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Do you mean what you say?
August 07 2017
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RHP User
7 years ago
Always mean what I say. I won't offer a compliment for the sake of it. If it is offered it is genuine and there are no ulterior motives behind it. - Posted from rhpmobile
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LetsFrolic
7 years ago
I always mean it. I prefer to say it how it is - Posted from rhpmobile
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megz85g
7 years ago
People can tell when you are being honest with your compliments, but I'm never going to tell someone they were terrible, at least to their face. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I am always upfront and totally honest (probably too much so), and will only give compliments if I genuinely mean them, without having an ulterior motive. I agree with megz85g - people can tell when you are being disingenuous, so I always say what I mean and mean what I say ... Both in real life and in the life of pie 💋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Have anything nice to say don't say anything at all. That's what I go by. So if I'm passing a compliment I definately mean it. Many compliments means I like you a lot 😉I don't feel the need to embellish to secure play because then they might think it's more serious than it is. Although on the other foot I tend to shrug compliments off and not trust them so yes I'm aware of a double standard there ... definately no inflated ego. Think one of the most backward compliments I've ever received is that " your gorgeous but I don't fuck big girls" um ok then... 🖕🏻😂 your loss - Posted from rhpmobile
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
I rarely give compliments as i don't trust them, so why would others ? It's entirely different if it's say clothes, the effort someone has gone to, to do someThing unexpected for me...as then it's quite natural....and heartfelt. That said I'm not gonna lay there in an Indonesian kitchens rules moment and be like "oh dear, I've had better fucks from the tax man!!" either as I think by that time it's too late to do anything about it, and it shows to me a level of selfishness. Sexual compliments...err delete sexual....lol compliments from people are nice, and I don't wish to dampen people's eagerness in giving them, but when I hear them, I find it really awkward, I'm just me, the best compliment to me is the call back..... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Actions speak louder than words. My favourite; Your different. 😁😜🤔
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RHP User
7 years ago
Im with you, i cant give negatve feedback or comments. When I have, I was a mess lol. Mary xx
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RHP User
7 years ago
My question for the gents is ... Do you tell everyone who gives you a BJ it was the best you've ever had? Do you make comment about the ladies or the gentleman's skill? For example, I loved it when you did ..... Ladies ... How many times have you been told 'you give the best head!' or your pussy is so tight ? Do we all use cliche one liners? Are we setting up people to think that they are better than they are? Mary xx
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RHP User
7 years ago
I will use the "I loved it when you ... etc". However, how is tightness a compliment? There's a difference between commenting on something you are born with and someone's words or actions :) As for someone being the best at something, I won't lie and say it to everyone, but will compliment on the thing that person is best at, which won't be everything I've experienced. For example, one person has given the best BJ, another was the most playful, another was the most affectionate and gave the best cuddles, and I will refer to these - the individual traits which makes someone... individual. - Posted from rhpmobile
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
Feedback for me is given at the time.... I had an ex fwb that used her teeth which I found painful not pleasurable, so that feedback was given at the time....not after the fact.... I don't ever use the words "that's the best I've ever had...." or similar....once again it's at the time and in the moment "that feels amazing" or "don't stop doing whatever it is you're doing cos that's incredible!!!" Hope this helps - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I'm full of shit, pander to your ego, blow smoke up your arse, piss in your pocket and then gone on the next sea breeze !Some people like it like that.Mwah. It's raining but I have rum.
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RHP User
7 years ago
mean it when I compliment, if not I don't say anything generally speaking, although that is harder if directly asked, there are ways of skirting around it lol but I love giving compliments where they are due, they flow freely, it's validating for them, and me in reverse. The most common one I get is no-one sucks cock like I do. Do they mean it? Absolutely they do, why else would they come back lol the most recently satisfying compliment of sorts, was from a guy coming out of a marriage who hadn't had the pleasure for a long period of time. His reaction when my lips made contact was amazing and compliments followed, not only about that, my arse got a mention lol but made it quite emotional for me. To give someone that kind of pleasure is very intense Funniest backhand compliment was one my daughter gave me today "How is it you're not fat?" 😂😂😂 me eating licorice allsorts after lunch, which also followed banana and chocolate for breakfast 😛 I burn it off 😇
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RHP User
7 years ago
I also will tell them if it either hurts me or not pleasant. I liken it to a man telling his wife he likes something she cooks, then gets stuck eating it for years 😉
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RHP User
7 years ago
I won't say it if I don't mean it - Posted from rhpmobile
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lovman8
7 years ago
unless there is truth in any compliment. I'm definitely with I touch and PoisonIV on this.
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boobsandbusted
7 years ago
But only if I am in the moment and mean it ,but prolly never use ,that's the best ever cos many are different and varied in there own way to make things special, personally don't like disingenuous compliments ,or worse compliments to the max , that make you feel great and on top of the world , only to be ghosted or fed crap next time you want to catch up cos everything went so well between everyone ,well that's what you thought !!,now that's the very opposite to boosting your confidence and can very detrimental To self esteem ,I'd rather nothing or just politeness with a that was nice ,in a nutshell I find fake compliments, on the same level as someone faking an orgasm .it just fucks with your head in the end and doesn't do anyone any good Mr B - Posted from rhpmobile
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Sawadee
7 years ago
i do compliment ... If I don't ' I say nothing , but that doesn't mean I didn't enjoy what just happened. Simply means the urge to say something for the sake of it , wasn't there...?
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Openly_Curious
7 years ago
I don't give hollow compliments. Sometimes I'm more expressive, which is mostly about the mood I'm in, but I only say things I mean. I also avoid 'best' or other comparative terminology because I don't think that way nor do I want to create a dynamic where the focus is competitive. Similarly, I'm wary if someone refers to an aspect of sex with me as the best they've had. That feels like a line, so it makes me devalue the compliment and question their integrity. But I do enjoy knowing what they like, what didn't hit the mark and what they want more of next time because I like getting better together over time. Ms O_C - Posted from rhpmobile
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jamhunter
7 years ago
As the old saying goes, if you haven't got anything nice to say, say nothing at all! But a compliment should be sincere, otherwise you're being disingenuous and manipulative... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Adding to my earlier comment about men saying they like something their wife has cooked and get stuck eating it for years, Raymond in 'Everybody loves Raymond' tells Debra he loves her Apricot chicken on their first date I think, years later still suffering. I seriously loved that show, most married couples could identify with their interaction 😀
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RHP User
7 years ago
I said to a potential nicely that we require time to think about our situation. And then to my surprise my beautiful gorgeous husband got a little gello.. never seen that behaviour before !! We had not even had sex yet?? A little confused love my hubby however as I never seen him in 19 years get jealous I didn't know how to react?? Is this common to get jealous prior to involving someone into our purple circle? Hehe - Posted from rhpmobile
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Alberto74
7 years ago
Thats me with my missus... She cooks and if i dont finish she asks "not nice? Lah?? " I was 71kg handsome young man when i married her... Went up to 96years later lol... Around mid 80s now... Things u do for love.... Or peace 😰😰😝 - Posted from rhpmobile
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bonefide
7 years ago
Comments are all good in the correct situation cost nothing to be polite, also helps to be positive. All people like comments but a few get upset with honest options, need to have confidents in your words. Think before u speak always helps. Or ask a friend two heads bettet than one. LOL many hands make life easy. MMMMM Safe happy travels
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