Ever Taken one for "THE TEAM"?

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  EarthQueen

  7 years ago

  Should have listened to my gut. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  My partner and I found a couple who we decided we would meet up with and see what happens. Turns out my husband and the wife got along way better than me and the other husband. They were both lovely people but I just didnt feel an attraction. Anyway, I wanted my husband to have this experience so I went along with it. Afterwards I felt used. It was no ones fault but my own, I made the decision to do it and I went through with it. Had my husband of known I wasnt interested then we would never of gone through with it. He felt awful afterwards when I told him and we said we would never again take one for the team.

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  swingalingson

  7 years ago

  Is more common of what people think.

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  And by that I mean me and the ex met a couple and if I'm honest I wasn't that impressed with how she looked in her photos but I thought I'd go along anyway and keep an open mind.So glad I did! It turns out she wasn't very photogenic because in real life she was an absolute fox! We played and it was awesome :)

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  We went out when I felt like shit once. Unfortunately insisting on tipping me upside down did not at all help the way I was feeling. I'm going to say I literally listened to my gut, He listened to me, and We left after a short chat.. Another time, we had the woman in a couple decide she didn't want to go ahead and, that was that. We still spent the night together... till He and I left early in the AM. I can absolutely understand that it does happen though. I have herd some horror stories about pushy partners. But take my example from above. We all matter. I hope people take the chance to share here, Peachy

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  Mischeviouslad

  7 years ago

  I value myself too much to do something I don't want to do. Better to be up front and hold your head high. DG - Posted from rhpmobile

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  FredAndGinger2

  7 years ago

  We state in our profile that we don't play on first meet for this very reason. We need the opportunity to talk it over, have a think about if there's an attraction and to see if the social connection persists after the first meet. We added this rule after an awful meet that did involve a very pushy fella and uninterested partner (who in hindsight appeared to be playmates rather than a serious couple). Freddie - Posted from rhpmobile

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  AnnieWhichway

  7 years ago

  I can isolate sex as just that. But so many variables at play. Caught in the moment anything is possible. On reflection afterwards, it can give you a shudder. But worth it if the other team member had a nice time. But really, in party mode, there are so many "moments" with people you wouldn't rate at other times but you did go there and a nice time was had by the "team",

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  been part of a couple here yet, but did go through with one or two meets early on when inexperienced. That experience would see me never do that again. I can understand how difficult it must be for couples to align and how easily that could happen. So getting a new understanding of why couples meet first, play later. That time for private communication would be vital

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  boobsandbusted

  7 years ago

  on how big the one is ,just meh or totally repulsive ,skin shudder material - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Part mode is a bit different to when you are meeting one other couple or person. Also at parties it’s easy to tell your partner to go for it, I will sit this one out if you really don’t like any of the other players. That’s why I like parties and clubs. Plenty of options and opportunities. I also don’t feel like I have to be there with my partner. He is much wilder than me so he can go for it. :) I think it’s better to have some connection but I don’t need it to be perfect either. It’s a by if fun, doesn’t always have to be stars and angels singing when I orgasm.

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  LittleGiant

  7 years ago

  Been there, done that. Was at a swingers club with my ex and a couple we were talking to asked if we wanted to go to a room, he said yes and I went along with it even though I wasn't keen because I didn't quite know how to say no in the moment. I felt kind of dirty afterwards. Have learned now to be more assertive and just say no if i'm not feeling it because it isn't a nice feeling at all and I certainly let him know how I felt about him not discussing it with me first and just jumping straight in! Miss Little xx

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  boobsandbusted

  7 years ago

  and everything she just said,that's also why we like parties, clubs or events to meet people at , and it's not hard to take a small one for the team or sit one out, if the other team player is having a wow of a time and loving it , and sometimes as i've said many a time just sometimes you can get a pleasent surprise by going somewhere you normally wouldn't have gone mr b - Posted from rhpmobile

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  MrandMrsBrady

  7 years ago

  This has happened probably more then once sadly I (mrs u) always gets really mad at myself at mr u and at us in general when this happens mr u takes a “ it’s all part of the experience “ kinda attitude and tries to find a positive ...we eventually laugh about it ...eventually - Posted from rhpmobile

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  SugarSugar69

  7 years ago

  I couldn't help but laugh and thought of Mr u...... Thanks for the giggles 😂

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