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Double standards
September 03 2014
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's not particularly surprising. Women by and large can take their pic of men. Perhaps not equal, but that's the reality. - Posted from rhpmobile
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TheLuckyOne
10 years ago
I am sure you are not the only one!
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RHP User
10 years ago
To avoid assumptions and reduce expectations. I did not put a face picture in my public gallery as i live in a very small community and am quite well known because of my art.I do have face picture in my private gallery that i am happy to give selected people access to. Why would anyone think here would be different to anywhere else in life? Double standards are everywhere. Personally i steer clear of any profile that has a list of "must haves" "don't bothers" and general negativity. To answer your question Yes.... some people really are that hypocritical........ as is their want
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Tall74nHard9
10 years ago
I'm sure there are plenty who are in agreement. Best thing to do is to ignore such profiles - if they want to play, they should be on equal terms. And yes, there are a number of profiles that ARE that hypocritical. Tall
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Mr_MrsAraps
10 years ago
RHP fact. A womens profile with only 2 words in it, all ask me's and a grey ghost picture will get 50 bajillion messages from guys. Doesn't mean its right or is anywhere near a reflection of real life. Its the way it is here. Accept it and move on ... why waste your energy letting it wind you up as little stuff like this is the cost of admission for being on a sex site like this. Cheers, W
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RHP User
10 years ago
A man talks dirty to a women and its sexual harassment. A women talks dirty to a man and its $6.95 a min
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Seachange
10 years ago
Haha. That funny. Good laugh in my lunch break. Cheers - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think a face pic should be compulsory, albeit in a private gallery if you have reasons for the need to remain anonymous. I wouldn't meet anyone if I didn't know what they looked like? But someone with no pic demanding one? That's just a big no from me..
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Bazingal
10 years ago
I don't think it's double standards. Each profile is comprised of words and images by the creator of that profile. If you put a face pic on, that's completely your choice. I haven't for a variety of reasons. However if I engage with another person through the site I will ask for a face pic if not already available, and if I like what I see I reciprocate. I prefer someone that has taken the time to build a profile themselves rather than a template profile. But each to their own. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
roomformore, as I've come to realise in here, its a buyers market for a woman. And because of the amount of attention women receive I'm am certain that many women are in the position where they can set whatever rules they like.It may not be fair, but when is life ever fair? Maybe you just need to get better at getting your profile and message across to stand out from the crowd. And its a big crowd.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Nudierudie2' A man talks dirty to a women and its sexual harassment. A women talks dirty to a man and its $6.95 a min Id better get Mrs Poly employed as a dirty talker then LOL!!!!! Shes worth more than $6.95 a minute though LOL :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Of course, but aren't you glad you found out these women were hypocritical before you put in the effort to write, let alone meet them?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Nudierudie2' A man talks dirty to a women and its sexual harassment. A women talks dirty to a man and its $6.95 a min thats me, and artist and a phone sex worker also I get recognised sometimes, happened last Friday in my local pub. There is RHP and there is reality.all you need is a pulse if your a woman on rhp and even thats debatable at times I do not do the coped with an ax pictures, I guess I prefer a guy to say my that sure is prrrrruty when he is actually looking at said pink bits. the laws of attraction differ to men and women as in visuals. The motivation or reasons people come may differ as do perceptions of what RHP is all about. I have seen some shocker cock pictures , but they like their cocks and think that a cock in your main profile picture will have women running after you. Mostly it does not work unless that cock is beautiful and attached to something nice as well, women tend to have peripheral sexual vision and the face seems to be the most important thing. I know it is for me. no face no fuck, but i did meet the most amazing man with no face picture but thats very rare. men are no so fussy as far as i can tell, and thank god or i would never get a root. women have all the power on RHP as its called cunt collateral :) sad but true , its the site of the golden pussy and luvvvvvvvv that idea, its kinda like cyber beer goggles. your right, women do this cause they can :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
expect to see my private gallery when they don't have a single pic up and none even in their pg!
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Single_Guy4U
10 years ago
You are right. I may come back as a woman next time Off subject. Are there any men that do the phone sex thing as a job, and do they get the same money ? or is phone sex a specialist occupation suited to woman only ? Haven't tried it as can't see the point, but can men do the same job ? Too many questions no answers :(
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'inthekiss'thats me, and artist and a phone sex worker I'd like to do phone sex. Unfortunately I have been told my accent is not the most... romantic, and I'd make a better Dominatrix.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I just have to say: Hubba hubba!
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Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'ralf74' expect to see my private gallery when they don't have a single pic up and none even in their pg! I had that happened just today. Lol. . I have a facial pic up already in my public gallery and he still want to see more when he doesn't have a single pic of himself. And he wants to see more. As if... What to do, what to do?
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am too sexual to be a sexual partner, wtf?? Fuck I am sick of trying to figure men out. Damned if you and damned if you don't. Don't fuck, you are a prude and nobody wants you, do fuck and you are a slut and nobody wants you. Fucking over it!
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Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'ralf74' I am too sexual to be a sexual partner, wtf?? Fuck I am sick of trying to figure men out. Damned if you and damned if you don't. Don't fuck, you are a prude and nobody wants you, do fuck and you are a slut and nobody wants you. Fucking over it! the key is not to figure them out.... . You sound frustrated. I will be leaving for a Perth assignment next week, I will lend you the key to my basement where all my men sex slaves are kept and awaiting my loving attention. You use whomever you please and whenever to release all that sexual tension and frustration out. In short, fuck their brains out but keep them alive. Just. If you dont want them to talk, just leave the gimp ball in their mouth and they will adore you. You have my blessings...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'lilyorchid' Quoting 'ralf74' I am too sexual to be a sexual partner, wtf?? Fuck I am sick of trying to figure men out. Damned if you and damned if you don't. Don't fuck, you are a prude and nobody wants you, do fuck and you are a slut and nobody wants you. Fucking over it! the key is not to figure them out.... . You sound frustrated. I will be leaving for a Perth assignment next week, I will lend you the key to my basement where all my men sex slaves are kept and awaiting my loving attention. You use whomever you please and whenever to release all that sexual tension and frustration out. In short, fuck their brains out but keep them alive. Just. If you dont want them to talk, just leave the gimp ball in their mouth and they will adore you. You have my blessings... I would eat one alive right now...., slowly with a knife and fork!!
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Smilingwithfun
10 years ago
The double standards of life. Sexual equality?
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DynamicCouple36
10 years ago
These sex/swingers sites are swamped with "single" men. There was talk that it's in the region of 90%. Women are the bait. The honey that attracts the flies. Were it not for women then this site would just be guys , all looking for action. It's the same at some swingers clubs on those nights that they allow "single" men in. They buzz like bees around a proverbial honey pot... Hunting, following, stalking the women. If woman and couples did not frequent those clubs then there would be nothing to attract the "single guys". Just a club full of guys standing around would be the result. With regards swinging, it's general swingers etiquette that the women make the rules and decide what happens and how an evening / encounter will unfold. Whilst men are generally more visually stimulated and turned on by in your face porn pics, women are generally more subtle. The saying men are from mars and women from Venus is so very true. There is more to a woman than a vagina. Just as there is more to a man than a penis. Many women dislike, and avoid, those profiles which have close up cock pics as their main profile photo. Just too in your face and not subtle enough and perhaps not a good impression/ indication about the man behind that cock ? We have face photos in our private albums. We value our privacy for obvious reasons. 9 times out of 10, when we have asked to see a private album it's ended up having no face photos , but rather cocks in various stages of arousal. Lack of subtlety is , for us, a turn off. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Tall74nHard9
10 years ago
Quoting 'ralf74' Quoting 'lilyorchid' Quoting 'ralf74' I am too sexual to be a sexual partner, wtf?? Fuck I am sick of trying to figure men out. Damned if you and damned if you don't. Don't fuck, you are a prude and nobody wants you, do fuck and you are a slut and nobody wants you. Fucking over it! the key is not to figure them out.... . You sound frustrated. I will be leaving for a Perth assignment next week, I will lend you the key to my basement where all my men sex slaves are kept and awaiting my loving attention. You use whomever you please and whenever to release all that sexual tension and frustration out. In short, fuck their brains out but keep them alive. Just. If you dont want them to talk, just leave the gimp ball in their mouth and they will adore you. You have my blessings... I would eat one alive right now...., slowly with a knife and fork!! Was just reading thru' your comments this morning - both exchanges just lit up my face and a quick giggle. Ahhh, the problems of life ..... Tall
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RHP User
10 years ago
in total agreement with you,i have the feeling most of the people here are over rated and over weighted,i think I will shut down turn off and go elsewhere.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'polys' Quoting 'Nudierudie2' A man talks dirty to a women and its sexual harassment. A women talks dirty to a man and its $6.95 a min Id better get Mrs Poly employed as a dirty talker then LOL!!!!! Shes worth more than $6.95 a minute though LOL :) I have no Clue how much they might earn.It was just a joke that popped into my head after i had made my original reply.I am curious if anyone knows of any Male Phone Sex workers? Or is Phone Sex something that men are more likely to engage in than women?
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6exxy
10 years ago
Lilyorchird's that was funny as! Ralf74 is it me or your profile up available to be viewed?😳 Double standards exist here everywhere. I just had a post erased and I have no reason given to me. It must have touched on something RHP didn't want discussed in the forums. Saying that it is what it is.
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PL1963
10 years ago
It does exist everywhere in life, I have a true hate of judgmental/hypocritical people, I have standards and morals, I stick to those things like glue, it has cost me promotions, jobs and friendships. I met with my Son, his GF, my best mate and his wife whom I hadn't seen in 6mths while I sorted out "my shit", I explained what I am now like, and that is me, if they come back to me they are true friends and family, if not, well that's "how is". Always in the "shit", only the depth varies. Cheers P.L.
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