RHP

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Does good sex have to include intercourse ?

October 23 2014

So I have been here a short time. I decided to create a profile because I was looking for something specific. A guy who leans towards the submissive side but not a sissy. Someone who likes to play but without intercourse. One who loves the tease, likes to be a little dominated and puts the woman first. Sensual massage, worshipping the female form, edging and denial, foreplay, etc without the pain and humiliation part more making the guy squirm with pleasure. Although I have had some positive responses (apart from the attached ones). I have also had some surprising ones. Including being called selfish as I do not want intercourse. Or questions regarding whether I have something physically or mentally wrong with me. Personally I think it is an urban myth that all straight women want a big cock in them. Am I alone in enjoying other things more ? Are women afraid to admit that intercourse is their least favourite part of sex ?

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    but I still love the penetration. I don't feel like I have had sex without it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I'm sure you're not alone, but as always it depends on the person. Your question about women being afraid to admit that intercourse is their least favourite part of sex sounds like you're assuming that is the case for all women? I for one would say that intercourse is actually one of my favourite parts and like Ralf I personally don't feel like I've had sex without it. However I know that there are women who don't particularly like intercourse or get much pleasure out of it for various reasons, and that it is perfectly possible for people to have good sex without that component. I can think of a couple reasons why you're getting some negative reactions but none of them involve anything that you should be changing. Just ignore the guys who are negative about it and focus on the ones who are happy to respect your needs and desires.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Of course lots of women love intercourse. What I meant to say was Do those who prefer other things admit to it openly ? Don't worry i am not changing anything Luckdragon :) Just was a little surprised in an environment where people are wanting all sorts of things that my request are seen as unusual.

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    10 years ago

    I'm a penetration kinda girl too, but defiantly don't need it to feel satisfied. There are so many other ways to have a satisfying session without penetration, but I need to please as much as be pleased, it's one of my things.....💋

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    it is all about everyone enjoying themselves hence why i have requested a particular type of person. I think they need to be a bit more creative and switched on than the average joe without going overboard.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I can't orgasm without something inside me ..... I definately love/need cock to penetrate me for it to be good sex !! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Twisted_Mister

    Twisted_Mister

    10 years ago

    This should be good.... :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'fdom234' What I meant to say was Do those who prefer other things admit to it openly ? some women probably are afraid to admit it, and whether they do admit it or not many may feel that it is something they 'should' or are expected to do. Let's face it, although the alternatives are now getting more exposure and acceptance, the traditional view of sex is still pretty dominant in mainstream society...and part of that view is that sex equates to, or at least includes, penetration. So there's a pretty big cultural / social influence around it all as well. Also I know that a lot of people seem to expect that on a site like this attitudes will be different and to an extent they are, but the thing is that being open to looking for sex online doesn't always equate to being open-minded or more informed about the whole range of issues around sex and sexuality. It's a big melting pot on here and there's a whole lot of individuals with various backgrounds, attitudes, and exposure to things outside the mainstream, so whilst it may be a bit more liberal in some regards you'll still find a lot of the same prejudices and biases here that you do in the 'real' world.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    People have an overwhelming desire for acceptance so i guess this should be no different in the online world. Facebook is a good example. People with 1000 "friends" they have never met. I also think that other forms of sexual play take a bit more effort than intercourse ie need a bit more connection to be able to read the person and share the energy. My last play mate was a reiki person .......not everyone has this sensitivity. So it is not going to suit the ones looking for once off flings. Despite my profile I am still getting some messages from guys with self declared huge cocks who are offering to pound me into tomorrow (and they are not all young either). Sadly for them it seems that is the only skill they have and assume size is enough.........

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Twisted_Mister' This should be good.... :) - Posted from rhpmobile gives us the male opinion

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    about a guy with next to no penis, maybe you could use someone like that where penetrations isn't at the fore. It would be interesting to hear from the guys if they think they could sustain that sort of sexual relationship.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'ralf74' about a guy with next to no penis, maybe you could use someone like that where penetrations isn't at the fore. It would be interesting to hear from the guys if they think they could sustain that sort of sexual relationship.But i still like having something to play with, tease and watch

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I still love an intense 69er, wouldn't need penetration after one of those.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I definetly need penetration for it to be good and come way more intensely with it. I don't enjoy the long drawn out foreplay or oral that is going nowhere. Personal choice though. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    yes

  • Mr_MrsAraps

    Mr_MrsAraps

    10 years ago

    Sure, I love penetrative sex and much as the next person but there are always times when planets don't align. It doesn't always have to end in orgasm for everyone for it to be successful and one person can always be looked after next time. So for you Fdom your holding the cards in some ways cause there aren't a lot of female doms out there so you just need to find the sub guy who will do the worshiping that you are looking for. Cheers, W.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Araps' Sure, I love penetrative sex and much as the next person but there are always times when planets don't align. It doesn't always have to end in orgasm for everyone for it to be successful and one person can always be looked after next time. So for you Fdom your holding the cards in some ways cause there aren't a lot of female doms out there so you just need to find the sub guy who will do the worshiping that you are looking for. Cheers, W. I didn't expect to be such a rareity but its good to know i am holding the cards !

  • Twisted_Mister

    Twisted_Mister

    10 years ago

    (And others, inclusive guy that I am!) penetrative sex is, from my perspective at least, just about the best thing going around. Doesn't need to be all hard and fast, either - I love slowly feeding my cock into a playmate until it's up to the hilt, and then watching her face as I pulse a couple of times..... Ok TMI perhaps. But the point is I don't necessarily need penetration every time as it depends on the chemistry between the two people at the time. As Koko said, sometimes a great 69 does the trick, and penetration can wait for round 2 etc. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    While intercourse is great, I really need the non intercourse stuff. I'd be perfectly happy to lick and play with my partner without the intercourse at all.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'fdom234' Of course lots of women love intercourse. What I meant to say was Do those who prefer other things admit to it openly ? Don't worry i am not changing anything Luckdragon :) Just was a little surprised in an environment where people are wanting all sorts of things that my request are seen as unusual. I have had a lover for three years, and not had intercourse with him. He likes to be dominated and eat the pussy. No complaints here, he kisses with passion, touches me all over and then wanks if I let him. Another guy he just likes to wank over my boobs, and we have a game I call him President Clinton and he calls me Monica. We have had sex but we just have a bit of fun now and again playing this game. I am sure plenty of men on here , would rather just get a blow job and leave it at that. Some guys do not even classify oral as sex. So is that selfish, nope not if the woman thinks that's fine and it suits her as well. Another guy I keep him on the edge all the time, usually with a group of women and he has to ask me if he can have them and is not allowed to cum,unless he asks me sometimes I say no, you have to just wait till I want it. Everyone likes different things. To withhold something as in edging, can enhance the experience. What you do seems perfectly fine to me. Its called cerebral sex. Its a mind game and lets face it the risks of STD are decreased a little. Sex should be selfish, in the way that we need to express what we want, and not just pander to others all the time. Every boat floats a little differently.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'inthekiss' Quoting 'fdom234' Of course lots of women love intercourse. What I meant to say was Do those who prefer other things admit to it openly ? Don't worry i am not changing anything Luckdragon :) Just was a little surprised in an environment where people are wanting all sorts of things that my request are seen as unusual. I have had a lover for three years, and not had intercourse with him. He likes to be dominated and eat the pussy. No complaints here, he kisses with passion, touches me all over and then wanks if I let him. Another guy he just likes to wank over my boobs, and we have a game I call him President Clinton and he calls me Monica. We have had sex but we just have a bit of fun now and again playing this game. I am sure plenty of men on here , would rather just get a blow job and leave it at that. Some guys do not even classify oral as sex. So is that selfish, nope not if the woman thinks that's fine and it suits her as well. Another guy I keep him on the edge all the time, usually with a group of women and he has to ask me if he can have them and is not allowed to cum,unless he asks me sometimes I say no, you have to just wait till I want it. Everyone likes different things. To withhold something as in edging, can enhance the experience. What you do seems perfectly fine to me. Its called cerebral sex. Its a mind game and lets face it the risks of STD are decreased a little. Sex should be selfish, in the way that we need to express what we want, and not just pander to others all the time. Every boat floats a little differently. Yes the mind is the most powerful sexual organ. Anyone who has ever done meditation/tai chi/qi gong/chinese medicine etc knows about the energy pathways in the body and the concept of where the mind goes energy will follow. With practice you can send energy anywhere in your body including sexual. With alot of practice it is even possible to have a full body climax using this method without touching yourself or being touched (males and females). Some people can cum just from a foot massage. Which actually makes sense as all the energy pathways in the body meet in your feet. So if you have no energy blockages in your body and can be completely relaxed it is possible. In relation to selfishness and sex is a sexual activity actually selfish if both parties agree and are keen to participate ?

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    10 years ago

    I totally get it. I find it rare to find a man who can relax enough, tune into the female, and tune in to their body's reaction, to let it occur. Who isn't always thinking of the next move/position they can take, and who is okay with a female taking the lead and who will get what is going to happen. Don't get me wrong, penetrative sex certainly has it's attraction and is not off the list with me. But... and it's a big but... if a man is happy to be taken to a different plane then I will do my very best to make it happen - without intercourse. Too often the reaction is..... this could go all night..... ummm, yep! That's the whole idea! I've only found one man this year who felt the energy and went with it. Sheer bliss on a moon lit night!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'kissk' I totally get it. I find it rare to find a man who can relax enough, tune into the female, and tune in to their body's reaction, to let it occur. Who isn't always thinking of the next move/position they can take, and who is okay with a female taking the lead and who will get what is going to happen. Don't get me wrong, penetrative sex certainly has it's attraction and is not off the list with me. But... and it's a big but... if a man is happy to be taken to a different plane then I will do my very best to make it happen - without intercourse. Too often the reaction is..... this could go all night..... ummm, yep! That's the whole idea! I've only found one man this year who felt the energy and went with it. Sheer bliss on a moon lit night! Do you have his number ? lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Personally for me .. that would be a huge YES ! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • uneventful

    uneventful

    10 years ago

    But I have found someone who is much the same as the OP and Kissk's explanation.. Nearly 3 years now .. intercourse has never occurred ... but the sensory activities have been extreemly enjoyable time and again .. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Cerebral sex and body worship of with a woman who is intellectually in tune with her sexual desires is highly erotic. I don't need penetration to make a sexual experience memorable. Good luck with your search fdom234.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'uneventful' But I have found someone who is much the same as the OP and Kissk's explanation.. Nearly 3 years now .. intercourse has never occurred ... but the sensory activities have been extreemly enjoyable time and again .. - Posted from rhpmobile I like how you have written your profile in such a way as you can check it has been read

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I certainly don't need to penetrate to feel like I have had sex. I do like to penetrate though, and most of the sex I have includes penetration. However, I do need to orgasm at least once for it to feel like good sex for me. I don't mind if there are build ups and slow downs and all that awesome intimate intensity for extended periods of time - with or without penetration - but at the end I do feel like it is unfinished business if I do not orgasm. I realise that puts me at risk of sounding like a guy with a primary focus on orgasm, but that is not the case. It is more that it is a reasonably necessary component of fulfilling sex for me.

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    10 years ago

    Its a no for me..... its fun.... but its not essential for "greatness"... not for me... or for the "she" I'm with. DG

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    10 years ago

    Dunno where that subject heading came from

  • Hottie1

    Hottie1

    10 years ago

    Includes a lot of things you describe. Like many of the lovely ladies here though I need to be penetrated, my orgasms are far more intense that way. The most divine feeling for me is the slow entry followed by steady thrusts, guaranteed orgasms 😍 mary xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    so take away penetration.. then what in particular gets the job done?

  • mixtures

    mixtures

    10 years ago

    This is a great topic. I enjoy all forms of sexual contact however I must admit that I enjoy finding what ways I can best turn on my partner as that is when I get the most pleasure from the experience. It must be my submissive side coming out. Finding a dominate partner is the hard part I have found :( - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'flyboy313a' Cerebral sex and body worship of with a woman who is intellectually in tune with her sexual desires is highly erotic. I don't need penetration to make a sexual experience memorable. Good luck with your search fdom234.Thanks Flyboy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    yes there will be a build up of energy that needs release. This may be in lots of waves if the intensity is there its not always one final big bang.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'puzledone' so take away penetration.. then what in particular gets the job done? this depends on the individual

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    pick me! That's erotic Tease, denial and ruined orgasms Pleasing the woman who gets an amazing orgasms while the guy guy only gets slight touching and all hands withdrawn at the point of orgasms leaving him to hump the air craving for touch as he dribbles out Pick me! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'coops14' pick me! That's erotic Tease, denial and ruined orgasms Pleasing the woman who gets an amazing orgasms while the guy guy only gets slight touching and all hands withdrawn at the point of orgasms leaving him to hump the air craving for touch as he dribbles out Pick me! - Posted from rhpmobile It seems the interstate guys are far more imaginative than the locals ...........

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    From a male point of view...I feel when 2 people have any form of sexual activity they need to set their boundaries. Of course these boundaries may change from day to day or even by the minute. My only non negotiable requirement requirement is that I orgasm at some time in the play. This orgasm is not neccesarily achieved by penetration. Some of my best orgasms have been by non penetrative means :) Guys, think about this... if your partner has specific wishes ... welcome them. She will be turned on by her own success.. bingo her time to orgasm ;) Isn't that what us guys want to see anyway ? I call it win/win Quoting 'fdom234' People have an overwhelming desire for acceptance so i guess this should be no different in the online world. Facebook is a good example. People with 1000 "friends" they have never met. I also think that other forms of sexual play take a bit more effort than intercourse ie need a bit more connection to be able to read the person and share the energy. My last play mate was a reiki person .......not everyone has this sensitivity. So it is not going to suit the ones looking for once off flings. Despite my profile I am still getting some messages from guys with self declared huge cocks who are offering to pound me into tomorrow (and they are not all young either). Sadly for them it seems that is the only skill they have and assume size is enough.........

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    10 years ago

    Nope - well not in my eyes anyways. I have spent amazing shared experiences where penetration is not the preferred outcome. I have spent nights with a lover where we haven't even penetrated. I can be pretty intimate with someone where touch and other senses are used and can be taken to the next level. As in it's all about the mind, body and soul. Don't get me wrong penetration is pretty awesome, but it's not the main thing what really get me off. Watching a lover pleasured, touched, body shake, pleased etc with end result of cumming is the key for me. Goes vice verser with a lover too. As in that saying goes...."He/she is just THAT into you". I just love it when they cum from touch...EEEEEEEEEEEK! I'm like a kid in a candy shop!! Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' Nope - well not in my eyes anyways. I have spent amazing shared experiences where penetration is not the preferred outcome. I have spent nights with a lover where we haven't even penetrated. I can be pretty intimate with someone where touch and other senses are used and can be taken to the next level. As in it's all about the mind, body and soul. Don't get me wrong penetration is pretty awesome, but it's not the main thing what really get me off. Watching a lover pleasured, touched, body shake, pleased etc with end result of cumming is the key for me. Goes vice verser with a lover too. As in that saying goes...."He/she is just THAT into you". I just love it when they cum from touch...EEEEEEEEEEEK! I'm like a kid in a candy shop!! Foxy ......a guy being THAT into you. Totally agree Foxy.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I think sex (actually what does sex really involve) I am happy to be totally selfless and enjoy pleasing my partner.. Wether it be erotic tantric massage or going down on her and just exploring their body in all its beauty.. I mean I love nothing more that shooting a nice big load of my cum either inside or all over them , but I also get off on just the pleasure of a beautiful woman's body inside and out.. I spose it depends on the girl, some are happy with erotic pleasure and others just want/need a nice good deep fuck.. My ultimate pleasure is to massage and hopefully bring my partner to a squirting orgasim.. And then me to masturbate with them or whatever they desire at the time..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Generally speaking, that's a yes for me.

  • LightCatcher

    LightCatcher

    10 years ago

    What a great thread. Sounds like an interstate trip or two for you is in order as you've cleverly identified some guys who'd love to explore this with you. I've got to say it sounds pretty enticing. Anyone in Sydney share fdom's approach?

  • LightCatcher

    LightCatcher

    10 years ago

    Wtf my carefully worded profile has been defaulted to templates crap - arrrggghh going to have to lock it - grrr!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Not just the one body Part. You have other extremities you can use. There are fingers, hands, tongue, toys. Just to name a few. You can make a lady exhausted without penetration. (Through extensive research ).

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    it does not have to but the majority want and expect it as thats their thing where as sometime the play can be even better

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    everything leading up to intercourse is like preparing a meal, lots of delicate preparation and combining the various elements into something that is greater than the sum of its parts, intercourse is akin to sitting down to enjoy your meal...No real clear cut answer a everyone and every situation is different, but from my experiences, penetration is something that most women do enjoy...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    If my guy knows what to do with his fingers hand and tongue.. i can come harrrrdd!! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I do sometimes with the right person love all the foreplay action with massages submissiveness and giving what she wants. But in the end it turns me on I think just as much as her and im so turned on I will always lose the off switch ;)

  • blackbig

    blackbig

    10 years ago

    I am for penetration with many other sexual activities that goes with it. Saying that the most satisfaction is acquired when I see the woman reaching the climax..The more the merry😛 I will certainly struggle if I am playing with a lady that practises 'absolute no penetration policy' 😻 I guess it all comes to personal taste and choices😳 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    sometimes a steamy session of caressing, licking, kissing, fondling, fingering etc. etc. etc. can be very, very satiating ;) xx - Posted from rhpmobile

  • SpikeDownunder

    SpikeDownunder

    10 years ago

    For me, sex is not defined by penetration, or even by orgasm. It is about the shared intimacy with a person (or persons), them letting you get to know them in ways that are only shared with the privileged few. That said, most sex for me does include orgasm for me (as well as for others), and more often than not penetration. I guess it depends on the mood, and the game that is being played. PS I have never been with a femdom, but from what has been described here it does sound like great fun to me. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Penetration is a fantastic part of sex however on more occasions than I can count, a playmate and I have got caught up in foreplay and not actually got to the penetration side of things. Every time it has been an equally fantastic experience that I would still consider to be 110% sex. This being said, to take penetration off the table all together, for me, is not an option. A 'good' and 'well rounded' sex life in my opinion needs all facets and variety to be completely satisfying. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    If he is huge it seems I just have to have penetration as I love being filled to overflowing ;) but otherwise I can enjoy many sexual and orgasmic times without penetration, can be a sort of 'cherry on top' climax too - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Yea - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Daretodive

    Daretodive

    10 years ago

    My partner of 8yrs can make me cum (very intensely) by just using his mouth and tongue during oral sex (no penetration of anything what so ever). It is extremely satisfying for me and gets him so hard after making me cum. We then have an amazing sex session where I can concentrate on giving him a fantastic orgasm too. During which, I can usually cum again making my second O even better because I am so much more aroused (swollen) after my first orgasm. This makes the sex even more intense for both of us. I must say that when this happens (which is often) its the best sex the two of us have. A bit of both for us works wonders :-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    You need to head to Qld fdom?.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Yes you can. But its like eating a tasty sponge cake and then thinking' this would taste even better covered in icing'.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Shells - you are so right. Oral sex is incredibly erotic. So is being teased by a woman's hot feet. Combining the mental tease while worshipping sexy feet is hugely erotic!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    wow that's some reading, didn't read all the posts, actually just read main postmale attention span not that long, mine isn't. lol. but there is nothing wrong with fantasy, or even reality, especially if it excites the senses, and we are pleasuringwith those senses. all the best guys have fun, and pleasure

  • lovman8

    lovman8

    10 years ago

    First let me say that I love all types of sexual interaction with women, and can enjoy giving and receiving massages and oral etc for long periods. But in the throes of lust when I am at my most primitive state of mind the urge to penetrate and ejaculate in a vagina is powerful and all consuming. However I am an older man and due to minor prostate trouble I have trouble getting as hard or maintaining erections. This makes me more inclined to indulge in and enjoy all other sexual contact more than I did as a younger man. I do still have a high libido and have little trouble having orgasms (although I do not hit ceiling with my semen these days) This does cause my to be a little insecure about my masculinity and nervous and tentative about approaching women sexually. So while penetration does still feel important to me it is nice to know that perhaps there is women out there who can enjoy sexual encounters without penetrative intercourse. And if I'm lucky I might bump into one sometime

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    10 years ago

    In all things.... we train ourselves and are/can be trained by others, and by society. A lot of people see the concept of sex as the following sequence ......."kiss-touch-oral-penetrate." Do what you've always done, get what you've always got, as its said. I am a firm believer in allowing my masculine energy to lead, to shake up preconceptions, and to allow a womans sexual femininity to be expressed in as many new and different ways as possible.... whether she knows those or not. I don't see there being a place for insecurity in positive and open sexual expressions.Embrace your Man-ness to the full, take the responsibility off her mind, and allow her feminine sexuality to blossom with it. (looks for high-five and bro-hug emoticon). DG Post your Comment

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' I am a firm believer in allowing my masculine energy to lead, to shake up preconceptions, and to allow a womans sexual femininity to be expressed in as many new and different ways as possible.... whether she knows those or not. I don't see there being a place for insecurity in positive and open sexual expressions.Embrace your Man-ness to the full, take the responsibility off her mind, and allow her feminine sexuality to blossom with it. (looks for high-five and bro-hug emoticon). DG Post your Comment High five

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I think every person is different, you will find there are people out there who are the exact same as you! Me personally just foreplay doesn't cut it, it eases the tickle for a little bit but doesn't fully get rid of it with full penetration! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Life would be pretty boring if we were the same ! I have to say that after some initial negative comments when i first joined (which prompted me to write this thread) that i have now had some lovely and genuine responses. So thank you

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    many people love many different things , but generally this is a very vanilla site so sites like fet life ( with no space between words ) cater to a broader palette of tastes such as your own.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I used to hook up with a girl constantly and we would never have proper intercourse, would always 69 then I would spend ages going down on her, using my fingers and tongue everywhere. she would tease me with her mouth as I was about to cum she would stop, get on her hands and knees and spread her legs showing her pussy teasing me with it. then sliding her dildo in it while I played with myself. then as she would cum I would finger her ass and lick her pussy. No intercourse involved and would gladly do it again in a heart beat. fdom234...I see you live in Geelong ;) hint hint

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'PurpleMarquis' many people love many different things , but generally this is a very vanilla site so sites like fet life ( with no space between words ) cater to a broader palette of tastes such as your own. I actually never considered myself as having a "fetish" just creativity. I am not interested in the hard core domination porn style stuff.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I definitely don't need penetration for satisfying sex. I'm most satisfied in sex when my partner is satisfied. Sometimes all we're after is a grope or a pash, some oral, who knows? Sometimes all we want is a clinch to get the heart racing. From my very first time, I've only ever been interested in my partner's pleasure. Learning to accept the focus being on me has been a long time coming (no pun intended) and I don't know if I'm actually there yet. I can't see that being a huge problem for any prospective partners I might meet on here though, neh?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    No it doesn't need intercourse but it is bloody nice, deep stick or doggy for good depth for hitting the g-spot.

  • chevtrek

    chevtrek

    10 years ago

    Is a NOOOOOOOOOOOHowever penetration is a good part and why not have both.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I need intercourse but I am kinky also. I find a good kinky play session is very rewarding even more so than sex, much more satisfying and really fulfills a deeper pleasure and desire.