Does your mojo still go?

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  WestCoast176

  11 years ago

  If he's too tired to have hot sex with a gorgeous, sexy girl like you, then he's obviously missing out!!!I'm a 37 year old man and I'd love to have you in my bed every night!! I would certainly never be too tired.Have you considered that he might be getting his sex elsewhere, hence the reason he's not getting into you on a regular basis.

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  Mischeviouslad

  11 years ago

  Whoahhhh there westcoast.... First things FIRST.... Something is not right here. OP... Your profile is a confused mish mash of "I" and "We".... You're asking a forum this question via your couples profile where readers will assume that your partner will have access and therefore can read this topic. So the first thing I'd like to know is..... Is he active in the site/forums.... and if so what does he have to say about the topic and the issue you raise?

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Maybe you should ask HIM about HIS feelings and not a forum full of strangers. Crazy idea, I know, but hey, it just might work.....

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Hi Gorgeous, Don't listen to the grumps above. I probably can't help you much but I do know that your libido can be a funny thing and when you have a lot of stresses in your life, or really busy at work, or maybe even worried about something than your libido can go AWOL a bit. So you will have to ask him straight up if he has lost interest in you or if it he is just going through a phase... which does happen!! And yes it does suck when you are feeling horny as a rabbit and your partner is just not into it for whatever reason, but such is life. I definitely would not be jumping to conclusions and think he is not interested in you or that he is getting it else where. Talking to him honestly and see what he says. Good luck.

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  madotara69

  11 years ago

  Sometimes the boss thinks the boss owns us, and that sucks In comes WestCoast cutting the mans grass. Maybe fetch the morning paper. Mado Mado Tara xx

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  I can honestly say this is a normal hick up in any relationship. If you are string enough you will get through it. There is nothing wrong with him or you. We went through a similar time where he worked too hard and she was bored and wanting it daily and it's also been vise versa. Age gap definitely makes it more difficult. Just depends on how much you are prepared to work it out. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  A very recent thread "From relationship to friend" might help. There are other similar threads from the past if you feel like doing a forum search. Lots of helpful insights in them :) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Quoting 'WestCoast176' If he's too tired to have hot sex with a gorgeous, sexy girl like you, then he's obviously missing out!!!I'm a 37 year old man and I'd love to have you in my bed every night!! I would certainly never be too tired.Have you considered that he might be getting his sex elsewhere, hence the reason he's not getting into you on a regular basis. so is that a hint, he is not into you girl so come over here and I will be there with a hard on seven days a week? the guy is tired, he works hard and sometimes we all get tired no matter what our age. Like other posters said, ask him and try to talk about it.

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  gazpacho

  11 years ago

  Is it me? Oh gawd. Libido. So many physiological things can impact it that there's no way of guessing an answer. Then there are the things in your head like worry, stress, anxiety.... Brought on by lots of external factors about which you have no control. Is it you? I doubt it. He might not be so active this month or next, and be really boning for it for months on end. Is it you? People live a long, long , long time.... You shouldn't be overly concerned just because your dude has gone off his dessert for a while. Chill. Grab a big dildo, do a show for him if you feel like being an exhibitionist... But chill! Hugs Gazpacho

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Maybe there is a big problem....a big age difference may mean that after the sex,there is not a lot that you have in common.....in a long term relationship if there is only a sexual connection then they are usually doomed to fail..but of course this may not be the case...you may have heaps of other things in common...you may also have mismatched libidos,more common than you may think.....there could be a myriad of reasons OP as to why this is happening but the best thing to do is ask,and make sure that he understands your concerns xx Ql

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Quoting 'Qefenta2' Maybe there is a big problem....a big age difference may mean that after the sex,there is not a lot that you have in common.....in a long term relationship if there is only a sexual connection then they are usually doomed to fail..but of course this may not be the case...you may have heaps of other things in common...you may also have mismatched libidos,more common than you may think.....there could be a myriad of reasons OP as to why this is happening but the best thing to do is ask,and make sure that he understands your concerns xx Ql Having been in love with and married to someone 13 years older than me, I disagree on their difference in age meaning they have nothing in common except sex. I know you said that this may not be the case. I was 19 and he was 32. I always said he taught me about life and he always said I kept him young.OP you do need to talk to him about this.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  if hes too tired now...GAME OVER...LIFES TOO SHORT

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  chevtrek

  11 years ago

  This is all guessing so be open ask him.I am older and have in the last 2 monthsgone back to work.When there is a woman its twice a daybut on occasion I feel pooped.Hate to see what he would be like my age.

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