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Does age affect our fantasies?
June 11 2015
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
For this old tranny. Tick one off, get another or evolve an old one. Constantly changing with past experience and present moods. But sometimes we get a bit jaded from crappy experiences and its okay to tuck the fantasies into the cupboard till we feel better. That's when we get those dreaded vanilla thoughts and we feel a bit weird for being so straight
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Hottie1
10 years ago
I'm finding the older I get, the more debauched my fantasies get. 😜 I'm with Any, bad experiences can color our fantasies but don't let them. I'm learning to be more outspoken and it's ok to stop play or not go through with something because it doesn't meet your fantasy. I also think because we have the opportunity to meet like minded people and explore so many fantasies, we may get a little desensitized to the experiences we do have. Take the time you need and take stock of what you do want. I do this regularly because the goal posts move often with every fantasy I tick off . Mary xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
i wouldn't say they're vanilla! Just a lot less ribald in my mind! - Posted from rhpmobile
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compressor
10 years ago
I think they will always be with you
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RHP User
10 years ago
I never used to fantasized about MMF or bi MMF, but over the past few years this has changed. Not really sure why this change has occurred, Maybe it's knowledge and experience, maybe it's how my brain has developed or maybe I am simply more open to listening to my desires. I never used to be appealed by the idea of swinging. Whereas now I can't imagine being in a serious relationship with someone that isn't compatible with the lifestyle. This is definitely down to experience and the friends I've made on RHP. Things change, and can change fast. Just riding the wave for now :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm only part way there but I agree with Mary. I like getting older. You get more perspective on experiences and are less reliant and caught up in your own head...or crotch. I've always been drawn to older women and they always told me the best sex is when you get to 40. But now I'm past 30 I'm excited and also not sure about how the women I've always been attracted to are getting closer to my age. Hmmn, kinda kills part of the thrill of being an innocent corruptible fantastical younger man. It's very true you get desensitised to a lot of things but also I find I'm more responsive to other things which heighten sex where all aspects (intimacy, romance, kink, cumming, etc.) feel bigger and better than ever where I don't really feel the need to fantasize and all the things I once dreamt of doing are now regulars on the menu. Don't worry sunshinerain! At the very least you could still have fantasies as you age it's just you'll be doing them in comfy slippers and at a reasonable hour.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think that's very well worded - Posted from rhpmobile
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ruby_blossum
10 years ago
once you have experienced it? Or does it become a wonderful memory?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'ruby_blossum' once you have experienced it? Or does it become a wonderful memory? It becomes a dragon which is ever so close yet ever so far away from ones fingertips. Like heroine.
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blkcapricornday
10 years ago
Other people with fresh perspectives can really challenge you, especially when they're openminded, honest and happy. Some things I used to consider vulgar or strange I've come to enjoy because of being shown different ways to look at them from people I admired/was attracted to. So really, mine are growing, not diminishing!
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madotara69
10 years ago
You've got me thinking about rainbows and beams of rich golden sunlight as it burns off the clouds on a stormy summer evening, the lightning is more exciting than a fuck'n rainbow though, rainbows get a bit boring after seeing a few, yeah no I like that crack of thunder that frightens the living shit out of you when the lightning strikes so close the hairs stand up from the static, way better than a fuck'n rainbow. Saw a moonbow one winter night, about midnight out fishing on the Hawkesbury waters, that was cool, the colours look awesome against a black sky and that's something you don't see so often, I like moobows. Anyhow sunshinerain, depends a bit on whether you live the fantasy, for example Iv'e been living in fantasy for twenty years, ever since I laid eyes on Tara, she's beautiful and real bubbly too, lively spirit so that keeps my mind busy just thinking about her which is a fantasy come true. Why for any reason I'de want to leave the fantasy and think of something else is beyond the comfort zone, so I just fantasise about her and everything else fits in around that. Plus I could never have contemplated as to how sexy she has become to this day, it's a fantasy in the works so it doesn't matter how old we get, actually the older we get the better it gets. Mado Mado Tara xx
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Missed you Mado&Tara Xxx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Fantasies ( and even my fucket list) have changed with different stages of my life. Started off mellow of course, being young and sexually naive ( I kissed a girl and I lliked it, senario in my early 20's. grew to I fist a girl and I liked it. Kind of evolved with my fantasy land stuff as I have aged.And I think given the extreme porn that is available now, at our fingertips, it gives us plenty of ideas for our own fantasies and desires to try something thats turning us on just by watching it. I agree with it only being a fantasy if you havent done it but want to.( like my 4xbi guy dream....) p.s good to see you back mado and the much adored tara.Love reading your expressive views.Will have to look out for a moon beam. Dont believe Ive seen one.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
One person's vanilla can be some one else's deepest kink/fantasy.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I know who I am and what makes me tick now more than ever its exciting and liberating. My fantasies are more in tune with who I am and I let my mind run free. May not mean I will play them out for real but I'm having a good time never the less.
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RHP User
10 years ago
great feed back guys and girls! I appreciate it! - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
10 years ago
Quoting 'Any_Whichway' Missed you Mado&Tara Xxx Just an instantaneous spontaneous misalliance would surely have you discombobulated by the ostentatious achievements be it educative, constructive, creative or even side tracked by something else intriguing. I'm building a mobile work station into the off road International Harvester mobile crane that could pull the skin off a rice custard and it's not so easy finding high vis lingerie for Tara, I'm in a bit of a co-fuffle with industry meeting fantasies needs or wants. Maybe I could bleach some of her lingerie and find some fluorescent clothes die and make our own skimpy little work outfit ?
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chevtrek
10 years ago
Many things change over the years especially if you have achievedsome of those fantasies .I achieved mine before I was 25 so new ones replaced those and by the time I was 35 I wanted the one and only.Then at 49 I realized when the marriage broke down still wantedthat one and only however, lots of women said long term on datingbut to much baggage.So by accident I now live most men's dreams so all I can say isthings change as your life changes and so does any fantasy.
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RHP User
10 years ago
My fantasies have changed dramatically over the years.. But prefer to call it creative sex, and to me it's being with someone that knows you so well and wants to get naughty at any time anywhere !!!! Or even create scenes together... Life can get dull at times but if U have a special person that U trust and can get very intimate with it makes it a fantasy everytime U have sex :)
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