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Do you have a Masturbation Friend?
July 06 2016
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RHP User
8 years ago
Hi I like phone sex but usually when it's building up to meeting that person and if they work fifo or something phone sex in between seeing them the following time. But I'm not into ongoing partners that I can never hope to meet, too frustrating I'm too horny and I need to touch, I love the feel of skins and lips and God I'm horny again, but you get the picture. Nothing wrong with what you want to find. Good luck with your search
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RHP User
8 years ago
skin not skins
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enduran
8 years ago
I had a female friend which was a bit like you describe but to be honest at some stage it did end up being more than just masturbation...I guess it's hard to keep the line... - Posted from rhpmobile
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PatchworkGirl
8 years ago
"Talking dirty, masturbating myself/ each other, watching porn" ... For me, you just described sex without penetration. I completely appreciate your honesty, and find the idea of not wanting sex without love completely refreshing. For me, though, it'd probably be a no. I do place limitations on my sexual encounters - I won't have sex with someone who doesn't make me smile, and I can't hold a conversation with afterwards. Love, however, is the thing that provides access to my naked soul, not to the penetrative part of the sexual process. Good luck with your search - like everything, honesty up front about what you want is the best way to find what you are looking for! - Posted from rhpmobile
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PatchworkGirl
8 years ago
"Talking dirty, masturbating myself/ each other, watching porn" ... For me, you just described sex without penetration. I completely appreciate your honesty, and find the idea of not wanting sex without love completely refreshing. For me, though, it'd probably be a no. I do place limitations on my sexual encounters - I won't have sex with someone who doesn't make me smile, and I can't hold a conversation with afterwards. Love, however, is the thing that provides access to my naked soul, not to the penetrative part of the sexual process. Good luck with your search - like everything, honesty up front about what you want is the best way to find what you are looking for! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Agree with PG that what you're describing is still sex, just without penetration. I wouldn't be interested in an arrangement like that, personally I love penetration and never being able to have it would just frustrate me too much. I wish you the best of luck in finding what you're looking for though.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I have come across the odd female profile seeking a fwb arrangement but not including penetration (for various reasons I guess). So I guess that is what you are seeking to some extent.
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RHP User
8 years ago
no human contact for 20 yrs but I've had the delirious pleasure of masturbation, fave porn to watch gay guys wanking and handjobs...................
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RHP User
8 years ago
There is a certain enjoyment to be had from watching some... authentic-feeling masturbation porn - although I have to admit I'm not so much into watching guys masturbate, *anything* on BeautifulAgony is great - and I've had great times watching porn and masturbating - solo and mutual - with playmates. If you can maintain good boundaries, a masturbation buddy can be great. Fun, relaxing, a learning experience, bonding... but you need good boundaries.
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captainkaos
8 years ago
after i found out that she had an std. Nothing serious but we decided that this was the best solution.
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Eiliethiya
8 years ago
That to me is still a form of sex. Just not what I'd find satisfying. Too frustrating! I'm with I Touch..without meeting eventually and actual physical contact (including penetrating)..I don't see the point & I'd lose interest. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Thanks for the comments all! Great perspectives, and yeah I guess it is still sex but without penetration, I hadn't thought of it like that before.
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happy0450
8 years ago
Quoting 'PatchworkGirl' " Love, however, is the thing that provides access to my naked soul"Thank you for sharing
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RHP User
8 years ago
masturbation is foreplay and I view it as an Appetiser or Entre and penetrative sex is Main Course and Dessert. So it would be a no from me, I would find it unsatisfying and I'd get bored but good luck in your search. LG
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RHP User
8 years ago
Agreed with many above. This wouldn't be satisfying for me. I am quite happy to masturbate on my own, and if I'm with someone else... then, I'm looking for more (much more)! I've seen enough people having sex to know that just visual stuff isn't enough to do it for me. As I'm not much of a voyeur and even worse exhibitionist. But, I'm sure there are some about, will just be harder to find. Good luck :)
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RHP User
8 years ago
Yeah the occassional phone sex is good when your away but I am very much a love to tease and love to please. I love kissing and can tell a lot in a kiss. You are either connected or not. Much prefer the explore one anothers body and ripping one anothers clothes off then masturbatiing. Nothing hotter when you get that phone call or text to say im horny then im in lets go.
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Sawadee
8 years ago
.. the more you mastrubate to porn , the more less likely it becomes to cum any other. I get the mutual mastrubation thing. I've done it on more than one occassion' but I always want to penetrate for the finale. I love the warmth of being inside the woman I'm intimate with.
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RHP User
8 years ago
not for me
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RHP User
8 years ago
Cos instantly I thought "yep!!! We all know one mate that's a real wanker!!!!" Usually my job lol
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RHP User
8 years ago
But when Im the watcher I cant watch for long.....Im aboard that bus in 15 seconds
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RHP User
8 years ago
Yes I'm have one girl who love - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I really enjoy mutual masturbation, perhaps its the voyeur in me....but mostly I enjoy the uninterrupted view of the entire act, without the distractions of getting myself off at the same time (although that can happen in tandem too!). I find it quite sensual and very erotic watching someone pleasure themselves. I had a playmate last year who met up only to masturbate....he was supremely cautious about jumping into the hooking up (fucking) deal, but this, by his suggestion, was like a compromise....to which he knew would suit me perfectly as I particularly enjoyed his wanking clips he sent to me prioir to meeting up....he had this unique way of stroking himself and getting himself off that really turned me on...I found it really, really sexy. As all good things come to an end, sometimes when it gets complicated on here - I remember how fun that was because it was pleasure in a really uncomplicated, simple form....we both got off....and sometimes that can be alot of fun too ;) Masturbate away my friend!!
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RHP User
8 years ago
Every guy has a masturbating partner it's called his dick or his left or right hand but usually only employed when there is no Lady to satisfy I have never met a Lady who can watch porn with a friend satisfy herself and not want at least oral sex - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Totally.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I have a few people who I purely only talk dirty with and exchange pics and videos of ourselves masturbating for one another. It's a bit of naughty and cheeky fun you can have with someone at anytime whether you're bored at home, having a night out or at work. This only works though when both of us trust that we will only keep the pics and videos between us and not share them or use them in any other way. - Posted from rhpmobile
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