M42
Erection on the dance floor
July 04 2015
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RHP User
9 years ago
Ive never felt comfortable with, nor will I tolerate any stranger being in my personal space (unless there's a genuine reason of course.) However, my knee , swiftly applied - with considerable force , to the groin would "assist" with dispatching any "uninvited" erection that was breaching my personal space; & if you took the liberty of actually rubbing against me - woe betide !! You'll be catching an Ambulance , not a Taxi ! KK - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I thought only teenagers boys did that? I don't know how I would react. Don't push them away but I wouldn't start dry humping every girl on the dance floor either. What is revealing underwear? Do tell.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Im thinking satin womens knickers, nothing wrong with that except perhaps the slight rubbing of satin is what is helping set him off. Maybe just go with a good pair of jocks or try a pair of rubber undies mmmm.
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RHP User
9 years ago
You feel rude rubbing your hard cock against them? No shit! Let's just say if you did that to me you'd feel my hard hand against your face. :-\
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yep.. change the undies! Rubbing up against girls on the dance floor with a woody is just creepy. LG
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Seachange
9 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' I thought only teenagers boys did that? I don't know how I would react. Don't push them away but I wouldn't start dry humping every girl on the dance floor either. What is revealing underwear? Do tell. I like dry humping so I'm up for that. lol and yes, what is revealing underwear? I thought only women wore that. Lol
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Seachange
9 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_silk' Im thinking satin womens knickers, nothing wrong with that except perhaps the slight rubbing of satin is what is helping set him off. Maybe just go with a good pair of jocks or try a pair of rubber undies mmmm. Why mess around? What about a cock cage? Lol
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RHP User
9 years ago
.... c'mon .. get a grip ... or you won't even make it the the car park before you need to change. maybe you need to do something before you go out??
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RHP User
9 years ago
I have nightclubbed since my mid-late teens and if I was dancing and grinding close with a girl on the dancefloor, I always got hard. I've literally danced with hundreds of girls like this over the years and not one of them ever took any offence to it. 2 weeks ago I met a muslim girl here on holidays from Saudi Arabia in a bar. We danced close and I got hard, she rubbed against me and had no issue with it. If a muslim girl from Saudi Arabia has no issue with it, what's the matter with the rest of you?.......relax and lighten up, life isn't that serious
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RHP User
9 years ago
Also play cricket OP ?..I understand there is a useful accoutrement in a cricketers kit xxFreya
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madotara69
9 years ago
Deep Heat Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
Is exactly why the Baptísts banned dancing 😨😨😨xxFreya
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madotara69
9 years ago
The Royal Tapanapple choir banned the teapot
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Missb4u
9 years ago
you just need to get that shit under control.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Stop dancing with women, OR wear some better undies, OR have a wank before you go out,, just DON'T rub your woody up against women. Creepy and just nasty. :/
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RHP User
9 years ago
one night, just for giggles, you should wear boxer shorts and tracksuit pants to the club.
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
You sound like a pubescent schoolboy. Perhaps lose your virginity and then treat the women on the dance floor with respectable behaviour. That sort of act will see you listed on a list that you really dont want to be on. Just saying.....
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RHP User
9 years ago
OP, unless you're going to be dancing with a woman that you are absolutely, 100% sure will appreciate your throbbing manhood, I would advise: a) investing in some underwear that will contain you better and wearing it on the applicable occasions b) learning to exercise a modicum of control over your cock (which I would've thought by age 32 you would have done?) c) not rubbing your hard-on against the woman which would make you a sleazy creep
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MsJonesy
9 years ago
Gaffa tape the offending appendage to your leg before you go out. You won't feel rude rubbing it against women and they won't feel offended by unsolicited rubbages. Simples!
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RHP User
9 years ago
I had a friend who had the very same problem. He was a very nice, normal guy, but always got erections in bars or clubs when he got close to a girl, i.e flirting or chatting. Some guys seem to get erections very easily, just as some cant. If the OP was asking for advice, he has instead received a very hard slap on the face. I wouldnt like to feel a hard on grinding into me, but if Id been talking to the guy beforehand and he explained what had happened, fair enough. Youngnice, you just sound very highly sexed to me, which half the people on here proffer to be, its not something to be ashamed of, just make sure you give the girl you are with an explanation before you do some Dirty Dancing!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Your the guy that gives other guys a bad name - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Rubber undies, mmmm.....I have a vision of peeling them off and getting slapped in the face!
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Twisted_Mister
9 years ago
If you were grinding a rock hard boner into a girl on the dance floor, then yes it may be a problem. HOWEVER... If she's grinding into you, and more than once or twice, then I reckon you're ok. Maybe she wants a free drink!!!! Subtle differences... *Spoken as an ex nightclub frequenter, Michael Jackson dancing impersonator and national Bus Stop champion* - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'd consider it a compliment and wouldn't be the least bit offended, why would I, a guy dancing with me is turned on by me. Highest compliment you can be paid. I don't think men should ever be embarrassed about getting an erection, it's a normal bodily function. It's the same at the nude beach, many guys won't go because they're worried it'll happen there, again, what's the problem, go hard or go home haha probably might contain it a bit if you're at a wedding or such and dancing with a relative or family friend which could be awkward haha but otherwise, wouldn't bother me at all, even if I didn't want to have sex with you, just see it as normal, natural
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'mangocouple' Your the guy that gives other guys a bad name - Posted from rhpmobile Sorry but I think your comment is really rude, maybe he doesn't wank as much as you do, just saying
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RHP User
9 years ago
get you at the worst possible locations ! But yes mate keep it to yourself hey. I usually crack a woody on a plane or bus ride to work , i just don't know what my cock sees as a turn on lately 😳 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Fit73' If a muslim girl from Saudi Arabia has no issue with it, what's the matter with the rest of you?....... the logical fallacy . Nothing is the matter with the rest of us. I don't care if the muslim girl from Saudi Arabia got on her knees, took your cock out and sucked you off right there on the dance floor. I'm not her and I have my own boundaries and preferences. Since by my observations you're not a woman, I'd say you don't really have any authority to be telling all women what they should be putting up with and determining that there is something wrong with them if they don't want to be subjected to a stranger's hard-on. Being sexually liberal doesn't mean that I as a woman have to accommodate anything and everything. If you as a guy know that you get hard easily then the very least you can do if you're going to be up close with a woman you don't know, is to give her warning and let her decide how she wants to deal with it.
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RHP User
9 years ago
First - I find the Muslim Saudi comment incredibly difficult to believe. In fact I don't believe it. Two - I think YND is talking about girls he is dancing with and not going up to a stranger and dancing close with her. So to me it is a different kettle of fish. If I was dancing with a guy who asked me and he got a hard on I would be flattered but YND I wouldn't rub it against me - unless I clearly showed signs I wanted that by touching you there or something like that. If a girl is grinding against you, still I wouldn't do the hardon rub. You should play hard to get!
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RHP User
9 years ago
I think the harsh comments are pretty unfair. So MangoCouple, a women can grind herself against men. That is cool but the guy is not supposed to react? Even though it's a natural reaction?
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RHP User
9 years ago
beautiful and intelligent woman you are. Great advice and very respectful. 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
so some you think that a woman is not going to have a choice if they dance with him or not right?? If it's honestly that visible a woman will notice and make a choice if she wants to dance with you or not....but let her take the reigns as to closeness and level of dirtiness.... Problem solved right?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' I think YND is talking about girls he is dancing with and not going up to a stranger and dancing close with her. assuming that these are women he's just met in the club / bar whatever place, then they are still strangers to each other and he has no idea how she would feel about having his hard cock all up in her business. To be clear, I am not shaming guys if they legitimately can't control their erection in those types of situations. These things happen, sure. But, giving a 'heads up' (yeah yeah) to the woman they're dancing with is the decent thing to do.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I do apologise for my earlier comment to the OP about learning to have more control over his cock, that wasn't appropriate or fair when I don't know him at all.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Like you, I sympathise with guys who get unwanted erections in public. But I do think the OP needs to control his cock, as in where he puts it. It's one thing to get a raging boner, another what he chooses to do with it. OP, for the record I don't agree with any woman grinding her butt into your groin uninvited either. However, I find your comment "Or dose politeness have no place dancing up close in a pub or club" more than cringe-worthy. A woman "pulling you in close" as you describe it is not necessarily wanting you to dry-hump her leg. Even at sex clubs where everyone is naked there is a clear "Ask before touching" policy, why would a "regular" club be any different?
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RHP User
9 years ago
but I would find it funny if a man had a boner when dancing with me and then was embarrassed about it. I'd also feel complimented. I'd feel sorry for the poor guy and just let him know, in a nice way, that if he can't control it at least keep it to himself... unless of course he was interesting enough to follow through with! There'd be no need to criticise or condemn him for something he can't control as some guys just don't have the mind over matter ability to do this.
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RHP User
9 years ago
is not going to notice your predicament if she's grinding up on you and/or pulling you in close, nor do I think your scenario, as per the OP, is all that unusual. I'd suggest paying attention to her reaction in that situation, that (her reaction) generally controls the outcome. But then again, you could just avoid the situation altogether by just not dancing so close to start with I would've thought.
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madotara69
9 years ago
It can lead to 3, 1/2 kids and a white picket fence
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
by reading the OP's profile that it is his "kink"It's not a random thing. He is obviously looking to put himself in that situation.And by deliberately trawling for that, you can find yourself in some trouble. Not shaming you OP, just saying you need to be wary that these women you target are up for the game.Just be careful is what I'm saying. It's a fine line that's being tread
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RHP User
9 years ago
so we are going to shame men for having erections are we? If a woman willingly grinds against a guy while dancing in a club, then it's safe to say that she is inviting a guy into her personal space and that she is ok with physical contact to occur. It is a form of seduction and arousal to dance in this manner with another person and of course fun. If a woman is then really offended at a guy who is physically aroused by this, then she respectfully needs to seek help with whatever issues are troubling her. If all the guy is doing is having an erection while dancing/grinding, then there is no crime or shame in that.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Luck_Dragon' Being sexually liberal doesn't mean that I as a woman have to accommodate anything and everything. If you as a guy know that you get hard easily then the very least you can do if you're going to be up close with a woman you don't know, is to give her warning and let her decide how she wants to deal with it. The minute you start grinding against me in a club while dancing, you should have the maturity and the confidence to be able to handle an erection. If you don't, then don't grind against me. Simple as that. I'm not a mind reader and i'm not going to be a scapegoat for your own sexual shame issues
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Quoting 'Fit73' so we are going to shame men for having erections are we? If a woman willingly grinds against a guy while dancing in a club, then it's safe to say that she is inviting a guy into her personal space and that she is ok with physical contact to occur. It is a form of seduction and arousal to dance in this manner with another person and of course fun. If a woman is then really offended at a guy who is physically aroused by this, then she respectfully needs to seek help with whatever issues are troubling her. If all the guy is doing is having an erection while dancing/grinding, then there is no crime or shame in that. You are right if both parties are into it.If the woman is okay with it.If she is not okay with it and comes as a complete surprise, there is the avenue of sexual assault if she is offended and there are witnesses to it.And I'll refrain from commenting on your statement as highlighted. And my statement above is based on the fact that the OP puts himself purposelessly into the situation with attire that promotes his arousal. It's not an incidental thing. He is promoting his Kink. Onto others that may not be into that kink.
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RHP User
9 years ago
You took as though he was going around rubbing his erection on unsuspecting women and ripped into him which is absolutely not what he said. Ok the underpants bit was a little bit suss but is he not entitled to wear what he wants to wear? OP, don't worry about your erections. They are normal and natural, be proud of them, don't be boner shamed by the penis envious. Just don't go rubbing them on people randomly because that is sexual assault. But if some lady chooses to enter your personal space (because you are entitled to take up space) and you have a boner then that is on her and I am tipping she will take it as a compliment and if she doesn't well, really, is that your problem?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Up until 18 months ago I was regularly going to the clubs and pubs in Perth's Northbridge area. The girls and I enjoyed getting lost in the moment of music and dance. The floors in many places are so small and so crowded that there is hardly breathing space, let alone room to step back and see if the guy has a boner or not. If I am up dancing and enjoying myself and some guy comes along and rubs himself up against me because I bumped into him then it is not ok. Its one of the reasons I stopped going out and dancing because I got sick of the guys taking liberties such as OP has described. He has already stated his choice of underwear and his kink is highlighted in his profile and chooses to continue this behaviour and is looking for acceptance of it. Its one thing to get up close and personal with someone mutually but my experience hasn't been what OP is trying to make out to be innocent grinding. When did taking responsibility for one self become null and void? LG
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Fit73'The minute you start grinding against me in a club while dancing, you should have the maturity and the confidence to be able to handle an erection. If you don't, then don't grind against me. Simple as that. I'm not a mind reader and i'm not going to be a scapegoat for your own sexual shame issues I've read enough of your comments on these forums to not be at all surprised by this response.
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RHP User
9 years ago
You may want to clarify the references to dancing in your profile. Is it something you do with someone in private, or with someone you know in a more public setting like a pub/club? If not, then I don't have as much sympathy for you as I did when I initially read your post and the harsh comments being handed out.
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Quoting 'deepestpurple' You took as though he was going around rubbing his erection on unsuspecting women and ripped into him which is absolutely not what he said. Ok the underpants bit was a little bit suss but is he not entitled to wear what he wants to wear? OP, don't worry about your erections. They are normal and natural, be proud of them, don't be boner shamed by the penis envious. Just don't go rubbing them on people randomly because that is sexual assault. But if some lady chooses to enter your personal space (because you are entitled to take up space) and you have a boner then that is on her and I am tipping she will take it as a compliment and if she doesn't well, really, is that your problem? Geesuss. Smell the roses. Let me check. Fuck. It is 2015. Thought I was back in the cave man days. Drag em into the cave by the hair........
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RHP User
9 years ago
This is all i can say....if you do those moves on the dance floor expect this.... It's murder on the dancefloorBut you better not kill the grooveDj, gonna burn this goddamn house right downOh, I know I know I know I know I know I know About your kindAnd so and so and so and so and soI'll have to playIf you think you're getting awayI will prove you wrongI'll take you all the wayBoy, just come alongHear me when I sayHey, It's murder on the dancefloor Having said that, when i was a youngie and on the dance floor, girls loved feeling it get hard on the dance floor!
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RHP User
9 years ago
What i'm trying to say is Op, when you're a youngster, you can get away with along with things! If you want to pull those moves at your age, you better get yourself a good barrister or have well hung cock over 10inchs! haha
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RHP User
9 years ago
Is a paraphilla..it s actually viewed as sexual assault if the person being frotted is unsuspecting and it is unwelcome..xxFreya
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Whateverway' Quoting 'deepestpurple' You took as though he was going around rubbing his erection on unsuspecting women and ripped into him which is absolutely not what he said. Ok the underpants bit was a little bit suss but is he not entitled to wear what he wants to wear? OP, don't worry about your erections. They are normal and natural, be proud of them, don't be boner shamed by the penis envious. Just don't go rubbing them on people randomly because that is sexual assault. But if some lady chooses to enter your personal space (because you are entitled to take up space) and you have a boner then that is on her and I am tipping she will take it as a compliment and if she doesn't well, really, is that your problem? Geesuss. Smell the roses. Let me check. Fuck. It is 2015. Thought I was back in the cave man days. Drag em into the cave by the hair........ and from the OP: "if it goes unnoticed and the lady goes to grind her butt up against me or pull me in close, what do I do?" Who is initiating this contact in these situations? He can wear what he wants. Lots of people wear revealing clothes these days. I did say that him going around rubbing himself on people was sexual assault. And yes, it would be polite to take steps to avoid inadventent contact with his erection too. But as the question was posed, it is the women initiating that contact so caveat emptor when you choose to make contact with a man's crotch. Boners happen and are perfectly natural. I answered the question that was asked. Some others choose to infer ulterior motives. Is it incumbent on women to take steps to avoid men coming into contact with their breasts so as not to sexually harrass them? Does someone punch someone me in the face or do I face smash their fist? Usually it pretty obvious.
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RHP User
9 years ago
that suggests that 'she' is unsuspecting at all. He says "Every time I'm out at night and dance up close with a girl I go hard almost instantly." And then goes on to ask what he should do IF "the lady goes to grind her butt up against me or pull me in close", which suggests to me that she is actively engaging. In all honesty, I would be more surprised if whoever I was dirty dancing with didn't get a hard on.
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RHP User
9 years ago
A couple weeks ago went clubbing inner city this happened to me I led him to the bar then I told him we were headed to the smoking area outside where I took him in a discreet corner.I slid my skirt up guided him alongside and rubbed it into my mound.Suddenly we were both panting I took his cock inside me it was the hardest within ten strokes I came was so pent up he came I highly recommend this act.If a women on the dancefloor grinds on your cock she wants it if she doesn't she'll walk away.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Whateverway' Quoting 'deepestpurple' You took as though he was going around rubbing his erection on unsuspecting women and ripped into him which is absolutely not what he said. Ok the underpants bit was a little bit suss but is he not entitled to wear what he wants to wear? OP, don't worry about your erections. They are normal and natural, be proud of them, don't be boner shamed by the penis envious. Just don't go rubbing them on people randomly because that is sexual assault. But if some lady chooses to enter your personal space (because you are entitled to take up space) and you have a boner then that is on her and I am tipping she will take it as a compliment and if she doesn't well, really, is that your problem? Geesuss. Smell the roses. Let me check. Fuck. It is 2015. Thought I was back in the cave man days. Drag em into the cave by the hair........ If I'm at a club and a girl starts grinding into me, and the attention is unwanted - I move away, turn away, or otherwise signal lack of interest in a non-aggressive manner. I'm not offended, I just might not like it, so I discontinue any engagement. If a woman grinds up into this fellow, and then she doesn't like that he's hard inside his pants, can't she just discontinue dancing? This guy isn't whipping it out on the floor, it's contained in his pants. If he's bumping his boner into people first then that is a bit off, but that doesn't sound like the case. (I'm assuming "dancing close" isn't just meaning "in the immediate vicinity")
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RHP User
9 years ago
...have this problem. And as someone suggested, I used to tape my cock to the inside of my leg. But then I'd meet someone beautiful, she would get me all flustered, and I'd end up kicking the poor girl... I have now found another solution to the problem. I just stay home...and bat away my own unintentional erections...* (*Lucky pun?)
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madotara69
9 years ago
That was convincing
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Twisted_Mister
9 years ago
Well said. If a girl starts grinding into you on the dance floor and you get hard, and she keeps doing it there's no problem IMO. Geez, it's not as though he's whipping the big fella out and putting it on the shoulder of every girl in the club. Every single time I've danced closely with a good looking girl at a club and been grinded on I've grown hard. On reflection - isn't this a break from the threads complaining about why guys don't get hard? OP - if she keeps grinding, don't push her away.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Lol - this thread is as rediculous as the consoling responses. Subject matter, people!!
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RHP User
9 years ago
You have just added "and she keeps doing it." That was not in the original post at all, and the fact the OP used the word "unnoticed" means to me the woman was not extending an invitation to be frotted (no sure that's a word, but you get the idea.) I don't think mutual consent is something that can be assumed.
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
It is a classic case of frotteurism, thanks Freya. And the final clue that has been glossed over is the OP's final words in his post. "and wait for a reaction" OP is setting the scene, wearing the clothes to suit, putting himself in position to get the reaction. Bit differrent to the natural progression of grinding on the dance floor. Once again i say I'm not shaming him, just saying be careful for his sake. I'm out. Annie xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
...and I'm a little surprised by what seems to be the lack of understanding of the post/question. I've read the post twice now & don't see anywhere where he blatantly rubs his hard on against a woman deliberately. He's not frotting with his c*ck! He clearly states that he's wearing "revealing" (I assume loose fitting) underwear & is asking what the polite thing to do would be when a girl "grinds her butt against him" when he has developed a hard on, is he not? Am I missing something? Why the "creep" calls? *sheesh* It's happened to me before with a gorgeous South American girl grinding against me. Can't say in that situation it's not entirely unexpected. Lucky females can reasonably easily hide their arousal I guess. I don't involve myself in the forums much, but I must say the reactions to his question are astounding. Is this a CWA knitting forum? My two cents (FWIW...and I'm bound to have the haters go crazy now). Politely apologise or make a joke of it. Go sit back down until that blood rush passes. If it happens all the time perhaps don't get on the dance floor. You're only asking for trouble. hehe
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RHP User
9 years ago
Now we are going to start questioning the underpants a guy wears are we? So if a woman doesn't wear underpants under her dress is she inviting to be raped? Are we in 2015??? Now if the OP was cruising around the club or pub and physically pulling random girls into him in order to fondle, grope or grind against them, then yes it's harassing behaviour. Nowhere in his post did he suggest this. But it seems that some of you want to characterise him as a serial abuser of women. Perhaps most of you have never or very infrequently danced in a club situation, but this goes on in dozens of places and between thousands of people every weekend. You lock eyes with someone on the dance floor, they like the look of you and you like the look of them. You move closer together and start dancing face to face. If both parties are feeling it, you move closer together and physically make contact which may lead to grinding or moving together in sync. It doesn't have to lead to anything else, it can just be some fun for a few minutes or it might lead to hanging out together, having a few drinks and then leaving the club together. If a woman can't handle a guy getting aroused in such a situation, then she has major problems.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Freya70' Is a paraphilla..it s actually viewed as sexual assault if the person being frotted is unsuspecting and it is unwelcome..xxFreya A complaint of 'Frotteurism' by a woman who willingly allows and encourages physical contact against a guy while dancing in a club wouldn't even get to court. Frotteurism is when someone goes out of their way to initiate unwelcome or unexpected contact.In Miami (U.S) last year I was at a Latin club standing behind three girls (I didn't know them) and we were all watching a performance on stage at the time. I noticed an older guy in hs 50's standing about a metre next to me getting closer to one of the girls with his hand in his trouser pocket and I could see him physically trying to make contact with his penis against one of the girls. She turned with a look of disdain at him and she told him to back off. He tried it again and this time I grabbed him by the shirt collar and told him to f*ck off or I would throw him out myself. He moved away and I asked the bouncer to keep an eye on him. That is what 'Frotteurism' is.
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RHP User
9 years ago
so OP is vilified, and told to notify women beforehand, yet there isn't any question of when the OP gave his consent to the ladies to initiate contact and rub themselves upon his person in the first place. From the sounds of it, both parties are rubbing themselves up against the other one with just a few layers of fabric between them.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Fit73' Now we are going to start questioning the underpants a guy wears are we? So if a woman doesn't wear underpants under her dress is she inviting to be raped? Are we in 2015??? Now if the OP was cruising around the club or pub and physically pulling random girls into him in order to fondle, grope or grind against them, then yes it's harassing behaviour. Nowhere in his post did he suggest this. But it seems that some of you want to characterise him as a serial abuser of women. Perhaps most of you have never or very infrequently danced in a club situation, but this goes on in dozens of places and between thousands of people every weekend. You lock eyes with someone on the dance floor, they like the look of you and you like the look of them. You move closer together and start dancing face to face. If both parties are feeling it, you move closer together and physically make contact which may lead to grinding or moving together in sync. It doesn't have to lead to anything else, it can just be some fun for a few minutes or it might lead to hanging out together, having a few drinks and then leaving the club together. If a woman can't handle a guy getting aroused in such a situation, then she has major problems. You have to excuse some posters, as they are too busy with work and too busy with the online dating sites, that they just don't know how to just go out and have fun on the dance floor. To be fair, most posters idea of a night out is organising a Meet & Greet and getting it on the dance floor then. I totally agree here, girls love it when a guys dance with them on the dance floor, and they love it even more if the guy starts getting hard, that is why they dance up close!!! For some girls they do a rough measure of the guys cock on the dance floor before they decide to take him home! It's just another test girls use to roughly measure the guys cock. To put it blutantly, girls love guys cocks to be hard! On the dance floor, in the bedroom, out of the bedroom, in public, wherever and whenever! hahaha There is a difference between walking up to a girl and rubbing your hard cock against her. But if there is attraction on the dance floor, add alcohol, then it's sexy dance moves on the dance floor! Op just ignore all the uptights who don't get out much! Give your hardon to as many women as you can on the dancefloor! haha (as long as initiation has been granted)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Regarding the female-to-male rubbing: A few of us did touch on that (no pun intended).
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RHP User
9 years ago
I agree with want this. This is why I always take a tape measure and toilet roll with me whenever I go out in case god forbid... I take a little dick home wih me by mistake. Can you imagine! Or sometimes I just whip out strappy and we compare sizes.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' I agree with want this. This is why I always take a tape measure and toilet roll with me whenever I go out in case god forbid... I take a little dick home wih me by mistake. Can you imagine! Or sometimes I just whip out strappy and we compare sizes. Thanks Meeks, i knew you'd have my back sooner then later! My instant posting priveledges are back! I'M BACK! AAAaaahhhh to be instant!
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RHP User
9 years ago
You're obviously ok with it, sounds to me like this is why you go out dancing. Are the woman actually dancing with you at the time or are you the floater with the hardon? There's a huge gap between dancing .... and rubbing your hard cock against a total stranger. If you have to ask if something like this is appropriate then maybe you should stay off the dance before you get into some serious trouble. If you haven't learn't by now the difference between what's right and what's wrong, or when it;s right to be wrong with the right person....stay off the dance floor till you do.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Whateverway' It is a classic case of frotteurism, thanks Freya. And the final clue that has been glossed over is the OP's final words in his post. "and wait for a reaction" OP is setting the scene, wearing the clothes to suit, putting himself in position to get the reaction. Bit differrent to the natural progression of grinding on the dance floor. Once again i say I'm not shaming him, just saying be careful for his sake. I'm out. Annie xx Dancing most the time is harmless flirting so I feel rude rubbing a hard cock up against them but pushing them away is also rude... Or dose politeness have no place dancing up close in a pub or club so just let it happen and wait for a reaction?.Of course politeness has a place anywhere Youngnicedirty. It's not on the same level of course but I imagine it as that moment you have to decide if she actually wants to kiss you for eg. I can't imagine any woman rubbing up against a man and not imagining the possible consequences. .There's lots of great advice on here, cheers, Peachy
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chevtrek
9 years ago
You just told us what has control and its not your brain.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Asking the question proves his big head is in control and not the little one.
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RHP User
9 years ago
There is a huge selection out there for men. I love wearing them
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'PeachyPearL' Asking the question proves his big head is in control and not the little one. ...or is just proof of a conflict of interest.I hope that Youngnicedirty is in fact "nice" enough not to impose himself on women, and I'm sure he's had fair warning
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Jack_Denials' Quoting 'PeachyPearL' Asking the question proves his big head is in control and not the little one. ...or is just proof of a conflict of interest.I hope that Youngnicedirty is in fact "nice" enough not to impose himself on women, and I'm sure he's had fair warning Okay
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RHP User
9 years ago
I hope in fact that Mr Nice does live up to that part of his name.
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RHP User
9 years ago
That he does listen to the very wise advice offered by many.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm just fine thanks, under serviced but fine all the same
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RHP User
9 years ago
Jesus.
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Twisted_Mister
9 years ago
The OP, by my reading was asking a legitimate question in terms of manners and etiquette when dancing close in and personal with women that choose to dance that way with him. What's he supposed to say? 'Excuse me miss, but I must forewarn you that if you grind your delectable arse into my groin I will inevitably become hard. If you accept this, please proceed.' Reverse the situation. 'Hello Mr hottie, love to dance intimately with you but if my nipples go hard, as they will, please understand that I won't know what to do.' From the original post - consensual grinding, people. This nonsense about 'keeping your cock under control' is just that, nonsense. It's a physiological reaction brought on by the actions of another person. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
"Hello Mr hottie, love to dance intimately with you but if my nipples go hard, as they will, please be assured I won't deliberately rub them against you to see what your reaction will be." :-P
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Twisted_Mister
9 years ago
I stand by my point, but - Well played, madam - well played indeed! :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' "Hello Mr hottie, love to dance intimately with you but if my nipples go hard, as they will, please be assured I won't deliberately rub them against you to see what your reaction will be." :-P Damn.
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RHP User
9 years ago
have some manners and respect.........wait to be invited by the lady to enjoy a little bit of horny fun, or let the lady know in the nicest possible way that you're aroused by her and would it be ok to dance a little closer..............if no is the answer accept it like a gentleman and enjoy bein hard..........cheers.................
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OkeyDoke45
9 years ago
I don't get hard just from the act of dancing but I did have the (pleasant) scenario of a woman getting amorous whilst dancing with me on the dancefloor a few months back, and (unpleasant) I was tenting like nobody's business - boxer shorts don't do an adequate job of hiding such things. A group of women standing by the dancefloor nearby noticed it and thought it hilarious. My lady friend was definitely enjoying it and - ahem - moving on into it, which just made the situation that much worse. And then of course when you leave the dancefloor you try to cover it discretely with your hands, which just makes you all the more conspicuous. Oh my god. And yes, for all those female commenters out there - I did feel quite juvenile.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Some killjoy negativity in here ! Wallflowers rule hey.
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