Ever recognised?

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  MsSuperFoxy

  5 years ago

  IMO go about your own business, say nothing and respect people's privacy. Some things are best left unsaid and put in your back pocket. It only becomes an issue if one makes it an issue. Anyone has a right to be here. I get recognised all the time. Doesn't worry me. In fact I was I was on a date, the waitress recognised me. I just redirected the conversation. Another time, shopping with my daughter (15 at the time). I ignored as it was inappropriate. They got the non-verbal message. Ms Foxy

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  MsSuperFoxy

  5 years ago

  If you are recognized on here, they are on here too. You can't stop them as they can do as they like, just like you. But you can block if it becomes an issue. Ms Foxy

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  Justfun65

  5 years ago

  Yes afraid so at my work. Very embarrassing as I didn't remember one of them and the other creeped me out.

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  RHP User

  5 years ago

  Oh yes, I don't get out much but coincidences run rife in my life and I have come across even my children's friend at a Perth meet n greet at one time. No great stress, we had a good laugh, she always admired me as my kids mum 😍. I ran into a family member too lol, all the funnier considering the small numbers my family is made up of. 🍑 😂

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  wanderer_passion

  5 years ago

  That's funny PeachPearL. Would love to know what happened afterwards you ran into family member. Did it lead to playing with him/her? Did you have to mention to keep it a secret?

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  RHP User

  5 years ago

  No worries at all, we have a bit of a laugh. I'm not good at secrets so it was good to have it out in the open. My kids know too. Like I said... no good at keeping secrets. 😂 🍑

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  JohnAnn2227

  5 years ago

  Yes, a few times over the years. We have bumped into people we know a few times over the years. The first time was when we were at Couples Club and in the hot tub meeting new friends. I noticed a lady kept looking across at me and had a feeling I recognised her. John and I went off to play with friends but later we bumped into her and her husband again in the spa and we started talking. It turns out that she taught at a nearby school to mine and we recognised each other from shared pupil free teacher learning days. We have never played but always give each other a secret smile when we see each other at conferences. Another time at Couples Club I looked across the room and saw two parents from my school enter the bar. Never got out of a place as quick as that night! We were at a pool party which had quickly moved on to a nude pool party when John brought up a couple, who had just arrived and were still dressed, to say hi...his parents' next door neighbours! I am standing there naked but for my sunglasses, jewellery and wedges thinking if my in-laws could see us now. At the same party we also met a couple who it turned out we had also met before and had sat at the same table at a work colleagues wedding. We have since had them over to our house for dinner and hotubbing a few times. Probably the biggest one was at a house party in February where I looked up to see my friend from work, who I thought was vanilla, standing naked at the door watching me in the middle of a MFM with neither partner being John. I screamed and leapt up scaring the daylights out of my partners and John who was next to us with a lady. Eventually I calmed down and we sat in the lounge had a few glasses of wine and a laugh. It turned out that they had been swinging for 6 months and actually lived next door to the hosts who had introduced them to swinging. She had seen our car parked there a few nights when she knew there was a party and quickly worked out that we were swingers but didn't know how to bring it up with me. Since then we have partied with them a few times and have swapped partners but unfortunately she is not bi. As far as discretion we had one real scare a few years ago at my kids little athletics on a Saturday morning. A couple of mums came up and started a conversation and soon came out with "We recognise you both from Couples Club". " Our group plays there regularly and would you like to join us next Saturday night?" Sitting next to us was one of our vanilla friends who was only catching half of the conversation but her ears still pricked. i quickly changed the conversation and gave them my greatest glare. They walked off and I caught up with them later and explained our vanilla friend etc. They were very apologetic and thought she was in the lifestyle as well as she was always with us and as they had seen at parties I was bi, logically thought she was my girlfriend. Their whole group who sat together was also their playgroup. Our friend asked me what was this couples club that they were talking about. I said they were mixed up and it was the Coffee Club. A few weeks later she brought the subject up again and said that he had googled "Couples Club" and asked if we were swingers. I respected her too much to lie and had to admit we were and then answer most of her questions. Thankfully she doesn't have a problem with it and our secret is safe. Just shows how loose lips sink ships! So long as it isn't a parent from my school we are not bothered about running into someone we know because they are there to do the same thing we are. XX Ann & John

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  wanderer_passion

  5 years ago

  Woah! You have some extraordinary experiences JohnAnn2227 Good to hear that all of them turned out to be good for you, and nothing really got you in trouble! Just wondering why are you bothered when it's a parent from your school. They are there for same reason as you are. So how does that make any different?

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  wanderer_passion

  5 years ago

  Well, I am amazed to know that your kids know as well PeachyPearl. This thought never crossed my mind. What do kids think of it?

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  JohnAnn2227

  5 years ago

  Seriously, the Department of Education have a code of conduct. They would find me in breach of that by bringing the DET into disrepute. I could quite easily see them at the very least take me out of my school and put me in head office "sharpening pencils". Also parents like nothing better than to find out gossip about teachers. Some of the rumours you hear about teachers at my kids' school are unbelievable. No, being a swinger certainly is not advantageous to a teaching career!

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  RHP User

  5 years ago

  They weren't young. I really don't think it bothered them much but they really didn't want to know details as you might imagine, lol. One of them was on here too though, so even funnier. Peachy

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