Dogging safely - feedback wanted

Comments

• 

  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Sounds like a great idea, keep me posted!!

  reply

  like

• 

  RHP User

  11 years ago

  It a good plan I'm keen

  reply

  like

• 

  RHP User

  11 years ago

  I'm keen foxy keep me posted!

  reply

  like

• 

  Mr_Invisible

  11 years ago

  So security determines who's shady and dodgy based on your parameters before the show starts ? Sounds abit too organised for dogging...lolI do tend to agree there needs to be standards though For a twist try carpark swaps 2 couples park their cars at opposite ends of a carpark. The ladies leave the car... meet in the middle... exchange pleasantries and rules... then go to the opposing car for some funHave done this a number of times and everyone had a great timeSadly no willing partner anymore.... sigh

  reply

  like

• 

  rover35

  10 years ago

  I would be very keen. Its a good idea....but would just have to watch if some disgruntled guys might spoil it for others...

  reply

  like

• 

  music74

  10 years ago

  But, you are tacking away the spontaniouse and sometimes exciting meets that appeal to people and couples.Keep it exciting for yourself and just leave your light on.

  reply

  like

• 

  twowithnolimits

  10 years ago

  As practically the founders of dogging oin perth and for many years the owners of wester doggers we are always happy to answer PMs on the subject of dogging

  reply

  like

• 

  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Awesome to see nolimits responding to this forum question, the originators of this thread can get some genuine advise from this couple who are great people with genuine knowledge. Sorry but the precious responses are all from blokes looking for book ups rather than giving real advise, looking at the thread overall it seems Perth is just full of blokes who may enjoy dogging but no couples or ladies , a very poor reflection on the subject.

  reply

  like

• 

  Dimeshreds

  10 years ago

  Why not just ask a select few people from here (RHP) who have been verified by others? They are still strangers essentially but you get to filter out the dodgy ones, and if they tell other people or you see people you don't want there I am sure the guys you have asked can act as security, I sure know I would help.

  reply

  like

• 

  BrightBubbly

  10 years ago

  Are there any regular places that people go to ? Just looking into trying it out for the first time ?

  reply

  like

• 

  RHP User

  7 years ago

  These are mainly guidelines, as rules cannot be enforced. Guidelines can be encouraged. SINGLE GUYS The FIRST thing you have to understand is this: The WOMAN in the party is in command. NO means NO, STOP means STOP. If you don't UNDERSTAND this, then dogging ISN'T for YOU. The name of this game is FUN. THERE ARE MANY TIMES MORE SINGLE GUYS DOING THIS THAN COUPLES OR SINGLE WOMEN So, don't expect a lot of action. You may be lucky, but you probably won't. Waiting is most of the game. It may seem a good idea to YOU to park at one end and then drive down when a car comes into the car park, so that your lights shine on the occupants. But others also think the same and they'll be doing it too. It isn't a good idea, it's a very BAD idea because it always ends up with four or five cars driving up-and-down all night. Don't keep your lights on when parked-up. If you're afraid of the dark, stay at home. If you're too thick to appreciate this, please stay at home. Patience IS a virtue, in fact in dogging it's about the only one. If you arrange to meet a couple, please don't bother going to a dogging site because there WILL be others there and they WILL be watching you. If you don't like that idea then go somewhere else. Don't creep-up on cars, if you think they are in for a show, let them see you first. If they aren't up for it they'll drive off. If they are and you creep-up on them you'll scare the woman (more likely the bloke though, in which case the woman will give you a kicking, masochism is optional) This is a dark car park/park we're talking about, not a lounge. I'D get scared if someone crept up behind me ! Sign Language: Flashing brake lights are for gays. Couples drive in and flash the internal lights mainly, then the headlights if they see you. Basic behaviour: If the window isn't OPEN, or they haven't ASKED for you to join in, then they don't WANT you to. Even if the window IS open ASK first, or LISTEN. If the window is open, go and chat to the GUY. *DO NOT* grab hold of the woman unless INVITED or ASKED. Please don't expect anyone to blow you if you've been sitting on your arse in a car all day and your dick is humming. Try and be a bit clean, use some baby wipes and clean the bits that matter. Even if the couple DO want to play and have rubbers with them, it's polite to have your own. If a couple ask you, or others, to move away because there are too many guys about...MOVE AWAY...DON'T moan about it just DO it. If there are others already "ON" a car and you aren't, DON'T sit there with your lights on thinking they will move off and you can get some action because the COUPLE will move off too. If all you can think about is getting a free shag and f**k everyone else, then you have got the wrong end of the stick. There is FAR more WATCHING than DOING in this game. These tips are mainly aimed at couples trying dogging for the first time. The tips are split into three sections, before, during and after the meet. If you're a single male, all the advice I've been given for males simply says, "be polite", don't be pushy and only do things you are invited to do. All the couples said that allowing males to join depended on how clean, polite and non-pushy the males were. Before the meet talk about it If it's your first time dogging, then you need to talk about what you're looking to get out of it. It's easy for partners to get confused about how far to go. Talk to each other, decide what you're both comfortable doing, the last thing you want is to overstep your partners boundaries. Be prepared - It's helpful if you put together a small washing bag containing condoms (if the males haven't brought any), wet wipes and deodorant. These are just a few things, which will make the meet go easier. Safety - Before you arrive, make sure you move your bag / purse / wallet / anything valuable to a safe place like the glove box, it sounds silly, but would you want someone to know your full name and address? Lock all the doors from the inside, this will stop unwelcome visitors and keep you in control of what goes on. Signals - There's loads of signals that doggers use, the most common are flashing lights, and these could be interior or exterior lights. This basically means they're doggers. Leaving the internal light on basically means we want to be watched. If they wind down the window, this means they want to fondle / be fondled or more. If they want more, they tell you. Most doggers start with a show for the guys and then go further once they've picked the males that interest them. There are many more signals but most of these are really obvious, like flashing. Too many males - If you're presented with the problem of too many males, the easiest thing to do is just ask them to back off. Most will comply with no problems, some don't. If they don't and can't take the message, simply say your going because of "that pushy bastard". Often the males watching will help remove the prats, simply because they don't want their fun spoilt. If it's too much for you, just drive off. After the meet. A simple thank you to all the males that watched or took part in the fun is all that's needed. Everyone will get the idea and say their goodbyes. Cleaning up - A lot of the dogging locations are based around picnic or other public areas. Please make sure that any condoms or used tissues are put in the bin, or taken with you. Please do not litter, leaving used condoms around is a sure way of getting the area closed at night by the local council and isn't very nice for normal users of the area. Leaving - On heading home, make sure you do not take the direct route, go for a drive around for a little while. Just make sure that nobody has followed you home. And if you are being followed head back to the parking spot you just left.

  reply

  like

• 

  RHP User

  7 years ago

  this sound great , I would love be apart of this, summer is around the corner lets have some fun and pleasure ..

  reply

  like

• 

  RHP User

  5 years ago

  I am keen to come try it with you guys

  reply

  like

• 

  yankee123

  5 years ago

  Sounds great.

  reply

  like

• 

  chocfitness

  5 years ago

  I’d love to join send me A message

  reply

  like