Hottie1

Hottie1

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Double trouble!

January 08 2015

We have met some incredible people through RHP but have not met couples in the traditional way, that is chat via messages, meet and greet and possibly play. What we have done is gone to parties (listed in events) fucked people and then got to know them further ;) which is brilliant :). Andy and I are not inundated with messages from couples, but on a daily basis we do get hit up by a couple 'loves our profile, let's chat etc'. We open up our PG and suddenly 'their dance card is full and couldn't fit us in ' or a similar 'thanks but no thanks'. My question, is it reasonable to ask for some feedback on what it is that suddenly makes us unattractive to play with, once our PG is open? Or is that a little too confronting? Mary xx

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Hehe... I'm sure that you're not too bad... But open your pg for me and I'll let you know what I think... 😄 I was recently messaging a grey ghost on another site and when she sent me a pic by mobi, it was evident that she was a fair bit heavier than I find physically attractive. There's no nice way to say "I don't find you physically attractive" but I was polite about my preferences and wished her well. It's not about her worth as a person, it's about matching preferences and expectations. Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    It is quite possible that you are encountering the singlecouple guy...not really a couple at all..He is here,to collect your pics ,maybe have some sexy chat...and phtttt gonski 😒xx Freya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    well Mary, I think we all put very sexy pictures of ourselves at the best angles and people hope that when they open your PG they will see Miranda Kerr fully naked gazing back them. Unfortunately most of us are just normal average looking folk. So there hopes are dashed. Also they are most likely punching above their weight as well. I am sure when people meet you face to face your natural charisma charms the pants off them. I wouldn't worry about asking people why they feel you are not their type. What are you going to do about it anyway? It's like me, I know that when I met people face to face........ and then they see what I am packing in my panties they just can't resist. LMAO.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Auntie... What about the plethora of single women who turn out to be nobody ? I think the answer to OP's question is that most people are scared to tell the truth... Even to themselves ! Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Hi Guys, I had a look at your profile. I can not imagine that your PG photos would show you you in a differing light. I think that some times people just run away for no reason. Very nice profile by the way. LC

  • Mr_MrsAraps

    Mr_MrsAraps

    10 years ago

    Without knowing whats in your PG, the public gallery pretty much shows whats on offer baring face shots or naked shots. So if its not photo collectors then perhaps its your naked shots or face shots that aren't what they are looking for and perhaps the photos are pretty crap photos quality wise or artistically wise. I would ask for some feedback from the RHP peeps who do know you as getting rejected couples to provide feedback is probably not going to happen. Cheers, W

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    after meeting you in real life and seeing the adorable, cute little pocket rocket you are, all I can up with, it must be Andy! Haha, I kid. I think people do just get cold feet, some do just collect pictures and some are just all talk so keep being you and don't let it get to you, you can't satisfy all the people all the time, and the ones you do, well... they are lucky bastards!

  • Naughty_nature

    Naughty_nature

    10 years ago

    I've looked at your profile before find your an attractive sexy couple. So probably just people collecting pics, the amount of shall we say fake profiles can be daunting. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Hottie1

    Hottie1

    10 years ago

    I'm going to give you lovely peeps access to our PG. I would like honest feedback, so HP, Meeka, Freya, love curvie, Araps and Ralf, I'm ready 😍 Mary xx

  • Hottie1

    Hottie1

    10 years ago

    Your profile not available to me 😁 Mary xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Hi Mary, I can not see any reason why on seeing your PG some one would not be even more interested. Quite frankly I think you look and sound like a great couple. Personally if I was in Melbourne and you said lets grab a glass of wine some place, I would make sure we bought a bottle. All I can think of is that the people who run are playing a game. I guess you can get an idea of some one from their initial messages. If they are articulate it can be a good indicator, though I am sure it does not mean they are serious. Your photos have some implied bondage (well more than implied) I can't see that being an issue. They are really quite nice. Perhaps people want to see the gallery hoping for more explicitness in the photos. My opinion, great profile, great photos...great looking couple.

  • normangela

    normangela

    10 years ago

    Mary the thing that pictures don't show is passion and enthusiasm. Plenty of pretty people are what Angela and I call starfishes and you are not one of those ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I love criticising. :-P

  • Hottie1

    Hottie1

    10 years ago

    I have had some feedback in PM and on here. I have given everyone access who has responded on the forum thus far, sorry Rick and meander , your posts showed up after I posted, though it doesn't look like it). Great ideas have been forwarded, thank you and I'll action some of those (most over time). Thanks for taking the time. Mary xx

  • Hottie1

    Hottie1

    10 years ago

    Norm, no I'm definitely not a starfish baby 😘 quite the opposite. I'll try to keep the noise and mess down when we play next . But I'll bring tonnes of passion and enthusiasm always. See you Very soon 😘 Mary xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I looked at your photos and read your Profile Introduction. Both seem fine to me. You seem like an honest, genuine, fun and friendly Couple. Members who have met you in person, say that you are "fine" too. So take their word for it. People just have different preferences. Don't let it "phase" you if they don't reply. Move on to bigger and better opportunities with other Members who are "into" you. Amy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Check your messages.

  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    10 years ago

    read your profile and I love your posts. I hope to meet you both one day for a chat and a drink just because you sound like such a nice friendly engaging couple. people cut contact for all Kinds of reasons. I had one once say I was far to kinky... And lots after I open my pg which I can only assume is because of my body as my face is clearly on display... You can't be everyone's wet dream.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    No problems with your profile and pics guys... Relax, you're not the weirdos 😄😄 Personally I like to see a pic of couples together wether clothed/unclothed... Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I just had a look at your profile... Nothing hotter than a mid 40's woman with short hair. Stunning! Too bad young single males don't have a chance of joining such a nice couple for fun! Your profile is very attractive and I'm assuming like others have mentioned, other couples are just getting cold feet when it comes down to the crunch of things.

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    10 years ago

    I get a lot of people wanting to look at my photos, I do warn them that they are indeed just good photos before giving access and sometimes I don't hear back either. I quickly restrict access again and forget about it. Don't take it to heart, I like your profile and your photos are lovely and tasteful.....💋

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Having read your posts and gauging the great personality you seem to have I think the pics would be secondary. Id say they are just pic collectors. Or just plain fuckwits... When I give people access to mine I always preface with " I may not be your cup of tea and that's cool" Personally I'm hoping you are able to attend the next Melbourne meet and greet as I'd love to meet you x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I get asked access to my pics, then when they realise (although I tell them) they are not explicit, I dont hear from them anymore. Its really not worth worrying about, there are plenty of genuinely interested people on here, and by the way I think your profile pics are great! xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    After a while, I didn't particularly enjoy getting knocked back. So I stopped messaging women with regards to meeting.I've had no personal gallery as I figured an open book policy was the most honest here. Being a man disadvantages me enough as it is...

  • Hottie1

    Hottie1

    10 years ago

    Thank you to everyone who took the time to not only message on the forums but in PM as well :) I'm popping in to our profile and applying some quick and easy fixes to describe us and our interests a little better. Thanks HP and Ralf, yes a photo together is needed, I've tried the selfies but they never turn out right, so will do my best to get a joint photo up. As Araps and curvie highlighted, our fetishes are not clear or highlighted, I will go and fix that up. Freya suggested some professional shots, I agree, I would find the whole experience sexy and really would give us some quality pics. Polys and Araps, what can I say other than yes please ;). Youmeequalsfun, I'm going to the next meet and great ( might be part of the organising committee if they'll have me). I would absolutely love to me you. Missb, I've perved on your body many a times, just stunning, I too hope to meet you, very soon. Chips and Rick, mwah gorgeous men 💋 lovin it, I don't need to say anything else, you are one of my RHP idols. Koko, beautiful lady, yep I agree, no real explicit shots in my PG either, I leave a little to the imagination. Koolgrey, I agree that personal opinions may be hard to hear and rejection is never easy, which is why I knew that many a forumites would give honest feedback so that I can improve our profile. Once again thank you. Xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Like has been said by others. .some people would be pic collectors, fake profiles and then the odd would be a case of not an attraction, which could if it is couples, be a case of only one not feeling it rather than both. I am sure we have all had it...opened up the pg and never heard back again, and done the same where we see more and decide that 'not my type'. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • ftcurious

    ftcurious

    10 years ago

    Whilst some may be pic collectors everyone has the right to choose who they are attracted to. Some people have great public profile photos without face shots (we don't either so no problem with that), so it's hard to make a complete decision. Also both parties in a couple have to be attracted to the other couple. For us we do this to spice up the relationship, it's not a necessity so we can choose who we are with. I'm sure people have not been attracted to us after seeing pics either but that's a right they have and we respect that. Also what do you hope to achieve by seeking feedback. What if they reply and say sorry but you have a head like a busted arse, what then. The beauty of this site is you can move on and meet others until you find those that you click with. There is someone for everyone

  • Hottie1

    Hottie1

    10 years ago

    Dareidy and ft curious, absolutely this site is about choice. As I said in my OP, I'm absolutely ecstatic with where we are at, feedback however can allow for reflection and can really help someone make improvements ( obviously you can't change how you look) but you can make changes to maximize your potential/assets. Many people who I did give access to our PG have given me a number of ideas or areas for improvements in our profile which I've implemented already, some are longer term improvements. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but I wish the people who rejected this pair of busted arsoholes, stopped looking at our profile incessantly, with or without access to our PG. Mary xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Forgive me for going off topic for a sec, but how did you post yesterday when your profile says you were last online on the 14th of December? I'd contact customer support if I were you. If people think you've not been online in weeks, they may be less inclined to contact you, I think. Carry on.

  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander' Forgive me for going off topic for a sec, but how did you post yesterday when your profile says you were last online on the 14th of December? I'd contact customer support if I were you. If people think you've not been online in weeks, they may be less inclined to contact you, I think. Carry on. amazing biceps.....just sayin

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Ok of topic a bit, but is concerning images. HP how did you get that cartoon as your main image past the censors. I create my own and in 7 years RHP has not let a single one of my cartoon in, not rude, no animals, no contact details. And you manage to get a copyrighted one in. Did you get special permission from RHP? or is there some rule I am not aware of. Ok my bitchimg is done.