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Dogging, massage and Hygiene...
October 27 2013
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ummmmm so how do you feel about body fluids in general? How do you cope with being squirted on? You know sex is messy right? At least the way I like it is 😉 A shower is often part of the fun, but I'm not going to say no if I can't hit the shower right away.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
At the beach. You just jump in the water afterwards. Besides I love sweaty bodies. :P
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Kaleidoscope'Ummmmm so how do you feel about body fluids in general? How do you cope with being squirted on? You know sex is messy right? At least the way I like it is 😉 A shower is often part of the fun, but I'm not going to say no if I can't hit the shower right away.- Posted from rhpmobile yes I agree the usualy the hotter the sex the messier it gets but who thinks about that in the heat of the moment not me I love the smell of sex a mixture of sweat and bodily fluids and any oils or lubricants .and as for dogging as a young bloke before I had my own place any where was good in the car/ down the beach/local park/ even in the school sports shed I wasn't going to knock back a root just cause I cant wash strait away iam a little more refind now days but a root is a root and I love to root so bring it on any where any time .
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RHP User
11 years ago
There are massage oils that aren't really oils... they don't clog the pores, smell nice and actually have a pretty good taste. I'll try to dig up the name of them again as it has been a while since I used them.As for the sex scent... Christmas 2006 in WA... got caught out a tad early by the family rocking up for the brunch. Spent the subsequent few hours suffering the jokes about carpet burns we both had and the smell of post lust we were both emitting... note my family have no shame which is awesome except when you really really want to have a shower.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I LOVE playing with massage oil :) Nothing better than oiling up a lover for a nice sensual massage then sliding all over each other :) As for dogging....just carry some WetOnes with you, does for a quick clean up if you really feel you have to. But bodily fluids are half the fun of sex!! The triple S Sweat Saliva and Semen The messier the better !!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Pjur oil... best oil ever.. heaps of slip and no taste :)
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erotictouch4u
11 years ago
Not all massage oils clog the pores and when the correct ones are used pre-sex there is no discernable difference to the skin texture. Almond oil is one of more commonly used in aromatherapy and massage. This oil is particularly soothing to the skin, and helps nourish the skin due to oil imbalance or loss of moisture. Jojoba oil is ideal for the skin, suitable for all skin types. This oil acts as an excellent moisturiser and penetrates the skin easily. Apricot oil is particularly helpful for sensitive or dehydrated skin. It has moisturising and revitalising properties, which also help soothe inflamed skin. The oil is rich in oleic acid and linoleic acid and spreads easily due to its fine texture. Avocado oil is used on mature or dry skin, and is highly beneficial to people with skin sensitivities and problems such as psoriasis and eczema. The oil is easily absorbed by the skin and has very soothing properties. The avocado can be used pure but is generally mixed with another carrier, such as almond. Wheat germ oil assists in healing scar tissue and stretch marks. When the oil is applied regularly it may help promote the formation of new cells, and improve circulation. Wheat germ oil is often used to promote smooth, younger looking skin, and is generally blended with lighter carriers such as almond due to its sticky consistency. Grapeseed oil has great skin moisturising properties, rich in linoleic acid which has regenerative and restructuring qualities. It contains vitamins including vitamin E, protein and minerals. Grapeseed oil has a fine texture and is non greasy. Enjoy ET xox
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ok, maybe it's just me but I like it messy and dripping with sweat and I don't always jump straight in the shower right away afterwards even when there is one available. Does that make me a bit of a grub? Idk, I quite like the cuddles and chat afterwards and don't want that to end too quickly... And having a shower wakes me up a bit, sometimes I just want to fall asleep in his arms.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I also love a massage as a prelude to sex, I agree though, massage oil is yucky in the mouth, plain olive oil is much better and doesn't clog pores. I quite like the smell too.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Oh no! You wouldn't have a shower after sex if you were in bed getting ready to sleep. I think with dogging you have guys wandering around the bushes since 8am in the morning covered in sunscreen, dirt and flys and they are naked, pulling their pecker and they are probably smelly. So they should have a shower before sex is what I think the OP means.
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madotara69
11 years ago
Tastes OK, and you can use heaps of it, no side effects. Plus it is the safest oil for the vagina. Love that word.Mado, Tara xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Coconut oil for me... :) Almost never leave home without it... Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Shower before you play and play hard, because sweat is good to open your pores. Oo and JayJay, you should come to Perth :) I'll pay your ticket... no return lol.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Massage oil can be towelled off easily enough and a shower reserved for later. Regarding hygiene, rest assured that if this was a concern, the massage therapy industry would have more regulations concerning its use. I use macadamia oil. A good one will have a warm aromatic fragrance almost like chocolate and is edible. It is the thickest most viscous oil which creates a wonderful drag across the skin turning your lover's stroke into a long languishing caress of their hands and body. It is also sexy as hell and as close to the sensation of a woman's internal lubrication as you are going to find. Did I mention it was edible?
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DynamicCouple36
11 years ago
Probably what the OP was getting at with regards dogging is that one does not know or has little control over whether that person is clean or not. One never knows where his hands and fingers have been and with no showers etc at the dogging site does one really want to take the chance? A venue where one can at least wash or shower beforehand would lower the risk of being infected by unclean hands would it not ? - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
11 years ago
To explain further what I am getting at. If you went to the gynae and he did not wash his hands between examining his patients not did he wear gloves , would you feel comfortable when your turn came to have his fingers inside you? I would not feel comfortable having a dogging guy, who has been playing with himself in the bushes or with others, then putting his hands and fingers inside me. The males in here may not see it my way , from a women's perspective. Would you guys lick the fingers of a guy who had been dogging? Lol. Understand what I am getting at ? - Posted from rhpmobile
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custardapples
11 years ago
These answers make us remember why we joined RHP ... great to be amongst like minded people. Love the smell of sex in the morning - any time actually.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Crack open a bottle of castrol magnatec 10w 40. Spray a little WD40 around and enjoy :p- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
A good couples massage (either just between you and your honey) or with others thrown in the mix are pure gold...So +2 for sensual massages.But dogging? Not our scene at all... but each to their own you beautiful freaks. :)
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rupamohan
11 years ago
Thanks for replies. I normally try to ask open ended questions at forum as my main purpose is to get diverse view. I don't judge others based on difference. So thanks again. Had a wonderful experience with mature cpl with toned body that will defy any age rules. Massage they gave was very sensual experience. I just need to select right oils.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Jason_Leslie'To explain further what I am getting at. If you went to the gynae and he did not wash his hands between examining his patients not did he wear gloves , would you feel comfortable when your turn came to have his fingers inside you? I would not feel comfortable having a dogging guy, who has been playing with himself in the bushes or with others, then putting his hands and fingers inside me. The males in here may not see it my way , from a women's perspective. Would you guys lick the fingers of a guy who had been dogging? Lol. Understand what I am getting at ? - Posted from rhpmobile So what would you do at a swingers party? Or a place like the couples club? Where there are multiple people all playing. Or you pick up some guy at a nightclub and end up back at his place or your place...... Demand he washes his hands before dinner !!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'hot_chocklate'Shower before you play and play hard, because sweat is good to open your pores. Oo and JayJay, you should come to Perth :) I'll pay your ticket... no return lol.- Posted from rhpmobile its the proper oil used in the Day Spas, I buy it through work in a 5 litre cask!!
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DynamicCouple36
11 years ago
Quoting "Jay Jay"When and if we go to a swingers club, which in our case is normally Attunga, if we meet up with a couple that we like, or decide to have a 3 some with our regular chap, what we all do is to jump in the showers at the club, get freshened up and then go to a private room to play. And so yes, everyone is clean. We never demand but what we do is lead by example by suggesting that we all hop into the shower and freshen up. To date not one person has become offended by this and as a result we have enjoyed the 4 somes and or 3 somes that we have had.If someone takes offence and does not want to shower and or wash hands, then they dont get to play with us. Its that simple and to be honest we are not desperate. One can never be too careful. Doctors & nurses wash their hands before and after touching and examining one - and for a very VERY good reason. Why should people not do the same before and after playing ?We also practice safe sex and so that means no exchange of body fluids, ever !!
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DynamicCouple36
11 years ago
And we never pick up strangers at nightclubs and go back to their place or invite them to ours. We prefer not to have our real names and physical address known as you never know when someone can turn nasty and start stalking one, and so for that reason no names, no addresses and a special mobile number used just for those from RHP and SH.We only play at private parties where we know the people [twice now ] and then at a secure venue like Attunga where if anything happens then management can step in and throw the offender out.Thats the way that we choose to do it and in this regard we are not going to compromise on anything. Our health, safety and enjoyment are our primary concern. We dont have to swing and or swap partners, and only do so with the right couple and if WE feel like it.If that makes us out to seem like snobs, well then so be it.That said we have met some really nice genuine couples, some that we have played with and others that we socialise with. Currently we only have ever had a 3 some with one chap, several times now. We stick with what we know and are happy with things as they are and for this reason are not really interested in finding a 2nd chap. What we have not yet done is to have a FFM 3 some and so our options in that regard are open.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Washing hands is a good idea. I have seen people fingering arses them turn around and just jump into another group and continue playing. Not good. After every play session you should have a shower before playing with new people. Dirty hands is how lots of STI's get spread around at the clubs I reckon.
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DynamicCouple36
11 years ago
Well written Meeka. Yes we too have seen someone finger a person in the bum and then put the same fingers into another woman's vagina and another and another with no washing in between. A risky thing do to and a sure way to cause vaginitis or urinary tract infection. This happened at Saints where there were upwards of 1000 people and no shower facilities. Which is why we never play at Saints or in big groups. Impossible to keep track of who fingered who and where. Much safer to wash or shower before any play. What they then do after playing with us, is then their concern not ours. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
In regards to oils suitable for massage - there is an online company that makes beautifully scented, edible massage oils in a range of luscious scents / flavours such as cheese cake, lemonade, fruit salad, cinnamon, champagne, mango, and pina colada (there's heaps more). I've got the cinnamon donut and although I haven't used it for an actual massage yet, it smells absolutely yummy (can't wait until I can find someone to rub it allllll over me). They're also safe for use with toys and they're reasonably priced. The company also has a large range of other health, beauty, and cleaning products made from natural ingredients (I don't buy into the 'natural is always better and not harmful mantra', but I do love certain natural and plant-based products).Obviously I can't give their details here, but if anyone wants them just shoot me a message (or comment here if you're a guest and I'll message you).
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RHP User
11 years ago
Very fair point! - Posted from rhpmobile
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ChinesenIrish
11 years ago
What Meeka said..... been to a couple of clubs and one of them being pussy kats and it is an agreed rule shower and wash after every play.... dogging is just not clean... so its a no for us... on another note sadly you cant wash sti's and my missus got warts from we don't know who.... so as a result we now check everyone and any sign of anything we walk away- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
as for being clean to start with I all ways have a shower before I have sex or going out to meet up with friends I like to be clean and smell nice I think its a bit rude no to. As for swingers clubs I havnt ever been to one but I would like to think all I play with have washed before hand .
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'sirlurkalot' Crack open a bottle of castrol magnatec 10w 40. Spray a little WD40 around and enjoy :p- Posted from rhpmobile Maybe if you are going to ride a mechanical bull
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm sooo vanilla! I had no idea what dogging entailed (hehe). People really do that? Not have I ever been to a swingers club! Lol, I so need corrupting!
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RHP User
11 years ago
You have missed the point. It's not that you wash before hand, it's the fact during dogging and at a swingers club in particular, you could have sexual contact with 5 to 10 maybe more people quite easily in one night. People don't wash during that time which is the problem. At a club you get there at 9.... After lots of activities and people you are going to be pretty dirty, covered in juices and sweaty by 3am. So showering and washing through out the night is in order.
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RHP User
11 years ago
No woman wants scraping cuts inside her vagina from dirty unclean nails..especially from anal then to vagina...infections come out days later...so peoples cut and scrub under your nails. Club or no club its personal hygiene. :) FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
Is another option to use. FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
I just had a thought/flash (work in the medical stream)...not pretty!!!! FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
Very diverse comments I see.... Something interesting is ideally there is a 7 step process to wash hands effectively. The micro load on hands after washing is still able to be seen under certain environments. Hygiene is paramount whether playing or in every day life that's my take any how's.... Btw I am a food technologist + have degree in microbiology
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DynamicCouple36
11 years ago
good post.Now perhaps you can shed some light on whether rimming and ass to mouth is risky or not. So many people are of the opinion that it poses no health risks, nor can genital warts, herpes, HPV, Hep and other STD's be spread that way. Not to mention increasing the risk of a UTI.Many feel that if the anus is washed then it's clean and there will be no risk of cross contamination of the vagina with Escherichia Coli. They also feel that the saliva also contains E Coli and thus poses no risk of infection to the vagina and so on and so on :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
One pack of disposable gloves..tickOne bottle of antiseptic hand gell...tickOne packet of wet wipes....a quick wipe down for the car bonnet.....tickMore than one packet of condoms...different sizes and colour preference...glow in the dark ones are awesome....tickHandy hintsAlways park near a shower/toilet block for convenienceCarry a whistle to alert the bush lurkers that you have arrived.Hand out printed sheets with instructions for using the above mentioned doggingaccoutrements...oh and provide a torch for easy reading.There ya go,now you are all set for a night of exciting ,erotic,stranger danger passion.
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RHP User
11 years ago
One pack of disposable gloves. One bottle of antiseptic hand gel One packet of wet wipes....a quick wipe down for the car bonnet.. More than one packet of condoms...different sizes and colour and textures, two butt plugs, one ball gag, a ten inch dildo and a large packet of M& Ms
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RHP User
11 years ago
...Freya ! You should also have someone over your right shoulder translating everything into auslan... Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...
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DynamicCouple36
11 years ago
Hahaha !! Good one Freya
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Lifes_great
11 years ago
Quoting 'Freya77'One pack of disposable gloves..tick One bottle of antiseptic hand gell...tick One packet of wet wipes....a quick wipe down for the car bonnet.....tick More than one packet of condoms...different sizes and colour preference...glow in the dark ones are awesome....tick Handy hints Always park near a shower/toilet block for convenience Carry a whistle to alert the bush lurkers that you have arrived. Hand out printed sheets with instructions for using the above mentioned dogging accoutrements...oh and provide a torch for easy reading. There ya go,now you are all set for a night of exciting ,erotic,stranger danger passion.I'm getting you to write my next safety manual!
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RHP User
11 years ago
We had an awesome FFM session a little while ago that started with a nice massage. I (male) was giving the massage when I started to let my hands wander. To all of our surprise the oil we were using was not compatible with some of the more tender parts. It have a tingly/burning sensation. We all had a quick shower to wash it away and continued with our fun. Lesson: Check the "uses" of the massage oil prior to playing; OR Use lubricant to massage with. :) xx- Posted from rhpmobile
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erotictouch4u
11 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23'In regards to oils suitable for massage - there is an online company that makes beautifully scented, edible massage oils in a range of luscious scents / flavours Obviously I can't give their details here, but if anyone wants them just shoot me a message (or comment here if you're a guest and I'll message you).I do massages and have been wondering where is a good place to get a wide assortment
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RHP User
11 years ago
Would you be kind enough to share with me the details regarding the massage oils from online please :)Thanks in advance
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RHP User
11 years ago
I prefer skittles
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have to agree the wettet the better I love the smell of sex on my body afterwards. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Its the best and it soaks in to your skin, youd never know it was there. Best massage, lube, oil ever- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ok dogging where in newcastle ?? And if u r dogging it can't be that far away that u can't wait a little while and have a shower when u get home ? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Luckdragon23 could you please message me with the details for those massage oils. Thanks :-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'whatsnewpuzzycat' Luckdragon23 could you please message me with the details for those massage oils. Thanks :-) Hey whatsnew, I'm not paid up at the moment so I can't pm you, but if you google "health and happiness bodylicious" you should have no trouble finding them
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Im a fan of Pjur original oil..... or avocado oilIm not, however a fan of the idea of Dogging.
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beachgirl11
11 years ago
Uhu ... No spontaneity when , in the bush ...at the beach ..... Parking .... Or !, might just stay home under the doona lol
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