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Establishing friendships......

April 29 2014

After replying to a couple of posts this morning it got me to thinking about the people we meet, not just in our vanilla worlds but RHP world. Often in our journey of life we come across people we feel we have met before, the connection is so instant, so easy and familiar despite having very different lives or different upbringings, sometimes in another country even. We start chatting and feel like we know these people already, have known them for much longer than the few minutes we have been chatting, we really like and are fascinated by them, we understand them and they us. We love to be around these friends, they make us feel great when we are together, they may be much older, they may be a lot younger, man, woman, couples, we may have nothing in common with them other than a feeling that we have met before because it's just too easy. Others we meet and it's really hard to establish a connection.... The relationship might be very superficial, never sharing your deepest and darkest desires. No matter how hard we might try...... I think back over the years and come up with lots of people like this... And am still meeting them... We have so many more great friends to make... Do others feel this way? Are your friends you make on here people that you feel an instant connection with or have you had to work at establishing relationships (if I can call it that?) before you can feel the connection? Do you look for friends on here to establish that kind of connection with or are you just using the site to hook up? (I do remember reading a post the other day from the young guy who would never look for a girlfriend on RHP- I didn't get that!!) Are the friends you make on here better friends because they know 'the naughty side' of you too? How many of you have successfully integrated your vanilla friends with your RHP friends? Ok, one more question....If you get around to sharing your bodies with these friends, is the experience better because you feel you have known them for ages when in fact you might have only just met or no different to people you don't feel such a connection with? Mrs LTL

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RHP User

11 years ago

And it does not have to be sexual to be rewarding !! - Posted from rhpmobile

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MsSuperFoxy

11 years ago

I call these relationships "soul", because it's like my soul and their soul have always known each other or somehow connected naturally, in a very deep intimate level. I have some vanilla friends that when we are chatting to each other we finish off each others sentences. We will dial each other at the same time, we'll have the same taste in things like music, food etc etc. Growing up my sister and I had this.. It does not matter were I have met, RHP or Vanilla real world, all I know is...it's a deep unexplainable soul connection. If I have intimate sexual relationships with a soul mate, then I call "Soul Sex" and it's friggin euphoria. Yes I would call these type of relationships, Soul Mates. To be honest, it's not very often I have these types of relationships. It's what I look for, want and desire. Enough of the hard work, mundane, up-and-down relationships...... give me a Soul Mate relationship any day. Foxy

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RHP User

11 years ago

That's it exactly Superfoxxxy!! Although I'd always thought of them as that one person for me but you are right, friends can be soul mates too. That's probably what I was alluding to but couldn't put it so succinctly. It's a bit like sensing a text message is going to come through just before it does or the phone will ring and you know who is on the end before you say hello (yes the old fashioned land line that doesn't reveal a name or number.) Totally know where you are coming from with the friggin euphoria😉😉. I've been lucky enough to experience that a few times and it is AWESOME! Other sex can be good too but when you've been lucky enough to experience that deeper connection it is amazingly mind blowing and yes, makes other sex pale in comparison!! Still, we will keep searching because how do you know who the next soul mate is going to be ....... My husband and I are like that but that doesn't rule us out from having other soul mates too, the more the merrier lol.... Like Big Ocean says, not necessarily sexual either. X Mrs LTL

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Lovinit28andKC72

11 years ago

I love meeting people, the truth is if there is a connection then there is a connection and I know straight away if I do or don't want to know this person, if I want this person to be in my life....you just never know who is going to across your path....... At the last Sydney meet & greet I meet some amazing people, that I now class as my friends, one in particular who I meet at the airport to fly down with and I knew straight away that we were going to wonderful friends.......We are great friends, we spend a lot of time together, we've shared some amazing experiences together and some not so amazing. Most people are astonished that we have only know each other since January and say it's like we've been mates for years....

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RHP User

11 years ago

Please. Can you expand your replies? I think some of us are missing something, even when we are reading between the lines. It's not as though you have too much info, just a tad hard to digress.... I'm sure there are other's in a similar scenario to me, some just are not as upfront

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passion8_l

11 years ago

yes I have experienced this, it's not something that happens very often but when it does it's quite extraordinary. Due to past experiences I find it hard to let people in but it's usually those I have an instant connection with that can penetrate that barrier.

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tamworthguy46

11 years ago

Connections are funny things ?Sometimes I can walk into a room and feel a connection with someone by just eye contact, and that sort of magnetism pulling each other, I get that feeling frequently , and you just know that the other person is more or less thinking the same thing.....Hmmm gets me thinking, maybe I should pay more attention and Act on it more often ? as they are probably the people we say we feel at ease with, and we can talk to like we have known for years ? I also believe that we all have soul mates, some believe we have one, I believe we have many ! And then we have sexual connections, they may or may not have anything to do with any other sort of chemistry or connections, but it all seems to work in the bedroom, or kitchen table lol Interesting Topic Love and peace Tam

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RHP User

11 years ago

I've been lucky to find this kind of connection more often than not. I tend not to put a lot of effort into "building" friendships, preferring the natural and easy kind every time. I'm lucky to have met one through rhp too :) - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

11 years ago

I love the women I have met through RHP, and those that I meet and got to join RHP. Reason is we speak the same language the sexy talk of the sexual selves. That being said when the sex talk runs out we seem to have a few things in common and that just adds to the friendship. I have friends from here that I have travelled interstate to meet up with and we clicked right away and had the most hilarious few days I had had in a long time and hope to repeat it again soon. I have had women of RHP come and stay with me , and even a couple once. Even though my husband is not into RHP stuff at all he is ok with those I have introduced to him, so long as its not a lover, those he does NOT want to know about. one women here has become a great friend, showed me how to play poker and is my garden fairy and will soon come live with me and my husband. my gorgeous friend Lytonia, makes me smile every time I go to visit or she comes to my house. Its not often enough others I see on a regular basis and we are all good friends and I am sure I will make more friends of RHPone lovely guy came down and set up my website for me and never ask for anything at all and we still keep in touch with messages on here. the friendships are a lot easier if there is no sexual thing going on, but that's just my take on things. Sex can muddy the waters of friendships. however I do like to have my threesomes with some of my female friends as we seem to play well together, with one guy in the middle of the mix. At my age tag team sport is less exhausting..so yes, I think there is our common bond of open dialogue and open expression of what we want that has created a form of human connection. I guess we are a village LadyT

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RHP User

11 years ago

You where my first real connection on RHP and it still remains with me today. Although I am very slack in seeing you face to face for a cuppa and chat. Its true to be able to talk openly with others regarding sex and many topics in our lives it a wonderful thing. Not always found in others as there is always some judgement. Thus why we only talk openly to those with a connection and not have to filter our thoughts before we speak. Another lady on here I met was my saviour in my time of need and I have mentioned her in a recent forum topic. It has been said we are two of the same person and mixture of each other and yet different in ways as well. There is no filter between us either and is another friend I dearly adore. Sexual connections are rarer for me and not sure why that is exactly. I did find one or two in the last 18 months but for whatever reason the sexual relationship did not continue. I'm looking forward to the unexpected connections in the future whether they will be friendships and or sexual based.

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RHP User

11 years ago

I have met a few beautiful people on RHP, with them I have a special friendship, one that accepts you, irrespective of baggage you carry, they lighten the load and make me feel special. For that I love each and every one of them. Sometimes you "feel" a connection with others too, you have never met but know, somehow you just know.. Lady T, Catherine.. Princess... There is a little bit of wonder and ?

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RHP User

11 years ago

Just love meeting new people, making a connection and establishing new friendships.People are the most important thing in life and are highly valued.You can never have too many friends.Nobody can survive alone.There's 7 billion of us on this one planet.Let's all try to get along as we share our precious lives on this great planet together.

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