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Dominance

September 03 2020

When it comes to dominance who is the Dom? Is the person in control or sub? Every article you read says use a "Safe Word". Personally I like being dominated, however I also like to use the "safe word" to my advantage. Using our "safe word" to control the situation, i.e. when my man is getting right in to it, I use it to to tease and torment him, stopping him from his enjoyment. So if I'm using the "safe word" to my advantage, doesn't that make me the one with the control?

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LittleGiant

4 years ago

The sub has the control, but I wouldn't say that means they have the dominance. And don't take this the wrong way, but I think that what you've described is misusing the safe word in a potentially dangerous way - It should be reserved for when things are going outside of your boundaries or getting to be too much for you not to tease your partner, otherwise what's the point of a safe word i.e, what if you say it when things are going too far and he assumes you're just teasing and doesn't pay attention? Just my opinion.... Miss Little xx

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SpicyKale

4 years ago

Ask yourself if using your safe word in that manner is topping from the bottom? Just a thought... you might be more of a l bratty switch😉

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Sawadee

4 years ago

I have to agree with what LittleGiant had to say.. A " safe word " is exactly that ? Using it in a inappropriate manner could be dangerous .. Not that l want to spoil your intent ' sex is meant to be fun . But best leave your "safe word " for a time you might really need it...

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curiousnhorny05

4 years ago

I wouldn’t say the purpose of the safe word is as you describe. Check out bratty subs I think that sounds like what you are describing.

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