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Do you use "protection" for Oral sex? Condoms Dams and other rubber goodies!
August 13 2014
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RHP User
10 years ago
Have used condoms for fellatio, it sucks!
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TheLuckyOne
10 years ago
I don't!
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DynamicCouple36
10 years ago
More and more evidence is emerging, following many case studies, that there are risks associated with oral sex as in essence the mucosa are vectors for transmission of certain infections / diseases. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have given oral a couple of times and almost gagged from the horrible bittery rubber taste. I think the guy must've have thought he was too big lol And no, I don't insist on them. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I will decline giving should I have a mouth ulcer or any gum issues.
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Paradisepair
10 years ago
That nasty aftertaste is not there anymore as far as I can tell. I was shocked and pleasantly surprised to discover because when I was a young'un geez they tasted like crap. With the taste no longer a factor I love the latex sensation in my mouth.
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RHP User
10 years ago
No I don't , I also don't play if I have any mouth cuts or ulcers etc This whole scene - sex - is a little risky , we weigh up the risks and for us oral sex not in group situations where you can see / smell the vagina/penis is fairly low. We 100% use it for sex - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I used to get fellated wearing a condom years ago but the women did complain about the taste which then had the effect of making me reluctant to ask. Eventually I decided to just drop it unless the woman asks for it, which they invariably don't. I did use a dental dam with one woman years ago. It felt a bit silly since she didn't feel much sensation through the rubber and you can't really do all the things you can do au naturel. JasonLeslie, no orifice is risk free as far as STI is concerned but the mouth is at the lower end of risk as saliva is a natural antiseptic and I endorse the precautions re ulcers and cuts mentioned above. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I thought that was common knowledge ? Also, you shouldn't have oral if you have just brushed your teeth, just in case you have some bleeding etc. You should wait for at least half hour after brushing. :)
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DynamicCouple36
10 years ago
For most of us, when we think of safe sex, we think of using a condom. Many people, in the swinging scene and in group situations think that it is acceptable, whilst wearing a condom, to pull out of one vagina [or any orifice for that matter] and to then put the same penis, covered by the same condom, into the orifice of another person. They dont seem to realise that the vaginal secretions, now coating the outside of the condom covered penis, can then spread infection to the next person. Even more people then dont realise that its the actual mucosa secretions that are the vectors for infection, and feel that its 100% safe to finger the orifices of one person, and then move on to finger the orifices of the next person, without thoroughly washing said hands and fingers in between. The very same applies to oral sex and especially cunnilingus as a much larger mucous membrane contact occurs. Would any of you, who insist that it is so safe, or that the risk is low, or that only those with compromised immune systems get infected, be happy to go down on a woman, or even orally kiss a woman/ another man, or have a woman go down on you, knowing that she had gonorrhea, chlamydia, trichomoniasis, HPV, HIV, Herpes, a bad case of the flu or even ebola ? We use the example of a woman purely as they have much larger genital mucosal membranes than man, and said membranes are generally exposed to a lot of wear and tear during intercourse. To say that one is safe, if one does not engage in oral sex and deep kissing, if one has cuts, ulcers, blisters / cold sores is ludicrous. At the end of the day we all have a choice . Some of is believe its not risky and its these people who engage in risky sexual practices who then in turn spread more infection. The immune system of mucosal surfaces functions to protect epithelial surfaces and underlying tissues and organs from environmental insult. It is an organism's first line of defense against an array of pathogens that invade the host through mucosal surfaces by the generation of innate (nonimmune) mechanisms or the generation of mucosal immunity (or both). The mucosal immune system structurally comprises the salivary glands, Peyer's patches, appendix, tonsils, mesenteric lymph nodes, and mucosal tissues of the respiratory, urinary, genital, and gastrointestinal tracts. Currently, >90% of STD's ( HPV, HIV, ) cases worldwide have been transmitted via mucosal surfaces. This form of transmission is mostly associated with sex activity in partners who often are unaware of their infection status. Globally, the most frequent modes of transmission, in descending order, are sex contact from infected males to female partners, sex contact from infected females to male partners, and sex contact from infected males to male partners. Transmission across genital mucosal surfaces and across gastrointestinal tract tissues thus accounts for most STD transmission worldwide. There are two primary ways that STDs are transmitted. Some diseases, such as HIV infection, gonorrhea, chlamydia, and trichomoniasis, are transmitted when infected urethral or vaginal secretions contact mucosal surfaces (such as the male urethra, the vagina, or cervix). In contrast, genital ulcer diseases (such as genital herpes, syphilis, and chancroid) and human papillomavirus (HPV) infection are primarily transmitted through contact with infected skin or mucosal surfaces. Genital ulcer diseases include genital herpes, syphilis, and chancroid. These diseases are transmitted primarily through “skin-to-skin” contact from sores/ulcers or infected skin that looks normal. HPV infections are transmitted through contact with infected genital skin or mucosal surfaces/secretions. Genital ulcer diseases and HPV infection can occur in male or female genital areas that are covered (protected by the condom) as well as those areas that are not. We, as a married couple, would rather err on the side of caution, and that is to assume there is a risk and that others are potentially carrying an infection, until such time as we are presented with proof that they are indeed safe. Brushing ones teeth has got nothing to do with it, and so no need to become sarcastic. Again, each to his own. We keep our sexual contact, with others, as close to 100% safe as we can. Of course the safest sex is to stick with just one, long term partner. Its like the virus on a computer . It wont impact on your computer if you dont connect it to the internet. Sleep around and share mucosa with others, and your risks of catching a STD increase a hundredfold.
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RHP User
10 years ago
with a condom, they taste terrible besides I think guys already loose sensation for the sake of safe sex, they deserve a good head job without one. Assuming of course everyone is clean. I know you can't always guarantee someone is going to be honest about that or sometimes even know about it but it is a risk I am willing to take.
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Seachange
10 years ago
You make felatio sound so dur-tee! Yum. (Pupils rolling in ecstasy). I can only imagine that for the men getting a blowjob from a woman with a mouth guard or condom on is like fucking a kitchen strainer. And for us women it is like sucking on a turkey baster. Hmmm But seriously something to think about. Food for thought. Thanks. I didn't finish reading all your post as the statistics got lost in the thought if me giving my men a mean bj. So my apologies if I missed some earth shattering info that could jeopardize my health and the others. I will have to think 1.5 times before I engage in such lewd sexual act. So men of Rhp, NO more felatio from this plucky duck until health investigators from WHO has deemed it safe. (Insert sad face here -->) I want to see the memo! For those lucky recipients enjoy the memories. Haha. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
My favourite thing isn't safe,well you take a risk crossing the road,lol Toothpaste interesting makes sense,normally brush after a good session,for more kissing lol Surely you never know for sure if your playmate is clean,or not! May die tomorrow too,good out ways the bad for me anyway xxx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Not ever. I mean why bother, seriously !
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's a risk you take when you swing and go to clubs. You know that it is never 100% safe. Hence the regular testing. Swingers club etiquette should be that you shower between different groups, wash hands, etc. Nobody wears those surgical gloves either and you watch some people just run from one group to the next with no thought whatso ever. It's just good manners to wash & shower regularly at a club. Uncovered fingers are just as bad as an uncovered penis when it comes to common STIs. :-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
I remember bonking a woman with my strapon at CC. Picture it... Me standing on my milking stool rooting a woman on the sling. She is moaning feet in the air. Of course a bit of a crowd had congregated to watch the show. When I had finished I pulled out, bowed to the crowd then rolled the condom off my strapon with a debonair flourish and I heard gasps from some of the crowd. Some people were shocked that I had put a condom on my strapon apparently! I am waiting for the condom onesie. I will be safe then. :P
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RHP User
10 years ago
"I am waiting for the condom onesie. I will be safe then. :P" It's called glad wrap !
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RHP User
10 years ago
I use protection always!!!!! Though the package says "Chastity Belt" but meh same thing isn't it?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
10 years ago
I get Tara's legs well and truly secured in the stirrups of the sex swing It saves getting my head crushed. She has very strong thighs and little self control. Mado Tara xx
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Seachange
10 years ago
Ah the swing at CC..... BTW, Just to clarify, I'm NOT the woman Meeka was with.... Lol.
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RHP User
10 years ago
You guys must be a laugh at dinner parties !
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cbdlivin
10 years ago
Well had a read thru this, and interesting to see still get the people who like to lecture everyone, while most people answer the question with some good humour. Anyhow, could not think of oral on male or female being that enjoyable with protection, though I would say I only give Oral with people I trust. Cock or pussy better to be able to taste and feel....
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RHP User
10 years ago
Want to come to my place for some oral sex I use a common ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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TheLuckyOne
10 years ago
Quoting 'Booley17' Want to come to my place for some oral sex I use a common ;) - Posted from rhpmobile A common what?
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