MrandMrsBrady

MrandMrsBrady

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Do you have a lower end age cut off?

December 31 2014

Hi Everyone, I would be interested to know people's thoughts on age limits ( for want of a better way of putting it). My partner & I ( I being the female) have a upper age limit that we prefer to play with but we can not agree on the lower age limit...given we are in our early 40's i thought the lower end that I would be comfortable with for possible playmates should be 30....lately we have communicated with couples who are suitable that are 25-30...my issue is my partners eldest (so our eldest I guess) child is 23 so I feel it's a bit creepy and too close in age to her...am I just being silly? Mrs Unicorn😊 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    We have 25 as our lower limit too seeing that our eldest is 20, but I think it essentially it comes down to maturity. Some 35 year olds would be too immature for us but then some in their early 20's are worldly wise and intellectually/emotionally mature. Our top end cut off is close to our ages because we look and feel much younger than our "number". It's an interesting question you pose and I guess for us it comes down to the individuals and how they present. Mr HnH

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Gorgeous as the young ones are, I won't play under 35 and prefer 40s. It's a personal hang up.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    ...having a blonde moment and posted in the Couples Corner.

  • aussian43

    aussian43

    10 years ago

    All depends what you are looking for. I would love to screw a hot 18 year old, but would not be interested in pursuing a relationship with one. I set a lower limit on the search primarily because I doubt there are many (if any) 18 year olds interested in me. And if there are any with that sort of kink, I can be found with a search :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    .. age limits don't always work.. We all start to think of someone we know of a same age when meeting younger / older occurs.. I gave up on age criteria long ago because I kept finding it varied from day to day. Now ' I look at the person as a person first and if it works, it works... But I must admit I become somewhat guarded when they are under 30..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    For me I find 35 yo lady's more mentally adaptable to my own thinking :) as for the looks department any age is good so long as they take pride :)) I've a setting of 35 > 55 but also an open mind to go outside that age group..

  • chevtrek

    chevtrek

    10 years ago

    This goes back 2 years ago. I posted on here about dating and love and howI was having no luck with my own age group.Back then even dating a 35 year old frustrated mebut there was no way I was going to spend time alone.New Year 2013 I decided to hell with it and ell in lovewith a 19 year old and wow ,I have never been so happyand we have a ball.Shes bi and I get to watch plus I see other young girlswho are now my subs.To hell with age limit and if others don't like it there prudes.

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    10 years ago

    Do anyone who is close to my oldest sons age, I find there's just something seriously wrong with it and for the life of me I can't bring myself to do it.....💋

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    No 'Under 25s'. Have almost never had a good experience with anyone younger than 25...all immaturity related.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Is the drift ...you start off saying,,I won't consider anyone younger than ten years,then you get comfortable with that,then someone twenty years younger contacts you and they are sooo mature..and really age is just a number doncha know...and soon all those good intentions are lying on your bedroom floor xx Freya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    You have to draw the line somewhere, and I draw it at having to help with school homework. I don't think you can just draw an age-line in the sand and expect all 20 year olds to be less mature than 50 year olds.. Look at Chev, he's a prime example.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Never say never. If you haven't noticed people are quite different. If you choose to paint yourself into a corner or meat and 3 veg night after night does it for you then good luck with that. Some young uns are awesome and some olders are an enormous disappointment. Each on their merits I reckon.

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    10 years ago

    Chev, isn't a primal example for or of anything....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I don't mind badmouthing posters to their faces, but this is mean.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    We remember Lioness. Beheaded in her prime lest we were to be blessed with mini you's

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    Saw the lynching party forming. Aplogies, apologies. we really need a recal button on here........ Kisses and hugs to everyone. Chill

  • passion8_l

    passion8_l

    10 years ago

    so no it's not silly, I feel the same and couldn't see myself with someone close to my kids age however I have always believed that age is just a number and having dated a man 18 years younger for 18 months that was certainly the case. If you're unsure meet for a drink and chat and take it from there, meeting and communicating face to face should clear up your uncertainty. Good luck

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Lovinit28' Chev, isn't a primal example for or of anything.... Maybe you mis-read.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I really don't like guys younger than myself. I worked with a lot of young men who would be now in their low to mid thirties as their boss and I feel more like a mother to them than their fuck buddy. I have a real issue with it and feel like a pedo and even though I know that is not any sort of comparison and these guys are not the young men who worked under me but I still have that connotation with it. I do know it is my issue and I do feel bad for knocking people back because of it but there is no point me pursuing it if I am not comfortable with it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    When I first started on this site I was 32 and decided that 30 was the lowest I would go. That worked for me, until I met a just turned 27yr old who soon changed my mind! Soon after meeting him I changed my lower age range to 25 and it has stayed there since. I went on to have a couples profile with this guy but even though he was younger I kept the lower age at 25, it just didn't feel right to me to go younger. 3yrs on he still reminds me why I like my men younger, every time I see him 😏 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    My cut off is 30, though there have been exceptions. Emotional maturity is a biggie, but also how young someone looks. Some twenty-somethings look much more boyish than others, something I'm not physically into.

  • rupamohan

    rupamohan

    10 years ago

    Our siblings can be our age...does that makes you feel creepy? Most sexual abuse is managed by control that sometimes comes from age differential between abuser and abused. If you find age difference subconsciously makes you feel like a abuser. Just follow what makes you feel better. like wise some feel uncomfortable with hairless genitals as it feels like having sex with child.

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    10 years ago

    Close to my oldest daughters age no matter how "mature" they are. Kids are still kids and from my own experience we don't truly become adults until about 28 when we start to actually appreciate the wisdom of our parents and what they were trying to tell us when we were young and dumb and full of shit (if you had parents like this). I tried to buck my strict system recently, of the 3 attempts (29, 34 & 32) none of them stood out. Very disappointing all round. Guess I just need to be attracted to the entire person not just their ability to satisfy the need for sexual conquest/fantasy/ticking off an item on the fuckit list?

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    10 years ago

    3 cuntabix for breakfast please.....

  • MrandMrsBrady

    MrandMrsBrady

    10 years ago

    no one said anything about feelings of abuse!!! You read way more into my question then was intended...my point was I have slept with 23 yo...when I was that age myself...now as a mother of 20 something children I am not that keen to do so...the same as I am sure some 20 something's have no desire to sleep with over 40's... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I tend to work in my own age range + or - 6 years ... I look at some of the younger people on here and think that I would need two of them to meet the minimum age requirement.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    yes, 40 is our minimum, as our ideal is our own age...50 plus. not into people the age of our children...2 of whom are in their 30s