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Equal rights, or ...?

April 30 2011

I am wondering what women really believe.Do you ladies believe that you are in fact equal to men, or that you just have equal rights?Its getting to the point where this uncertainty in your own beliefs is throwing a lot of men off their "game".We have all heard the "I am woman, hear me roar" line.But when it comes to dating, I often get "I am only a woman".So, if women are equal, why do men still have to make all the moves?Are you afraid to put yourselves out, or are you just uncertain as to who/what you are?

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  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    What does equality have to do with confidence?

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Don't let them fein innocence like that or you're dead meat... you know.... like a lamb to the slaughter house. Women are blessed with sneakiness to over whelm our brute strength.On the other hand... I know plenty of women who wouldn't work for a female boss.... they're even too moody for other women! :) The glass ceiling is alive and well... but it is put there by women!HugsS""But when it comes to dating, I often get "I am only a woman".So, if women are equal, why do men still have to make all the moves?""Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Well derrrrrrrr Yes we should have equal "rights". But does that mean we dont deserve respect or good manners. So should we all (men and women) go around being selfish arseholes because we are equal? How can there even be a question "do we think we are equal to men?". In what way? A lot of us single women on here have to do the tradionally male chores in our homes and we do this easily. There are some jobs around the house that I have to do and can do just as well as a male. Doesnt mean I enjoy doing them. Sooooooooo I dont think I'm equal to a man BUT I dont think a man is better than me just because he's male!

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'xxticklishxx' I dont think I'm equal to a man BUT I dont think a man is better than me just because he's male! Good honest, mature comment.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky' Don't let them fein innocence like that or you're dead meat... you know.... like a lamb to the slaughter house. Women are blessed with sneakiness to over whelm our brute strength.SGood advice mate. Thanks.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    How on earth can we be equal? You guys can never overthink everything anywhere near the standard of us girlsnever be equal in that dept. You will never experience having 'The Power of the Pussy' You can't have a vaginal and a clitoral orgasm ner ner ner So you poor creatures can keep trying but you'll never be equal

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    On this subject, I can only speak personally, I would never try and speak for another woman. I believe in equal rights as given by the laws of this country. I am as much a citizen of Australia as my male neighbour, so of course I expect the law to treat me the same as it treats him. However, I recognise that in other ways, I am not equal to a man. Nature has decreed we have different jobs to perform in the living of our lives, and as such, I prefer that I am treated differently to a man. I was for much of my life, heavily involved in a male dominated industry, and in that industry, my knowledge and skills are equal to any man, but having said that, I will admit that I was not physically meant for such work, and struggled with it at times and now I am paying the price for having pushed my body so hard. Unfortunately, when woman try to be as good as a man, I think they lose some of their femininity, and I'm not talking about how they present themselves (hair, makeup and clothes, though in some cases, including my own, these things slip) but rather how their general persona comes across. I've done the 'I am woman, hear me roar' thing, and I still think I'm equal to a man in SOME things. I am strong, intelligent and capable. But I also know that when it comes to relationships, I am more than happy to sit back and let the man take the lead. Its nice to give him the opportunity to show me his masculine side and all the good things that that entails. VB

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Are we equal? Possibly not but then being equal and having equality are two entirely different matters. I am not as physically strong as many men, therefore when I need the brute strength I do the smart thing and hire it. Yes Stalky we are blessed with sneakiness. I will admit that. After all, how can you trust someone that bleeds for a week and does not die? One of my favourite sayings (I know, I have lots of 'em) is... We are all bitches at heart, but it takes some of us longer to show it than others. Personally I dont expect the man to make all the moves. I am happy to do the intial approaching, more than happy to initiate sex. l The one and only thing I find that ALL men can do easily and NO woman can is..... Three of you can piss in the same toilet at the same time l and I am not ever going to be drunk enough to pratise this until I get it right, just for the sake of equality.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    lmfao... admit it though Fi... I bet you've stood up, dropped your nickers... and leant forward.. pulled apart those pussy lips... and let her rip... all just to see how far you can piss. ;pHugsStalky

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    I am not even jumping in on this one...why is it that these lovely little creatures can make us sit up and beg like puppies with our tongues hanging out of our face or worse, reduce a full grown man to tears? | Quoting 'dontgothere' You will never experience having 'The Power of the Pussy' ...ner ner ner *snort* | Our only hope in hell is to remind them that they make some funny little noises at the worst possible times... | ...and hope it keeps them marginally humble.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky' lmfao... admit it though Fi... I bet you've stood up, dropped your nickers... and leant forward.. pulled apart those pussy lips... and let her rip... all just to see how far you can piss. ;pHugsStalkyTeenage party tricks.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' I am not even jumping in on this one...why is it that these lovely little creatures can make us sit up and beg like puppies with our tongues hanging out of our face or worse, reduce a full grown man to tears? |Because it's fun. :P

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky' lmfao... admit it though Fi... I bet you've stood up, dropped your nickers... and leant forward.. pulled apart those pussy lips... and let her rip... all just to see how far you can piss. ;pHugsStalky I damn near did piss myself reading that, I should know better than to drink coffee while reading the forums too. . . CM stop giving my snorts away I cant help it when I laugh that hard.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    We all have things we just can't help...right?

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'HotSexyChilli' Equality is a basic law of the universe, all human beings are equal, it's a birthright. We all have the same innate worth and value.Whether we fulfil the potential of that value in our short life time is debatable...Thanks for that honest and very mature answer. Its good to get some answers from people who are obviously not arrogant and rude.cheers guys/girls

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Let me guess...you were the recreational director at Guantanamo Bay? So you are not tall, have rather nice eyes (or nature's alternative) and most likely...nice shoes. | Quoting 'Meeka100' Because it's fun. :P | If I wasn't terrified of little people with strap-ons, I would probably give you the 3 digit security code to the Titanium card and my login ID... | ...to the Lelo website.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'xxticklishxx' Well derrrrrrrr Yes we should have equal "rights". But does that mean we dont deserve respect or good manners. So should we all (men and women) go around being selfish arseholes because we are equal? How can there even be a question "do we think we are equal to men?". In what way? A lot of us single women on here have to do the tradionally male chores in our homes and we do this easily. There are some jobs around the house that I have to do and can do just as well as a male. Doesnt mean I enjoy doing them. Sooooooooo I dont think I'm equal to a man BUT I dont think a man is better than me just because he's male! Have to add - I prefer some male dominated pursuits like driving race cars than female activities like shopping for shoes. It doesn't mean I am any less feminine. It does however put me on equal footing with males in that sport. For the rest I think we should just come to terms with our differences.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    I must be lacking something between the ears.. What do you mean 'when you're dating you get 'I am only a woman''? Are you asking them around to move house? If that's the case you've got 'the game' all mixed up. Moving house is heaps more fun with three sweaty drunk guys..

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Jean_Girard' I What do you mean 'when you're dating you get 'I am only a woman''? I mean when we are hanging out.I guess I have been so brainwashed with the equality BS that I expect women to make some moves. But they never do. I dont think I am that scary?!

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Jean_Girard' I must be lacking something between the ears.. What do you mean 'when you're dating you get 'I am only a woman''? Are you asking them around to move house? If that's the case you've got 'the game' all mixed up. Moving house is heaps more fun with three sweaty drunk guys.. MMMMM lol yes , what type of things are you asking these woman , Ok I,m going to make it easy for you Scubaseven , just ask things around kissing licking , sucking & fuckingggg (-:

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Woman > man i....m....o.... : ) x dave

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky' Don't let them fein innocence like that or you're dead meat... you know.... like a lamb to the slaughter house. Women are blessed with sneakiness to over whelm our brute strength.Oh bullshit Stalky. I think you are a really softy at heart. I bet a girl just has to look at you with her innocent eyes and you would probably do anything they ask. hehehe

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Scubaseven' Quoting 'Jean_Girard' I What do you mean 'when you're dating you get 'I am only a woman''? I mean when we are hanging out. I guess I have been so brainwashed with the equality BS that I expect women to make some moves. But they never do. Hehe.... how's that working for ya? Sometimes you need to pick the fruit from the tree instead of waiting for it to fall and collecting it off the ground. I don't see how equality leads into women making moves. It probably means they aren't stoned or burnt at the stake for making the first move, but I think it'll be a fairly celibate lifestyle if you expect to just hang out and next thing have her climb on top of you grinding her hips into yours. If that was the newage, equal world - I'd catch a lot more public transport.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    I dunno what the answer is Scubaseven, but maybe change it up a bit. You know ....if you are hanging out in front them, you could try introducing yourself first and they may just bust a first move on you though it could be a karate move

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    They have no desire to make the first move based on your persona?"You will judge me on my photo and either believe you are good enough or not good enough."

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Can be a bit slow sometimes, give a smile, casually walk over, take them into your arms & do a sensual slow dance. If they're interested they will do the same thing, its all about the vibs. If a women feels that the other person is interested/appeals to them, yes, they will make the first move. Sweety, not everyone is able to know what a person is thinking, its too complex, who makes the first move is up to the individual & really its just a matter of communication. Keep smiling xo Tess

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Equality....it's such a politically correct term that really needs to be changed to "RESPECT" in the world of love & sex, imo. . Perhaps more understanding and acceptance of the opposite sex is required rather than an expectation of "equality". Single parenthood forced my hand to accept equality...not my choice, but someone had to put out the garbage bin, mow the lawn, pay the bills, check the oil, cook the bbq etc....and that person was me. To tell you the honest truth, I hated it. . I was glad when Gomez moved in. We found our new roles in "WE-QUALITY"...we now help each other and have kicked the traditional roles to the gutter, although Gomez still opens the door for me, gives me flowers every week etc. . As for dating scubaseven....ask for friendship first as it has less expectations than dating.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Scubaseven' Quoting 'Jean_Girard' I What do you mean 'when you're dating you get 'I am only a woman''? I mean when we are hanging out. I guess I have been so brainwashed with the equality BS that I expect women to make some moves. But they never do. I dont think I am that scary?! Didnt I ask you out already? Maybe it is you? Are you too shy to make the first move? Too worried in case of a knock back? Time and tide waits for no man! He who hesitates is lost so....my very best advice is to quit whinging about it and put your best lycra clad cheek forward.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'stalky' Don't let them fein innocence like that or you're dead meat... you know.... like a lamb to the slaughter house. Women are blessed with sneakiness to over whelm our brute strength.Oh bullshit Stalky. I think you are a really softy at heart. I bet a girl just has to look at you with her innocent eyes and you would probably do anything they ask. hehehe Meeka, all you'd have to do is let me feel those killer curves and any chance of equality would be lost - you'd get anything you wanted!!! Damn Mrs Pup uses her curves against me all the time, who am I to complain?

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'fionabee' After all, how can you trust someone that bleeds for a week and does not die?haha! Now that's classic! :pI don't think men and women are equal... I think men are men and women are women. We're the same, but different.... vive la difference!HugsStalky

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'HotSexyChilli'All men are equal, but some men are MORE equal than others I think George Orwell wrote Animal farm. It is a story about communism. Anyhoo was one of my favs as a kid. The animals took over the farm and they wrote thier charter of rights on the barn wall. "All animals are equal" As time went on the stronger and more vocal animals took over (as they do in any societal structure) In the end one poor old animal realised that they had changed the wording to "All animals are equal but some are more equal than others."

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky' I don't think men and women are equal... I think men are men and women are women. We're the same, but different.... vive la difference!HugsStalkyThank bloody christ for that!!!!

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Let's just go back to the really really good old days? Club them in head gently but into unconsciousness, drag them back to cave....throw in a dead critter too then tell them first we fuck then we eat and you are doing the cooking. Ladies is about time you showed some respect and you should be happy that back then... | ...there were no dishes to do.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    I think maybe I enjoy being alone too much.I come from a farm and enjoy working/playing alone.Maybe if I want to change I need to be more aggressive and talk about sex (as someone mentioned).I guess the whole "sexual harassment" thing puts me off too.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' Let's just go back to the really really good old days? Club them in head gently but into unconsciousness, drag them back to cave....throw in a dead critter too then tell them first we fuck then we eat and you are doing the cooking. Ladies is about time you showed some respect and you should be happy that back then... | ...there were no dishes to do. Like! A lot!

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Back in the really good good old days...we brought back lots of critter and rabbits were abundant. Those we just skinned then cooked open an open fire still basking in the pre-game warm up. Now maybe that's what wrong with the world today.. | Quoting 'HotSexyChilli' And which nominated activity is the dead critter for...?!? Seems like all the really hot chicks now day nearly worship those damn rabbits and keep them alive by shoving batteries up their asses? No wonder you are confused about equality...you don't know whether to eat it or keep it under your pillow. | In that outfit, we can negotiate what happens to the bunnies. | *nerk*...I think I heard a 12 somewhere in the distance tonight?

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Wait...I think I may have this finally figured out! It's not about equality it's about balance, you know the kind....where girls break things and men have to fix them? That's the ticket and I know a couple of cases where this has happened recently and you ladies should be damn glad us men are around to fix things for you. | Quoting 'Meeka100' Because it's fun. :P| Just quietly...men have fun fixing things and besides, now that Osam isn't around, it adds meaning to our useless existence. You do know what the difference is between most hot chicks and most terrorists is... | ...you can negotiate with most terrorists.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Jean_Girard'Hehe.... how's that working for ya? Pretty good really. I have done nearly everything I have wanted to do in life because I have not been obsessed with sex. Only the pyramids and swimming with (no cage) GWS later this year. I promised myself that I would live my life, and I have. Perhaps too much when it comes to the ladies but I have had a blast.