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Double standards Are you game?
January 20 2010
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RHP User
15 years ago
hey cake man, surely after 44 years you have learned that women hold all the card in the sexual realm. it's just the way it is. as far as different rules for couples its a numbers thing, the ratio of single males to couples....well i'm sure you no the numbers means that couples can be more picky/fussy, not to mention they already have fallback root anyways.hehehe thats the way i see it. cheers JD
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RHP User
15 years ago
"Women can ask for a male to be" hung....9" plus" .COCK I believe is the correct term , But men would be seen as weirdos or digusting if they asked for a 9 ltr pussy or a vagina hung like a mare"I think what you're trying to say here is that men would be seen as weirdos or disgusting if we asked for minimum Ecup boobies? If I went around asking for a 9 litre vagina or a vagina hung like a mare I would expect people to look at me like I was a freak, was disgusting or even worse, had red hair. Wait a sec..........shit!
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RHP User
15 years ago
I agree with your sentiments 4nicake. It seems single men on rhp are a lowly and outcast species, valued only if they are packing a cock of lengthy proportions or are a stud of superior anatomy. It appears to boil down to economics once again ie there is a plethora of single men and so the couples and single women of rhp can afford to be choosey, supply far outweighs demand. Good luck if you continue on the site
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RHP User
15 years ago
We've just had a discussion about use of the term separated. So one's profile status can be a contentious matter in some quarters. I must agree with you that there are cases of double standards in the way some males are judged too... in fact cases of outright discrimination. I'm only here to have fun in the forums... yet people have made value judgements assuming I have another agenda. I'm forever viewing profiles of people who express their views in the forums... more to gain an understanding of where they are coming from rather that seeking a paramour. Yet I have cause to believe I'm thought of as an old perve for doing so... following one adverse comment.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I do feel sorry for the genuine nice guys who are boxed together with ''the others'' there are some not so nice men on this site, some of the messages we get are to wierd, and the cock pic BANG straight in your face ...over it.. and you say ''sorry not interested'' but they keep been a pest till you block them, would'nt it be good if you could reach into the screen grab his dick and stick it up his ass, ...now i forgot what i was talking about...o yeah men once a good man has been identified it does'nt take long for the word to spread they get exchanged like stamps, we lent one out once come back a real mess,all skinny,unshaven and jumped when you screamed ''harder!'' thanks girls...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Have to agree mostly with what was said but what I can't understand is members that have profiles set for looking for "men,women,couples,groups,ff, mm,mfm,fmf TV/TS"As I have got better at searching on RHP I try to limit my search to people that are looking for me. So theses setting are the search fields. Ok they may have been lazy setting up there profile, or secretly interested in more then they are prepared to admit.To then have in their profile "no single men or you will be blocked!" means they have the ability to affect genuine searches but don't. Often they also say "no time wasters" and yet they waste other peoples time by not setting up their profile to reflect their preference.my two cents Hermes
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RHP User
15 years ago
I think your point is very true. There IS a double standard. IN fact there is a double standard in LIFE !! Women are still treated differently in business then men. Women still have to work harder to get to the same place in business as men. Women on average earn approximately 10% less than men holding the same positions. Women with long blonde hair who wear tight tops are treated as "eye candy" and not taken seriously in business. Women have to endure derogatory and sexist comments based on their looks not just in business, but in society as well. I HATE double standards. I wish they didn't exist in any areas of life. I try very hard not to judge but then many people regard me as gullible. I give everyone a chance, except for the guys with cock shots !!! Personally, I believe there are MANY MANY obstacles we all face in life. The challenge for each of us is to find a way of overcoming those obstacles. I have long blonde hair (I recently cut it so it's not as long), I wear tight fitted tops, I wear make up and I'm reasonably successful in my business. Persistence and ignoring the obstacles has been the key to my success. On RHP there are several men (over 40) who are big hits with the women ! You should read some of their Validations !!! Perhaps you could look at some of the men's profiles and try and figure out how they do it ! That's the strategy I use in business and I think it'd work ok here too. Cheers, Ms Saturn
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RHP User
15 years ago
"A single man, or married for that matter, is regarded as an old perve or sicko if he looks up couples profiles.Yet couples and men as part of a couple can look up any profile they wish, and sleep with who ever they choose" (4Nicake) Is this "double standard view" seen in the forums by a few minimal females/ couples who care to declare it in the forums? Or have you been sent a msg by someone after you have viewed there profile? Just interested to know. The way I look at it is, profile views are fine, I mean , what harm is it doing someone checking out your profile? However if you have been sent a msg. and have politly refused their request for further communication for whatever reason, if they still check out my profile so be it...just do not contact again! We have a certain male out of our requested age group who respected our msg. sent another equally pleasnt reply thanking us back, still checks us out but that is it? No harm..delete and block the weird ones Kaput!! If you have an image in your profile that may be seen as pleasant to look at on an adult sight..expect the views.. Women can ask for a male to be" hung....9" plus" .COCK I believe is the correct term , But men would be seen as weirdos or digusting if they asked for a 9 ltr pussy or a vagina hung like a mare (4Nicake) 4NicCake- Lol- I would see you as a weirdo for asking that....eeeewwwww the image you have put in my brain... You see I see no problem with a guy/couple saying exactly what they are after. It cuts through all the BS.Its more about how you come across with what you are after that is questionable. See the forum post about the dude wanting older ***....cant even write it- women. That post just reeks of a dimwit- so what do you do delete/block! A profile that states "men ,women,couples,groups,ff, mm,mfm,fmf TV/TS is ok but again "no single men or you will be blocked!" (4nicake) Someone needs to let them know to get rid of the "men" thing out of their preferred options. How many times can you post I"M GOING and not leave? (4Nicake) Yeah..not sure what the go is with this..but you see it time and again in forums right across the genre' . And they always come baaaccckkk! I'm forever viewing profiles of people who express their views in the forums... more to gain an understanding of where they are coming from rather that seeking a paramour. Yet I have cause to believe I'm thought of as an old perve for doing so... following one adverse comment. (Eunuch) Ahh see that is sad Eunuch. Only thing I can suggest is the go in stealth mode that is in the edit settings to preserve the delicateness of some petals that may be on this site. And to Sorrento sexy's post...your whole post had me laughing..There's a lesson in there I'm sure... And lastly as Saturn86 has said it so well as always, there are double standards in life! How big a deal it means to you and how loud across the rooftops you want to yell is up to you- I just hope you have a captive audience waiting to hear it!
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RHP User
15 years ago
It's not uncommon for people to change their minds... and it is perfectly acceptable behaviour. I could say I want to fuck a guy with a 9 inch + cock and when it comes to it... I might decide not to... so wtf is up with that? Nothing. People think they want something... even write it down... and change their minds about it in retrospect. That's life and love and the universe. If the right 40 something guy comes along... even if they say no in their profile.... they'll still want to fuk him. Who wouldnt fuk Jonny Depp?? .. I mean the guy is 47. We might like to think we have control of our junk but our minds work in interesting ways. We set out our interests, we get pestered by single guys and we make a stand.... our profiles represent our experiences and desires.. they are a reflection of how we percieve ourselves and our interests. Are they always a true representation? No, obviously. I'm 10 years older than I say for example. It's no secret... but now I fit in salandy's age range.. lolz... it's a reflection of what I think I want... is it true? No. Will I really want to be with Salandy? I do not know unless the opportunity presents itself. People do change their minds. Double standards? Well if it was legislation that could discriminate on a whim, I'd agree that it is a double standard.. but this is human nature. People can change their minds about what they want in a sexual relationship on a whim. Why shouldnt they be able to! HUgs Stalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Ah, that was good! Thanks 4nicake! A few more laughs like that and I'll be giving up the search for the holy grail! Macro Vs Micro....can lead to serious damage to ones mental health and wellbeing should they choose to linger longer over the meanderings of the micro (forum) and macro (media) What matters most are the thoughts and opinions of those with whom you allow into your intimate world & even then you will only share brief moments of consensus....diversity is what makes our lives all the more challenging and enjoyable! And then...there are the matters Mz Saturn raise...so what are we going to do about that eh? I wonder how ready we are to vote for a woman as Prime Minister? Yikes!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
I have a feeling this didn't work for me but I gave it a go..... I was contacted by a couple with a flirt...."your exactly what I'm looking for etc..." So I whipped off a polite brief but explanatory message about myself, where I am, etc...the usual ice breaking conversation makers and I got back after a day or so; "how bigscock please???" Well!! I was literally moist with anticipation at this stage so I fired back with.... "bigger that your vocabulary but smaller than your ego" And for the life of me I don't undertand...the rude bastards never got back to me! ~confused sheen~
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RHP User
15 years ago
Nice one Sheen 4nicake, i agree with you, however i also agree with Saturn 86, there are double standards on RHP just as there are in life.You will NEVER be able to change that, the only thing you can change is how you react to it.Suck it up big fella, shit happens!If a woman want's a guy with a big cock, that is her perogative, however narrow minded she isIf you want a woman with a pussy that holds 9 litres, put it on your profile. You never know, you just might find her.If you want a woman with a pussy like a mare, there are some stables just up the road, i can point you in the right direction, just don't ask me to lead you there
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RHP User
15 years ago
hi 4nicake...size is of ones penis is not a concern for me..its how its used.and if he can take direction.i know what works and what doesnt for me..im amazed that some women even ask that a guy be hung...lolBut for what saturn86 had to say about how women are treated in buisness and society.is so true..more so if your blonde you get looked at as if your a bimbo...lol..but i must admit i dont mind the blonde jokes...lmao think ive heard them all.Even stalky is right people can change their mind..some do it all the time..like they change their underwear...lolbut thats life...good thing im flexable..hehe.much.like fantasies..some are best left that way..in hindsight for some.so people should be able to if they feel uncertain about a situation..Frustration is also part of life.as well all know..Mynamehas a good point also..the media has a lot to answer for..putting false ideals into the young peoples minds.where it continues to grow into unrealistic expectations as adults..which leads to bitter disappointment in the long ruAs for the bulls**t that Trish spoke of,. is rampant..in cyber..which can tend to put one off.a little..making one more suss.
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RHP User
15 years ago
i would really like to say something helpful here...aww what the heck...i'll say it..."something helpful here"...giggling....but good ta see that ya finally woke up ya old duck....now there's a double standard right there...oops..maybe i meant a double entendre...but ya see...it all depends how ya read it...don't ya reckon?...and that's the same wif life...i mean let's say ya standing at a public men's urinal when a 7 foot black dude walks in...i mean you probably think..."i bet he's got a huge cock whereas i think..."omfg, i hope i don't shake any on me pants....so there's a double standard right there...it all depends how ya look at it...but looking through this thread, did ya see what i saw ????omg...IT'S A DOUBLE SATURN !!....drooling....excuse me (tucks tongue back in mouth)....and i also hear double penetration is great fun too....cheersjose...
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RHP User
15 years ago
A set of principles permitting greater opportunity or liberty to one than to another, especially the granting of greater sexual freedom to men than to women.What is the double standard in...How many times can you post I"M GOING and not leave?Please explain...
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RHP User
15 years ago
There are double standards everywhere, can't avoid em. As a single guy who is looking for the occasional bit of fun, as well as making new friends I'd like to be treated with the same level of respect as some other members. I'm also up front about what I want, which I figure is respect. I also think actually replying to messages even with a few words to say no thanks would go a long way to showing more respect to other members, regardless of what they are.
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RHP User
15 years ago
why do people get upset and emotional over rejection in this form wot double standards that just theres one who now wot they want and do wot they gotta do to get it and there is the others who no wot they want but cant get it its simple there are those who no wot happens and there are those who make things happen if everything was fair and equal in life we wont have a challenge and what fun will that be there is no double standards you set your own standards life is such
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RHP User
15 years ago
...there is always a settling in period. Double standards exist everywhere. This site is no different. It's about sussing it all out and working out where you fit in with it all. I'm not saying double standards are right....but this is an emotive site and double standards are not hidden as much as say the church (no offence). In many ways, many of the issues raised in the forums are in fact serious, stoopid or funny frustrations of the double standards we encounter. People just say it in their own way. Your post tells me you've observed the nuances of the site....now you just need to explore the motives. The 9L vagina: front engine design, rear wheel drive, pushrod valves , fuel injection, spool differentials and manual gearbox. Yep..the 9L vagina is definitely a Supercar!!!! Jx
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RHP User
15 years ago
For the tip regarding stealth mode. Now Trish will think I have forsaken her... but you can be guaranteed I'll be checking out the ongoing collage of tantalising snap shots that you so artistically present. The model is pretty cute too :) Big hugs...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Cant wait for Top Gear to test drive that one :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
lets see the stig handle that one, ahahahahahahahahahEarlps, thinking bout changing my profile and see what bites i get. ahahahahahahahhaha
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RHP User
15 years ago
Great response guys and I haven’t been decapitated thank god!! I feel as if the door to the inner sanctum has been left ajar yippee. Firstly I don't and wouldn't go around asking for a 9ltr vagina. (The Stig is definitely too small there for Clarkson would have to do the test drive.) I did not receive a message from a couple just observations no rejection involved. I"M GOING yes a tad left field but I saw it over and over on a post and I think they are still hanging around. If anyone thinks I may be a bit naive Don't think so, have experienced family and business double standards many times over lol For the ladies, In my business I promoted who I felt deserved the position .The opposite sex was pissed many times and often they would turn on each other .They were weeded out and sent on their way. I agree with most …. No, all of you double standards exist and you have to cope shit happens. Thanks forumsters
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'mr_sheen_live' I have a feeling this didn't work for me but I gave it a go..... I was contacted by a couple with a flirt...."your exactly what I'm looking for etc..." So I whipped off a polite brief but explanatory message about myself, where I am, etc...the usual ice breaking conversation makers and I got back after a day or so; "how bigscock please???" Well!! I was literally moist with anticipation at this stage so I fired back with.... "bigger that your vocabulary but smaller than your ego" And for the life of me I don't undertand...the rude bastards never got back to me! ~confused sheen~ Howbigisyadick?.....hehe
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RHP User
15 years ago
I think we could have a competition for the most syllables in a word! My entry shall be: prettytinyreallythatswhyiavoidedthequestion! Ha! Top that! ~superlinguistic sheen~
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RHP User
15 years ago
Expect double standards everywhere, thats how it is it matey.. As for a 9 incher, yeah sure it looks good, nice and thick and big but hey lets face it, its not the size we're after but how it works and who works it thats more important , well to me anyway....9 litre pussy??? you gotta be bloody kiddin me rite... Yuck yuck and more yuck.... LOL Give me a clean shaven tite pussy anytime plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz....... Btw, folks , RHP heaps of time wasters and b/s goin on ... What a shame though... Anyway, good luck guys Cheers Steffie... X
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'OneBrightStar'The 9L vagina: front engine design, rear wheel drive, pushrod valves , fuel injection, spool differentials and manual gearbox. Yep..the 9L vagina is definitely a Supercar!!!! Jx yeah, but its a single cylinder - torquey as all hell, toooo much torque?makes you wonder what its rod : stroke ratio is though ;)
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'm saying again... this is not a double standard... please explain! It's not like those leaving are saying I'm leaving but you can't or you have to leave but I don't... That would be a double standard!Quoting 'acf66' A set of principles permitting greater opportunity or liberty to one than to another, especially the granting of greater sexual freedom to men than to women.What is the double standard in...How many times can you post I"M GOING and not leave?Please explain...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'acf66' I'm saying again... this is not a double standard... please explain! It's not like those leaving are saying I'm leaving but you can't or you have to leave but I don't... That would be a double standard!Quoting 'acf66' A set of principles permitting greater opportunity or liberty to one than to another, especially the granting of greater sexual freedom to men than to women.What is the double standard in...How many times can you post I"M GOING and not leave?Please explain... seriously mate....who cares....if someone says they're going, i'll be the first ta say what i thought of their writings in the forums...and if they come back again, then WOOHOO...let's PARTY!!!!...yeah babeeeeand if they go again, so be it....sort of like come and go...come and go...come and go...come and go.....hmmm...reminds me something else which comes and goes...ah yes...got it now....a cock!!!....cheersjose...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'mr_sheen_live' I think we could have a competition for the most syllables in a word! My entry shall be: prettytinyreallythatswhyiavoidedthequestion! Ha! Top that! ~superlinguistic sheen~nottoworrytinytimcositappearstherearemanyherewhoareoftheopinionthatsizedoesnotmatteritshowuuseitthatcountspersonallyithinkthatsaloadofcodswollop
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RHP User
15 years ago
Why do men in RHP assume that just because its a sexually themed social networking site that this means there is an automatic right to sexual activity form other (read female) members of RHP. Women hold the veto in sexual activity, not just in rhp but in all variations of human society.. and to me, thats just how it should be... its the ying to the yang sts -ie men are the supplier to the female customer and especially in RHP (but equally likewise in "real life") this is the natural balancer for the (generally) higher sexual need of men - ergo women determine who will be selected for sexual activity with them (fair enough to me- since in the sexual act it it the female who is physically the submissive - not emotionally per se).... therefore in a societal microcosm like RHP where on a sheer numbers basis and in economic terms as well as anthropologically women possess buyer power they determine the point of sexual equilibrium. 2me, it is about a). knowing who and what you are, b). what you offer to the market place c). what you are wanting - from this point it is then about finding a "buyer" who seeks your wares and to whom one wishes to "sell" to - there is no "Automatic Right" just because sex is the currency of exchange in the RHP market place. It is unfortunate that so many men seem to think that just because thy have a cock and that women have chosen to "shop " in the RHP department store that therefore female acquiesence is a foregone conclusion....if you are trying to pick up in a pub or club do you hold the same expectations - i would think not... and therefore one should not assume that RHP is any different. .... but then - maybe its just me. :) 2b :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'm not sure I'm making myself clear. Simply put I disagree that saying, How many times can you post I"M GOING and not leave?, is a double standard. I have no issues with people cumming and going, not my problem and sure don't mean to make it mine. Don't we all have enough problems of our own. Seems like people cumming and going would be the lifeblood of this place, fresh blood on a regular basis, so to speak.I just don't think the question belongs on this post as a double standard and I wanted the person who asked the question to explain why they think it is a double standard. These forums seem like an interesting place. But the people can be difficult to understand.Quoting 'COMEANDGETME68' Quoting 'acf66' I'm saying again... this is not a double standard... please explain! It's not like those leaving are saying I'm leaving but you can't or you have to leave but I don't... That would be a double standard!Quoting 'acf66' A set of principles permitting greater opportunity or liberty to one than to another, especially the granting of greater sexual freedom to men than to women.What is the double standard in...How many times can you post I"M GOING and not leave?Please explain... seriously mate....who cares....if someone says they're going, i'll be the first ta say what i thought of their writings in the forums...and if they come back again, then WOOHOO...let's PARTY!!!!...yeah babeeeeand if they go again, so be it....sort of like come and go...come and go...come and go...come and go.....hmmm...reminds me something else which comes and goes...ah yes...got it now....a cock!!!....cheersjose...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Mynameis.....you've exposed me for all the world to see! Showing up not only my inadequacies in the shorts department but my inabilty to win my own competetion with my own rules! This has to be a case of double standards!!!...somehow? hehe ~nine inch sheen~
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RHP User
15 years ago
ahahahahahahahahahaahahahaha. haven't heard that in years.good one mymameis. hey we have the same first name.ahahahahahahaha, Earl.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'acf66' I'm not sure I'm making myself clear. Simply put I disagree that saying, How many times can you post I"M GOING and not leave?, is a double standard.My apologies, i misread your intentions...i too do not see why this is a double standard...sorry againcheersjose...
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RHP User
15 years ago
why are you obsessing about a couple that obviously don't want single guys like you...when single chicks like me are going without coz all the single blokes can't move on.Oh....I know...they don't want me coz I got a fat ass.BJxxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'mr_sheen_live' Mynameis.....you've exposed me for all the world to see! Showing up not only my inadequacies in the shorts department but my inabilty to win my own competetion with my own rules! This has to be a case of double standards!!!...somehow? hehe ~nine inch sheen~ ooopps...no pun intended on ur...erm..."mini me" I hope ur not overly concerned by being trumped by a mere femme....how can I make it up to you? oh and...For the record...my nic is.... mynameonurlips. sheesh....men and their domestic blindness!!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
I wonder why 4nicake hasn't been game to answer my question about why he considers, 'How many times can you post I"M GOING and not leave?', to be a double standard. Quoting 'COMEANDGETME68'my humblest apologies Quoting 'acf66' I'm not sure I'm making myself clear. Simply put I disagree that saying, How many times can you post I"M GOING and not leave?, is a double standard.My apologies, i misread your intentions...i too do not see why this is a double standard...sorry againcheersjose...
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RHP User
15 years ago
acf66 I replied to your question on 22 Jan "I"M GOING yes a tad left field but I saw it over and over on a post and I think they are still hanging around." I admit is was LEFT FIELD and probably not a good example So bury that fukin bone and get on with your life or give another example of double standardsHope this helps))))))
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RHP User
15 years ago
I came to post about a double standard and I find you going off at some guy asking a simple question that I also would have asked for an answer to. Can't say I would have realised your earlier post was an answer either, part of the reason I usually address my replies to people specifically, it helps avoid misunderstandings and unnecessary aggression. It's no wonder I don't care to waste as much time in the forums as I used to, part of the reason I posted the 'Goodbye' thread originally... The same thread I imagine you are referring to as a 'double standard' in this thread though there was another one posted by 'Customer69' just a few weeks before I posted mine. I only suppose you are referring to mine cos you looked at our profile 5 times in a row the day this thread was posted in the forums. I'd like to think that mention had nothing to do with our standard flirt response 'Thanks, flattery will get you everywhere' to your 'If I show you mine will you show me yours? flirt'.I had a look around and frankly there aren't that many threads on the topic of 'leaving' in the forums I visit. Only a total of 3 in 58 pages of Hot Topics in the WA forums. Some threads might have been deleted because the profile holder did actually delete their account and consequently their threads. Some might be deleted cos people with sour grapes couldn't cope with what must surely be a matter of minimal importance in their lives {copy and paste :-P}. Intolerant people who act as if being right is more important than how other people might be feeling... but let's not go there.No I don't think saying I'm leaving and not going is a double standard. I'd say that when I posted my 'Goodbye' thread, I was having a really hard time that got so overwhelming I believed that leaving the forums was the only way. The caring people that posted their sentiments on that thread have been enough to convince me not to leave altogether and I thank them for that. I am not sorry, that thread gave us the chance to meet a couple of fantastic friends we're looking forward to spending a lot more time with and there are others we expect to meet very soon... Quoting '4nicake'A dog with abone acf66 I replied to your question on 22 Jan "I"M GOING yes a tad left field but I saw it over and over on a post and I think they are still hanging around." I admit is was LEFT FIELD and probably not a good example So bury that fukin bone and get on with your life or give another example of double standardsHope this helps)))))) Now, my double standard has to do with shaving. Really very simple, but I wonder why women are 'expected' to shave their underarms and legs and men would be laughed out of town. No need to get back to me... Mrs P'
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hi Mrs PiF you don't read this thats ok but if you do thats great I did not intend to offend you xxx.However the same qeustion was posted 4 times yet I am the agressive one .I did try to ignore the poster after I replyed but obviously he was on a mission.I did reply and did admit it was a bad eg.Glad to see your still here and have found some friendsxxx oh and probably went back to your profile coz you sound hot
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