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Dogging

April 17 2017

We are looking at trying some dogging,never done it before,what are your thoughts etc - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    It's okay. You have to be okay with attracting a number of men who will be wanking close to you... and wanking on you if you let it. But if that's your thing it can be pretty cool. Although I do prefer my creature comforts. Sand, grass, dirt, cold not so much.

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    8 years ago

    Too much can go wrong. Too little control. You never know who may be lurking in the bushes / parking lot / shadows. You would not know if they were psychos, druggies, whether they had bathed, whether they were carrying a STD or not. Nor would you really have an opportunity to have a conversation with them so as to establish boundaries, ground rules if any, etc. These are the things that would concern us, and put us off. Much the same as our experience in the adult cinema a couple of years ago - Posted from rhpmobile

  • OkeyDoke45

    OkeyDoke45

    8 years ago

    We have a few doggers that frequent our local nudist beach here and it always livens proceedings. I love going to the nudist beach regardless, a lovely way to spend your afternoon, and watching a couple enjoy each other makes it that much nicer. Most couples are very discreet about it, will find themselves a nice spot to tuck themselves away. There are some couples though, usually visitors, that are quite brazen about it and don't much care who is watching. Particularly in the coming cool months, that can be a problem as many more people frequent the beach and I have seen people quite shocked by what they see, some become disgusted and leave. The other issue I notice with dogging is that every stalky perv (and I don't consider myself one of those by the way - I set up where I set up and if a couple decides to get it on nearby then I'm all eyes) that haunts the nudist beach - and there are plenty - thinks every couple who sets up is looking to do some dogging, so they basically stalk them up and down the beach, sit uncomfortably close to them and play with themselves quite flagrantly in front of the couple in question. Doesn't take long for said couple to crack the sads and leave. This really annoys me, we don't see nearly enough couples at the nudist beach. My point of this OP is, dogging is fine and you'll often find quite the appreciative audience. Not always the case though. Have fun, but don't be an idiot about it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I have never done it either but I would start with a fake dogging scenario. 1.Select a secluded area- not a known dogging site so you won't have weirdos hiding in the bush. 2. Invite participants-to make it more random you could vet new people without her seeing them before. 3. Take a wingman- you are intimidating but that's not always a guarantee of safety so a single guy you know who can handle a situation too. I hope that is some help. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    8 years ago

    It's a pity that so many guys go to a nudist beach hoping to get some action, and that because of these expectations they end up behaving in an unacceptable manner, the result of which is that they effectively chase many of the couples & single females away. It's a pity that naturism / nudism = an opportunity to be a perve & engage in lewd, unlawful sexual acts in public. Designated nude beaches are for everyone to enjoy, families with children, and not just single meerkats. Naturism is not about lewd public sexual acts. The problem is that whilst some couples may be discreet, others are not. And therein lies the problem. If you, as you have admitted, primarily go to a nudist beach so as to watch "couples enjoying themselves" that is a problem in itself, as you and dozens of other males probably go for the same reasons. And then you complain how few couples & single females go these days ? Probably much the same with dogging. And when things get out of hand , the beach is closed to nude bathing ... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I feel its not worth it in this day and age. Too many phones capturing the escapades. You could be happily bonking in public and 5 mins later you have been uploaded into the amature/dogging catagory on porn sites. Trust me, its my fav porn to watch lately. But no way do I want to see myself on there.

  • OkeyDoke45

    OkeyDoke45

    8 years ago

    G'day to you. Seeing as you cast the first stone I should respond. I go down the nudist beach to relax, read, swim/wade (can't really swim in Darwin waters) and drink beer. I thought I made that point in my original post but perhaps didn't make it very well. Very enjoyable, love it. Occasionally (seemingly more regular of recent times) couples will come down the beach and get it on. I can't say I don't enjoy it when it happens. I'm not choking the chicken while I watch I must add, nor am I baring my (thoroughly) erect penis, I simply lay on my belly and watch. It must be said that our nudist beach here definitely has a reputation for dogging, it is joked about often among everyone here. I would dare to suggest that even those who go down there to sunbathe only expect to see some kind of sexual activity from time to time. They are usually comfortable if, when it happens, it happens way up the beach behind the trees thank you very much. In all my years of nuding it up at the beach, the only time I have seen single women or couples get grossed out and leave is when a particularly bold couple decide to up the ante and do it really close, really porning it up and out in the open. You are right in the legal and moral sense that dogging is wrong, and people should be able to go to the beach without having to witness sexual acts no matter they be off in the distance or nearby. But it goes on, and as long as it is done the ''right way'', I quite enjoy it. Rightly or wrongly.

  • swingalingson

    swingalingson

    8 years ago

    Make sure you keep an eye out for the Park Ranger. If you think you are smarter than the average bear.. You may get caught taking turns with someone's wife. LOL But it is an awesome and "on the Edge" thrill of getting caught for the men and women involved. So take off ya kit and get it on!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    hello fellow readers , yes you do have to keep your eyes open for the law , but ive been to some spots a few years back and it was just new here in sydney , heaps of different parks , things have changed now , in this day and age ,more cctv,and rangers, , probably a good thing , indoors is warmer , cheers

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Well Mrs Fun here and Ive been to the beach a few times on my own and yes very fast are there guys around - wanted or not wanted they are there looking and lurking and wanking = hey if you are going to do it around me please be visual to me as hey I really dont mind and yes to be honest get off on it too but I feel it is a bit yuk and makes me feel a bit used if they dont ask or get my OK to do it. Just because guys can stand there and tug at themselves doesnt give them the right to do that behind my back as hey I just might have come to the beach to sun myself not be surrounded by hidden wankers. But more often than not I dont mind joining in too and partaking in activities. But guys please still show a bit of courtesy and ask and be polite as Im still a person with feelings too, like you I also like to have sex but thats not the only reason I go to the beach.