Do's and don'ts for the first hookup

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  If you never never go will never never know You are in control of yourselfs

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  sw1ng3rz

  6 years ago

  Be true to yourselves, stick to your boundaries and check in with each other, don’t go in with any expectations, don’t have too much Dutch courage..... and have an amazing time.

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  teamaj2

  6 years ago

  Good advice swing It’s your journey kinky nerds , there is no rush . As was said stick to your boundaries and should you want to proceed make your boundaries clear to the other people . Never feel pressured to proceed or proceed just for the sake of it . Unless you both feel ready , it’s alright to wait . There will be nerves and that’s totally normal . Of course it’s good to have ideas of what you would like to play out but other people are involved so it may play out differently . Be open to whatever may happen without over stepping your boundaries . Remember to have fun and go with your gut instincts . Good luck x

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  FlirtParties

  6 years ago

  We suggest you keep your first plays light and flirty. Keep communicating with your partner and the others throughout. For example: How are you feeling at the moment? Would it be ok if I ... touched her boobs... kissed her/him... take her/his top off.. rub massage oil on his back... etc. Continually ask consent from your partner, the other person and the other person's partner. We like to play ice breaker party games to help with intimacy.

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  You just haven’t had coffee/drinks with a couple that you both feel are right to take the next step with . Be attentive to each other during meets, notice each other’s body language . Someone always has to initiate the first move into adult play, body language is a great communicator for this . Sitting and just talking about it is great but if no one makes a move then that’s all it will be , great. Not sensual,erotic and hot . Meet somewhere where you can get close and personal and actually be able to talk open and honestly. Would suggest acquiring yourselves a set of adult dice . They are a lot of fun to play while having a few drinks and talking and are an ideal ice breaker. Have fun👍

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  Just keep communicating with each other....know what you want and your partner wants. Just have fun and no pressure 😉😊

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  Next question...? ʗɱ

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  Sawadee

  6 years ago

  But dont deprive yourself of good posibilities by over thinking. We , my wife and self , have enjoyed 2 experiences and reasoned both times you have to accept the bad with the good as nothings ever going to be perfect. Expect and accept there will be human emotions involved and deal with them in a mature way. Above all , your there for fun , not to judge...

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