiest thing ever and I can't imagine not wanting it. I love the lick 'n' leave lixers... I love the stay all night lixers... and I love to reciprocate too! *sigh*Lix
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RHP User
14 years ago
I love it, can't get enough of it! One of if not my favourite things to perform in the bedroom. Hot hot hot! I also have a tongue thats physically massive so that also helps in that department. lol
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RHP User
14 years ago
Well first of all... you messaged me and told me how great you lick, but you always made excuses to meet up with me and never answered my messages... but aside from that.. no all women like oral. I used to work with a few women who said they just hate it (can't image why). Other women think they have to give it back, and some women just don't like to give oral to a man, so they clam up to receive it. Other women love it..... answer my message.
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