Don't want to loose friends, so don't play with them ???

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  Paradisepair

  11 years ago

  I'd set them up first with some good people.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Whateva you do , never play with friends / close friends just incase things dont turn the way you want it to be , i personally will never ever go there .

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Anyone is lucky to have 5 "good" friends in their life, then you have heaps of friends, and then lots more people that you know. If they fit in the first category then you will know already. I suspect they are in the heaps of friends area. Seems there are concerns so if you do go there, make the most of it. Nothing ventured nothing gained. They are curious after all.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  In my opinion, I wouldn't go there! You can always find playmates, but great friends aren't worth losing. I wouldn't take the risk. Good luck!

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  I love them, always getting pulled up on that or grammar (sic) so your not alone Advent_couple

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Quoting 'cwhereitgoes' I love them, always getting pulled up on that or grammar (sic) so your not alone Advent_couple you're

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  I think that a loose friend is something to behold. After all a good friend is fucking hard to lose. :p You're definitely not alone with your fears though, just remember it's their loss if they're there with you :) Oooooohhh boom tish.....I scored the trifecta on that one :p - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  It should read it's their loss if they're NOT there with you :) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  JohnAnn2227

  11 years ago

  Our first swinging experience was with close friends. We always went out as a foursome, sunbaked topless at the beach together, and on drunken nights ended up having sex in front of each other a few times. So nudity and sex were a comfortable area for us all. We had gone camping together and ended up drinking and playing strip poker and eventually us girls had to put a show on for the guys as we had lost and we thought it would be fun teasing them. One thing led to another and Nicole and I really got into it and we had a foursome. We still have fun times with them every now and then but as we both have kids now it isn't as regular as we would like. As far as starting off with other close friends we probably wouldn't. There isn't that background with them and there would be stress/anxiety in the lead up rather than the natural event that it was for us. I actually have a friend at work (we are both teachers) who is also in the lifestyle and we have been to parties with but we have promised not to swap with them as it could be a bit weird at work. Saying that we be next to each other when wehave given our husbands blowjobs on the side of the spa at couples club. So who knows?????

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  Cheekyarses

  11 years ago

  If they are good friends before rhp - my opinion is not go there, if you met on rhp n played and become good friends then that is different! But sex isn't worth losing a great friendship - just my opinion :-)

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  nuff said

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  lovman8

  11 years ago

  My partner and I have a couple we were very good friends with (this is over the last 17 years) for about 5 years, when somehow the subject came up that we had dabbled in swinging . They hadn't but were very curious and keen to try and there was a mutual attraction so to cut a long story short we fucked. We had about 7years of semi regular swapping with them. We have continued to be very good friends and actually haven't played sexually for about 4 years, so don't dismiss it out of hand as it can work but you need to go into it very carefully and with good comunication between all parties. (We had some really amazing sexy fun times as couples and threesomes) And we still do have lots of fun together but just organically nothing sexual has happened for a while.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Never play with friends - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  If you love your friends,keep them as friends and enjoy that side of friendship you have with them. Playmates are playmates, yes there is a friendship with playmates ,but your share and do lots more with your close friends that you don't want to loose

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  I've always had this thing about not playing with the girlfriends or wives of friends, a big big no no.. The closest I came was last year where a friend of a friend who had broken up with her husband ' asked me over to fix a leaky tap which in turn lead to finding a new FB?.. I never considered her and her ex as close friends so no guilt there what so ever.. Just can't imagine it working the same with close friends...

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  We played with close friends we had at a nudist club for a while,but in the end He became a pain as he couldn't just socialize ,He had to touch mrs up every time we saw them so the friendship slipped away

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  We had fantasised about playing with our closest friends for a while and when we got the opportunity to live it we jumped. We are still as close as ever ...

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