Balham

Balham

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Does sexual liberation change your views on sex and relationships forever?

July 26 2014

What are people's views on this? Once a swinger, always a swinger? Or is it just a phase before you settle down and have kids? Discuss.

Comments

  • Violetincredible

    Violetincredible

    10 years ago

    Although I think I've always had a tendency for this sort of lifestyle but always tried to live to expectations... I think it's kind of like some people are naturally inclined to a swinger lifestyle and others don't cope with it. Don't know if it's a phase but the friends I've found here are the first people I've ever felt totally comfortable with and the first time I have felt I can truly be myself. Xxviolet

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    So we are having fun after our settling. We have been married since we were both 18. Its just a stage for us - before we get too old. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Balham

    Balham

    10 years ago

    Yes feel the same way, met some great people in this scene.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    We settled down and had the kids BEFORE coming into the swinging lifestyle...... We are loving it and can't see it changing anytime soon

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I think just being on RHP has opened my eyes, all I have to do now is open the door!

  • Paradisepair

    Paradisepair

    10 years ago

    Neither of us imagine this could be a phase for us but we had 17 years of strict monogamy together which is longer than most marriages last, so we've got no curiosity about what that is like. We were always a sexual couple, that side of our relationship was always strong and active (even if there was a period where sex dwindled down to 'just' once a week or so). If circumstances dictated that we had to physically stop play, mentally I don't think we'd be changing, our views on what constitutes a sexual betrayal have well and truly changed. (Bearing in mind many muggles find just thinking about other people, or looking is betrayal).

  • Balham

    Balham

    10 years ago

    Wow congrats guys!!

  • Paradisepair

    Paradisepair

    10 years ago

    Thanks Balham.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    10 years ago

    Married 20 years, still best mates and figured we might settle into something that we can remember for a change. Mado Tara xx