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Do you guys even bother reading profiles
October 11 2012
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RHP User
12 years ago
Most people read profiles (well at least look at the pics). Unfortunately most people think that when they're on heat everyone should put their lives on hold to satisfy their urges.A lot of RHP members have children, families and work commitments. These are our first priorities, not dating or sex.Anyone (male or female) who cannot respect your priorities does not deserve a second thought.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Basically, *most* guys dont read much if any of a profile. Maybe location. A lot of the time, all they do is look at a profile's pics, then flirt or msg. Also, a lot of guys seem to think that because a lady puts herself on a site like this, then all they have to do is ask, and she will say yes. Then they get all abusive when she says No. Unfortunately, you will just have to block these folk, and carry on your search. Good luck, hope you find it, soon.
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Smilingwithfun
12 years ago
Here is just like life. You will get all sorts of people.Its a matter of how you handle it.If people can't read or choose to ignore parts of your profile, then there giving you a great signal that they are not for you. Good luck with those that can read.
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RHP User
12 years ago
has nothing to do with whether or not he read your profile correctly,this is harrassment.I suggest you dont even read his texts just delete,and block him here.There are many nice men here who are respectful,this man is not one of them. As to your question,some men do ,some men don't read profiles,just sift and sort.x R
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RHP User
12 years ago
Dont take it too seriously Kimmy..he will do your head in..BLOCK !
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RHP User
12 years ago
Most cant read or write!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I read all profiles I'm interested in. Usually a quick browse then a flirt or message and then double back and read the profile thoroughly. The guy you're talking about either has a very short term memory or like you said, doesn't bother reading profiles
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inspirit
12 years ago
it hasn't happened to me. Sorry to hear it has to you though. I agree with Taipan BLOCK.....Oh hang on my memory bank has kicked in. Did once so i said come on over and let me destroy your arse. Never heard from him again
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RHP User
12 years ago
See guys have 2 heads ,i try and think with my big head as i like mental stimulation as well as physical stimulation.There are guys who think with their little head ,not to much brains in that head but full of something ready to explode.Dont worry yourself Kymmy3 it takes all sorts to make the world go round
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RHP User
12 years ago
well that was 2 mins of my life i will never get back
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Insomnian
12 years ago
I say just name and shame, saves giving the rest of us that can read a bad name for those '' jackasses'' out there that can't. Eventually if they get blocked or ignored enough, maybe they'll work out just why they're getting blocked and ignored, or they'll move onto another site. Win win either way.
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xFunlovingx
12 years ago
I am shocked that you even reply to this guy at all after he said to lock your kids outside! You said "do what you like?" Are you kidding me? Shakes head and walks off.... xFunlovingx
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RHP User
12 years ago
the asreholes who make it bad for all the decent guys ... Block the dickhead...
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RHP User
12 years ago
No they dont , they see the pics if there are some posted and they think with their other head , I have received well over a 1000 messages and flirts since posting my profile , some of the messages are over the top and disgusting , and when they get rejected they get all upset . I met one guy who had posted pictures that were years old , I was pleasent , but said no thanks , this guy made a real scence at the coffee shop , followed me home , the Police were involved and then he started stalking me , again the Police were involved , just several weeks again he was standing in the front yard of my house and had the dogs set on him , its going to Court - so sweetie be careful - there are some reall nutters out there , hence why I prefer to meet couples of other girls - but to answer your question , Guys dont read the profiles
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RHP User
12 years ago
You gave him your phone number without having met !Thrillseeker or fool ? Seriously, show a bit more discernment about who you are letting get so close, remember theres kids to protect too !But yes block them, and don't give jerks your phone number ffs !
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cougar4fun
12 years ago
I had one guy message me he was in town did I want to meet up. i told him I couldnt because my husband was out of town and I had no one to watch the kids.....his soloution......just leave the kids at home on their own, lock the doors and sneak out for a couple of hours.... Brainless twat.....
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Mr_DarkChocolate
12 years ago
i make a note to read every profile i send a flirt to or at least glance over it quickly, half the time i'm disappointed with pretty much diddly squat in the damn "about me" section ((common make an effort!)) i've come to the conclusion that the people that are worth getting to know will reply/read & make an effort & the people that are rude uncouth & ignorant with their responses aren't worth ur time or anybody elses, might sound like a personal rant here but i can't tell u how many couples take a friendly flirt just go "nudge nudge wink wink ?!?! wtf this guy must be like all the other guy's on here!" & reply back with the "no, no & hell no" thing just because u may be upset with something else is no reason to take it out on somebody who's shown interest, if somebody treated me with such disrespect in a club/pub i'd throw a drink in their face & walk away, they're just not worth it. "he even suggested that i lock them outside so he "could get it in" that guy's a illiterate moron, enough said. the bottom line is if somebody doesn't treat u with respect & more so ur kid's then drop kick that mofo's ass to the curb coz they aren't worth ur time & life's to fucking short sweetheart
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Cassy_74
12 years ago
2 Minutes really, thats pretty long time !!!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi! Kimmy3 .Thanks for your timely Topic:) Hun I'm sorry you're being harrassed by this jerk off! I'm wondering why you didn't pick it up in his MSGs those Guys usually show they're self absorbed dickheard Pretty quickly ..It maybe wise to hold off on sharing your Phone number until you really know Them more. Meet 1-1 on MSN or similar 1st.. Have the info in your Profile in Uppercase so they can't miss it.. "you're a Single mum of 2.I have to consider them and My Life." that means times I'm free for phone chat and meeting etc... I always ask Guys who contact me why? what attracted them from My Profile enough to Contact me . If it stops at I'm Mature or My Pic nothing more then I don't bother. This way they need to read some.. Mines a Saga almost as Long as "War n Peace" he!he!.. I did that so Guys checking me out .. Know Who I Am..What I'm About..What I expect from Others..Plus My age seeking range ..and those types I won't bother with I get Guys who think they're the exception too..But I know I've done all I can not to waste my time or there's.. Good Luck! Lu :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
hey babe what what are you doing right now
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sorry to hear you have had this unfortunate experience. I cannot speak for all men, but I always read a profile through and when I send a message, it is almost always something I have thought out. Being a parent myself I understand what it means to make your children your first priority and to "play" when you get the opportunity and to have to try and balance the two. It isn't easy. Someone this unsympathetic to your situation, I would just move on and find someone with half a brain :) we are out there! Keep trying and try not to let someone this self obsessed get you down!
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RHP User
12 years ago
seriously
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RHP User
12 years ago
FFS get yourself a cheap ass pre paid phone and throw away if you get a weirdo and swap phones lol! Just for the record, i do read the profiles..... A good tip i've been told by a couple of ladies is so; At the bottom of your profile right a subject line such as "I like peanut Butter", People must use this in their subject line before they msg you.. If that isn't in the subject line then dont even open it as it's obvious they havent read the profile.. Easy pessy :D
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RHP User
12 years ago
I ALWAYS will read a profile. I actually took a fair bit of time to write mine in the hope that it would make people get a good sense of who I am and what I am about and that way I would hopefully not have to deal with the idiots or time wasters.I find it rude if people don't read my profile and I like to read a persons profile to make sure that even mentally we would connect on some level.Unfortunately there are a lot of jerks around here like others have said. I really can't believe what that guy was suggesting with your children....what a wanker!!!For what it is worth, I think that there are guys that do read profiles but we are few and far between. But the same could be said for women as well....I have had messages with people asking about myself....obviously they just have a standard template and don't read anything!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi Kymmy, the positive side of this is, you can tick this guy off your list, if he doesn't respect your wishes then he is not worth worrying about, it is the guys that read, understand and respect your wishes are the guys you should take note of, at least this guy has shown his true colours first up, luckily he does not know where you live, and the stalking and harassing part, just don't open the email, delete, block then report. Just ignore this guy not worth your time and energy.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've found guys will try regardless of what your profile says, so yes, I've had the odd guy with the "how could you possibly resist me and not drop to me feet" attitude, which is why I prefer to chat to them in here for a bit before agreeing to add them to msn or yahoo and only talk or text via mobile phone if we really seem to click and are on the same page. I know that sounds old fashioned and I'm probably over cautious there, but it's a lot easier to block people in here rather than stopping them from calling your phone. Don't let bad experiences spoil your fun in here. There are some awesome and very respectful guys in here.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thanks everyone for the imput ive never come across a guy like this his just a wanker FUNLOVING after he made the comment about the kids being locked outside was when i stopped talking to him and avoided his messages till he got nasty and basically his words were i was a pig anyway and not worth wasting a load on. I just dont understand how people can disregard kids like that i would never lock them away or send them off just to get some quick fun the thought makes me sick ive turned down many offers cause my kids are here they are number 1 in my life and most people are just fine with it cause lets face it alot of us have kids and understand
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inspirit
12 years ago
you're talking multitasking now.....hand on ummm and thinking at same time....i meant reading I know i can't Is this the right track.......am I ever gonna see your face again......Off to the toilet
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RHP User
12 years ago
hi kimmy im also a mum like many people on here...i also work..i am only available every 2nd weekend that is it no days no nights...i think guys do read the profile but some are arrogant enough to think that if they chat a little or sweet talk you then you will get a babysitter or this is a line i hear more often than i care to remember..'so what time do the kids go to bed?? i will sneak in we will be quiet'...see you later delete block...any man who suggests to meet with my children in the home is not worth my time no matter how sexy or charming he is!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ohh and i always chat on the phone before meeting i need to hear a voice.....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Don't take it personally, if you know you are a good person and is not what he accuses you of then disregard what he says, it is him not you and he is using emotional abuse and blackmail to make you change your mind and if he doesn't get what he wants after being rejected then he is going to try this tact, don't fall for it and don't let him make you feel bad as some people(men and women) can do this, take ownership of yourself, respect yourself and stand by your values even when others around you aren't.
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inspirit
12 years ago
after my blunder on the FAIL...They do ..hangs in in shame lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
It is having to read trite. Poor spelling is a close second.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well sadly to many guys think with there dicks and don't give a shit about anything else, Cougar4fun , that's just sick what he wanted you to do, guess he hasn't or never had kids to think about
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Splicey
12 years ago
It clearly states in our profile we're not at the action stage yet, yet I had a guy msg us and I struck up a conversation and repeated what was in our profile. I got called a tease and never heard from him again.
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RHP User
12 years ago
this is excellent advice MadamDragonfly!I too was surprised that a phone number would be given out before you at least knew that he would consider your guidelines and boundaries. The phone now travels with us every minute of everyday for many, and by giving out your number you are in a way inviting, or at least allowing access into your time with your children and everyday life. I believe that if you want to separate your 'dating' time from your family time, don't allow the 'daters' the opportunity to intrude before you have a good sense of their consideration. Good luck, and I hope he pisses off soon!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Don't worry about this guy, it is obvious he lacks the social graces and in frustration lashed out at you re: pig, it is not you but him and his attitude, thank goodness he showed his true self, before you actually met him then you would really have trouble getting rid of him. I never meet a guy until I have chatted to them and then if they seem ok will meet for coffee on neutral ground at a particular time (with 1/2 hr swinging either way), this give me added security, I never give out my number unless I feel it is absolutely safe, most often they give me theirs. (of course if you do ring them on their mobile ring from a different phone just in case)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Cassy_74'2 Minutes really, thats pretty long time !!!!! Cassy, Most guys could have sex in that time :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
i understand your pain... we get the same with couples who dont read our profile. However...put yourself in the single guys shoes for a minute.. You find 20 good profiles...10 of them are workable distance ,and you fit their wants.. You wink or message the 10...NOTHING happens.. then you wink the other 10 (of the 20) NOTHING happens or maybe 1 "you are too far away" ...after spending hrs searching for what YOU want and getting no replies... You try just winking attrative singles and couples and play the numbers game...and get a return of maybe 1 in 10 winks lead to a chat...then 1 in 25 lead to a meet. This is why i wouldnt take it too seriously , nore an insult. But obviously guys you talk to should focus on you and read everything they can to know you better??
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blueballs212
12 years ago
err...just plain zero actually...but browsing does fill in the tea breaks.
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RHP User
12 years ago
sorry to hear that someone suggested you put your kids outside Kymmy..i agree about some people not reading profiles all the way through,,at the bottom of mine it states i can't play due to recovering from an operation,,most people have been fine with it,but 1 guy i was chatting to wouldn't take No,,so he preceded to offer me money to have sex with him,,so i reported him and blocked him..i suggest you block this guy that offended you ..Good luck
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RHP User
12 years ago
for myself beyond 6 lines is usually the limit, if I wanted to read I'd go read a bookIt's all about the tits ' n arseto the guy whose harassing you tell him to piss offpeace
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RHP User
12 years ago
I read the profile, if it says "looking for unattached" or I'm over the age limit, I exit without any further ado (I must confess to a sending a couple of "loved your profile" ). If within the profiles left and right arc, I'll send a message or flirt, if I get a response, nice, if not, I move on, pity that so many idiots ruin it for most.
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RHP User
12 years ago
well i read or profiles and reply to all women that check mine out and send a fuck off to the blokes that check me out . so heres one for you you do you women bother to reply to honest blokes all do you just l;ook at bank accounts hey if that affens stiff , ive been typeing my fingers to the bone for over a year and well ive got few replys and a few interested in me , but now i see a comment like this do we bother checking profiles hey do women bother replying to bloke that put up and give it back , or do they just want a bloke who pays the bills and walks around blinded by bulshit feed to them by there so caledl girl friend while hes sitting in the corner doing what she wants and nothing eles . hey im old shcool ,but ladie its still a 2 way street ..
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi! :) No need to rush for the nearest exit . I'm complimenting you on your Profile. Not making a move on you He!he!..My Profile is composed for the same reason so They are aware of Who I Am What I'm About What I Expect from Others.. I enjoyed reading Yoursvery much because.it gave me info I'd like before saying Hi! I't s well set out , .Intelligent and light, but with a focus on who you are ,what you're about as you said.. You also give off! some awesome energies. too..I know any Woman who shares time with you will be more than satisfied and feel very special.. I've observed aside from Peoples Vibes that if they take the time to tell us in more detail about themselves as you have.They are very Attentive, Imaginative ,Lovers more..Fun to know in many ways.. Those who can't be bothered sharing something Personally about themselves, tend to be Lazy Lovers, only after getting their Rocks Off! not attentive to their Partners if they even get any ..Cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ok, so I've only managed to read the first page of the three pages of comments and I have to agree with most, but I don't agree with the part about all guys don't read profiles. I do read profiles. Otherwise I know nothing about the person that I am messaging, and would be at a complete loss if I have the opportunity to meet them. I would know nothing about them, their likes and dislikes and in some cases their situations like being a single mum!!! Kimmyj i am really sorry that this guy does not understand how to act like a human or even treat another with respect. It is unfortunate, and I have to agree with others when they say to block people like that. Oh and couger4fun, i may not have kids but I do have a beautiful niece and nephew who i would do anything for and believe me when I say this, family comes first, always. To me, if a person can't respect you or your situation, then they aren't worth it. There, rant over. Anything
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RHP User
12 years ago
I give my number out but I also state I will only reply to texts when I can and will not answer phone calls after a certain time, I really don't see what the big deal about having a mobile number can be.... Specially if its not hooked up to my address etc anyway.As for the rest... The best thing about being a parent is you learn very quickly how to block out certain behaviours and pay them no attention, this I do regularly with anyone who chooses to be a pain in the backside and can not understand when I am and am not free.
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RHP User
12 years ago
This has been a real eye opener to me. I'm not saying this in the hope that one of the lovely ladies says " what a nice guy". This is from the heart. There is no excuse for the behaviour of this boy. Yes boy. No man would ever think that type of behaviour was acceptable. Just because of the anonimity of the internet, they think they can bully someone into having sex with them is not just offensive but relegates them to the realms of boyhood. After all, don't children throw a tantrum when they don't get what they want. And if they are boys, how good are they going to be in the sack. Yes I have, very occasionally, sent a message to someone who's profile I don't exactly fit. I've just turned 41 a couple of weeks ago. When I do this I always say I'm just out if their age range. If I don't hear back, their lose not mine. Thank you reading my rant any to all the boys out there MAN UP As good as you think you are, if you're a boy, she's been with better
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have had the exact same experience. Some people spend their lives on here expecting that others have nothing else to do with their days also. I can't be "spontaneous" and meet yesterday as many men would like to. I work, I'm a mum, I have friends I like to catch up with too. But that's okay, because the ones who don't understand that are the ones I really wouldn't get on with anyway, so it's like a self-vetting process.....they've just selected themselves out of the running to spend time with your beautiful self. Their loss, certainly not yours.
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RHP User
12 years ago
It is clearly stated on our profile......NO single guys....flirts and messages will be ignored, yet they still come. So no......most guys don't bother reading the profiles.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just saying' because there's a lotta double standards on here and other sites
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just wanted to add my two cents worth ...Yes, as some others have said, many of us do read the profile. I like it when someone tells you enough about themselves to get a sense of what they are like, and leaves you wanting to find out more. I find it a little frustrating when you don't get told enough to get any idea of what that person is like and is after.Sadly, it doesn't surprise me that there are some who don't read profiles, and don't respect your wishes. Hormones are pwerful things, but no excuse for poor behaviour!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have had some that come on so strong and when I say that I dont think we are suited they also call me a cock tease and have even reported me for anything that has on one occasion had me banned from a site! And the fact that really cuts is that the site never even asked me if it was true, most men are wankers, however I have also met some who are lovely, tis why I only get with Mature men over 48, the younger ones have an attitude that if you are on here you will just lie down and let them shove it in! They do not know anything about women thats for sure! But the nice ones when they come along definately are well worth it!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Why would you EVER invite some random to your house after 9pm when you have kids in there? Regardless thats selfish and a desperate approach to finding whatevere it is your looking for. as proven there are weirdos out there...way too many of them. Plenty get angry when you just wont give out your address so they can pop on over.....I'm very picky. Why? Cos I can be and so should we all be. Safety first. Wake Up
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have found that in the very first sentence of someone messaging me I know if they have read or not read my profile. If it shows they haven't read it, i ignore them competely
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RHP User
12 years ago
I wood love to meet u our so hot
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RHP User
12 years ago
received read hi Oct 16 2012 I have no taboos i want u to wee on me I hope u have ur periods as i want to lick u then can we chat sent read Re: hi Oct 16 2012 Fuck Off recieved read hi Oct 2012 how r u i am bi and married and enjoy anal can we chat
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'EuropianBliss' received read hi Oct 16 2012 I have no taboos i want u to wee on me I hope u have ur periods as i want to lick u then can we chat sent read Re: hi Oct 16 2012 Fuck Off recieved read hi Oct 2012 how r u i am bi and married and enjoy anal can we chatI never get messages like that?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ok, I'll try harder from future!!! :p
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well I can only speak for myself yes I do read them so I'm not wasting my time MSG a couple if they are looking for a female or who ever they are looking for as you have to respect other people's wants and needs as I expect the same I suppose it's hard for some people to concentrate whilst masterbating well that's my opinion and we all have one Thanks
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Cheekyarses
12 years ago
block block block.....
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RHP User
12 years ago
SOME DO. I havent read all the other posts but one suggestion for you. Maybe add meets after 9pm. Otherwise profile pretty much states it all. Mind you anyone who has never had kids is possibly not going to understand the requirements of time in the evening. Cooking, washing, baths, homework etc sure i missed a few lol. Good luck with it all.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I most certainly do . Just recently read a profile very thoroughly beginning to end all the boxes checked all good but on meeting found the person to be naive confused but at 22 that's no surprise
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RHP User
12 years ago
profiles are often in the eye of the beholder . What a person writes and another reads it can be quite different . One may want it to come across a certain way but you can't guarantee it . Simple example if I say open for anything what is it understood as ? Or NSA ? Or more simply if I say house everyone has a different view or picture in their mind . For example met a lady stated open for anything which she clearly was not , wanted mental stimulation but only physical attraction . Stated no time wasters and I won't waste your time lol well guess what ?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'diagonal' I most certainly do . Just recently read a profile very thoroughly beginning to end all the boxes checked all good but on meeting found the person to be naive confused but at 22 that's no surprise Try 34 sometime then ...
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RHP User
12 years ago
So is there really a point to reading profiles. Kelly we need to meet .
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RHP User
12 years ago
check out kissmecutie and note my confusion around the supply of a contact detail the admonishment about using it lol like putting a $100 bucks on a bar counter and say only take it if your honest
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'diagonal' check out kissmecutie and note my confusion around the supply of a contact detail the admonishment about using it lol like putting a $100 bucks on a bar counter and say only take it if your honest Lol.. have seen similar but few with 78 rounding it to an end.
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RHP User
12 years ago
By the way is that a no no
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RHP User
12 years ago
Random oreder message. 1,2,3,4,5 "P
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RHP User
12 years ago
euro blss alas we are not a match
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RHP User
12 years ago
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'SmileyBear70'Why would you EVER invite some random to your house after 9pm when you have kids in there? Regardless thats selfish and a desperate approach to finding whatevere it is your looking for. as proven there are weirdos out there...way too many of them. Plenty get angry when you just wont give out your address so they can pop on over.....I'm very picky. Why? Cos I can be and so should we all be. Safety first. Wake Up My rules are that i will speak on the phone after 9 i will reply to texts when and if i can but i certianly wont let a stranger into my house while my children are here. I had been emailing and texting this particular guy for a good 2 or 3 weeks but hadnt met him which is a big YES before id let him into my house after my kids are asleep. I need to meet and speak with any person before i will invite them in even if possible have a meet elsewhere (their place, hotel etc) and i always let my bestie know the name and number of the person im meeting and she knows the address im at so if i call that means there is something wrong so please dont say im a bad mother or i dont care about safety cause im extremely safe when it comes to this Everyone else thanks for the imput for the record i read every word of a guys profile if they take my interest and they meet all my specifics
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sounds a bit extreme but I was a fan of Hynch's shame file. (lock the kids outside?!?) This chump should stick to picture books. You sound like a great mum KJ, the positive is you found out he is a freak.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well KymmyJ I had a good read of your profile and nothing about the way it reads would suggest you would welcome the kind of behaviour this guy has shown. What I love about these kind of posts though, is how it brings out the "single male" bashers on the site. I think all people on this site can be placed in 4 categories. 1) Nice people 2) Dickheads 3) Nice people who are occasionally dickheads 4) Dickheads who are occasionally nice people A general rule of thumb for kids, pets and dickheads is this.. Unchecked bad behaviour will only get worse. My advice to anyone is as soon as someone (male or female) on a site like this starts to head even slightly down the road of being an idiot or some kind of problem, cut them loose and make sure they understand that it's absolutely over. Then accept no calls, no sms, no messages and block their arse. You are not going to change a grown adults behaviour so don't waste your time trying. Anything worth having is worthy of effort so don't give up on finding a person who is the right mix but do remember one thing, it's got to be on your terms if it is going to make you happy so dig your heels in and accept only your terms. Single guys aren't the problem, dickheads are..
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RHP User
12 years ago
My experience was that if you want to put "spin" in your profile you sure can there were the rare expceptions that did actually live up to all they said in their profiles Orbitron was certainly one of them. A true gent ,another time another place things may have been very different >>>>
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RHP User
12 years ago
or is it a case of reading them but ignoring them . I also think many read the profile and then send a flirt anyway just because they don't like to be told what they can't do .
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RHP User
12 years ago
Gosh fun lover mmm...
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RHP User
12 years ago
No, I don't think they do. I get SO many replies from men on here and other places, and I state that I do NOT have a pic on this site, so please do NOT ask me for one. And what do they do? First thing is they ask for a pic. I tell them to read my profile. I put on there I prefer men 45 yr or older, but constantly get messages from younger men. I put on there southside only, but get messages from all over. So, no, 98% of men do not read profiles until I tell them to read it...maybe there are some decent 2% men out there who do read them.
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RHP User
12 years ago
and I dont list men under "seeking:" but the vast majority of my flirts and messages are from single men.
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RHP User
12 years ago
what did you say?:)I do read the posts, and actually a mom with small kids to me is a real turn on. dont know why. seeing a woman holding a four year olds hand while balancing a toddler on her hip puts me over the edge. Maybe the ancient protect the family thing, i dont know.
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RHP User
12 years ago
NO most guys (I'm not saying all) but most guys do not read profiles!!!! I have occasionally noticed that already earlier. But since I've changed my profile to "not looking atm" it is crazy how many messages I still get, obvious that they haven't read my profile....
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RHP User
12 years ago
to be honest i think this website isn't great. i'm going to tell a few of my friends. you have to pay. there are other sites that are free and successful. it is a good idea but not practical for the price.
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Zsuza69
12 years ago
That's all he must of read. And if he only contacts you during 9 and 4pm I would have to make the assumption that he is attached or married and can't do after 9pm or weekends. Delete block and move on - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I asked the same question in the couples forum. On our profile we clearly state no single men in capital letters yet single men still keep trying to contact us. I think maybe it just doesn't register with them. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I certainly do read profiles. The exception is when rating a photo as I'm rating the photo not the profile I put time into my profile( not that if matters as no one looks lol) and feel reading a persons profile can tell you a lot about the person beyond the obvious The way it's written for exam
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RHP User
12 years ago
Pushed send whilst typing on my phone
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