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Dose size matter

August 13 2011

About ten years ago I was told I had prostate cancer and was told that I had about 18 months to live and that my sex life was over and that I needed an operation that would make me impudent and maybe save my life. (pretty fucked up day) I research for a cure and found an experimental operation. They needed 100 men under 50 and I was one of the lucky ones. I chose the op and it has been very successful (I am one of the lucky ones, so far there is only 37 of us left). I had nerve grafting and nerve spearing and it took a while to heal. I can get a hard-on but has left me smaller than I was, I don’t and can’t ejaculate and have over the years had to learn how to have sex again using the mind to reach orgasm. Now I can say that sex is much better than before the op, as I can multi- orgasm (using my mind) very similar to a woman during the one event, stay harder much, much longer and please any girl even thou I am smaller now. Question is, "dose size really matter". I don't think so, however Iam not a woman. And guys go to to the doctor every year and have a check-up, you would hate what I have had to go through. Honu (SEX AND TUBE RIDES)

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RHP User

13 years ago

Honuman, this question has been asked before and as in life the answers vary. For me the size doesn't really matter. I am more interested in the person and if we can have fun together and for me there is no correlation between penis size and pleasure. By the way, congratulations on your continued health. I hope you live a long life filled with pleasure, fucking and love. xx Meeka

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RHP User

13 years ago

although I guess you mean impotent rather than impudent.What did the other 50 men get ?MrA

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RHP User

13 years ago

Regardless , size only ever become a issue if we allow it . Im sure with your determination you can give a woman just as much pleasure as anyone else, if not more because you have taken the time to make things happen for you in such a way it must impact on whoever you're with.. A friend of mine once had a book on orgasm's by the mind without ejaculation,so I know this is for real..Naturally' you will always come across the occassional woman who requires bigger to match their own physical makeup, be it because of childbirth or naturally big pussy. But overall, most women can be pleased with average + if they are excited and ready to go..Remember, 90% of us are average, the rest are just lucky or unlucky depending which way you look at it...

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MissSarahCurious

13 years ago

Big cocks frighten me.You must be less than 7 inches to ride!

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RHP User

13 years ago

Impotent you’re absolutely correct. Just another fucked up moment. Shit happens Honu

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RHP User

13 years ago

Because this is play. ....But if my husband , god forbid, had to go through what you did ( I am glad you are ok!) , it would mean jack shit in my lelvel of attaction to him, because I love him, all of him.The men I play with are fantasy material, one off's .....and as I am a minority here ( a woman seeking men ) I can be a little fussy. I am sure if the shoe was on the other foot, most men would have their preferences too.Size makes me feel full stretched and fucked, girth over width. However it is definately no deal breaker. I must be attracted to the guy, a big cock is just a bonus .

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RHP User

13 years ago

Quoting 'Meeka100'Honuman, this question has been asked before and as in life the answers vary. For me the size doesn't really matter. I am more interested in the person and if we can have fun together and for me there is no correlation between penis size and pleasure. By the way, congratulations on your continued health. I hope you live a long life filled with pleasure, fucking and love. xx Meeka I hope to Meeka

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13 years ago

Quoting 'DeliciousCplBris'Because this is play. ....But if my husband , god forbid, had to go through what you did ( I am glad you are ok!) , it would mean jack shit in my lelvel of attaction to him, because I love him, all of him.The men I play with are fantasy material, one off's .....and as I am a minority here ( a woman seeking men ) I can be a little fussy. I am sure if the shoe was on the other foot, most men would have their preferences too.Size makes me feel full stretched and fucked, girth over width. However it is definately no deal breaker. I must be attracted to the guy, a big cock is just a bonus . I hope your man knows how lucky he is as your love for him is just wonderful. Honu

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RHP User

13 years ago

Quoting 'justjuice'Regardless , size only ever become a issue if we allow it . Im sure with your determination you can give a woman just as much pleasure as anyone else, if not more because you have taken the time to make things happen for you in such a way it must impact on whoever you're with.. A friend of mine once had a book on orgasm's by the mind without ejaculation,so I know this is for real..Naturally' you will always come across the occassional woman who requires bigger to match their own physical makeup, be it because of childbirth or naturally big pussy. But overall, most women can be pleased with average + if they are excited and ready to go..Remember, 90% of us are average, the rest are just lucky or unlucky depending which way you look at it...I didn't know there is a book about orgasms. Wish I knew about that some years ago. I wont write a book about it now. Honu

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RHP User

13 years ago

Quoting 'curiousnewgirl78'Big cocks frighten me. You must be less than 7 inches to ride!And me too.

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RHP User

13 years ago

I recently stumbled upon a web site called something like "measure your cock"... not quite sure how I got there... must have pushed the wrong link looking for designs on line for a chicken coop... andyway... funny enough... that particular web site had thousands of photos of dudes measuring their dicks with various tapes, rulers and so on... the first 50 or so were really quite amusing... such variation! Fascinating.HugsStalky

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Mr_MrsJones

13 years ago

I think ultimately you have won. You are alive and you have retained sexual function. The rest as they say is icing on the cake. Does size matter? If it was the only information I had available and I had to make a choice I would say yes. Having said that, I would be like Curiousnewgirl, too much is too much. I have a preference for above average but that doesn't mean that I will not consider below average. There is truth in the idea that it is more important to know what you are doing with your tool. A big hammer does way more damage when it is bashed around that a small one!!!!! The only thing I have against small is that the owners of small often have a chip on their shoulder and that kinda spoils it for me! Mrs Jones

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RHP User

13 years ago

Know what ur saying about feeling full and stretched.. had one like that last year. And yes, girth over length is better. But in the real world, the average guy is fine.. Like you said, You love all your hubby, even if he lost his potency. Big is nice but its not the be all and end all... Any port in a storm is good.. Mrs JJ

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13 years ago

Quoting 'Mr_MrsJones' I think ultimately you have won. You are alive and you have retained sexual function. The rest as they say is icing on the cake. Does size matter? If it was the only information I had available and I had to make a choice I would say yes. Having said that, I would be like Curiousnewgirl, too much is too much. I have a preference for above average but that doesn't mean that I will not consider below average. There is truth in the idea that it is more important to know what you are doing with your tool. A big hammer does way more damage when it is bashed around that a small one!!!!! The only thing I have against small is that the owners of small often have a chip on their shoulder and that kinda spoils it for me! Mrs Jones For some it is more like a forest than a chip on the shoulder. for me got no chip. Just want guys to think about havin a check-up. So girls ask them when was the last time your love, lover, friend went for a simple PSA test. Honu

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RHP User

13 years ago

I guess we've all heard the saying its not how big it is, it's what you do with it, or how you use it. Right? Well, sometimes! To me, there is more than just a penis size... i like a man's personality, his hands and his tongue, so if you still have those, you're still in the running. If you can or can't have sex, you can still please a woman with hands & tongue. However, the thing is if a man goes soft, no matter what his size, that can be a disappointment in itself. I have met a lot of men with very small penises and some give me great pleasure with hands & tongue and some do not... but the penis itself if too small can be a problem giving pleasure.

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Onlylivetwice

13 years ago

Honuman, just wanted to tell you that's a real impressive story. I'm glad you're okay and have a lot of admiration for the way you dealt with it. Re: size, making and nuturing the moment is more important than size. I'm average length, a little above average girth. Partners have told me about others who have been huge and others small and that they've all been capable of satisfying so I reckon it's a non-issue mostly, just get to work!

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