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Do you think....?
July 09 2012
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have in the past. An extraordinary relationship, in fact. Good luck :) P.S. I agree completely re the more conventional sites!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Met someone here and it lasted 3 years ..however because we did meet on here, he didnt believe that the normal" rules" of a relationship - being you dont screw around without discussion and being open and honest applied.....he always said that those "rules" didnt apply because we met on a sex site...so my advice to you is, that if my bloke thought that...MAYBE others will as well Good luck though....who knows what the successful formula is ???
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RHP User
12 years ago
We met about 4 years ago through a different, but very similar site. We were both looking for something "casual/Friends-With-Benefits" as we had both just come out of long term relationships and didn't want to get tied down (LOL). It didn't remain casual for very long though, we felt a really deep connection and we fell completely in love. We've been living together for over 3 years now and plan on keeping each other forever :P (awwww, yes u can throw up now). And a really awesome bonus is that because we share the same views on sex, we can indulge in our fantasies together, which makes our relationship even stronger.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've read a few profiles where the writer is at least open to something more than a bit o' fun, occasionally stating they're looking for a relationship. Of course, I only read female profiles, so I can't speak for what may or may not be in the male profiles.Personally, I'm not specifically looking, but not closed off to the idea of something developing...if it happens, it happens.I agree with what you say about the more "vanilla" sites, too. While they may be more PG rather than R- or X-rated, the underlying theme remains the same.
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RHP User
12 years ago
.....profile
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RHP User
12 years ago
People on this site who say that is what they are looking for,but I think the odds are against that actually happening. However if that is what you are looking for,try other sites and agencies that do the matching and sorting for you. Talk to your friends,they may know someone,be confident and optimistic OP and perhaps Mr Right,rather than Mr Right Now, will find you.x Hugs Hesione Optimist
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RHP User
12 years ago
This is no different than the other conventional dating sites. The first thing I noticed was that a huge amount of the men on "the other site" are on here too! On there they proclaim to be looking for their soul mate, on here they aren't looking for anything serious just NSA fun. Well, which is it gents???? You never know where you'll meet someone you have a great connection with. I'd love to find a great man who fits my profile, will I find him here? Maybe, maybe not. But if you don't look you won't find.
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SacralChakra
12 years ago
I'm on here rather than the other dating sites because I don't want to take time getting to know someone only to find out they're vanilla. If the sex is awesome, intimacy and love can follow after if you're open to it... I'm an optimist ;-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Crackup this was rhetorical as your profile certainly doesn't reflect your question.Xhugs H
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zoe69r
12 years ago
MsVelvetBlue, i sorry you had to met a guy who didnt respect you , but i disagree with his thoughts completly no matter what site you meet someone off they deserve the respect from you not to fuck aroung behind there backand all rules apply no matter what site you meet them
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CrackUp
12 years ago
It is Hesione...rhetorical. As many of my questions or posts are. I don't necessarily subscribe to what I may write. Sometimes, it's just in the interest of having a discussion. It has gotten me in trouble at times, with more 'delicate' subject matter but..I think discussion and opening your mind to the opinions of others is a good thing...you just take from it what suits.
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RHP User
12 years ago
How honest you are with yourself. Be it male or female that are looking, if you can't be honest with yourself as to what you want, then you won't be honest with the person that you are interracting with. That said though, it does have to be said that prepare yourself to wait, as being true to your own convictions doesn't necessarily mean you're going to score within the first few weeks of being here. Just my take.. Chris
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RHP User
12 years ago
i have silly fantasies about a few of the women here....you just never know when you'll suddenly click with someone. i just keep an open mind and heart and see what happens?
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lovman8
12 years ago
I reckon the chances of meeting someone on here for a "real" relationship are about as good as meeting someone in a pub/club/ local supermarket/sunday school picnic. The disadvantage of this site is there is probably a higher number of wankers on here than you would meet on average or perhaps it is just that because it is a sex site they are less inhibited than they are in "normal" situations. The advantage of this site is it gives you fairly instant contact with a large number and wide variety of people and because it is a sex site there is likely to be less bullshit from people trying to spin you a line so they can fuck you. So I would say if you have an open mind , a sense of fun and don't take thing too seriously your chances of meeting "partner" on here are as good as anywhere else and if not you can certainly have a lot of laughs and fun on the way.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Unfortunately the man I fell for, was not the genuine article. He was packaged well, shiny and appealing, witty and exciting, warm and caring...unfortunately he was like a tom cat, sharing himself everywhere, sampling red hot pies in different states of Australia. I suspect his memory was not that good, because he seemed to have forgotten that he had a wife at home. A fact he kept close to his chest and heart.
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RHP User
12 years ago
One of my very dearest of friends... I met her and her (Then) partner on here.. He turned into a dick, like a fat slimy slug, crawling through the undergrowth.... she turned into a beautiful butterfly.. Her and I will be friends for life - this I am certain. We had a few tendernesses, and she is now with another fella... I have never asked if he knows where and how we met, and that is of no matter anyway. The HER and I part is a lovely friendship.. the future.. "Who knows??" **siiigh** caveman.. fondness~
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RHP User
12 years ago
optimism is such a cool thing..a few years back i was criticized for being too optimistic. i waggled my fingers poked my tounge out and tripped over someones roller skates as i walked away.but i wonder if the living by the sword, dieing by the sword analogy may fit here?I hope not...for totally selfish reasons.. Quoting 'SacralChakra' .... I'm an optimist ;-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Perversity is always ready to consort with human nature...Norman Mailer What we think we want, is not necessarily what we want,when we get itx Hugs H
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RHP User
12 years ago
I did! Well not this site but one very similar to it. We had only known each other for two weeks when he asked me to marry him. I have never been married, never felt the need and was more surprized than anyone else when I said yes. Sex is a large part of any relationship. It is not THE only part and really is not important unless you get it wrong. At least on these sites you have the chance of getting the sexual side of things right first up.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I know a few people who have met their partners through either this or other sites. Kisses Focus
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RHP User
12 years ago
..... i met a 24 yr old american kid recently. He has been in Perth for 3 months now, he and 4 others haven't paid for one food bill in all that time. They simply source their food from the Coles supermarket bin's every night. It's amazing the amount of perfectly good food that gets thrown out purely because legally, they're not allowed to sell it, nor can they give it away to a soup kitchen! 15 dozen eggs one night they scored, kilo's of cheese... and an endless supply of bread and green'smoral of the story... it's amazing what you can find, if your happy to sift through all the shit.
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RHP User
12 years ago
As a few others have said, this site is in reality no different from the more vanilla or straight sites. In both, people are looking for like minded people with the aim to get together. When I first joined this site, I was amazed at the number of women I recongised from the straight site I had been on. Some still had the same profile, word for word. The only difference is on here there are a few more criteria boxes to fill out and the photo's are a bit more risque. Now for the question of romance on here. Of course it happens, a damn sight more frequently some some thing and other will admit. Just because someone is on here doesn't mean they automatically only want sex, there is a lot here that I think would dearly love to meet that special someone, secure in the fact that the probably know more about them sexually than would be found out via a traditional dating site.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Why thank you :) You have ... funny undies ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm not sure I'd describe myself as optimistic, any more. My answer was factual because it happened to me, so I know it can happen. I think it might be rare though, and I think Coodi's post re sorting through the shit is absolutely true. For that you need patience, to put in some effort and to be persistent. For me it's a no brainer - casual, meaningless sex is a long way in my past and not something I want for my future. So, if I want love (and I do) I have to look for it. And here's as good a place as any :)
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CrackUp
12 years ago
Quoting 'lil_bit_angelic' I'm not sure I'd describe myself as optimistic, any more. My answer was factual because it happened to me, so I know it can happen. I think it might be rare though, and I think Coodi's post re sorting through the shit is absolutely true. For that you need patience, to put in some effort and to be persistent. For me it's a no brainer - casual, meaningless sex is a long way in my past and not something I want for my future. So, if I want love (and I do) I have to look for it. And here's as good a place as any :)I'm a romantic at heart (sssssh don't tell) so.. I sincerely wish you every success with that Angel. I think we all deserve that (those of us who desire it)...a special, loving, relationship.
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Smilingwithfun
12 years ago
If we can learn from the past & not let it taint our being,then the future is a great hope. Who knows were we might meet our next partner, the secret is not to have a closed mind.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have, twice. One lasted 1 & 1/2 years and the other lasted 3 years. Definitely possible. xxO
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brenbob_68
12 years ago
We have been to 5.... FIVE... weddings in the last two year (three last year) of people who met on this site!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Haha sifting through the shit @coodi_yowie. What a great analogy! Not only in regards to a dating sight, but in yourself, others and how we relate! An honesty and openness with each other is integral to any successful and continuing relationship, whether it be sexually intimate or purely plutonic. If you can put up with bullshit so be it - and some lovers respect each others secrets. But something in me is always alerted to and repelled by it. I tend to see beyond people's rubbish ( loving this theme!)- however, I can be over ruled with intense emotions and desires if I have a strong love, affection and connection with someone.This kept me in a unhealthy marriage for at least 3 years. Retrospect is very enlightening. Its always important to listen and be true to yourself! This is a great place to practice!! Also with NSA ... None of this matters. ..........p.s My best friend found her partner here. He's an all round gorgeous man!! - but still has his shit ....... Cassandra
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RHP User
12 years ago
I met my Beautiful wife here, and some of the best friends you could ask for. So no matter what relationship your looking for, Im sure you will find it here Ink_Junkies
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RHP User
12 years ago
As a young, recently single guy i'd like to think that there is a good chace I could meet someone through this (or any other ) site. I've been single for a few months now and while im not actively looking, who knows ... i do believe that love can blossom anywhere.. even on the kinkiest adult site :-) and to be honest, wouldn't it be great if it did
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RHP User
12 years ago
Posted on wrong topic ... thought was very witty but there you go ... Bit like those first date moments
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