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Don’t ask WHY when you are rejected

March 13 2022

Attention single males of this website, first of all read the profile.. if someone says NO SINGLE MALES it’s because they are not looking for one. If you insist on sending a message, and we politely decline your offer to hook up and see where it goes, don’t then ask WHY? I could list a great number of reasons why, from lack of physical attraction through to just poor put together profile.. or maybe, your 1 profile photo just doesn’t speak to us.. but a thanks but no thanks is all that is needed. We don’t need to explain ourselves to you. Go have you fragile male ego bruised somewhere else

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FeistyFatty

3 years ago

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RHP User

3 years ago

I’m the female of a couple and will sometimes ask in order to see if our profile can be improved in some way. Never offended if we receive a no but surely constructive criticism is a good thing without it necessarily being about a bruised ego?

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RHP User

3 years ago

Why do we have to explain ourselves? Sexual preferences, attraction, are all very personal. It’s nice to be kind, don’t insist on putting people in an awkward position by asking awkward questions. It is what it is, you are what you are, I am what I am. I wouldn’t change to suit your preferences and I would never expect anyone else to change for me.

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countrytouch82

3 years ago

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RHP User

3 years ago

Some people think that they are the only penis a lady will have so why reject me When I get the polite no thank you, I don’t sulk we all can’t be attracted to everyone. Some people need to grow up

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XBonnieClydeX

3 years ago

OMG this is definitely one of our pet hates! So awkies. Just move on when you get a no. Seriously! Not everyone can be everyone's cup of tea. Everyone needs to learn how to handle rejection.

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RHP User

3 years ago

@Lucykai I didn’t take it as meaning me so I’m still happy 😊😊

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MnauMnau

3 years ago

I do agree with you, read the profile, and if you go ahead with a message and get rejected, own it, suck it up and move on. But... Some couples can't set or don't update their account filters correctly (if at all) They do look for a single male, and in text/content they put NO single males! Or they set a date/hookup with males, but filter says otherwise. I did ask one couple to confirm the contradiction in their profile, but been simply blocked instead of any response. It is what it is, but single males are not always wrong or bad.

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RHP User

3 years ago

I had one guy ask me 3 times. Each time I avoided the self entitled expectation and he persisted. Then insulted my ‘attitude’ when I refused. None of the things on his profile were things he could change. He argued with every response I made 😝 gee do I have to spell it out for you mate? I didn’t, I just blocked. But seriously, find someone who likes you for what you are, don’t waste time begging for attention from those who don’t.

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newyboy70

3 years ago

Like the good old days of Craig's List. If you rejected someone, they would get your post flagged and removed to stop other guys trying.

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great_pretender

3 years ago

It's not worth asking why a potential partner/ partners say, "no" just move on and don't take it personally.

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RHP User

3 years ago

Absolutely 🙌

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AWomanWithNeeds

3 years ago

People shouldn't respond if they are told no full stop. Don't ask why, don't be a dick, just piss off. This could be a whole entire thread about why don't men read profiles if you want to trace it back.

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