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Do you build up the back pressure b4 a big night out?

July 16 2009

sex

Normally this is the kind of stuff that is discussed in Men's Secret Business, (there must be like 50 questions similar to this, in there right) but I posted this here because I'd also like to hear a woman's perspective about guys who squirt a huge load.... :p Anyway.. here goes..... Recently I found myself "saving it up" so to speak for a big night on the town were sex was on the menu. That's because it is, seems to me, more hawt to blow a huge load of jizz... squirting it all over the place.... well, it's very empowering when it works how they show it in the movies.. so I save it up! Anyway, I got talking to some other guys.. and ahem.. seems I'm not the only one... but I wasnt sure if I should believe them. You know how guys are... always taking the piss out of someone... so my quesiton is... .am I the only guy in RHP that saves it up for a raincheck.. you know.. for that special moment... or do you really follow the "There's something about Mary" scenario and clear the pipes before a big gig?

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Maybe its because I haven't really had anything to look forward to, but I would struggle to go a day without relieving the pressure. Having said that I have never been a powerful cum machine either...lol. Apparently in the porn industry they are made to abstain for at least 4 days to build up.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    You are not alone in this situation gazpacho. As I'm getting on a bit and can't purge the splurge like I could in my teens n twenties, I also try to adopt the backpressure method if I have a swing connection lined up. Reasons for this are that it normally means I will dump a big load so not to dissapoint my lovers on the night. Also it helps avoid Mr Limpy syndrome. (not always tho) A few years back I saved up a load for seven days as I was meeting a married asian woman who wanted to take a lot of my cum in her mouth. She very nearly drowned... But it was quite hilarious as I filled her mouth to overflowing with a runaway river of cum. True story So if you can hold on and not choke that naughty monkey, by all means try the backpressure method. You and your swinger friends may just get a little more than tthey had bargained for...lol ;-) But make sure you put a drop sheet down-things could get very messy. A

  • RedHotCoast

    RedHotCoast

    15 years ago

    ...but for another reason. We play as a cpl so I don't cum inside my better half for at least 2 days before swinging.Im sure the other guy appreciates the clean playing field. As for build up, if the dom is on it makes no difference unless you rip it off for the money shot.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Hi We both abstain from coming for the week before and try to go one further with a couple of session where we get as close as possible without coming. When it works :-) it makes for great animal sex and a big loss of inhibitions. We've found the big night has more orgasms that are stronger longer and more intense.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    If I don't cum for about 5 days my body just seems to 'get over it' and I'm not really interested in sex for about a week. I DEFINITELY have a cycle. But I think it's about every 6 weeks, not every 4. My libido is way lower than most guys, especially here. It takes a pretty high standard girl to get me really going.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I tend to let it build up too however, find that by the 4th day there is not much difference, as any excess tends to be re-absorbed into the body. I often take vitamins and minerals which have a HUGE impact on load these two in particular- Zinc, preferably from natural source, which is why oysters are an aphrodisiac Tribulas Terresteris- Helps maintain male function then a heap of Pinapple juice to sweeten, altough if you smoke, or drink excessively, then it doesnt matter how much pinaple juice you drink, your juice will remain bitter

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I don't know about other guys, but my first boyfriend and I would have sex before going out for a big night and then again when we got home, it always worked for us. :-)SF

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Yeah, young guys can do that Sarah. They're so blown away that they're getting sex that they'll have it five times a day if they can!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Actually, Sarafun, I didn't say I abstained from sex.... quite the contrary. I find that I will build up a much bigger squirty load of jizz is I have sexy time ... but stop before I blow my load..... rest up, even go flaccid... and repeat that process a number of times.... then when I can't stand it any longer and it feels like my nuts are about to turn blue, I cut loose with the fire hose... So yeah.. I prescribe for your first boyfriend sex before dinner.. abstaining from ejaculation... then sex after dinner culminating in a jizz fountain. Usually I like to clean up after myself and lick it all off when I'm done... It's a pleasant smoochie time. Warm wet Hugs Gazza

  • RedHotCoast

    RedHotCoast

    15 years ago

    Only five? It was 10 a day when I was 18.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Hey Gazza, I never cease to be amazed by how you can be so gross and so funny at the same time, lol, keep up the great posts.:-)SF

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    This is why it's a good idea to wear a pair of Dunlop volleys when playing in clubs. Forget condoms, I mean, sure you might wear one for penetration, but how many other guys don't cum in the condom... but instead prefer to remove it and jerk to a finish so you can see yourself blow? Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    It's hawt ! More cum the better I say, let's face it you can never get to much. Aim forthe mouth not on the eyes and for god sake not the hair. And may I say from a woman's perspective it is very statisfying & horny to watch!! xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Girlies do it too yes? We don't get to do the obvious show for the visual enjoyment of others but a no diddling rule 24 hours before a game...erm date makes for a hot, hot time.