M45
Enough is Enough...big boy chat time.
February 11 2023
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Oneforu
2 years ago
Wow! Step out of the wrong side of the bed and onto your soapbox champ?
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ddlbm
2 years ago
Putting himself in the shop window 😂
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MsSuperFoxy
2 years ago
I understand where you're coming from. However posts like this only entice different kinds of reactions. Because grown arss men and women know exactly how to behave and treat others. It's not up to you or anyone else to tell them other wise or they are entitled. They send explicit pics because they can. The best thing to do is report or ignore and move on. You don't have explain yourself. Ms Foxy
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Eisa123
2 years ago
Tis the age of entitlement… And it’s certainly not isolated to rhp. From my perspective, I think that the feelings that come up with an entitled attitude actually stem from insecurities. And I can understand that. Guys are apparently constantly getting knocked back and it hurts their feelings. Which creates more feelings of rejection, more insecurity and more feelings of resentment. (A confident man just moves on.) An interesting point was brought up in @openmindedlass’s recent post that some of these guys may have started with well constructed msgs but after rejection, have lost the interest in making any more effort. And it shows. If you can’t be bothered putting in at the start, you’re not likely to receive anything either. So is there a solution? Probably not. Those that don’t match will continue to be ignored. And those that match will move on. But it’s nice to see a male offer an opinion, and if you don’t agree with it (like your inbox) - just move on.
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badboyhere
2 years ago
The reality is - there just is not enough time in the day or willingness to entertain the idea to put any real effort into pursuing women for me anymore. I really have better and more productive things to do with my time, and i am better off because of it. I only use this site to read the forums now. Unless a lady or couple takes any interest in what I have to offer them, which is all in my profile, honest and upfront, I am very comfortable not going through all of the drama that comes with the terms and conditions.
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madotara69
2 years ago
If the women are knocking back or not replying to the guys, it’s the guy’s who have a problem. Of course a woman will fuck the brains out of a keeper for starter’s, perhaps the serenity and tranquil multi tasking with tender pussies and arse well done to for asking, might pass a keeper for some best friends lucky days keeping him handy if it’s all fun and lust. Who are you referring to OP, all doom and gloom Tell her to sit on her face and see if she likes it, or is she frigate or in the closet lick a lot of pussy wants it all to herself, must be greedy then Hope you get a sore tongue and see if you like that 👅 You want war, lick your pussy outlast you and better than your best efforts, you don’t scare me 🌶🤓 It’s women, not sensitive little girlies, when they want a fuck, it’s no big brainstorm to consider they want to have fun, love a good back and forth, sort the men from the boys and never underestimate, you could well come out crawling to get dragged back and fix you good and proper leave you discombobulated and legs won’t help, just lay there helpless and see her skip off to do whistling Dixie🤷🏻♀️ Mado Mado Tara xx
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deepestpurple
2 years ago
Wannabe bakers is a good line, I enjoyed that. I think you are going to find then Venn diagram of where everyone puts Being an Ally vs White Knighting has a significant overlap section but good on you for speaking your mind.
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sweetnyorkshire
2 years ago
some grade A simping right here
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RHP User
2 years ago
Trying to understand and query why most women aren't replying is completely justifiable. Dismissing the reasons and demeaning those that choose not to is absolutely not! Many took the time to express exactly why this happens. And being a long-time lurker I'm fully aware, this is a conversation that happens all the time along with others #Doggers and dodgers 😂 I'm sure many men do know, appreciate and understand these reasons and don't feel the need to speak up or engage... I mean it can get pretty spicy in here. However I think it's rather lovely to have someone do just that. To call it out a little bit for exactly what it is. Entitlement. I really understand and have sincere empathy towards those with 'hurt feelings' .... rejection with or without a reply consistently is brutal. I sincerely do wonder if receiving 100 'sorry the attraction isn't there for me' replies would 'feel' any better than 100 no replies, indicative of the same thing. I think the hurt expressed, emanates ultimately from being rejected. Coming from someone who does reply... It also feels extraordinarily shit to constantly be the rejector. Knowing the effect it's going to have on someone's self esteem. RHP people... We need a new feature.. it could solve many of the issues occuring both ways!! When we sign up we pre -choose a method of decline... For those that want a message - they tick that box. They also get to tick the box of exactly what 'message' will come back to them, or craft their own - for those with creative flare 🙃 When the rejection occurs.. the rejected cannot respond. ** Someone start a thread of amusing self created decline messages.
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Hawt1
2 years ago
Damned if he do damned if he don't.. haha
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Sensualdan
2 years ago
I get this post, on a pragmatic view there appear to be many more men than women in the site. If you are inundated with messages replying to all of them too time consuming ( lol I have no idea how many messages ladies receive btw). We as men need to be prepared to fail in order to succeed. If we stop making an effort, well you can’t expect to succeed. On how we get rejected does it really matter? We are hoping to make a match ie we are mutually attracted to each other, the fact I’ve an attraction to someone and i message them doesn’t mean they have to be attracted to me. If I receive a thanks but no thanks I’m grateful but I don’t loose any sleep over a no reply - it is a reply in its self ie no. Could there be a rejection button 🤷♂️ I don’t see it making everyone happy, as we have seen from the posts people seem to like their rejection in a personalised way. We are all different and that’s great, isn’t that why we are on this site?
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nightingale8
2 years ago
The elephant in the room is going to look different depending on where you’re standing and what you want to do with it. Some of us are enjoying the ride from the top, others spectate from a distance, some get the occasional pat. And yes some are just going to see one great big arsehole (or worse). Why is it in the room anyway?
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deepestpurple
2 years ago
I've been abused for rejecting a woman. It's happened 2 or 3 times. One time in particular the abuse was really quite vicious and it affected me a bit. The other time (or maybe times, I'm not fully sure) there was a solid little tanty thrown and it was kinda sad and kinda funny.
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AWomanWithNeeds
2 years ago
Well played 👏 But in all honesty I would never date someone who says 'it's common courtesy to let us know either way' like what the actual fuck 😂
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Obi1kenietzsche
2 years ago
You DO realise that there are only ever about 12 guys present here on the Forums don’t you? 😉.
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